Jakarta

[Ggekko2009]

I heard that BART (Bar at The Roof Top) located in Hotel Artotel Thamrin Jakarta has a lot of freelancers there. Anyone has any intel of that place? I just looked into Google Maps and it looks like a place for the millennials.

[Offshore Swell]

You guys seem to have upped the standard of your conversations in the last couple of weeks. It makes a pleasant change from listening to the details of so and so's latest enema which we seem to all too often hear. Full points to Ggekko2009 for his report on Golden Crown, It presents another side of Jakarta which can be exhilirating fun. And we don't always have to score miss universe. It's great fun listening to the fails as well. OS has had some good nights in that place and just like reported. The girls are so adept at cajoling obat out of you and then flipping you off before returning for taxi money at the end. And you want to see the look on their face when you refuse to give them taxi money. There was one thing at Mille's that used to hang around looking to rip off bules, OS called her snake eyes as she had one of those classic Javanese faces. OS made the mistake of taking her back to the hotel one night and man could she complain about the size of OS's big thing, ended up getting rid of her but also giving her the agreed 1 Mill which was stupid as she was rorting it right from the start.

Couldn't help but laugh at the bules with the ugly wives. My Indonesian wife and I are always laughing about this. Take your time boys and couldn't agree more with Goferring's assessment on how to maintain appearances. "Stay away from the girls darling" she will say. "Yes of course" OS will reply and then roar off in a cloud of dust on his way to North Jakarta. Some of the best advice I was ever given was deny, deny, deny!

Keep up the good work.

[Uncle Volodya]

It's amazing how insecure even the most beautiful and successful (ex) bar girl is. They require constant attention and compliments and are never satisfied when they have "made it". For many, this takes the form of ongoing affairs outside an otherwise successful marriage or relationships where the flow of "gifts" verify that they are still beautiful.

I guess its understandable when the only asset or ability you have is your ability to draw attention. They often have no other skill set.

Yep this was pretty much my experience with BATS when I was on town. Only saw two girls I would do there in 2 trips. Both were real hotties and ended up taking them on multiple occasions. I later caught up with both of these girls at CJs an I think that is where they spend most of their time.

The rest could appropriately be described as hags.

CJs was much better and it seemed to be picking up with hotter girls before I left town as the holidays began to wind down. No wall to wall hotties or anything like that. Btu there will be 4 or 5 that are extremely doable and even one or two gems.

[Marky1]

The talent at BATS last night was pathetic. There wasn't one girl I would have taken home even for free. Old hags. BATS had an Indonesian band rather than the normal one so maybe that was why. But very disappointing. When I walked out to get a taxi, there was a women who had to be over 50 years old asking me to join her in her taxi. For her to even make that suggestion leads me to believe that at some point some other guy was actually interested in joining her. Give me a break.

I certainly hope that no guy is giving girls like any I saw in BATS last night more than 500 k if they are taking them home. Those type of girls should be paying us.

Sunday night is ladies night too right?

[Ggekko2009]

The talent at BATS last night was pathetic. There wasn't one girl I would have taken home even for free. Old hags. BATS had an Indonesian band rather than the normal one so maybe that was why. But very disappointing. When I walked out to get a taxi, there was a women who had to be over 50 years old asking me to join her in her taxi. For her to even make that suggestion leads me to believe that at some point some other guy was actually interested in joining her. Give me a break.

I certainly hope that no guy is giving girls like any I saw in BATS last night more than 500 k if they are taking them home. Those type of girls should be paying us.

What a coincidence. I actually planned to go there last night but ended up having a FL come over to my hotel instead. Looks like I did not miss anything.

[Smoothy]

Oh, come on! I can see why Smoothy made a pass. Many of those girls can not resist to get a taste again of their past and go back to the places they used to go as soon as hubby is traveling. Either you are not familiar to that scene or you have reason not to trust someone.

About a year after they were married, she called me and asked me to meet her for short time sex. He wasn't giving her enough spending money so she wanted some side cash. I was nice enough to help her out.

She doesn't seem interested now so he must be supplying her with enough cash these days. Glad to see the marriage working out.

