Pattaya Reports

[GeneralM]

Being a man, my understanding of me and men around me is like this. Men are wired to evolve very differently than most women understand. To start my explanation: men have inherent desire for respect and happiness combined. Most of the times, they may not even realize this till 30 but crave for both in one person, mostly from spouse or partner. Unfortunately in many cases (if not most), getting both respect and happiness from one person of opposite gender is a distant dream. A beautiful wife / girlfriend thinking that she is doing a favor by sleeping with you for example, is a non-starter for many young men. Another example would be below average spouse / girlfriend respecting the relationship but still not making your eyes happy. Blessed are the ones who found a spouse who can provide both respect and happiness, these are the unicorns that I am yet to meet one..

After a 25 year marriage to a Unicorn that stabbed me in the back, I too found out that we are wired differently. Women have a 'what have you done for me lately' parasitic love, even unicorns.

[LookAtWorld]

Sorry, I can't find it but there was a pretty convincing post here a while back making the same argument. The school nerd who grew up bullied by jocks and ridiculed by the cute girls has grown up to now buy the hottest gogo dancers regardless of their actual performance. The good looking jock who once dated air head barbie dolls now pays for girls who tell him what he wants to hear and provides some emotional companionship.

Makes sense to me.

Enjoy. G.

Being a man, my understanding of me and men around me is like this. Men are wired to evolve very differently than most women understand. To start my explanation: men have inherent desire for respect and happiness combined. Most of the times, they may not even realize this till 30 but crave for both in one person, mostly from spouse or partner. Unfortunately in many cases (if not most), getting both respect and happiness from one person of opposite gender is a distant dream. A beautiful wife / girlfriend thinking that she is doing a favor by sleeping with you for example, is a non-starter for many young men. Another example would be below average spouse / girlfriend respecting the relationship but still not making your eyes happy. Blessed are the ones who found a spouse who can provide both respect and happiness, these are the unicorns that I am yet to meet one.

There starts a burning desire inside men that drives to explore the greener pastures and soon realizes that they are not much green either. This will go on till 35 to 40. Once a man reaches 40+, he will have enough experiences to clear his mind and make a sound decision on what he wants. He proceeds to choose one spouse accordingly or decides to remain a butterfly or something else. In essence, a man starts a journey to discover his emotional maturity and most reach it by the time they hit 40+.

If a man doesn't hit emotional maturity by 50+, that's what I call as mid-life crisis where he continuously feels that he deserves better. Mostly, he remains in the same thought and ends-up hating himself or the partner. I call this as emotionally wrecked and they have constant need to self-validate. The example you gave above, a man satisfying himself by going with top go-go dancers is one such case. I understand the effect of abuse as child but there is nothing a man can't stand emotionally given the way we evolved as species. A man can find hope and use his intellect in any situation irrespective of how emotionally exhaustive it is. Some in opposite gender might be able to do this but I say this is a gift to men-kind.

Disclaimer: I am not trying to generalize billions of men on planet. This is just my personal experience based on limited exposure to men from 6 countries that I interacted / worked with. My apologies if I have offended anyone.

Maybe, this is where I agree with a statement I heard from gay folk that "it takes a man to understand another man". Being a hetero-sexual man, I am sure I will never know.

[Goferring]

Syzygies,

My theory? Some / many but not everyone is trying to compensate for something? IE, a lack of feeling loved in their lives? Or some inferiority complexes, et al! (I think many hetero men can easily substitute anonymous sex for real intimacy) just look at the gay dudes and glory holes.

Is it a fools errand? Please opine.

Sorry, I can't find it but there was a pretty convincing post here a while back making the same argument. The school nerd who grew up bullied by jocks and ridiculed by the cute girls has grown up to now buy the hottest gogo dancers regardless of their actual performance. The good looking jock who once dated air head barbie dolls now pays for girls who tell him what he wants to hear and provides some emotional companionship.

Makes sense to me.

Enjoy. G.

[CzarNicholas]

Syzygies,

My theory? Some / many but not everyone is trying to compensate for something? IE, a lack of feeling loved in their lives? Or some inferiority complexes, et al! (I think many hetero men can easily substitute anonymous sex for real intimacy) just look at the gay dudes and glory holes.

Is it a fools errand? Please opine.

