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07-28-19 23:09 #45829
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07-28-19 19:31 #45828
Posts: 662Completely agree with Mr. Chizzle re "Caveat Emptor". It seems that many people constantly forget this iron law of P4 P, along with YMMV.
Re Mr. Tooms and the discussion with Mr. Croc, I'm sorry Mr. Tooms, though I am in some ways a "fellow traveler", I think you are being at least somewhat disingenuous.
You, more than anyone else should really know that "do everything for you". (a very common line) means "do everything, but you wear a condom and you don't put it in my butt".
(frankly, I actually assume, oral or an attempt at such, a massage, and standard vaginal but covered sex in positions you want) (that's what a typical Thai girl would consider "everything")
Cannot comment on CIM, but I'll take Mr. Tooms word for it.
So, when I hear "make you happy, do everything for you", and all such and related lines I already KNOW that it means covered (sometimes even for oral, so I would immediately check on that) and I know it means no anal.
Many of these girls speak limited English, this is a standard line, they all learn from each other.
I will often playfully raise my eyebrow and say "anything / everything " ???? And then often the qualifications come out and I laugh and say "but I thought you said "everything". And the girls with a sense of humor will chuckle about it as well. Sometimes when so challenged they will nonetheless will repeat "everything", and being the skeptic that I am, I will of course say, "anal"?? and that is immediately shot down. LOL
So please, everyone. When you hear "everything for you, to make you happy", blah blah, it means covered and it means no anal. Or best said. Assume that, and if you want more, then very directly and specifically inquire about "additional service (s)".
And Mr. Tooms knows this is true, I am merely an occasional visitor and it did not take me long to learn this. He knows better.
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07-28-19 19:25 #45827
Posts: 5Originally Posted by EihTooms [View Original Post]
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07-28-19 16:29 #45826
Posts: 54Pronunciation lessons in Bangkok thread. Great.
Use a translator as it will phonetically spell it out and likely more accurate than what you'll find here.
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07-28-19 15:27 #45825
Posts: 51City of Angels
Gents,
TLDR; Farangs not that high in the clientele chain; one action of another could cause disagreeable effects for others; hate barfines; Thermae 2.5 k average price; you should be able to find someone in Bangkok.
Here are some insights based on my recent discussions with some working girls here in Bangkok. Some of you who are pros in the city may agree and are probably aware already; some of you may have differing opinions. This is just my personal observation and Bangkok report based on my recent time here in the city.
Based on my impression from what I gather, the pecking order for how the Thai girls would prefer the ethnicity of their foreign clients are (in order): Japanese, Korean, Westerners (farangs), Chinese / Arabs / Indians; Westerners are unfortunately just slightly better than the Chinese. Strange; considering the majority of tourists here are the Chinese, but I guess these Thai girls still don't see them in good of a light as you would think. And I'm not certain whether or not the Arabs / Indians would fall below or above the Chinese; their issue seems be related to lack of personal hygiene.
Unfortunately, any past negative encounters caused by a certain race of clients causes future repercussions and possible negative assessments for future clients from whatever ethnicity that caused the negative experiences. Just as we (mongerers) have an avenue to 'gossip' online and on these forums, these Thai girls also like to gossip and relay feedback to their friends about their experiences with different types of clients. I hate to get myself stereotyped for possibly being a potentially bad client based on a previously bad experience that someone else (who happens to be of the same ethnicity) has caused on a girl; and now her friends' friends' friends might have the same prejudice. But this is the reality here it would seem; getting prejudged based on other experiences unrelated to you. And something that I learned here in Bangkok is that if the girl quotes you anything more than 3 k, then most likely she is not that interested in going with you.
I've always approached this hobby with a 'caveat emptor'-like mentality. Although I can't control mutual chemistry or a girl's performance (and have encountered several bad experiences in the past in different parts of the world), some things that I can control are my personal attitude and respect towards the girl and choosing someone that physically attracts me. By only choosing attractive girls, I know that I've limited my potential to find more good performers. What I mean is it's in the same way that someone using Tinder swipes right to all photos; they've increased their odds for mutual connection. Whereas I would only swipe right to only girls that I actually find attractive; my odds become less. In the same way with connecting with pros, I'd like to have both attractiveness and good performance. Though based on the great number of pros working in Bangkok, there's definitely potential to find those hidden gems that provide both attractiveness and good performance. So far in Bangkok, I've only had a couple bad experiences. But for those bad experiences, I think I was able to leave a neutral to positive impression for the girl (even though my experience wasn't all that great). There's only so much I can control.
