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02-27-20 22:52 #6060
Posts: 211850 Shades of Brown
I have met several Flips who can be considered nutters. They're basically masters at manipulation and know how to act around someone in order to stay undetected. Flips see people as either potential targets, rivals, or predators. That's it. Just three categories. They don't see long-term connections, intimacy or growth in any of their relationships. They'll stay as long as they're getting what they want or until the bank account has been drained. Nothing is off limits and they nearly always have a justification, excuse, or reason for doing what they do.
With the case of Flips, the added motivation is seeking access to unearned fortune in the west and climbing the social ladder. They have seen how easy it is in "Pretty Woman" and have fantasied about the life of the lead character in "50 Shades of Grey". Every Flip I know thinks the latter movie is real and that's how couples are in the west. Even so called educated LBFMs are mesmerized by that trilogy. They are so childish and easily influenced.
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02-06-20 06:53 #6059
Posts: 487Originally Posted by CenTexCrash [View Original Post]
Time to get a newbie and tell yourself to believe you are the first foreigner.
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02-05-20 06:10 #6058
Posts: 16090Originally Posted by CenTexCrash [View Original Post]
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02-05-20 05:32 #6057
Posts: 581Why'all are probably tired of seeing me on the PH forum.
Had my first Filipina xp in Sept 2018, wrote trip report.
(http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...nila&p=2295188#post2295188).
Got this LA Cafe 2nd floor girl's WhatsApp info, she sends sweet nothings weekly.
April 2019 I met up with her again, she invited me to the same hotel next door to LA Cafe. I came more prepared with my own condoms (for once) but this same girl was kind of mechanical, and admitted she packed a few pounds since then. I didn't want to say anything but she was not as fun the first time around.
If I'm a once a year visitor and if I happen to be in LA Cafe and I might have not bothered letting her know I was in Manila ahead of time, and she recognizes me in the LAC crowd, will that be a good thing or a very very very bad thing?
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11-13-19 12:45 #6056
Posts: 3280Originally Posted by SteveNash [View Original Post]
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11-13-19 10:59 #6055
Posts: 2118Originally Posted by SteveNash [View Original Post]
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11-09-19 06:19 #6054
Posts: 173Originally Posted by EngineDriver [View Original Post]
About the expenses, the first 2 years they must work as live-in, so they don't pay for rent and food since they are living with their employer.
After they get their PR, usually around 3 years (2 years before they can apply and 1 year for the application process), they can be live-out and work anywhere.
I have dated many filipina caregivers with PR (some without PR) what they usually do when they get their PR is they will find an apartment and either rent it with friends to save money, or they rent it by themselves, most filipinas I dated they live with roommates and sometimes parents, very few will rent it by themselves.
Some of them will stay with their employer as live-in and only rent as weekender, most will change of career, study nursing or whatever career they had back home, they get student loans and work part-time as a cashier or cleaning offices / houses, usually the young filipinas do this.
I had seen afew working with minimal wages and then later on deciding to go back as caregivers because they will get pay more, a caregiver with PR gets pay more, they can easily get pay $600 to $800 a week depending of their employer, minimal wage in other jobs is only $500 a week after taxes. Plus you add the benefits caregivers get like employer paying taxes, Christmas bonus that can be from $1000 to $5000, that's how much a rich employer will give to a filipina they like alot, they also get birthday gifts, metropass, if you have license they pay you more for driving their kids everywhere.
Caregiver jobs are very popular for filipinas here, I would say that 80 to 90% of filipinas that come to Canada by themselves came as a caregiver as some point in their lives. Is so easy to become a resident here for a filipina caregiver. But you need to apply from an overseas country, if you apply from Philippines it will take you at least 4 years like my ex, but if you apply from overseas it will take you around 1 year only. Most of my exes caregivers had worked in Hong Kong, Dubai, Singapore, Taiwan and even Europe before coming here.
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11-07-19 08:34 #6053
Posts: 989Originally Posted by PilotPaul [View Original Post]
Several have accused me of doing what PilotPaul is actually doing, claiming I was older to tap into the inherent reverence for age here in the Philippines. (They didn't put it that way but that was the thinking.).
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11-07-19 06:41 #6052
Posts: 487Originally Posted by Cbea20 [View Original Post]
I wonder if you are dating my ex. She is such a naughty student.
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11-06-19 15:52 #6051
Posts: 6782Originally Posted by Cbea20 [View Original Post]
As for your lady begging for another chance. . give her one but set the rules an say any more rubbish like that no more. And suspend her for 1 month then tell her she has to be very good and give her a 'punishment' - I can come and show you ideas of you like LOL. Am full of good ideas LOL.
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11-06-19 14:59 #6050
Posts: 232Multiple Fbk profiles
To clarify, when I say that the filipina drops one profile and starts another, I don't mean that she officially deactivates the first one. No, that is too complicated when working from a cell phone. So it stays active, whether or not she continues to use it. Because I live here and enjoy ongoing relationships, I am more sensitive to cheating than the average tourist. I recently dropped an otherwise perfectly good college student GF when I discovered I was blocked from one of her profiles. The which profile showed her posing sexily on trips not with me. (She is literally begging for a second chance, having deleted the questionable trips. I have not decided how to proceed--maybe a month or two suspension. I am so "estricto".
Originally Posted by TommySuharto [View Original Post]
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11-06-19 05:19 #6049
Posts: 1191Originally Posted by TommySuharto [View Original Post]
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11-06-19 04:07 #6048
Posts: 140Originally Posted by Cbea20 [View Original Post]
Switching the "Face recognition" setting in FB, would that work? - "Do you want Facebook to be able to recognize you in photos and videos?" setting it to no, that's maybe be too simple right? It 'll probably still check for duplicate accounts, isn't it? How about a photo that's been taken from the side, or would that facial recognition still pick up the shape and size of our noses and go. Yep, found you.
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11-05-19 23:08 #6047
Posts: 487Originally Posted by Dg8787 [View Original Post]
Of course many mongers are liars and cheaters. I've certainly been called that by a few pinay. I don't make a monger profile to mislead the Filipina. I do it as a security precaution so that I can disassociate whatever misadventure I have in Leyta, Pampanga or wherever.
Apart from my name, pic and birthdae it's no lie.
BTW, I also lie about my age and tell the Filipina I am ten years older than actual. That plays with some deep psychology.
PP.
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11-05-19 16:09 #6046
Posts: 3094Originally Posted by Goferring [View Original Post]