[EihTooms]

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I think it must be a psychological fear of missing out on something, that makes guys want to try so many different girls.
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I think it is hardwired in the brains of virtually all male animals to copulate with as many different females as possible in order to propagate the species. It certainly isn't a psychological disorder, malady or weakness, and particularly not in the human animal since we don't give birth in "litters". With a 9 month gestation period in order to give birth to only one child the vast majority of times, accounting for mortality rates and the cases where copulating with one female over and over again might not produce an offspring at all, it has been necessary for human males to copulate with many different females since prehistoric times. "Modern civilization" has hardly been going on long enough to erase that hard-wiring in our brains. It is still there.

[Syzygies]

I personally don't enjoy Billboard.

Seriously, how old do you want them? It's just not the look you go for I guess, un-westernized fro the most part. Billboard has girls easily prettier than most Nana bars for me. I assume you were referring to Billboard in Nana (even we are in Pattaya thread).

Last trip to Rainbow 5, yeh I liked one girl a lot, my buddy Natty's girl. The rest a bit so-so although once some bras came off, I was more impressed by one or two. More nice natural tits than I expected. So it is partly over dressed outfits that are spoiling my desire for girls. Ilike see though bras or very smooth shear material without altering shape too much.

Have not taken a girl from any Rainbow bar for several years, so long that I lost track completely. So taste varies. Have taken just a few girls from Billboard but I must admit only one or two were memorable. The rest weak performance.

I will take a girl from any bar though if she appeals to me.

I did take 3 or 4 Bacarrat girls years ago and repeated all of them I think. Managed not to select a dud from there, or if I did, I forgot that one now. I remember the good ones much better. They were all natural girls, no surgeries. One later got her tits done, and I lost interest after that (she moved to Deja Vu as well).

My success rate in Crazy House was probably only 50% over years.

I used to do very well at Sheba (hardly any dud girls and they all liked Farangs). Hardly much surgeries. Sheba closed though about 6 or so years ago.

Having started mongering here really in 1991, I got used to the real Thai exotic looks. So the modern looks "from another planet" never quite worked for me, especially put off by coconut tits and bird-beak noses, and even dislike the very weird hairstyles but tolerate the colour, the tats, the piercings, etc. Thais were supposed to have long black straight hair. Ha ha.

Having said I like plain, it is only a small percentage of the plain Thais that really look pretty enough, if that. I might see just 1 or two good looking Thais in the carriage if on the BTS. A carriage full of normal (plain) people.

I remember in 1991 I thought that about 20% of Thai girls of a suitable age were reasonably good looking. Not any more. It might only be 2 to 4% now.

My Thai GF approaches 40. Tanned skin these days, not at all white (white never was a criteria), cute nose off course, and rather hot for a guy of my age. My mother was stunned at how I got a pretty young girl. My GF certainly was my spec, although originally a bit too slim (not too slim now).

My mongering would have dropped to 10% of what it used to be. Reasonably happy with just a few regular girls. New girls tried per year, is so few now. Its always a roll of the dice.

Last Oase visit Adele was away, so actually tried two new girls. One was a total dud and one Nelly was fabulous. That is okay The good one can now be repeated in the future (if she lasts). Have 3 regulars there now. Carla, Adele, Nelly. Even one former regular from years ago returned making 4 possibles.

I get enough different pussies (with really great attitude and fun) not to search for new girls continuously. Only 1 or 2 of my regular bar girls is still there though. The rest retired, got taken by some farang, etc. My regular MP girls are all gone as well.

Finding really top girls in the bars and MPs seemed to have got harder, or maybe I just got too old for it, and harder to please, and I appeal to the girls less as well. Found one really pretty slim girl in an MP about 2 years ago but she did not last, so have to see her privately now.

I think it must be a psychological fear of missing out on something, that makes guys want to try so many different girls. I just don't have time for it any more. The desire to try out Pattaya died away. I kept meaning to find a week or two timeslot to go try it, but never did. Other priorities.

[EihTooms]

Well at least we agree on something. I think the Rainbow bars are the best gogo bars in Nana / cowboy. When was your last visit to the Rainbow bar (Rainbow 2 I believe) on the ground floor?

Baccara good too but hate how the girls stand in the same place set after set and they don't rotate. Wouldn't be so bad if seats weren't more difficult to find than a Super Bowl ticket.

I personally don't enjoy Billboard. Don't find them young and cute like I prefer.

You don't like Twisters or KC2?

