Stupid shit in Medellin

[JjBee62]

Once again, I never said anything about treating anyone shitty or insulting anyone. So I do not understand why you keep bringing up treating people bad. And I keep relationships on good terms even after they have ended, not just until it is time to end as you have advised. I have an ex-wife, but you do not see me talking bad about her the way many on ISG do. I had a great wife and it was my decision to break up ON GOOD TERMS. I never have broken up with anyone on bad terms.

And any hooker that I have fucked anywhere or ex-girlfriend I can run into them in the middle of the street while I am with another chick and properly greet them and introduce the two people, while most are busy trying to duck and dodge. As a matter of fact, today I took my Russian chick to the beauty supply store. I stayed outside looking at shows on my tablet while she was in getting what she had to get. A Thai chick that I used to mess with that works at a salon rolled up. She asked me what I was doing there and I told her. We talked for a few minutes and when my Russian chick came out I introduced them. So I do not know why you are stating there is some concept that I should understand.

I never said anything about making bad terms in a person's relationship. Almost everyday when I am out riding my bicycle I see an ex-girlfriend out walking exercising with her friends. I always have a quick talk with her. And if she sees me, but I do not see her, then she sends me a message saying that she saw me and I ask well why didn't you say anything to me. There is no bad blood here with anyone sir. I am a great fucking guy and women know this!.

The entire issue revolves around (and I think this is the fourth time I've stated this) "Simp. " Can you focus on that for a second?

Current popular usage of "Simp" as (I repeat again) Balboa showed, is that if you treat women nicely you are being a "Simp. " Just 3 or 4 months ago we had a guy here, in the Medellin thread, using that line and every reference to women was "bitches" or worse. Every post was complaining about guys not treating women like shit.

If you Google INCEL, "Involuntarily Celibate" you will find loads of this garbage. The reason they can't get laid is because guys like you and I and most of the guys on here, treat women nicely. At least that's their reasoning. We're all "simps" and ruining their non-existent sex life because we've convinced women they don't have to put up with being treated like shit.

That's "Simping. " Simping isn't letting a hooker change the game plan on you. It isn't what your roommate did in college. It's what you originally called "pure simp talk" when I explained how Blakman could get the result he wanted. And your usage at that point was the INCEL usage. I suggested making the girl happy, and making sure she felt special. Your response may as well have been written by INCEL:

Fuck that noise. Pure simp talk. You are the king. Make that broad give you a back massage while you are fucking the other chick. And when she gets tired she can feed y'all grapes in between.

Make up your mind. I'm sure you're a great guy and I'm sure you treat women right. However, every now and then you post something that doesn't appear to be treating women right. That was one of those moments.

Fuck that noise. Pure simp talk. You are the king. Make that broad give you a back massage while you are fucking the other chick. And when she gets tired she can feed y'all grapes in between.

You tell me. If one of your girlfriends agrees to let you bring another girl over, agrees to sit there in the room and watch you fuck this other girl, tells you she is not going to participate at all, are you going to "make that broad give you a back massage while you are fucking the other chick?" Because if you're the guy that treats women right, then you're not doing that. And if you're doing that you're not only not treating women right, you're starting a breakup at a really bad time, in a really bad way.

[Mr Enternational]

Here's a concept you should understand. If you are in any type of relationship, and I'll elaborate on that, it's in your best interest to keep the relationship on good terms, until it's time to end it.

Any type of relationship. If there's a restaurant you regularly go to, do you insult the hostess and complain to the waitress over nothing? Or do you smile, greet them and enjoy your meals? I've got a favorite little diner. When I walk in, the host shakes my hand, the manager and my favorite waitress both come over and give me a hug. I never have reason to complain about the food, because the waitress won't bring it to my table unless it's right.

Once again, I never said anything about treating anyone shitty or insulting anyone. So I do not understand why you keep bringing up treating people bad. And I keep relationships on good terms even after they have ended, not just until it is time to end as you have advised. I have an ex-wife, but you do not see me talking bad about her the way many on ISG do. I had a great wife and it was my decision to break up ON GOOD TERMS. I never have broken up with anyone on bad terms.

And any hooker that I have fucked anywhere or ex-girlfriend I can run into them in the middle of the street while I am with another chick and properly greet them and introduce the two people, while most are busy trying to duck and dodge. As a matter of fact, today I took my Russian chick to the beauty supply store. I stayed outside looking at shows on my tablet while she was in getting what she had to get. A Thai chick that I used to mess with that works at a salon rolled up. She asked me what I was doing there and I told her. We talked for a few minutes and when my Russian chick came out I introduced them. So I do not know why you are stating there is some concept that I should understand.