[Smoothy]

The talent at BATS last night was pathetic. There wasn't one girl I would have taken home even for free. Old hags. BATS had an Indonesian band rather than the normal one so maybe that was why. But very disappointing. When I walked out to get a taxi, there was a women who had to be over 50 years old asking me to join her in her taxi. For her to even make that suggestion leads me to believe that at some point some other guy was actually interested in joining her. Give me a break.

I certainly hope that no guy is giving girls like any I saw in BATS last night more than 500 k if they are taking them home. Those type of girls should be paying us.

[Goferring]

Oh, come on! I can see why Smoothy made a pass. Many of those girls can not resist to get a taste again of their past and go back to the places they used to go as soon as hubby is traveling. Either you are not familiar to that scene or you have reason not to trust someone.

It's amazing how insecure even the most beautiful and successful (ex) bar girl is. They require constant attention and compliments and are never satisfied when they have "made it". For many, this takes the form of ongoing affairs outside an otherwise successful marriage or relationships where the flow of "gifts" verify that they are still beautiful.

I guess its understandable when the only asset or ability you have is your ability to draw attention. They often have no other skill set.

[UsPete]

Well, tai lalat means tache de beaute. I don't see how cat fits in.

Tahi Lalat is a mole, so wouldn't that be grain de beaute in French Menteng, sorry my French is pretty rubbish.

I've got a feeling the girl said or meant malu malu kucing tahi lalat. Malu2 kucing is someone who isn't shy but behaves shy and in this case is found attractive with a mole. These are Malay Simpulans (knots?) or idioms.

Probably a dangdut song about this, there is for everything else.

[Menteng]

Does anyone know what the term "kucing taik lalat" means? It translates literally to cat shit fly, but it should mean something colloquially. My girl that accompanied me last night to Basque Bar for dinner commented on the girls who she knows work as freelancers but pretended not to be, or worse angry when implied.

Well, ¨tai lalat¨ means ¨tache de beaute¨. I don't see how ¨cat¨ fits in.

[Menteng]

Making advances on another man's wife while he is away on business. Mongering may not be the most honorable activity but there is still a line to be drawn. You are the scum of the earth!

Oh, come on! I can see why Smoothy made a pass. Many of those girls can not resist to get a taste again of their past and go back to the places they used to go as soon as hubby is traveling. Either you are not familiar to that scene or you have reason not to trust someone.

[IronQuinn]

That is the way it used to be in the West before suffragette. The feminist movement has destroyed Western girls and the result is no one in the West is happy anymore. The proof is the so called Western Democracies can't even maintain their populations. Me: I can't wait for the day when I permanently escape and leave this Western cultural wasteland behind.

Not sure how many on this forum are under forty, but that's the demographic I represent. By the time I was born, feminism was securely rooted in US culture. Growing up in school, that was just the way it was, there were so many. I had my share, and looking back, I deserve a medal for getting what I did in this society. It took a lot of work telling them what they wanted to hear, never saying the wrong thing, playing the waiting game, or god forbid you have a wandering eye. Then, I started traveling (once I had a chance to save up my pennies), and discovered places like SEA and South America. I remember my first trip to Colombia and saying, "Son of a *****, I was born too late!

[Ggekko2009]

Does anyone know what the term "kucing taik lalat" means? It translates literally to cat shit fly, but it should mean something colloquially. My girl that accompanied me last night to Basque Bar for dinner commented on the girls who she knows work as freelancers but pretended not to be, or worse angry when implied.

[Member #4698]

The rules are very simple: never ever let your games embarrass your wife or her family and always present plausible denial on what you are doing. No one will believe you but all will pretend to.

That is the way it used to be in the West before suffragette. The feminist movement has destroyed Western girls and the result is no one in the West is happy anymore. The proof is the so called Western Democracies can't even maintain their populations. Me: I can't wait for the day when I permanently escape and leave this Western cultural wasteland behind.

[Goferring]

She talked with me about getting married but I keep thinking of this girl I met on her first day at Soi 6,

This is exactly what western minds struggle to comprehend about Asain relationships: it is permissible, even expected, to have your cake and eat it as well. The in laws would not bat an eye lid if you were to marry Princess and quietly have some fun on the side. Just don't let the two worlds over lap.

The rules are very simple: never ever let your games embarrass your wife or her family and always present plausible denial on what you are doing. No one will believe you but all will pretend to.