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[Mr Enternational]

She wants me to knock her up and have a child. I think its OK, I paid for her fake tits 15 years ago. Any advice? I know I would pay child support and she would want to stay in Colombia to be with her family, but that is OK with me because we only get along for about a week and then she doesn't want to be with me and vice versa.

If you paid for tits 15 years ago, it would stand to reason that this lady is at least 35 and you are probably older. You failed to mention WHY she wants to have a child. Does she have any other children? Does she have a stable income and a stable household? Or is she just sitting in the house bored and wants a new toy? If something happened to you, would she be able to care for the child?

Every chick that I fuck (pro and nonpro alike) I make them say they they love me and want my baby (only because I know that I can't have any.) I was just talking to a chick in Bogota 1 hour ago and she said it. Here in Thailand, ex-hooker that spent the night last night, she said it. I know it is an ego boost or whatever, but there is no way I would seriously think about having a kid with a woman unless I was going to be in the kid's life on a daily basis and had a good relationship with the mother, both of which you already said would not happen in your case. I would also have to know that she was a smart, self-supporting woman and not a fucking idiot.

A friend of mine is a Phd and in the early 2000's she would always beg me to have a kid with her and I would not have to worry about taking care of it. That kind of woman, yes, I would do it for. But I would still insist on being in my child's life and caring for it. She also wanted me to be her boyfriend and said she would pay my child support for the daughter that I already have (who is now an adult of 23 years old). I told her no thanks. I did not want those type of strings. I was satisfied to be on a friends with benefits basis. To this day she still does not have kids.

I argue with these women all the time saying it does not matter if the man is there. Easy for you to fucking say. If you had a father and a whole other side of the family would you not want them in your life? All you are doing is cheating the damn kid, especially when you can't half take care of them on your own. They are like my kid is happy. It is a fucking kid; it does not know what is good for them or how to raise itself. If you fed him hotdogs everyday since birth he would be happy with that too, because that is all he knows. That does not make it a good idea or smart thing to do. Hell, he would eat pizza for breakfast, lunch, and dinner unless you stopped him. You are already starting off as a sorry ass parent if you believe the child does not need the other parent. This having kids all willy nilly has to stop, but of course it never will. As humans, we serve no other real purpose other than to make more humans.

P.S. If you were just in it to see how the child would look, then they probably have computer programs for that!

[NeilGeorge]

She wants me to knock her up and have a child. I think its OK, I paid for her fake tits 15 years ago. Any advice? I know I would pay child support and she would want to stay in Colombia to be with her family, but that is OK with me because we only get along for about a week and then she doesn't want to be with me and vice versa.

[Fun Luvr]

But I have a question for the other mongers on here that have had this procedure. Did you notice cum volume go down a lot? ... I'm also wondering if it's the reason why my testosterone levels are low.

I had it done more than 30 years ago. I didn't notice a difference in the volume, but noticed a slight decrease in desire for sex. When I had it done, the cost was $400, and my insurance paid the whole thing. I guess they figured that was cheaper than paying for a pregnancy.

[JjBee62]

No idea. Since I have been able to skeet up in them and not get anyone pregnant, I have not seen it.

Unless you're overly obsessed with porn, how much doesn't much matter. There probably aren't too many hookers complaining because there isn't enough semen in their hair.

[Mr Enternational]

But I have a question for the other mongers on here that have had this procedure. Did you notice cum volume go down a lot?

No idea. Since I have been able to skeet up in them and not get anyone pregnant, I have not seen it.

[Septimius]

I remember getting it done 20 years ago in the USA.

Cost me $10 with insurance co-pay.

Best $10 I ever spent!

I had it done about 10 years ago for free with my insurance and I have no regrets. But I have a question for the other mongers on here that have had this procedure. Did you notice cum volume go down a lot? I tried that stack that was recommended a few months ago by a few mongers that involved Zinc, Maca, and a whole bunch of other supplements. Long story short I am still taking them with absolutely zero results. Then I started thinking that maybe it has to do with my vasectomy. If the supps only deal with helping with sperm production then it's no good for guys like us. I'm also wondering if it's the reason why my testosterone levels are low.

[Balboa]

I have been with enough now to make a difference, and I would like the input of others.

Vennies are more passionate in bed. Colombians are more compassionate, sweet lovers.

Vennies can be narcissistic and uncaring. Colombians are more caring.

This one is different but IMO Vennies are irrational with money (either too greedy or do not want to talk money at all). Colombians are more though not totally rational.

Vennies are better educated (due to free tuition). Colombians are more likely to work in their fields of study.

Vennies are more likely to go bareback than Colombians. Both are equally adept at giving head, but neither are as good as Brazilians.

Vennies are more likely to be hot. Colombians are more likely to be cute.

Because of the availability of credit, Colombians are likely to be in debt. Vennies usually have none.

Vennies are more likely to smoke, drink, and do drugs than Colombians.

Colombians make better girlfriends. Vennies are better fucks.

Haha great generalization!

Man I miss my days in Caracas!

Venezuela was sooooo good back in the day!

[Balboa]

Elvis 2008 why do you not just man up and get your nuts cut? Your amount of cum drop 3-5% so less mess. I believe around $800 in the USA so in another country probably $300.15 minutes operation. Simple, fast, cheap. Heal in a few days with minimal pain. One of the cheapest best things I have ever done. Peace of mind!

I remember getting it done 20 years ago in the USA.

Cost me $10 with insurance co-pay.

Best $10 I ever spent!