I never said anything about making bad terms in a person's relationship. Almost everyday when I am out riding my bicycle I see an ex-girlfriend out walking exercising with her friends. I always have a quick talk with her. And if she sees me, but I do not see her, then she sends me a message saying that she saw me and I ask well why didn't you say anything to me. There is no bad blood here with anyone sir. I am a great fucking guy and women know this!

Why is the concept of letting everyone do their own thing so hard for you to grasp?

What?! How the fuck can I make someone do something? You said what you thought he should do the same way I said what I thought he should do. So how is it that you have the concept of letting everyone do their own thing but you are saying I do not? Either we both do or we both don't seeing as we did the same thing which was give advice. We did the same thing, but we did not do the same thing. You are blowing my mind with that Mister Spacely Jedi shit.

[JjBee62]

Seems like you are confusing it. You can ask them anything. That does not mean you are simping. And nobody is saying to treat anyone like shit. The simping comes in when you are catering to them.

As you were saying in Blakman's 3 some example do this and that so SHE does not feel such and such and so she feels this instead. Make sure SHE is happy. That is simping. Now if it was a regular woman then I am in agreement; you would probably do all of that. You want it to be mutually beneficial. But when you are paying your money, you should be the star of the show. You are not paying her so that you can treat her like Queen Elizabeth. You are paying so that you will be served. When I go into a restaurant to be served and I want steak then I am going to get steak. I am not going to put any consideration on whether the waiter likes to eat chicken or fish over steak.

Several times hookers have come over and said I don't like to do this or that. I tell them they are in the wrong business then; you should have told me that before you came and you never would have been invited. I am the customer. I am paying you. You are not paying me.

Now if I say well okay, how would you like to fuck after she has shitted all over how I wanted to do it, then that is simping. But if I am tired of fucking the way that I like to and now want to take suggestions from her on how we can fuck, that would not be simping..

Actually there have been a few here, in the not too distant past, who have said that everyone needs to treat the women like shit and specifically used the "Stop Simping" tag. How you used that tag, which you probably didn't use 30 years ago, is not how it is used today.

Your example, if the guy didn't want to pull train, he shouldn't have been in line. But, to his credit, he turned a profit on the deal. He got the girl doing what he wanted and had you and a bunch of other guys licking his hand to get his handouts. So who was really the simp?

Here's a concept you should understand. If you are in any type of relationship, and I'll elaborate on that, it's in your best interest to keep the relationship on good terms, until it's time to end it.

Any type of relationship. If there's a restaurant you regularly go to, do you insult the hostess and complain to the waitress over nothing? Or do you smile, greet them and enjoy your meals? I've got a favorite little diner. When I walk in, the host shakes my hand, the manager and my favorite waitress both come over and give me a hug. I never have reason to complain about the food, because the waitress won't bring it to my table unless it's right.

Am I a simp because I smile and chat with those people? I'm paying them for food, not conversation. Should I just shut up unless I've got something to complain about? Maybe that makes a better meal for you, but I prefer having a hot Mexican MILF, or her hotter 20 year old daughter, chatting and joking with me, than have someone frowning at me every time I come in.

Now back to Blakman and his 8. He had agreed to keep her there for an extended stay, at a very low price. He got her to tentatively agree to watch him fuck other girls. Even though he was paying her, he was in a relationship with her. He had agreed to have her there for 7 days. It doesn't matter if he was paying her 300 k or $3,000. What mattered, it was for 7 days. Are you still following along?

There are several different options in his situation. He could just go with the drill sergeant routine. When he says jump, she better jump. From his earlier reports, that clearly wasn't going to work, which would have left him either booting her, or leaving her in control.

Another choice would be to forgo any other girls, but that's not what he wanted. That once again puts her on control.

To get what he wanted, which he didn't get, required addressing her desires along with his own. He could have tried your suggestion and it would have failed. Not only would it have failed, it would have left him with the decision to either deal with a pissed off chica, or to boot a pissed off chica. It also would have probably screwed up his session with the other girl.

So, in your mind it's better for him to pay two girls, and not get what he wants from either of them (or not pay them because he's not getting what he wants) than it is to treat one girl nice and get what he wants from both girls?

Call me a simp. Given the choice between arguing with 2 girls and fucking 2 girls, hand me the condoms.

You're tried to tell him what to do without using the information he gave, information which made your suggestion unworkable.

