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06-14-19 03:18 #10230
Posts: 3375Dating Sites for Dummies (or more accurately Cheap Charlies)
Originally Posted by PedroMorales [View Original Post]Originally Posted by PedroMorales [View Original Post]
Full disclosure: this is not a post about how I met 1000 chicks, fucked them all sideways and am now heading home. It's how I logged on as a unpaid member (my membership expired soon after returning home from my last trip), worked within the site's unpaid members' restrictions, sorted the accessible from the inaccessible 'Popular' girls and got the WA or Viber numbers for virtually all that I found attractive and built up a list of 'Popular' girls that I find gorgeous and can contact when I'm in country and activate my membership. I haven't written about converting contact numbers into fucks because that's unchanged from being a fully paid up member, been written about extensively in the forum many times and, I'm not yet back in the Philippines.
I used Pina Love because I'm most familiar with it but all the others would be similar.
Hopefully some guys with out paid memberships will find this useful.
Settings. Set your location to Manila to be widely attractive. Be prepared to say where you stayed last trip, are likely to return to next visit and that you have just left. Mine was a popular Shopping Precinct in Makati. Have an appealing profile showing what interests you in the Philippines and where you like to travel to.
Have your Search settings set to ages only. Many girls have no or incorrect location details so don't exclude them. Use 'Any' country and city. If someone is attractive you can ask where she is but if you specify only Manila girls you will miss those that have no or another location in their profile. Leave it totally open.
Time restrictions mean that you cannot send many messages and need to make them count. Girls will not wait 2 hours to have an interrupted conversation about how you like puppies and want to stay near the beach.
I only scanned the first page of girls online as I knew they were active and more likely to respond. I never messaged someone while they were offline. If I found someone attractive, I Favourited them for future reference and messaged, asking if they had a Viber or WA number. This was my first comment and got a 90% response rate with the number. It amused me that several replies were just a 'yes' and I had to ask again what the number actually was. I guess for some mearly having a viber account is a discussion point in itself. 4 asked if I was in Manila and I replied truthfully that I've returned home but am a frequent visitor, listed where I had been and where I normally stay in one chat. All replied with their number after 2 to 3 chats: important when sending individual messages is so time consuming.
While waiting for the messaging time limit to expire I would rescan the first page and Favourite more girls I found attractive. The messaging process would continue for those that were not Popular and could be contacted. Those that were Popular I just kept on file for future reference when I'm in country and / or activate my account.
I chose to Favorite vs Show Interest as I can unFavourite if I no longer need a reference of the girl's profile. Interest cannot be rescinded nor removed.
Once a girls number is received it should be put into a contact list ASAP. There are several reasons for the time urgency. Many girls shut or have blocked their accounts. When this happens your chats and her numbers within them are lost. WA and Viber profile photos are generally changed frequently and much more up to date than the most flattering ones on the dating sites. Use them to double check if she is still attractive. The busy girls delete their profile pictures to slow down the inrush when their inbox becomes overwhelming. If you haven't saved her details its easy to lose track of her. Many girls will discuss much more sensitive subjects on the one to one platforms rather than the web sites.
Now it is just the normal process of converting the numbers into meetings and, hopefully, productive sessions. Everyone has their own methods of doing this but personally, I don't even bother about chatting generally until I'm actually in country (even better in town).
Sure there will be the normal flakes and no shows but this process quickly delivers 100 numbers of attractive girls. I'd say that there are plenty of very attractive and willing girls that are not restricted with the Popular label, especially amongst those with no or incorrect locations in their profiles.
It also give a record of multiple very attractive girls that can be reached once membership is activated if they are needed.
In many ways I found this more productive than having open access from a paid up account. Blindly sending out 100 messages is not an option, so focusing on those that I found truly attractive and chatting when they were most likely to respond really paid dividends.
Its certainly more work than walking into a point and shoot bar but for those that enjoy the online girls it may be a good option.
Enjoy. G.
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06-12-19 15:28 #10229
Posts: 4567Wasted analogy?
Online profile says, "Wasting a good woman, it's like you wasting diamond".