[LoveItHere69]

Elvis 2008 why do you not just man up and get your nuts cut? Your amount of cum drop 3-5% so less mess. I believe around $800 in the USA so in another country probably $300.15 minutes operation. Simple, fast, cheap. Heal in a few days with minimal pain. One of the cheapest best things I have ever done. Peace of mind!

[Dcrist0527]

I agree with some of what you said, but there are caveats. You seriously believe that if you willfully skeet inside a woman and her choice is to have the baby, then you should just be able to go about scott free? Accidents happen, but damn. That is where being a responsible adult comes in to play.

Things like this should be discussed before laying down with someone, but we know that does not happen. So after it happens you are left scrambling, instead of already having an agreement in place should the chick get pregnant. We want to fuck first and ask questions later. In addition, in every country it is not their right to choose whether or not to have the child.

There is also what if she does not want to have the kid but you do, as was the case of me and my daughter's mom. Should the woman then be forced to have the kid?

I'm on the same page. Yes, somewhere along the way we put the entire decision in the woman's court. Whether a man wants a child, or not, is irrelevant. So to a point, I agree with Elvis. It is a two-way street. As Mr E says, ideally, there is discussion prior to. Obviously, that doesn't occur in our negotiations. But I do think there should be a basic understanding, as others have mentioned, about birth control if you are going bb. Now if a girl is lying, hey, she's on her own. And good luck trying to chase down a gringo a continent away. My conscience would be mostly clear. If no discussion ever occurs, then it is a shared responsibility, IMO. Same would go for an accident. What makes it more difficult is in most cases, you're probably not her only man that month. What a mess. I often regret using condoms for FS but conversations like these remind me why I do.

[Mr Enternational]

I respect your opinion Dcrist. Here is mine. As long as women have the right to choose whether or not to have a child, a man not married to that woman should have the choice on whether he supports the child or not. By making support based on being a sperm donor versus a conscious choice made by a man, the courts of the Western world have demeaned and invalidated the value of marriage IMO. I think pro-choice is a two way street.

I agree with some of what you said, but there are caveats. You seriously believe that if you willfully skeet inside a woman and her choice is to have the baby, then you should just be able to go about scott free? Accidents happen, but damn. That is where being a responsible adult comes in to play.

Things like this should be discussed before laying down with someone, but we know that does not happen. So after it happens you are left scrambling, instead of already having an agreement in place should the chick get pregnant. We want to fuck first and ask questions later. In addition, in every country it is not their right to choose whether or not to have the child.

There is also what if she does not want to have the kid but you do, as was the case of me and my daughter's mom. Should the woman then be forced to have the kid?

[BodyAnybody]

I have been with enough now to make a difference, and I would like the input of others.

Vennies are more passionate in bed. Colombians are more compassionate, sweet lovers.

Vennies can be narcissistic and uncaring. Colombians are more caring.

This one is different but IMO Vennies are irrational with money (either too greedy or do not want to talk money at all). Colombians are more though not totally rational.

Vennies are better educated (due to free tuition). Colombians are more likely to work in their fields of study.

Vennies are more likely to go bareback than Colombians. Both are equally adept at giving head, but neither are as good as Brazilians.

Vennies are more likely to be hot. Colombians are more likely to be cute.

Because of the availability of credit, Colombians are likely to be in debt. Vennies usually have none.

Vennies are more likely to smoke, drink, and do drugs than Colombians.

Colombians make better girlfriends. Vennies are better fucks.

Both sound fun, but if all this is more or less true, I think I'd prefer to shack up with a Colombiana for a week.

[Elvis 2008]

I have been with enough now to make a difference, and I would like the input of others.

Vennies are more passionate in bed. Colombians are more compassionate, sweet lovers.

Vennies can be narcissistic and uncaring. Colombians are more caring.

This one is different but IMO Vennies are irrational with money (either too greedy or do not want to talk money at all). Colombians are more though not totally rational.

Vennies are better educated (due to free tuition). Colombians are more likely to work in their fields of study.

Vennies are more likely to go bareback than Colombians. Both are equally adept at giving head, but neither are as good as Brazilians.

Vennies are more likely to be hot. Colombians are more likely to be cute.

Because of the availability of credit, Colombians are likely to be in debt. Vennies usually have none.

Vennies are more likely to smoke, drink, and do drugs than Colombians.

Colombians make better girlfriends. Vennies are better fucks.

[Elvis 2008]

I'm going to say this and do not mean it to be judgmental. But if you BBFS, you inherently accept that risk. I'm not talking about the girls who trick men about being on the pill. But even that is a gray area. But talking about fake names, abandoning a girl in the country just doesn't feel right at all. I am really not trying to get on a high horse here. But I don't find a man shirking his responsibility acceptable. No offense meant here at all. I truly am not judging.

I respect your opinion Dcrist. Here is mine. As long as women have the right to choose whether or not to have a child, a man not married to that woman should have the choice on whether he supports the child or not. By making support based on being a sperm donor versus a conscious choice made by a man, the courts of the Western world have demeaned and invalidated the value of marriage IMO. I think pro-choice is a two way street.

[John Clayton]

The attacks here are getting to be a bit much. I think we all need to realize people have differing opinions and experiences. Just because they do not match your own opinions or conclusions, that doesn't mean it is wrong...

I was speaking as a (former) medical professional with a fairly long career in public health. Antibiotics are precious to humankind, and their casual, incorrect and indiscriminate use promotes antibiotic resistance.