1. His Spanish is weak. Trying to Google translate "get over here and rub my back" while fucking isn't going to work out, especially if the girl you want to rub your back is already in a bad mood.

2. The girl gave him pushback at every turn. She wasn't a meek little "si papi" kind of girl. Giving orders to a pissed off chica, who already doesn't take orders isn't the way to get what you want.

As I've said before, I don't care for transactional sex. I don't want to have a notarized list of the things agreed upon. I don't want to spend half my time arguing whether or not what she did meets the requirements of what I asked for. I don't want to constantly put myself in situations where I have to argue to get what I want.

I want honeymoon sex. I want a girl who can't get enough of me. I want a girl who spontaneously does what I want. I want to be able to go from mish to cowgirl to standing without a discussion over whether or not she likes each position. I want a BBBJ without a discussion.

All of the things I want, I usually get. I don't have to pay extra, I don't have to remind the girl of any agreement and I don't have to tell the girl she picked the wrong profession. All I have to do is smile, drop a few compliments and make sure she's getting as much out of the sex as I am.

Your way works for you, or more accurately, your ways work for you, which ranges between pure alpha male and 50% simp, based on your reports. Everyone else's ways work for them. My way works for me. The way that you decide anyone else should use on any particular day isn't likely to work. You don't know them, you don't know the girl, so how do you know how they should handle each situation? Even when they provide you with the information, you don't use it, yet somehow your way is the right way?

Why is the concept of letting everyone do their own thing so hard for you to grasp?

[Mr Enternational]

But Simping, as Balboa has shown is completely different. If you tell a woman she's beautiful, that's considered being a simp. If you ask her how she feels, or what she likes, you're being a simp. If you treat her like anything other than, as we used to say, "a life support system for a pussy", you're being a simp. According to the people who routinely use "stop the simping", if you're not treating women like shit you're a simp.

Seems like you are confusing it. You can ask them anything. That does not mean you are simping. And nobody is saying to treat anyone like shit. The simping comes in when you are catering to them.

As you were saying in Blakman's 3 some example do this and that so SHE does not feel such and such and so she feels this instead. Make sure SHE is happy. That is simping. Now if it was a regular woman then I am in agreement; you would probably do all of that. You want it to be mutually beneficial. But when you are paying your money, you should be the star of the show. You are not paying her so that you can treat her like Queen Elizabeth. You are paying so that you will be served. When I go into a restaurant to be served and I want steak then I am going to get steak. I am not going to put any consideration on whether the waiter likes to eat chicken or fish over steak.

Several times hookers have come over and said I don't like to do this or that. I tell them they are in the wrong business then; you should have told me that before you came and you never would have been invited. I am the customer. I am paying you. You are not paying me.

Now if I say well okay, how would you like to fuck after she has shitted all over how I wanted to do it, then that is simping. But if I am tired of fucking the way that I like to and now want to take suggestions from her on how we can fuck, that would not be simping.

P. S. When I was in college we were running a train on this Spelman freak chick. There were like 15 guys in line. This chick was engaged to some guy in the Army but she just could not get enough dick. So it comes one of my roommates' turn and he goes in and does some simp shit telling her how she should not be doing this and she should think better of herself. What the fuck dude? Free pussy comes to a screeching halt. But now he turns it into some pimp shit for himself, because from then on she would not fuck any other guy unless he gave her the okay. So now when she comes over to see him, we have to kiss his ass if we want to have any hope of fucking her that day. That bastard is a colonel in the US Air Force now and we all still talk about that simp shit whenever we get together. Don't know whatever happened to her.

[Paulie97]

It's also amazing to hear the "hurry up and finish" grunts and fake moans change to "mi amor, mi amor."

The latter quotation is typically plan A, and if it fails, the former is plan b. But don't let me fuck with your "fantasies," just isn't kind in a monger forum.

[JjBee62]

I think you are on to something with that one!

Now you see what I meant. If not, I meant you are paying your money; do not let the chick that you are paying it to control the shots. (Unless you are paying your money to have her control the shots.) It is your way or the highway. You don't walk into McDonalds and slap your money on the counter for a number 3, and walk out happy when they put a number 5 in the bag or when they tell you to come behind the counter and make it yourself. No need to cater to women (be a simp) when you are already paying them. You are supposed to be the one being catered to.

You're mixing 2 separate issues Mr. E.