I'll give her a point for using English, although she may have just copied it. It just strikes me as such a silly analogy that I had to share it. How does one waste a diamond? (Horrific song by Beyonce comes to mind).
X.
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06-06-19 00:38 #10228
Posts: 3375Originally Posted by Kagino0 [View Original Post]
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06-05-19 22:57 #10227
Posts: 1056Originally Posted by KabulGuy [View Original Post]
Pampanga is a revenue generating area. That can be seen by money changers and businesses that send money back to the provinces. Look also at other businesses that cater for the monger. Much easier to do in Pattaya with its wall to wall bars showing sports Thais have no interest in.
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06-05-19 22:13 #10226
Posts: 983Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
An anti sex trafficking organization will inflate the numbers significantly, to secure funding from do gooder organizations to combat the traffic. After a few years they deflate the numbers to show how great they are then pull the same stunt in another city using their own false statistics as "proof" of how good they really are.
I am not much of one for the bars on Burgos or similar places but usually see more girls than mongers any time I am there, so I tend to agree with your assessment. I do see more guys with a long term girl, usually easy to tell by how easy they relate and how comfortable they are with each other, or the presence of family members than single guys on the hunt.
But still as an engineer and therefore a number's guy I like to know the real stats and the method behind the definition of the categories and the numbers.
Yes I am a nerd LOL.
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06-05-19 12:44 #10225
Posts: 31Even flying in to Clark or watching the crowd at Clark airport there are simply not that many single guys visiting. For the last week my experience in Angeles was there are not too many foreigners right now, probably a bit of low season. As previously mentioned the obvious exception are Koreans.
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06-05-19 11:49 #10224
Posts: 2116Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
The obvious group of tourists you can pick out as coming to the Philippines purely for mongering are the young Korean jocks in their 20's. Everyone else disguises their visit as business, golf, diving or charity work.
Regarding KG's comment on numbers of mongers, it would be impossible to determine as no one is going to admit it.
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06-05-19 11:47 #10223
Posts: 2656Mongers all around!
Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
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06-05-19 10:27 #10222
Posts: 1395Originally Posted by KabulGuy [View Original Post]
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06-05-19 08:06 #10221
Posts: 1056Monger Economy.
Lots of folk, beginning with the NGOs, benefit by begging up monger numbers. The big spenders anywhere are women which is why Thailand wants mongers out, women in. Outside of beer and other necessities, male mongers do not buy that much.
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06-05-19 05:40 #10220
Posts: 15815Originally Posted by KabulGuy [View Original Post]
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06-04-19 23:08 #10219
Posts: 983What are the real numbers?
This comes out of a comment on the Smooci thread about numbers of mongers and providers.
I am curious about what the real numbers are. Is anyone aware of any impartial and empirical data on the numbers of providers, full or part time on the people involved in the sex trade?
I saw some that were totally ridiculous, one site claimed that the value of the international sex tourism exceeded the total tourist value for the country.
Also lots of definitional issues. If I come to the Philippines for purely sex tourism then I would be counted as a sex tourist, if I come for the diving and beaches and take a night out to have fun in a bar then am I a regular tourist or a sex tourist. One site claimed that anyone who while in a foreign country had sex or tried to have sex with someone other than a spouse that they were deviant sex crazed pervert and deserved whatever punishment came their way a thousand times over. LOL.
Anyone have any links to some impartial and realistic numbers?
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06-03-19 20:33 #10218
Posts: 983Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
The stigma of meeting on line here is not as strong as in the west. Even in the west it is dropping. I read somewhere now over a quarter of couples met on line. That is a significant number so any social shame of meeting on line will have to decline over time.
How else would a barrio girl meet, fall in love with a rich foreigner other than on line? Meeting in a bar may have a stronger shame here since we all know what bar girls are in reality.
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06-03-19 11:18 #10217
Posts: 32Friends seeing profiles.
Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
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06-03-19 04:17 #10216
Posts: 15815Originally Posted by KabulGuy [View Original Post]
Even funnier thing is that among some people there is still a taboo concerning meeting people online. I have met chicks in other countries (and even my own) that would not dare tell their family or friends that we met online. And y'all are saying these chicks don't fear their people finding out they were looking for love online, but only fear that they were found online looking for money.