Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[Member #4643]

. ,.....PL is free but they have restrictions on only being able to send a message every 10 minutes and not allowing messages to popular girls (although there is a workaround for that). ,.....

I would love to know. I usually buy one month of PL before leaving home. I never fail to get more pretty girls lined up than I can handle.

[Goferring]

I disagree with you on this point. It is better to start chatting 2 months before you land. This gives enough time to bond and also girls feel comfortable with you. Low mileage girls do not just sleep with you on a day's notice. They need little convincing with cam to cam chat and romancing.

Valid points for the girls you prefer.

Those who jump into bed are gold diggers or plain hookers.

You say that like it's a bad thing. . . . 😁.

[Sammon]

Girls respond much better, regardless of app, when you are in town rather than 'I'm visiting next month'.

Enjoy. G.

I disagree with you on this point. It is better to start chatting 2 months before you land. This gives enough time to bond and also girls feel comfortable with you. Low mileage girls do not just sleep with you on a day's notice. They need little convincing with cam to cam chat and romancing. Those who jump into bed are gold diggers or plain hookers. I just avoid them unless they are good looking and good for one time. As usual I am looking for shy types who will stay and give me GFE.

[GDreams]

You definitely know how to line them up. I've never even looked at DIA or PL. I assume they are websites. Do they cost money? I I mostly just wander the streets or use WeChat which hasn't failed me yet.

I've had a few Wechat girls before. The thing I don't like about Wechat is they don't publish age, weight or height which may not be accurate sometimes but I would prefer to know. As I mentioned there were often freelancers around Robinsons and some of them, especially the weekend were quite doable. The only thing that puts me off is having a street negotiation. I prefer just getting on viber or whatsapp and working all the details. I had one girl that I repeated. Even though I specifically told her that I changed hotel she turned up at the previous hotel, then repeated again and change the sum to what I was paying some of the others to which she wrote that she agreed and was disappointed when I handed over the money. It was good to pull up the chat and say do you read what you are agreeing to?

DIA is free. PL is free but they have restrictions on only being able to send a message every 10 minutes and not allowing messages to popular girls (although there is a workaround for that). Tan Tan is free and is like Tinder in that you can only chat for free if you both like each other. Even only restricting my search to -23 yo's I got close to 70 matches in 3 weeks. You can send messages unrestricted by paying a fee. I tried Tinder but only got LB / Trans or girls who didn't respond to messages. I find tinder has a higher expectation for payment.

[Goferring]

You definitely know how to line them up. I've never even looked at DIA or PL. I assume they are websites. Do they cost money? I I mostly just wander the streets or use WeChat which hasn't failed me yet.

Lots of info here on the use of the various internet sites. Read on so that you are well informed.

In short they are all websites and / or apps that contain '000's of women with varying levels of morals or lack there of. All have both paid and unpaid memberships. The unpaid typically work but become a PITA due to their restrictions. Girls respond much better, regardless of app, when you are in town rather than 'I'm visiting next month'.

Enjoy. G.

[Goferring]

Quote of the day:

Next time in missionary which is when I noticed she actually had a really pretty face which helped with the second shot.

Chivalry is indeed not dead. 👍.

[Sidtip]

Just spent 4 weeks in Manila. All the time was spent in the Malate area.

First day I had 20 year old I met last year on DI only search 18 - 22 or 23. The 24 yo actually chatted to me first. I had a couple of hot lookers for prospects but I pretty much put a limit of 4000 per night and they wanted more. I would say the girls ranged from about 6 - 8 in looks and all met my needs (the ones I consummated that is). I managed to leave after 4 weeks drained and satisfied.

You definitely know how to line them up. I've never even looked at DIA or PL. I assume they are websites. Do they cost money? I I mostly just wander the streets or use WeChat which hasn't failed me yet.

[GDreams]

Just spent 4 weeks in Manila. All the time was spent in the Malate area. During this time I had 1 recuperation day. All the girls were from Dating sites, primarily DIA and PL but 1 from Tan Tan. I went to LA Cafe once and as the 2 previous times I went there found nothing to my taste. I was tempted to take a freelancer around Robinsons a couple of times but in the end always went with other options. There were often some attractive young girls opposite Robinsons around the McDonalds.

First day I had 20 year old I met last year on DIA. She had gotten married to an old dude from Germany and become pregnant but he was not supporting her. She was initially wanting to stay days but the husband was moving her to Cavite where it was cheaper. She was moving the day I arrived, complaining having no money, not wanting sex as she was 6 month pregnant. I just told her that if she wanted money she would need to do the deed. She finally decided to come over just as I had contacted a backup to come over. So I spent 3 hrs with her, came in pussy as no risk of pregnancy. She was still pretty hot for it once she had made the decision she needed the money. Gave her 2000. She said she would make the effort to come up from Cavite for a few days but I didn't see her again.

