Dumaguete

[Kabul Guy]

Hi KG,

You are able to provide valuable insight for Duma, that's sure.

How do you propose that a fellow monger go about it in Duma or Dauin?

I have a diving trip coming up.

Vic.

I was staying in an Air bnb where there was not an opportunity to bring girls back. (It was on a farm and you needed to pass the hosts house on the way to where I was staying and I just felt that he would not approve.).

I did end up doing the maid a couple of times but she said that the Mrs was suspicioious and cut it off. I Managed to reconnect with an old regular who had moved back to Dumagette from Manila and went to a few massage places.

In the massage places it is hit or miss and depends on the girl. I would return to one where I left very happy and get turned down, I went back to a place where I was turned down and left very happy. I'd say my success rate was about 50%.

I did see some old reports on line from the city of Dumagete that they were stamping out he massage places etc and were quite proud that they no longer existed, they do just very discrete.

Where are you diving? I did almost 50 dives in the month I was there. Along the coast it is muck diving, lots of sand and small critters to see but not much coral. If you go to Apo Island, cost will be around 6 k for 3 dives and lunch.

PM me and we can discuss further.

KG.

[John Clayton]

I m in that area now. I have never had a tinder or PL hit on a local girl, from Dumagette...

How 'about Cebu City. I plan to be there a few days. Is Tindergold a waste of money there, as well?

[VictorHugo99]

Hi KG,

You are able to provide valuable insight for Duma, that's sure.

How do you propose that a fellow monger go about it in Duma or Dauin?

I have a diving trip coming up.

Vic.

I m in that area now. I have never had a tinder or PL hit on a local girl, from Dumagette not not a local. I have gone to the market area, lots of looks from girls in groups, giggles when I look at them and smile but no luck approaching them. Many very nice on the eyes too.

Remember that this is a very small place, everyone knows everyone else here. If a girl is even seen talking to a foreign guy, even to practice her english with you, she can be the subject of gossip and shame in her community. If she is not from a powerful family, that shame can follow her for years and have a major impact on her life.

[Kabul Guy]

I will be in Zamboanguita for about three weeks in February (kiting). Based on the reports in this forum about Dumaguete, I am not to optimistic about the P4 P scene in Zamboanguita; however, hopeful that someone will tell me otherwise. I'm planning to try Tinder Gold (unless you suggest a better option) to see what happens. Wish me luck! (I will report back).

I m in that area now. I have never had a tinder or PL hit on a local girl, from Dumagette not not a local. I have gone to the market area, lots of looks from girls in groups, giggles when I look at them and smile but no luck approaching them. Many very nice on the eyes too.

Remember that this is a very small place, everyone knows everyone else here. If a girl is even seen talking to a foreign guy, even to practice her english with you, she can be the subject of gossip and shame in her community. If she is not from a powerful family, that shame can follow her for years and have a major impact on her life.

[VictorHugo99]

Hi JC,

I find that the providers on Tinder seem to be of a higher placement in demands (pertaining to the Phil).

Unless you are really going for a return regularly situation to the same person (with possibility of driving you with her car), pL and DIA seems a better tool.

Vic.

I will be in Zamboanguita for about three weeks in February (kiting). Based on the reports in this forum about Dumaguete, I am not to optimistic about the P4 P scene in Zamboanguita; however, hopeful that someone will tell me otherwise. I'm planning to try Tinder Gold (unless you suggest a better option) to see what happens. Wish me luck! (I will report back).

[John Clayton]

There is no point in looking for a needle in the haystack...

I'm actually not going there to monger -- I'm going to kite. Just hoping I might run into a needle while I'm there. Whatever happens, I will report back.

[Sxxxx]

Thanks... I guess. I'm not optimistic.

There is no point in looking for a needle in the haystack. I have done that for you and others in the 1970's. Situation has got worse, if anything.

"Been there, done that" , applies to all towns etc discussed. You have got to realize that hundreds, possibly thousands, have been there before you, and if the places were any good, hundreds / thousands would be going to those places today, and they are NOT for good reason.

Oh well, suppose like me, you have to go and see for yourself. "Take care out there".

[John Clayton]

Zamboanguita is one of the poorest cities in P. I. Best bet is to go to the Blvd or other places people meet. But remember many of these girls are from conservative families. They will not get caught dead going into hotel with you. Best to get them out of their home area first. Visit their family sometimes helps. Dumaguete is the closest city of any size and it s*ks BLS for women.

Thanks... I guess. I'm not optimistic.

[TurdyCurdyOne]

I have taken a Airbnb place south opf Dumaguete until aftyer the hoilidays.

Unfortunately it does not look like a very girl friendly place. It is a bungalow in a private residential compound where you have to pass by the very religious expat owner coming and going.

However it is cheap enough that I can take a place for my fun. Room is great and comfortable and there is a pool. (shared with the owner and his family.) Maid looks doable might try my luck there later.