The one you're talking about is obvious. What you are paying for is what you should be getting. If I've called up a 5'3" 90# blond and a 160# linebacker shows up, she's not getting in the door, or getting paid. If I tell her 3 hours and she wants to go after 45 minutes, it's not happening. All good and normal stuff.

But Simping, as Balboa has shown is completely different. If you tell a woman she's beautiful, that's considered being a simp. If you ask her how she feels, or what she likes, you're being a simp. If you treat her like anything other than, as we used to say, "a life support system for a pussy", you're being a simp. According to the people who routinely use "stop the simping", if you're not treating women like shit you're a simp.

I will always disagree with that belief. I will always speak out against that belief. If that's how someone wants to go through life, that's their business and their problem. If someone wants to tell anyone else they need to adopt that behavior, they can fuck off and die.

[Mr Enternational]

Sure beats posts about ATM fees, etc..

I think you are on to something with that one!

I'll admit it. I had to look up what that meant, LOL.

Now you see what I meant. If not, I meant you are paying your money; do not let the chick that you are paying it to control the shots. (Unless you are paying your money to have her control the shots.) It is your way or the highway. You don't walk into McDonalds and slap your money on the counter for a number 3, and walk out happy when they put a number 5 in the bag or when they tell you to come behind the counter and make it yourself. No need to cater to women (be a simp) when you are already paying them. You are supposed to be the one being catered to.

[MongerHunger]

Did you forget how to read? I do offer tutoring sessions, but my rates are based on how clueless the student is. That moves me way out of your price range. Maybe someone can go back and read it for you.

My complaint was about your "Stop simping" picture. I thought I was quite clear on that, but that reading problem seems to have tripped you up. I'll explain it again, and hopefully whoever reads it to you will help with the difficult parts.

It's a novela every day in every thread where there's any activity. Every person, with every report, introduces a bit of fantasy. Even when they try to keep to the facts, they insert only their perspective and make assumptions about anyone else involved. "She's always very excited when I come to town" suggests the girl is looking forward to the sex rather than the money. "She came 6 times" doesn't admit the possibility that 1 or all were faked. Fantasy.

To waste time complaining that a thread is a novela makes as much sense as complaining that cheese is a dairy product.

However, "stop simping" is another story. That's a declaration someone else is fucking in the wrong way. It's a statement that you are the authority on fucking hookers that everyone needs to consult. It's rather pathetic, whiny bullshit.

You took this whole thing out of context. All I did is write less than a paragraph and you basically attacked me. My definition of Simping is not yours and frankly I don't know where you even come up with this stuff so your whole argument is invalid and worthless. That is the reason we are having this stupid conversation. You went on the attack over a simple paragraph and picture that you misinterpreted and continued even after I explained that is not what I meant. So you see, you were the problem in this issue, not me. This is a waste of time over some BS man. So please leave me alone and move on to something else.

[JjBee62]

I'll admit it.

I had to look up what that meant, LOL.

It's the battle cry of INCEL, Involuntarily Celibate, the whining twats who keep going on shooting sprees because they can't figure out how to get laid. They alternate between blaming their inability to find someone to have sex with on women who don't understand they're supposed to submit to any spineless twit who stares at them while rubbing his crotch, and on men who refuse to treat women like shit.

So they came up with "Stop simping. " They figure they only have 2 options to get laid. They can either crawl up a chicken's ass and wait, or get all men to be as pathetic as they are.

I'm just curious how they infiltrated the mongering world. If you've figured out how to pay for sex, you've figured out how to end the "involuntary celibacy. " It's become a simple business transaction.

Personally, I prefer something more than purely transactional encounters. It's amazing to watch a cynical puta melt into a giddy schoolgirl with just a few simple compliments. It's also amazing to hear the "hurry up and finish" grunts and fake moans change to "mi amor, mi amor."

[Balboa]

It's ridiculous and some of you tune in everyday for the next episode.

I'll admit it.

I had to look up what that meant, LOL.

[Balboa]

So you interpret me saying that Medellin thread is like a novela as me whining about who is fucking who and what people do with their money?

Hey guys get a load of this crock of shit. He got all that from the very few words I posted that had nothing to do what this blabbermouth is talking about.

I won't waste my time on your worthlessness anymore but before I go I will say this again so you can hear me, "The Medellin thread is like a Novela". You got that?

Apparently you're starring in your own drama show right here on this thread. It's your show. Good day Sir!

Well really though, there's really not much going on, anywhere, so the drama is kinda fun and funny at times.

And I normally hate soap operas! LOL.

