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05-24-19 11:46 #28033
Posts: 3102Originally Posted by Turgid [View Original Post]
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05-24-19 07:33 #28032
Posts: 2201Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
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05-23-19 23:55 #28031
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05-23-19 23:29 #28030
Posts: 542Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
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05-23-19 19:44 #28029
Posts: 15821Hmmm
Why is it that 100% of the time when I meet a chick online and ask where she works then her answer is always "Pattaya?" Have to dig down deeper and she will tell me the soi. Have to dig down even deeper and she will finally come out with the name of the place she actually works, which was the original question. Exact same thing when I ask where they live. Hell, Pattaya is in their profile, so it seems obvious that is the city where they live and work.
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05-23-19 12:51 #28028
Posts: 5612Originally Posted by FLHawk [View Original Post]
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05-22-19 01:28 #28027
Posts: 542Final trip report and comments
Guys, I am back home and have the time to complete my Pattaya trip report. To refresh everyone, I was in Pattaya from April 16 to May 8, with 3 nights in Beijing, from May 5 to 8. The last report ended during the evening of May 7th, a Friday, with my new Pattaya GF who I called Secret (as I chose not to identify her), where I skipped dinner and all the other Soi 6 bar girls to be with.
Unfortunately, our final night was a little disappointing. After I barfined her we walked back to the hotel on BR, where there was a festival going on with lots of sidewalk food. I was hungry and had intended to go to Terminal 21 for KFC (the only place I have found with free soda refills) before seeing her, but I guess I was hungrier for Secret and ended up with her where I long timed her for the third straight night. Back at the hotel she took a nap and I was getting a tad upset about it after an hour went by. I decided to leave her and ended up at Rosie's on Soi 7. I have walked past it many times but never went in, and when I saw they had chicken breasts, which I was craving, I went it. Nice place, but the chicken was sliced, and I believe processed, and breaded. It was not a full chicken breast I am used to back home. Not what I was wanting! I suppose I was gone for an hour and I suppose I was getting a little guilty about it (sorry Mr. E! I was texting with Banana Boy and got worried that she was going to wake up and, finding me gone, she would up and leave to return to Soi 6, and it would be hard to get her away from there. Anyway, when I got back she was sitting up in bed on her phone and said nothing about my absence, but she did say she was now hungry and wanted to consume sidewalk food on BR. Fine.
She got whatever she got (can't remember now) and we came back to the hotel, then after she finished eating we headed back to WS and House of Stones one more time. I said we couldn't stay too long as we had to get up early to head back to BKK, where I was taking a flight home, and she was to meet her aunt or someone and otherwise catch a bus from there to go to her aunt or sister's and then go home to take care of school for her son. The music was good and we left about 12:30 AM, but back at the hotel she seemed a bit distant to me. Normally she cuddled up to me and kissed me, but this time she laid down on her side, facing away from me, without touching me. I had actually noticed this distance starting at the club. Was she upset that I left her? I asked if she was ok and she said yes. I said, no, you aren't ok, that I could tell something was wrong, and she then admitted to a headache. At the hotel, showers over, and being our last night together I wanted to have bare sex with her one more time, as who knows when I might get it again! She was not volunteering sex like she had done every night before, and I felt here is that word again guilty about forcing myself on her. I had not yet paid her anything or even agreed to pay her anything, so it was not like she was withholding anything from me that we had expressly agreed to, and if she kept her legs closed, then I would pay her accordingly the next morning. But I went on and touched her and she submitted, and with lots or oral she stayed wet, seemingly came, but me having come for the last two nights with her, and me still sensing that things were off, I could not get off and, surprisingly to her, I rolled off and took my shower. She stayed in bed and gave a kiss when I came back, but no cuddling.
She had said previously she would get up early, go back to Soi 6 to get some laundry and things, then come back to me for the limo / taxi to BKK. She did wake up early and dress while I at first slept, then when she was nearly ready to leave, awake, I sat up in bed. She came over, kissed me and said goodbye. Huh? Aren't you coming back? She said, no, this was goodbye. I guess we had miscommunication problem. I said I thought we were going to Bangkok together, but she said no, and said she had told me last night. I was not happy but kept quiet, confused as to what had happened for her to suddenly act a bit cold / distant to me. As she left, I thought about my need to pay her, but said nothing and she left without asking. I had money lying out by the door that she had to have seen, but the only thing she said as she left was goodbye.
Remember when I left for China, she sent me many texts, asking when I would be back, saying how much she missed me, how she had to sleep alone without me and was sad, etc. This time, I got nothing. Well, OK then, perhaps this is the best way to end things. I don't want her to fall in love with me or to have any false hopes, and I need to get her off my mind so I don't think about her too much as well! I mean, I had been starting to understand why guys can fall in love with bar girls!
I will be brief here, but we did resume our conversations a day or so later. I will transcribe a bit of our conversation that we had when she was home with her son, which may be relevant to some extent:
Her: Yesterday I was paying for my son's school. Today I have to spend more. I want to ask you. Do you give to me?
So, here I think, here it comes. She is going to ask me for money. But. I DO owe her money!
Hawk: You left too soon. I had money out for you. I was surprised you were not coming back to me. I did not think to tell you to get it.
Her: I said I didn't go back. Because my sister is waiting. I'm sorry for coming out too soon.
