Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[D Cups]

For the last several months I get recurring blank screens between clicks on ISG. Am I the only one this is happening to? Keep expecting admin to fix this if it's a bug in the website but after so long I am losing patience and thinking maybe it is on my end.

I have been getting it, too.

[ForkTruck]

For the last several months I get recurring blank screens between clicks on ISG. Am I the only one this is happening to? Keep expecting admin to fix this if it's a bug in the website but after so long I am losing patience and thinking maybe it is on my end.

[Mr Enternational]

For me, it depends on the level of misrepresentation.

Simply using the most flattering photos and camera angles is just human nature and should be expected. Even Cindy Crawford doesn't look like Cindy Crawford in the flesh.

Definitely that. That is why I akways ask for normal fotos with no make up and filters and stuff.

[Goferring]

If someone misrepresents themselves then fuck them and their feelings.

For me, it depends on the level of misrepresentation.

Simply using the most flattering photos and camera angles is just human nature and should be expected. Even Cindy Crawford doesn't look like Cindy Crawford in the flesh.

Photos from 10 years or 20 pounds ago is deception. Obviously 'forgetting' to mention your gender is the same.

For the first it's just thanks but no thanks. For the second there's no need for compassion. Just get up and walk away.

It should also be said that sometimes the guy wants to bail even though there has be no misrepresentation at all. I've met girls who have been as advertised but over coffee there has been absolutely no chemistry and I don't want to take it any further. In these cases I'm happy to refund her cost to get to Starbucks.

Enjoy. G.

[Mr Enternational]

It is easy to bail out if you meet her outside of your room. You can politely tell her she is not what you are looking for or tell her you have some urgent matters to attend to and cannot be with her. Just compensate for her travel. No girl likes to hear that she is ugly and unwanted and there is no need to hurt her feelings.

If someone misrepresents themselves then fuck them and their feelings. That is just like the guy that posted a few weeks back about letting the ladyboy in his room because he didn't want to hurt feelings etc. If you go to McDonald's for a Big Mac and they put a chicken sandwich in the bag instead, you are not going to take the chicken sandwich back and still compensate them for inconveniencing you.

[Mogwai]

This is a really hypothetical situation, because photos can be manipulated only to a certain extent. I have never met a girl who looked really pretty on the web, but was actually "a pig" in real life. Not as attractive- yes, but "a pig", never.

Neither did I but it's not a hypothetical situation because quite a lot of (below) average looking girls have old pictures in their profile, from long gone days when they were still slim and pretty.

[GDreams]

The only time I bailed is I had organised to meet a chick, then another chick that was super hot agreed to come over that I had invited earlier but hadn't committed The first one turned up, she was a bit older than I expected though still reasonable. Fortunately she was off wechat and hadn't come far so I just made an excuse in the lobby, gave her 200 peso to cover travel when she probably walked and said goodbye. Two days later I was with another chick who became a problem and I asked her to leave. I saw the older chick on Wechat again, invited her over and banged her. Turns out she was quite a good root!

[Sammon]

You arrange to meet a girl you've been messaging online though one of the dating sites. You arrange a time to meet for lets say coffee or dinner. You did your prescreening the best you could, looking at photos and her FB photos. Video chat would have been best but we're unable because of time difference.

When you finally see her in live and comes face to face with you, no amount of alcohol or viagra is going to get your dick up for this girl who you do not find attractive at all in the least bit.

What do you do?

You can't answer "I'm going to observe her from a distance and bail once I see she's a pig. " You're a foreigner. You're going to stick out. She'll spot you first.

It is easy to bail out if you meet her outside of your room. You can politely tell her she is not what you are looking for or tell her you have some urgent matters to attend to and cannot be with her. Just compensate for her travel. No girl likes to hear that she is ugly and unwanted and there is no need to hurt her feelings.

Personally I have met girls at a mall on their insistence and I have bailed out. Most often I expect them to come to my room. In the room it is kind of awkward to get rid of her right away. I do some chit chat and tell her I have a meeting to go to and do not have time. I lie and tell her I will call her later. Ofcourse I do compensate.

There is no point in hiding from her if the meeting place is public. Also you cannot fault her for doling out to look her best even if are cam chatting.

If the girl is reasonably okay I fuck her. Then let her go with some money. Only thing I hate is unhygienic pussy and body and mouth. Cannot get a hard on even with viagra.

[Member #4643]

You arrange to meet a girl you've been messaging online though one of the dating sites. You arrange a time to meet for lets say coffee or dinner. You did your prescreening the best you could, looking at photos and her FB photos. Video chat would have been best but we're unable because of time difference.