Last times I was in that Rainbow Bar was 2-3 times about a month ago. As far as KC2 goes, I have not mongered in Patpong in about a year. Last Patpong bar I pulled from was Black Pagoda. I much prefer taking the girl to my apartment vs a local ST hotel room. And since I live moderate walking distance or very short taxi distance from Nana Plaza and Soi Cowboy, those are the go-go bars I generally pull from. Taking a girl to my apartment from Patpong is either a weird hassle on two BTS trains or an MRT train and a BTS train or might take as long as 45 minutes by taxi depending on traffic conditions.

I am no expert on exactly which bars have the most or best looking girls on a given night since I do not make it my goal to take the best looking girl in a place. I find the best looking girls in any venue to be spoiled by their ability to make money by doing very little and too lazy to deliver much of value to me in the bed, mostly suitable for prestige-seeking punters who simply must be seen walking out of a bar with the top girl or girls. I am more than happy to leave those girls to the guys who need that. I am long past such a need.

However, my ideal situation is to be in a red light district where there are plenty of "best" looking girls all around, in the bars, doors or curtain open, milling around outside the bars, up and down the soi, all over the place and immediately visible to all. And that includes "best" looking girls who just work in restaurants and shops in the immediate area. I don't mean a majority of them are going to be "best" lookers. Just enough for some to be highly visible in any direction. Nana Plaza best provides that kind of environment in Bkk, imo. In such an environment, the 2nd tier girls, the middle range girls, let's say the "merely" good looking, cute or sexy girls have to be on their game in order to compete with the highly visible "best" looking girls in the area. Hiding the "best" looking girls behind closed doors in 3-4 special bars does nothing to contribute to the environment I'm talking about. In fact, it is counterproductive to it.

It is in that environment where those 2nd tier, middle range, "merely" good looking, cute or sexy girls feel they MUST offer more, do better, say "yes" to this or that in order to compete with girls that are right there two paces to the left or right of them and will be taken by eager prestige-seeking punters regardless how crappy their service in the bed might be. Many times that group has to actually be better looking than they would need to be if there weren't many top lookers easily visible to all as well.

Oh, a "best" looking girl in the joint has certainly fallen into my lap a few times. And if I put my best effort to it (game? Maybe some. Money? Certainly), it is quite easy for me to get virtually any of those girls to go with me. But then what? Chances are 19 out of 20 the girl will say "no" to the kind of True GFE I require because she knows she will be taken by plenty of guys who don't require it. Or I will get the "no" in the bar, which I much prefer between the two. No big deal. But often a waste of my time. Getting the kind of True GFE I require to justify the money spent with "merely" good looking, cute or sexy girls in their low 20's is just fine for me. And easier done when the conditions I described above are in place.

[Banana Boi]

Thanks for your reviews CamelToePokema. Almost missed it amongst our useless banter.

Good job in finding a girl you liked. She may really just be tired but it's possible she may be blowing you off now because you didn't tip her. Tipping is not mandatory but 100 or 200 baht should be considered if it's a girl you want to repeat with.

[Banana Boi]

The bars with the hottest barfinable for sex girls in Bangkok are probably Rainbow on the ground level in the back right side corner of Nana Plaza, Billboard Nana Plaza, Baccara and Shark on Soi Cowboy. But, as you know, this can change nightly.

Well at least we agree on something. I think the Rainbow bars are the best gogo bars in Nana / cowboy. When was your last visit to the Rainbow bar (Rainbow 2 I believe) on the ground floor?

Baccara good too but hate how the girls stand in the same place set after set and they don't rotate. Wouldn't be so bad if seats weren't more difficult to find than a Super Bowl ticket.

I personally don't enjoy Billboard. [Deleted by Admin]

You don't like Twisters or KC2?

[Banana Boi]

BBoi, don't quote me but I'm pretty sure my previous visits were to Bliss, Taboo, Farenheit and Baccarat. The last two had the better looking girls.

Taboo is one of the worst talent wise on Walking street. Bliss isn't much better. Possibly seen 1 nice girl over the past 6 months. Fahrenheit is a bit better but nothing like it was 3 years ago. Not dirty like it once was either. Baccara is the best of the 4 gogo bars you visited. You will find hotter girls at the Rainbow bars in Nana if these are the benchmark gogo bars you visited on walking street.

[Engine Driver]

Walking Street looks like a dump during the day.