Something that I'm not too fond of here is this gogo barfine system; seems rather pimp-ish to me. I'm coming from the German FKK system of things. And with the FKK way of things, paying an entrance fee to use a facility (sauna, pool, etc.) seems more reasonable. Whereas here, I'm paying some fee that seems ridiculous (at least I feel like it's ridiculous). Maybe if by paying the barfine also meant free alcoholic beverages or something, then I'd probably be okay with it.
Another visit to Thermae gave me a chance to casually talk with some of the girls. Anytime a girl approached me, I would say that I was married and was only there to drink and observe. This allowed some time to have some simple conversations with the girls. 2 k-3 k is what I was being quoted by the girls I talked with and I tried to hit all areas of the room to determine if there were any great pricing gaps. I don't know if getting one of these girls (initially) under 2 k is possible. I think you would have to establish some kind of long-term rapport with the girl and become her regular before that's possible. From what I've seen on the 'Sideline'Finfin' sites, the girls are offering services (to their Thai natives) at an average of 1. 5 k. Also the clientele at Thermae is definitely close to 98 percent Asian. If you're a Farang, I would say that going to Thermae would make you definitely stand out in the crowd and you may be considered lower in the pecking order as an ideal client.
But overall and based on the great number of pros working in Bangkok, there's definitely potential to find those hidden gems here in the city that should meet your expectations.
TC.
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07-28-19 14:59 #45824
Posts: 3079Originally Posted by RedKilt [View Original Post]
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07-28-19 11:48 #45823
Posts: 304Originally Posted by Syzygies [View Original Post]
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07-28-19 10:19 #45822
Posts: 5497Originally Posted by Crocodilexp [View Original Post]
Is BBBJ+CIM considered standard service among Thai hookers? I would say the majority of Thai hookers I have met in go-go bars, in the clubs, on the street, etc include BBBJ+CIM on their menu. And, once agreed upon, I submit only half-assed pretending to give a BJ for 6-7 minutes, ignoring or refusing to adjust to some simple motor skill moves to accommodate what works for me and clearly trying to change the subject every other minute would not be defined by most as "good faith" or keeping her side of the deal.
Aside from that particular incident, the girls tell me punters are constantly asking them for BBFS. I have no doubt the girl I took from Thermae has been hit up for it many, many times. I would therefore submit that as long as the girls know that is a service much desired and likely to be asked for by their customers who want to be "made happy", it is 100% on them to start addressing it before or during their sales pitch or else they are playing games with the issue and not presenting their offer to "make you happy" in good faith.
In a world where they know one of if not the most desired and asked for services among their customers is BBFS, Thai hookers who pitch their wares with stuff like, "I will make you happy, no problem, anything, everything, up to you, don't worry", and just leave it at that without clarification and then do NOT offer a means to provide BBFS in the room are not acting in good faith. They are scammers.
I have had several girls say, "Everything, except BUTT SEX!" lol. Good for them. It proves they really do know how to include or exclude anything from their "Everything" sales pitch if it really does matter to them. If they don't also say, "Oh, and must wear condom for boom boom", then I am going to assume those girls aren't all that concerned about it. At the very least, I will conclude they want me to assume the most often requested service (by their own testimony), BBFS, is on the menu.
Let those scammers ask for all the money upfront. Only the suckers will comply and those suckers will get educated pretty fast. The rest of us will either try to help the little lady feel a bit better about proceeding by paying a much smaller amount upfront or (the really smart ones) will refuse to pay them anything at all and boot them out with nothing. Not the worst possible outcome for all concerned, imo.
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07-28-19 07:23 #45821
Posts: 1233Originally Posted by EihTooms [View Original Post]
On the other hand, BBFS is NOT a standard service. IMHO, pressuring a young woman to risk her health (and possibly life) for sake of a few minutes of your pleasure is just plain wrong. If you agree to it in advance, I guess that's fine, but if you don't, you can't expect it. As for the BBBJ, she seems like she had the will, but no skills. She did give you a BBBJ, crappy as it was, and she did not try to back out of the deal, you're the one who finished the session after she refused BBFS.
Personally, I think 1000 baht is more than enough for what you received. However, if you agreed on 2500 baht, I think she acted in good faith (albeit was not a good performer), you broke the deal and stiffed her. The experience will certainly encourage her to insist on money in advance from other punters.
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07-28-19 06:31 #45820
Posts: 5497Originally Posted by Goatscrot [View Original Post]
But I felt it necessary to start sticking to my guns on this bit where the girl pitches herself with things like, "I am very good, I will be good for you, I will make you happy, agree to pay me 2,500 baht and I will show you." LOL. Great! Nothing more needs to be said, then, right? Count me in for that.