Does anyone know of any massage places here that offer our kind of services? I have found a few likely candidates on line. Reading the google reviews it appears that the necessary coded reviews are there and several are open 24 hours or really late at night which I usually take as a good sign.

Depends on what you mean by "our kind of services"? Several will give you a HJ euphemistically known as a "happy ending". But it depends on the girl, how you look, if you smell or not, etc. I have not partaken for this in a long time, but I had several before when I was an ignorant newbie and did not know I could get the massage and everything else I wanted from freelance girls. I think the last time was a couple years ago and I paid like and extra 100 php for the finish. Many pay more than that. The Blvd use to have some good looking freelancers but mostly now they are fugly, bad teeth, shabu addicts, etc. Even foreigners had stopped going there, the pickings are so slim. If you can endure the deafening noise, cancerous smoke and bad attitudes, Ynot has some freelancers who ask too much and offer too little, especially if your old, like me. Same with Tocino Country, mostly skanks and poor performance, but it is friendly and safe if your not stupid. Personally, I don't like going into a business with my valuables where they can make up any story they want and you have no one on your side to defend your version. So I don't go into places like that, but Dumaguete is still pretty safe and not many scams against foreigners. Some pension houses here are now in cahoots with the notoriously corrupt police here and asking for IDs from foreigners (could easily be part of an extortion scam, IMO). I don't rent rooms in those hotels.

[TurdyCurdyOne]

I will be in Zamboanguita for about three weeks in February (kiting). Based on the reports in this forum about Dumaguete, I am not to optimistic about the P4 P scene in Zamboanguita; however, hopeful that someone will tell me otherwise. I'm planning to try Tinder Gold (unless you suggest a better option) to see what happens. Wish me luck! (I will report back).

Zamboanguita is one of the poorest cities in P. I. Best bet is to go to the Blvd or other places people meet. But remember many of these girls are from conservative families. They will not get caught dead going into hotel with you. Best to get them out of their home area first. Visit their family sometimes helps. Dumaguete is the closest city of any size and it s*ks BLS for women.

[John Clayton]

I will be in Zamboanguita for about three weeks in February (kiting). Based on the reports in this forum about Dumaguete, I am not to optimistic about the P4 P scene in Zamboanguita; however, hopeful that someone will tell me otherwise. I'm planning to try Tinder Gold (unless you suggest a better option) to see what happens. Wish me luck! (I will report back).

[D Cups]

Maid looks doable might try my luck there later.

Does anyone know of any massage places here that offer our kind of services? I have found a few likely candidates on line. Reading the google reviews it appears that the necessary coded reviews are there and several are open 24 hours or really late at night which I usually take as a good sign.

Well, maids need loving and money, too! As for massage, I don't know if it's still there but there used to be a massage place upstairs on the same street as Hotel Nicanor. Sorry, I don't recall the name of it or the name of the street. There are also skanky street walkers in Tocino at night and sometimes on the boulevard. Why Not, the town's only disco (as far as know), occasionally has freelancers. If you like sports go to Octagon. I think Duma is not really for mongers but a good place to find a good girl. My American buddy has been living there for a few months now, has a steady, sexy Filipina girlfriend, and loves it. If you find a nice girl, KG, rent a motorbike and take her up in the hills west of Duma to Forest Camp, hot springs, waterfalls, etc. It's beautiful. Good luck, friend.

[Kabul Guy]

I have taken a Airbnb place south opf Dumaguete until aftyer the hoilidays.

Unfortunately it does not look like a very girl friendly place. It is a bungalow in a private residential compound where you have to pass by the very religious expat owner coming and going.

However it is cheap enough that I can take a place for my fun. Room is great and comfortable and there is a pool. (shared with the owner and his family.) Maid looks doable might try my luck there later.

Does anyone know of any massage places here that offer our kind of services? I have found a few likely candidates on line. Reading the google reviews it appears that the necessary coded reviews are there and several are open 24 hours or really late at night which I usually take as a good sign.

[Kabul Guy]

With at least three universities in a relatively small area it has to be a relatively untapped gold mine despite the warnings about Western mongers that the girls receive from their peers and elders and the fact it's only got one or two watering holes. I will likely retire there in 2022. The area west of Duma, Valencia and beyond, has gorgeous geography and expat communities. Cheers.

Some see the warnings, others see that as an advisement that western guys will give them money for fucking.

Dumaguete is high in my list of places I want to stop in for a month or two.

[D Cups]

Thanks. I was wondering why the sudden influx of Dumagirls on Cupid and PL.

Enjoy. G.

With at least three universities in a relatively small area it has to be a relatively untapped gold mine despite the warnings about Western mongers that the girls receive from their peers and elders and the fact it's only got one or two watering holes. I will likely retire there in 2022. The area west of Duma, Valencia and beyond, has gorgeous geography and expat communities. Cheers.