Angeles City is a dump 100% of the time. It's a disgusting, filthy, stinking shit hole. There's no other words for it. I've been to this shit hole 6 times and have just booked for my 7th trip for later this year.

Despite the totally inedible food, the unbearable heat, the constant stench of raw sewage and rubbish, lack of things to do during the day, the shitty internet, disinterested go go dancers and thieving trike drivers, it's like a magnet which just attracts me.

[Goferring]

It has been a couple of decades since I've been to Angeles City and it certainly did qualify as a shithole back then. But I have to disagree with you about Pattaya generally being a shithole. And that is compared to Bangkok as well. Whenever I enter the city I am struck by how relatively pleasant and well maintained it is even in the parts of town away from the beach and resort hotels.

Living in Bangkok, it is always a pleasure to round the bend onto Beach Road during the day and drive or walk past the quite nice hotels, restaurant options, the ocean views and so on. And same for nearby Jomtein Beach. It is a very nice break from the Bangkok scene. I know lots of expats in Bangkok who, same as me, go to Pattaya primarily for that reason and not to get laid

Everyone is welcome to their preference and (dis) likes so it serves no purpose for me to debate what different people find attractive or enjoyable. However, for me, the constant stench in the streets and deficiency of basic services (eg drainage and rubbish collection) certainly deserved the description. Of course 99% of foreign visitors (myself included) don't come for scenic beauty. They come for what Pattaya does very well, pussy, and are happy to overlook the limitations mentioned earlier.

I'm sure that the close proximity to BKK provides a good respite for long term residents. For those of us that have travelled half way around the globe to get here and are seeking sun, beaches and resorts there are much better options a little further away from BKK. However, remember that this is not a high priority for the vast majority of foreign Pattaya visitors.

Walking Street looks like a dump during the day. But even that area picks up with an air of excitement at night that does not give the impression of being in a shithole place.

I'd agree. The bright lights, deafening music, and sex show sprukers are a great part of each town's character. They add to the nights' fun and excitement.

Enjoy. G.

[EihTooms]

Siamsin, the lol in my post relating to the pics you posted was meant to comment on the debate that had been raging over whether or not I was seeing all the "Top Girls" present and available in Walking Street go-go bars. It was not an lol about the girls in your pics. It was about the fact that your nice pics did not illustrate anything either way about whether my eyes are working properly when I pop into Walking Street go-go bars. And I thought maybe you had posted those pics in direct response to that raging debate. That's why I chuckled, not at you or your pics, but for anyone who might take those photos for proof I was blind to what exists in Walking Street go-go bars since they were not pics of Walking Street go-go girls.

Your group shots of go-go dancers look fine. Group shots of go-go dancers always look fine no matter where they are from. Individual posed photos of many if not most P4P girls look fine. If they don't look fine, we don't share them with anyone else. LOL. Same with pics of ourselves. And for the reasons you have stated as well.

Photos often do more to mislead than inform. Some of the hottest girls in person take terrible photos. Some of the dregs can look terrific in a photo. And, I dare say that is every bit as possible with a couple of the girls in Phazze's photos. That is one reason I can safely say a couple of those girls could qualify as SuperStars on Beach Road or Soi 6. Photos and reality can easily be off by that much.

Before you posted your pics, I had said I did not recall seeing pics of markedly better looking "Top Girls" on Walking Street. Which was another reason I thought your pics were meant to address that comment.

[Siamsin]

Nice pics. So only one of the girls in those pics is from a bar, but not a go-go bar, not a Walking Street bar, and you seem to have issues with the way she looks in real life vs the way she appears in her pics, is that right? lol. Just checking

Woah, woah, woah uncle Tooms. Did I miss something?

I'm sorry to say, but that is exactly the type of shit I saw in Pattaya in Feb. Indian guys were cruising around with nasty 'girls' like that on their arm, and I was like wtf is going on.

My comparison of the girls in Phazze93's pics was the similar QUALITY of girls I noticed the Indian guys were walking around with, during my trip. The guys were discussing attractive girls in Pattaya, including Gogo's, Beach Rd & Soi 6. As a gogo bar regular, I'm sure you would agree that typically gogo bars have better quality girls. IMO my girl was a 6, and yes she was from a bar in Pattaya Soi 6, and yet she was still hotter (imo and other board members), than the gogo bar girls that the guys in Phase33's pics were with. Perhaps the LOL in your comment was in disagreement? I'm not sure what to make of it.