When you finally see her in live and comes face to face with you, no amount of alcohol or viagra is going to get your dick up for this girl who you do not find attractive at all in the least bit.

What do you do?

You can't answer "I'm going to observe her from a distance and bail once I see she's a pig. " You're a foreigner. You're going to stick out. She'll spot you first.

This is not hard. The worst that happens is that you need to pay her cab fare. If you don't find the girl attractive, just say Hi and good bye.

This is a really hypothetical situation, because photos can be manipulated only to a certain extent. I have never met a girl who looked really pretty on the web, but was actually "a pig" in real life. Not as attractive- yes, but "a pig", never.

On the other hand, occasionally the girl that shows up is a different person than the one on the web. If that is the case, you have every right to just walk away.

[EihTooms]

You arrange to meet a girl you've been messaging online though one of the dating sites. You arrange a time to meet for lets say coffee or dinner. You did your prescreening the best you could, looking at photos and her FB photos. Video chat would have been best but we're unable because of time difference.

When you finally see her in live and comes face to face with you, no amount of alcohol or viagra is going to get your dick up for this girl who you do not find attractive at all in the least bit.

What do you do?

You can't answer "I'm going to observe her from a distance and bail once I see she's a pig. " You're a foreigner. You're going to stick out. She'll spot you first.

I can only reference my experiences like this in Thailand and not in the Philippines, but it probably still applies.

I used to worry about hurting the girl's feelings by bailing out as soon as possible. But then I came to realize she LIED to me in order to manipulate me into this awkward position. She LIED to me about the stats on her profile and all those doctored, shopped or long outdated photos and videos. Worse, the girls most likely to have LIED to me in order to bamboozle me into this position were almost always the ones who stated over and over again how important "honesty" is in a relationship. LOL. That's a con job.

Left unpunished by my bailing as soon as humanly possible, these fugly LIARS are always the ones who want to cling to me wherever we met in the mall, at a restaurant or on my soi, hold my hand, hook my arm in theirs, hug me in public so everyone thinks she is my girlfriend or some such shit.

Therefore, if the lady you encounter is really wildly different than the way she came across in her photos and profile, you have permission from the Gods of Honesty to bail as quickly as possible. Listen closely and you will hear those Gods demanding that you do so. It will only get worse for you the longer you linger in this awkward position. She will take greater advantage of your politeness. Pretend to take a call on your phone requiring your immediate attention elsewhere for the rest of the day or night, excuse yourself and leave. Maybe hand her enough money to cover the cost of her travel to and from the meeting place.

[Wicked Roger]

YWhat do you do?

You can't answer "I'm going to observe her from a distance and bail once I see she's a pig. " You're a foreigner. You're going to stick out. She'll spot you first.

Why are you not chat cam with all girls before you even get to the Philippines. IF she turns out to be an aggressive LB when you first see her then what do you do then? Cam before any meeting is standard procedure for many including me.

[Mogwai]

What do you do?

Video chat when you're on the ground and then bail out if necessary.

[Dave_Far]

You arrange to meet a girl you've been messaging online though one of the dating sites. You arrange a time to meet for lets say coffee or dinner. You did your prescreening the best you could, looking at photos and her FB photos. Video chat would have been best but we're unable because of time difference.

When you finally see her in live and comes face to face with you, no amount of alcohol or viagra is going to get your dick up for this girl who you do not find attractive at all in the least bit.

What do you do?

You can't answer "I'm going to observe her from a distance and bail once I see she's a pig. " You're a foreigner. You're going to stick out. She'll spot you first.

[Member #1088]

Thanks for that.

To confirm KGs earlier comments, she was certainly receptive to hear that I had been to her province before and will be in her town on my next visit (both true).

Cheers. G.

Go G go, I be cheering for you, please provide photographic report, LOL LOL LOL.

[Goferring]

The first one in the list, is a good one. She now knows foreigner man, when I spoke with her a few months ago she didn't have any experience, I just spoke with her again and she told me she had 2 foreigners one from uk and one from Germany I think. Too bad it wasnt me, the schedule of travel didn't work for me when I went there.

If you can get her priv pics, I would like to see them LOL LOL (the one that got away). here is the capture from her skype

Good luck with her.

Thanks for that.

To confirm KGs earlier comments, she was certainly receptive to hear that I had been to her province before and will be in her town on my next visit (both true).

Cheers. G.