Hawk: I didn't know where she was waiting.
Her: My sister waited for me at Rangsit. (She had mentioned Rangsit the night before, but I did not relate that to her canceling out on riding with me to BKK.).
Hawk: It is ok. I pay you in November.
Her: I had to hurry to travel. It's too long. (She means November is too far away.).
Hawk: Should have asked me.
Her: OK.
Me: Sorry I was too sad to think of it.
Her: Never mind.
Then she asked if I was ok and if I was home yet. And that, to this day, is the only time she had mentioned money. And since that time, we have both engaged in saying we miss each other, that we hate sleeping alone, etc. If she is dishing it out to me, I am dishing it back. She sent me pictures of herself with her son and with some other family members and has said a time or two that she loves me.
I will say that her texts have convinced me that I have at least one more Pattaya trip in me. But I will end the trip report here the trip has ended, and it is starting to lead to another topic.
But this trip was certainly interesting. It began with me concentrating of multiple girls on Soi 6 and Red Car, and ended up with me concentrating on a Soi 6 BG who was acting like a wonderful GF in many ways. Though I have occasionally criticized others for spending too much time with just one girl when they go to Pattaya, when I concentrated on Secret, some of the sex was almost transcendental. It is something I have rarely experienced, and something I LET myself experience. With the normal bar girl, sex was mechanical and largely a disappointment, but going bare back with Secret a couple of times became deep as I got comfortable and even trusting of her. Perhaps she was faking a part of it, but I let it feel real and I wanted all I could get of it before I had to leave.
I have to admit I want more of it. Though I do not want to give up the side sex either!
I am not in love with Secret. She is half my age, she has a son, she is pretty but not especially hot to where I would risk embarrassment to be seen at home with, plus she is, well, what she is a bar girl. Possibly a very sweet and caring bar girl who has somehow fallen for me, but I have my Thai GF who definitely loves me and has proven it time after time, of who my thoughts have kept me grounded. Sort of. Sigh.
But I diverting from this being a trip report, so I end it here. Hope you guys have enjoyed it.
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05-21-19 22:58 #28026
Posts: 15821Originally Posted by DeathWish [View Original Post]
I will also add that with you giving her that much money then she still possibly has some of it left, unless she has purchased a big ticket item, or her family was behind on bills to a loanshark or she takes her friends out partying every night. Remember my room in Pattaya costs 4500/month. So for everyday she spent with you, her room was paid for for 1 month. That is why we are rich foreigners to them.
P. S. Also not sure why it would matter if a chick you are paying knows about your previous encounters. As one poster duly noted, one tenet of paying is so that there will be no strings attached. So it would not matter what she knew. Hell, she could even go with you to look for more chicks if you are paying.
Perfect time for my favorite meme. I swear you guys do it to yourselves.
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05-21-19 20:44 #28025
Posts: 6258Originally Posted by Syzygies [View Original Post]
Imo if a girl asks you for money you've let on that you like them too much and you're an easy mark. I never let girls know if I like them a lot or make any promises to them. Girls want a challenge. You'd be surprised how much more appealing you look if you appear to be unattainable.
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05-21-19 16:07 #28024
Posts: 20Money requested after returning home.
I kept contact with three women I met my last two trips to Thailand. The two I met on Thaicupid immediately had emergencies that required money. Both live in villages in Northern Thailand, and both wanted money for doctors. I felt these two got enough money out of me when I was there, and this was just plain insulting so I stopped lining with both. Further I thought neither were good long term GF material, though I spent a week with each.
The third is a prostitute I met on Beach Road about 4 months ago, we got along great there and we have lined extensively since. She is yet to ask me for money. Even when she went back to her home village to take care of her family, she never asked for a dime. She knows it will be months before I return, but she messages me everyday.
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05-21-19 13:34 #28023
Posts: 27Originally Posted by Ebauche [View Original Post]
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05-21-19 13:22 #28022
Posts: 15821Originally Posted by Smoothy [View Original Post]
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05-21-19 07:29 #28021
Posts: 3497Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
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05-21-19 04:29 #28020
Posts: 12856Originally Posted by BananaBoi [View Original Post]
I never got requests for money from Western hookers, so believe it is more likely with Asian women, however a buddy of mine, got requests for money from western hookers, so he obviously had the character where he was very persuadable to part with more money for extra services and too emotionally attached to the girls.
If a girl starts Lining again after a long absence, that is a clear sign she is building to a request for money. Ha ha. Others can line often purely because they like a bit of chat and gossip. Had a girl from Puerto Rico like that, never asked for money except for our private meetings but liked to exchange funny gossip.
Thai girls are more likely to ask for money if they are think they are your big favourite or at least high up the pecking order. I mean clearly very casual girls are not going to be sponsored. Unlikely if the girl thinks you have heaps of girls and no one is preferred.
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05-21-19 01:48 #28019
Posts: 6258These posts should really be in the General Reports section since they are not Pattaya specific.
When I was still a tourist many many girls kept Lining me many times every single day long after I left for home. Not a single one asked me for money. Pretty sure they knew I was not a sucker who would hand any over to them. To the OP, why end it before she asks. My point is they may never ask. However, a word of caution, don't fall for these girls and get it out of your head she is your girlfriend or someone who solely cares about you. They are professionals and unless you live here and have learned the ins and outs of their tricks they have a huge advantage over you.