So the backup was a 23 yo from DIA. She came over in the evening and I managed one shot. She was from Bulacan which is a pain. She is studying there and enters beauty pageants as a pastime. I gave her 3000 and organised to meet the next day. Next day she comes and first thing she complains about only getting 3000. I said that was all 1 shot gets. She stayed the night and we had 3 sessions but I only came on first and last. She is quite pretty and seems to expect a higher rate for that. I explained that I was on a budget and she could decide whether it was worth it to come or not. She won't do BJ but I am not a BJ fan anyway so didn't particularly worry me. Has a nice pussy and is enthusiastic in the act. I gave her 4500 for the night. I said I was going away as wanted to try some other talent. When I returned she skipped seeing me saying she was busy. May be true as it was weekday and she said she had classes.

Next I had organised to meet a PL girl to stay for 3 days. She was 21. She was from Taguig so a fair way in traffic. Eventually arrived, didn't bring any clothes, said she had to work the next day, didn't want to spend the night and wouldn't have sex so within about 45 min she was heading back to Taguig.

So hopped on PL and met an 18 yo. I wrote about her in an earlier report. She agreed to 4000 overnight but after 1 shot wanted to leave as had school the next day. I gave her 2200. I saw her 3 more times over 3 weeks mainly as she had a hot body and a tight pussy. Once she brought a friend but I was not much into the friend and it was not a real threesome just alternate.

Next I met a regular from previous visits. Nice, small now 20. I only see her for times I am just after one shot but she is happy with come in pussy and does a reasonable BJ which is worth mentioning from someone who really doesn't get into them. Paid 2500. Saw her another 3 time before leaving.

Next I met my first Tan Tan girl, 20 yo student looking to pay this years college fees. Not much to comment on, she was a little chubby for my taste but was satisfactory. Paid 3000 for 2 shots.

Met a 24 yo off PL. She was a single mum. I saw her 10 times. She was horny, had an IUD so was not concerned about CIP and did anal. Always wet but pussy was a bit loose. Didn't specifically ask for money but ended up with taxi fares and extras about 2000 a day. She only stayed overnight on one occasion which suited me.

One last one was off DIA, a 21 yo student. Quite nice looking but a little belly fat. If she lost 4 kg would be perfect. Nice pussy did her first in doggy. Next time in missionary which is when I noticed she actually had a really pretty face which helped with the second shot. Gave her 3000 for 2 shots. I repeated with her once before I left.

All we happy to go condom free. Two were OK with CIP.

I had one other incident. Met a girl on Tan Tan and agreed to 3000 overnight. Agreed to meet at Robinsons. She brought a friend which always annoys me. Well I was hungry so shouted them to a Korean BBQ. I really like Korean BBQ and in Robinsons there is a Soban that has pork or chicken for about 140 peso for a meal which is very good value. Basically the friend did the talking, I assumed because of language issues. Now I had done my usual list of questions which included are you a girl. Well on the walk to the hotel I was getting a bit of an off vibe and once I hit the room asked again. Once again she said yes she was a girl and asked me what if she wasn't. I said I would kick her out. Then she started on that many foreigners liked ladyboys. Well it turns out she was a ladyboy and I paid her 100 pesos just to get her out of the room without further fuss. I really don't know why they waste their time and mine. Fortunately not a big cost but annoying all the same.

I only search 18 - 22 or 23. The 24 yo actually chatted to me first. I had a couple of hot lookers for prospects but I pretty much put a limit of 4000 per night and they wanted more. I would say the girls ranged from about 6 - 8 in looks and all met my needs (the ones I consummated that is). I managed to leave after 4 weeks drained and satisfied.

[Sammon]

What are the scams, exactly?

There are scams. Transportation scam. Everything has to do with money. Apart from ladyboys there are girls who promise everything and want money for transportation. Even a girl who says she lives a mile away wants 500 pesos for a cab and would not agree me paying the cab on arrival. I do not send money before meeting. They need to borrow from somebody And I will gladly take care of it.

Family or friends scam. Some insist to bring her family or friends to meet. You will be stuck with lunch or dinner tab if you allow with no guarantee she will come with you. Philippine people are always hungry if somebody is picking up the tab.

Bait and switch scam. Some have very nice pics on profile only to show real ugly themselves in person. I prefer real cam chatting few times and arrange and agree on everything before meeting.

Compensation scam. Some girls demand more money than agreed amount. If she gives good service it is up to you. Otherwise just give agreed amount. I always stay at hotels rather than apartment rental so I have added security.

Apart from ugly girls and smelly pussy I have not had any bad experiences.