I think it's very obvious that girls tend to upload their 'best looking' pics on their profile when using their social media accounts. Some guys may rate my girls as 2's or 3's, others maybe 8's or 9's. I'm quite a fussy fucker and lean on the side of quality over nasty / mediocre so imo she's a 6.

And just to clarify my point, I was basically saying that there's plenty of decent looking girls in Pattaya, and I couldn't understand why guys were going with nasty looking girls. I don't drink alcohol, so maybe the guys had beer goggles on, or were on a budget (though 1500 is reasonable imo), or were going with BBFS quality girls. But I was there for a week only and met some attractive girls.

I've given a description, uploaded pics, described the session and even given her name and where she works so guys can go check her out for themselves. That's top class info for any board member interested in her. Not sure why the sarcasm or lack of appreciation for me sharing in your comment.

Ah, ThaiFriendly. Now that is probably something I should try next time I take a mongering side trip to Pattaya. Of course, I would not likely see TF girls showing up for a meeting in a bar, restaurant or arriving at a punter's hotel room. So my observations and experiences on Walking Street would not really apply to TF girls.

There's plenty of hot freelance girls using TF in Pattaya. With Pattaya being so small, most of the girls using TF are in close proximity to WS and Soi 6. I had a girl arrive at my hotel in about 15 minutes from my initial contact message to her. Totally different in BKK with the size and traffic etc. I find it odd that you didn't try using TF in Pattaya on any of your trips there. I know from your posts in the BKK thread that you regularly use TF and have had great success there, so if the quality of girls in Pattaya weren't to your liking on WS or the bars, why didn't you login to TF and check?

As it is now, even though I filter out TF girls more than 25 kilometers from Bangkok, I still get a lot of Interested clicks and messages to meet from very cute Pattaya girls on TF. As cute if not cuter in their pics than the ones I've seen here. And that is despite the fact that my profile clearly states I am well over the age of 50 and my pics clearly show I am a farang. How about that? I hope you and others here are very impressed. Hehe.

Why would I be impressed? I've always advocated the use of TF. But just out of curiosity, I would like to see some of your TF catches, or even the one's that clicked 'interested' in you, who you are yet to discuss the whole BBFS criteria with, if possible. Perhaps a few screenshots?

The bars with the hottest barfinable for sex girls in Bangkok are probably Rainbow on the ground level in the back right side corner of Nana Plaza, Billboard Nana Plaza, Baccara and Shark on Soi Cowboy. But, as you know, this can change nightly. Of those, Billboard is the only one I pull from fairly regularly. I don't target the hottest girls in a bar or red light distrct for my purposes. 2nd or middle tier girls ok. But not the hottest.

As you know, I didn't hit the gogo scene in BKK. So how do these attached pics of Pattaya gogo girls compare to the hottest barfinable for sex girls at Rainbow, Baccara, Shark & Billboard? Really interested to know your opinion as I might be persuaded to check out the gogo's in Bkk on my next trip.

[EihTooms]

Most of the comparison reports I've read previously have been written by Pattaya regulars who are occassional Angeles City visitors. This is a view from someone who is the opposite.

General Similarities:

Both cities are generally shit holes but shit holes with character that foreigners keep returning to for one reason only, getting laid. They also have a much smaller population of long term or permanent residents and are the poor cousins of a nearby Capital City. The Capitals have better choices of top end girls, hotels and meals. Visits to both are very heavily affected by the timing. Holidays, tourist seasons and weather can make a substantial difference to enjoyment, prices and girl / visitor numbers and quality.
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Enjoy. G.

It has been a couple of decades since I've been to Angeles City and it certainly did qualify as a shithole back then. But I have to disagree with you about Pattaya generally being a shithole. And that is compared to Bangkok as well. Whenever I enter the city I am struck by how relatively pleasant and well maintained it is even in the parts of town away from the beach and resort hotels.

Living in Bangkok, it is always a pleasure to round the bend onto Beach Road during the day and drive or walk past the quite nice hotels, restaurant options, the ocean views and so on. And same for nearby Jomtein Beach. It is a very nice break from the Bangkok scene. I know lots of expats in Bangkok who, same as me, go to Pattaya primarily for that reason and not to get laid.

Walking Street looks like a dump during the day. But even that area picks up with an air of excitement at night that does not give the impression of being in a shithole place.