I just scan the posts and laugh out loud sometimes, shake my head, etc, whatever.

Or I just skip over them, which is the beauty of the site!

Sure beats posts about ATM fees, etc.

JB really has posted some invaluable insights into Medellin.

The block function works well too, for guys you may deem unworthy, LOL.

Cheers.

[JjBee62]

So you interpret me saying that Medellin thread is like a novela as me whining about who is fucking who and what people do with their money?

Hey guys get a load of this crock of shit. He got all that from the very few words I posted that had nothing to do what this blabbermouth is talking about.

I won't waste my time on your worthlessness anymore but before I go I will say this again so you can hear me, "The Medellin thread is like a Novela". You got that?

Apparently you're starring in your own drama show right here on this thread. It's your show. Good day Sir!

Did you forget how to read? I do offer tutoring sessions, but my rates are based on how clueless the student is. That moves me way out of your price range. Maybe someone can go back and read it for you.

My complaint was about your "Stop simping" picture. I thought I was quite clear on that, but that reading problem seems to have tripped you up. I'll explain it again, and hopefully whoever reads it to you will help with the difficult parts.

It's a novela every day in every thread where there's any activity. Every person, with every report, introduces a bit of fantasy. Even when they try to keep to the facts, they insert only their perspective and make assumptions about anyone else involved. "She's always very excited when I come to town" suggests the girl is looking forward to the sex rather than the money. "She came 6 times" doesn't admit the possibility that 1 or all were faked. Fantasy.

To waste time complaining that a thread is a novela makes as much sense as complaining that cheese is a dairy product.

However, "stop simping" is another story. That's a declaration someone else is fucking in the wrong way. It's a statement that you are the authority on fucking hookers that everyone needs to consult. It's rather pathetic, whiny bullshit.

But it's much more than that. It's fear. It's the fear that you're not enough of a man. It's a deep-rooted belief that women can see right through you and see the scared little boy inside. You accentuate this when you call for moral support. "Hey guys get a load of this crock of shit" is a sign of fear, weakness. I feel no need to call for backup, or to run and hide from the truth. I happily stand or fall on my own.

So you feel the need to flex. Which is fine. As I've said dozens of times, Your dick, your money, your business. How you deal with the women is all up to you. Afterwards you can write your own novelas. Remember to add 3 inches.

If the guys who are riding out the quarantine in Medellin are paying girls $500 a day to dress them up like a baby and change their diapers, that's their business. If it makes them happy, go for it, just don't post the pictures. If a guy is talking 250 k for 1 hour girls down to 140 k for 17 hours, that's his business. If a guy is paying the fat and 40 woman next door 100 k for a blowjob, while her 18 year old daughter is giving him a pedicure, that's his business. No matter what any of them are doing, it's completely their business.

[MongerHunger]

You say it, but you're just lying to yourself and everyone else. If you "don't give a flip who is fucking who" you wouldn't have bothered posting, whining about the way people are fucking.

When people don't care at all about something, they aren't inclined to write about it. Since you came here with tears in your eyes over the few guys who are currently fucking and posting in Medellin, you care. They apparently aren't doing it the way you want them to do it.

I understand completely what you're talking about. I just think it's laughable.

So you interpret me saying that Medellin thread is like a novela as me whining about who is fucking who and what people do with their money?

Hey guys get a load of this crock of shit. He got all that from the very few words I posted that had nothing to do what this blabbermouth is talking about.

I won't waste my time on your worthlessness anymore but before I go I will say this again so you can hear me, "The Medellin thread is like a Novela". You got that?

Apparently you're starring in your own drama show right here on this thread. It's your show. Good day Sir!

[JjBee62]

I don't give a flip who is fucking who and can care less if you wipe your ass with your money. It is very apparent that you don't even have a clue about what I'm talking about. Stuck your foot in your mouth again I see. Maybe you should keep it there for awhile. Ijs.

You say it, but you're just lying to yourself and everyone else. If you "don't give a flip who is fucking who" you wouldn't have bothered posting, whining about the way people are fucking.

When people don't care at all about something, they aren't inclined to write about it. Since you came here with tears in your eyes over the few guys who are currently fucking and posting in Medellin, you care. They apparently aren't doing it the way you want them to do it.

I understand completely what you're talking about. I just think it's laughable.

[MongerHunger]

Improve it with better content.

Now that's a good idea but in the meantime we are stuck with this channel. I have to admit that some of it is quite entertaining with some useful information sprinkled here and there. I'm taking the good with the bad Mr. Knowledge.