[Chocha Monger]

Prostitutes sometimes tend to be like that. They sometimes expect their customers / clients to pay.

I have just been on kik with a stunner. She wants $200. She can FKK off because, as I "explained" to her, once non PHP currencies are mentioned, discussion is over. I bonk a US Asian air line attendant for $100 when she is in town but that is apples and less expensive but reliable oranges.

I tried baddoo but gave it up after 15 minutes.

Fortunately I only have a few years of poon chasing left before Little Pedro packs it in.

Interestingly, many elderly mongers express a sense of relief when their boner is finally and irretrievably broken. It is not what many would expect. However, it is understandable that many old fellas are happy to escape from the constant drive to satisfy the curiosity of their penises at the expense of their financial, physical, and mental well-being. In the end, men are only victims of testosterone.

[X Man]

Here are a few things I learned the hard way.

Making the date may seem like a done deal, but I recommend followup texts or even a call. Make them feel like you are eager to meet them. I've had a few no shows who said, "I didn't think you were serious, because you didn't text me."

Some gals might not have any spare cash. In other words, you need to be on hand to pay the taxi. Sometimes they won't even mention this to you. Very frustrating if you are in the mall and just sat down with a cup of coffee. Also, if they are not in a central location, there might not be any taxis. Always assume they will be late.

I had one gal text me that she was wearing, "black dress". I could not find her. Turns out she meant clothing when she said "dress". She was wearing a black blouse with blue jeans. I must have walked by her several times and she never thought to say something. Communication snafus do happen.

Murphy's Law: The best looking, the best GFE, the most interesting gal is usually the one you meet the day before your flight. Have fun. X.

A.

I've been playing with DIA a bit, looking for temp GF prospects for an upcoming trip. Even after reading much of this thread, it's hard for me to wrap my head around (their expectations, motives, etc.).

[Pwrmnd]

The fact of the matter is that you have nothing in common. .... Even when I try to converse and get to know them it goes over their heads. Every little question, what is your favorite color, what do you like to eat, etc. garners a response of why.

I remember being in Cuba with a chick that another board member's girl hooked me up with. I was asking her normal get to know you questions and she thought I was crazy for asking such things. She ended up calling the rest of the day that she was supposed to accompany me to the beach off.

So unless you are up on Filipino soap operas and are ready to discuss that. These are simple people you are talking to. The most intriguing question you are probably going to get from them is did you eat already. Maybe you will find some type of chemistry when you are together in the same room. If not, then just be grateful that you are traveling and fucking.

Haha. Some great points there and very amusing anecdotes.

[Mr Enternational]

I've been playing with DIA a bit, looking for temp GF prospects for an upcoming trip. Even after reading much of this thread, it's hard for me to wrap my head around (their expectations, motives, etc.).

No need to wrap your head around anything. Just go with the flow. If it ends up they want money, then surely you will have 1,000 or 2,000 pesos laying around. Simple.

What's funny is that they don't seem to keen on chatting much, except to stay in daily contact and make arrangements to meet. Hmm. They are much less curious about me than I'd expect from someone looking for a partner.

The fact of the matter is that you have nothing in common. It is the same thing with probably 9 of 10 chicks that I meet online around the world. I am a 47 year old single grandfather that speaks 5 languages, has a masters in business, and has been to over 100 countries. What do you think I have in common with most 3rd world chicks on dating sites? Even when I try to converse and get to know them it goes over their heads. Every little question, what is your favorite color, what do you like to eat, etc. garners a response of why.

I remember being in Cuba with a chick that another board member's girl hooked me up with. I was asking her normal get to know you questions and she thought I was crazy for asking such things. She ended up calling the rest of the day that she was supposed to accompany me to the beach off.

So unless you are up on Filipino soap operas and are ready to discuss that. These are simple people you are talking to. The most intriguing question you are probably going to get from them is did you eat already. Maybe you will find some type of chemistry when you are together in the same room. If not, then just be grateful that you are traveling and fucking.

[Albert9989]

May be not scams but when they ask for money upfront, just forget, and go to the next one, that's all.

[Pwrmnd]

What are the scams, exactly?

I'm aware of the ladyboys who lie about being real girls (even using real girl's pictures and directly denying that they are ladyboys) and then say "I'm shy, can I come directly to your room? They either hope you won't mind, or they just want easy "go away" money.

Then I suppose there are scammers from Africa or whatever who will try to get you to pay money online. What else?

P.S. To not waste time on ladyboys from the start, I ignore "girls" who look like guys, who have only blurry or highly filtered photos, or are always covering up their face, or always deliberately put their chin down, or who won't send real pictures in chat. Many come right out and say they are ladyboys, but obviously a large % don't.