Why is it now on me or any other punter for whom what happens in the room really does matter to negotiate further, to parse every word and syllable, to list, review, compare and contrast every act and move in detail just to make sure her idea of "happy" and "good for you" isn't miles away from what I am sure she hopes I will assume she means? Sure, if she had then said in the bar, "I mean I am good, will be good for you and will make you happy as long as you are happy wearing a condom for fucking and don't want me to do anything else," I would not have agreed to those terms. And I am guessing she knows all but the lowest demand customers would not agree to those terms. But she didn't say that.
Of course, this particular method of sticking to my guns in order to either be "made happy" in the room for the agreed upon amount of money or I will only pay a notably reduced amount for what I did get works best in a FL situation like Thermae. It isn't going to work that well if at all in a venue where it is Pay Upfront. It isn't going to work that well where you have already laid out an 800-1,000+ baht barfine and bought 800 baht worth of ladydrinks for a girl. If I give a girl in a situation like that another 1,000 baht for the same thing I gave the Thermae girl 1,000 baht, now I am out almost 3,000 baht if not more just to DATY and feel the inside of her mouth with my dick for 5 minutes. Not a good plan or a risk worth taking, imo. lol.
Before I commit to taking a girl from a place like that I would generally have to negotiate more details upfront and stick to my guns about not paying her fee in full if she doesn't deliver. Wish I didn't have to do it that way. But these days I do.
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07-28-19 04:32 #45819
Posts: 3691Originally Posted by EihTooms [View Original Post]
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07-28-19 04:05 #45818
Posts: 3230Originally Posted by Smoothy [View Original Post]
He has more than 12000 posts and he knows.
What are you thinking Smoothy?
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07-28-19 01:01 #45817
Posts: 5704Originally Posted by EihTooms [View Original Post]
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07-27-19 23:19 #45816
Posts: 3691Originally Posted by Catire [View Original Post]
I never had the want to "get to know" the P4 P gals I was doing. In 20 years I have never taken the contact information from any of the working gals I've banged. I want to choose, head to the room, have a PSE / GFE, shower, and be on my way. Like riding a roller coaster, "Gee, that was fun; let's go on a different ride. " The "regulars" I've had were oily gals and I would only do each of then once every 6 weeks to two months and that was only because the talent level started to slip. Some of my friends have been the stable of gals types. One guy used to refer to them as his "rotation." Even he eventually saw that dwindle and a few years back said he saw his rotation of many turn into a rotation of 1 and then a rotation of none.
Most of the time after a ST at the PB hotel back in the day, I'd pop up right after the deed (who wants to cuddle, you have to do that crap back home), hit the shower quickly before the gal, give her money, and be on my way, and she could shower and leave at her leisure. Jeez, many times we never even exchanged names and that was fine by me.
In addition, I have a live-in GF of over a decade that I am very fond of and whom I get along with amazingly well, so I don't invest time or a lot of effort in other gals. We don't keep tight reins on each other in the least, but don't think she'd like me having a mia-noi or even a regular.
The online thing takes a lot of time. I really don't have the temperament or patience for it. I know guys that spend hours and hours every week on Thai-Friendly and other sites. I honestly have better things to do with my time.
I've said it a million time on here. The beauty of Thailand was gals were cheap, plentiful, and easy. Minimal effort was required. Bangkok had a wonderful seediness and edge to it. It was rough and unpolished, not so developed. It was not a town full of fancy shopping malls. There was one Starbucks at Amarin Plaza. There were guys on fat expat packages, farang teachers here to bang gals and make a bit of scratch, a few of us early semi-retired dudes, a few random Japanese (most were confined to Soi Thaniya) and pretty much all of us doing chicks (as opposed to today where the majority of young western expats don't engage in P4P). You walked in a venue, walked down Sukhumvit after 9 pm, and gals would grab and proposition you. And it cost peanuts. Eating at the best restaurants in town cost about 25 USD. No one worried about staying long term as visas were easy. Always a lot of options. As long as you did not hurt anyone and did not get involved in drugs, you could stay and have a pretty easy time of it. You could live a five star life on a three star budget and that was the entire point of being here. It was a close to paradise as you could get. It is why we chose Thailand over other places. Sadly, all of that is over.
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07-27-19 19:01 #45815
Posts: 3497Originally Posted by Syzygies [View Original Post]
I notice that when Thais who can speak English write the phrase, they put Sawat (or Sawas sometimes) dee krub. Krub? Doesn't sound that way to me though when they say it. Sometimes they put krap.
Also, to say "thank you" in Chinese, you can say "shit shit" quickly without annunciating.