Makati

[Steve Nash]

Concur. Have not been of that thought or habit much before, but Covid has changed things. While I keep a less-than handful of regulars, the dating sites are full of oodles of local girls who want to meet. I have taken several on coffee or lunch dates, just to have a date with a cutie. Have dropped several quickly for immaturity, and kept two others for repeated once-a-week (or so) dates only, no thought of bedding them. They are mature and have been out of the country for work, having a larger-than-normal viewpoint. Good discussions, and it never hurts to be seen with a pretty girl. Friends. Why didn't I think of this before?

S Nash: Stick with the shy girl, consider 1-2 more dates. A coffee at Starbucks or lunch at Jollie or in the mall is worth it if she gives up the panty.

Yes WC I will see her again, she kept texting me and apologizing for saying no to the short hotel, we planned already to meet and go straight to the short hotel next time we meet.

We will meet this Saturday if they don't downgrade Bacolod to ECQ of course, there are rumors that they will change Bacolod to ECQ for 14 days, but I doubt it, I know the last week has seen a high increase of cases in this city, but still the total in 5 months is less than 200 cases, which is very low for a city of almost 1 million people (Metro Bacolod).

[Dg8787]

I agree, even before when I was single and in the Philippines I dated this type of women only, getting to know them before and after sex about their life, past and dreams made the date more satisfying for me, long talks after sex, it wasn't just sex and goodbye, even when I had 2 dates after her on the same day I never kick them out, I kept them for 3-4 hours in my condo.

And YES, when you are here only for 1-2 weeks is not worth it because time is your worst enemy, but if you are here for 1 month or more, eventually gets tiring and sometimes when you are having sex with 2-3 girls a day your friend downstairs won't cooperate and won't get up (LOL) even if the girls are hot and sexy, so getting to know them more, feeling the connection, they will look more attractive to you, physical appearance is not enough for me specially in the second or third date when your friend downstairs is tired.

I never took Viagra pill in my life, but I've been thinking of taking Viagra on this trip, so far in the first 6. 5 months of my trip I didn't need it yet, but now that I will be going to Manila at the end of August and planning to meet 2-3 girls a day, I'm planning to buy it and take it. I'm not young like before (I'm in my late 30's), I can handle having sex everyday, but I don't think I can handle having sex with 2-3 girls in a day like I did before in my younger years.

A question for any viagra user here, should I take 25 grams or 50 grams a day, remember two things: first this is my first time taking Viagra so I don't want any bad sideffects by taking too much on the first time, and two I'm planning to take them only the days that I will have 2-3 dates in a day. I appreciate any advice.

1st time user. Do a few test runs at home before you are in action.

I would try 12.5 MG first. Probably around 10 am in case there are side effects and need to see a doctor or hospital. Gauge how long it takes effect and for how long it lasts. You can self administer performance. If 12.5 is not enough then gradually increase and test. Note any side effects.

Generally at your age you shouldn't need any for performance sake other than to enhance endurance. Please make sure you are in good health and are fully aware of possible side effects, FIRST.

[Steve Nash]

People think I'm crazy but I find these girls good when you actually want a decent night out, a dinner and perhaps some semi intelligent conversation.

Guys who are only flying for a week or two at a time never believe me but for extended periods, where sex is so available and frequent, just plugging a way numerous times a day gets old pretty quick so its good to have some that can break up that monotony.

Of course, with the right training, they can often become the best of both worlds. 😁.

Enjoy. G.

I agree, even before when I was single and in the Philippines I dated this type of women only, getting to know them before and after sex about their life, past and dreams made the date more satisfying for me, long talks after sex, it wasn't just sex and goodbye, even when I had 2 dates after her on the same day I never kick them out, I kept them for 3-4 hours in my condo.

And YES, when you are here only for 1-2 weeks is not worth it because time is your worst enemy, but if you are here for 1 month or more, eventually gets tiring and sometimes when you are having sex with 2-3 girls a day your friend downstairs won't cooperate and won't get up (LOL) even if the girls are hot and sexy, so getting to know them more, feeling the connection, they will look more attractive to you, physical appearance is not enough for me specially in the second or third date when your friend downstairs is tired.

I never took Viagra pill in my life, but I've been thinking of taking Viagra on this trip, so far in the first 6. 5 months of my trip I didn't need it yet, but now that I will be going to Manila at the end of August and planning to meet 2-3 girls a day, I'm planning to buy it and take it. I'm not young like before (I'm in my late 30's), I can handle having sex everyday, but I don't think I can handle having sex with 2-3 girls in a day like I did before in my younger years.

A question for any viagra user here, should I take 25 grams or 50 grams a day, remember two things: first this is my first time taking Viagra so I don't want any bad sideffects by taking too much on the first time, and two I'm planning to take them only the days that I will have 2-3 dates in a day. I appreciate any advice.

[Goferring]

Hi friends.

Dating sites are interesting. But as a monger who stay less than one week in a destination is better to check in a dating site closer to the travel dates. Choose two or three and explore it in the short holidays. You won't get disappointed. If it is a failure can fish from bars or street. In long term relation the level of expectation will be high and outcome ca be low for a short time traveler.

Happy mongering. F* corona.

Regards.

Many, including myself, would suggest that the short time visitor, in search of multiple pump and runs, not even make contact until he is in his hotel in country.

Many girls are stunned to hear from such a guy: "You are in the Philippines. Now. You're in the Philippines, now?" is a common reply.

All girls have heard promises of "I'm coming next month" a million times, knowing he will never arrive. So a guy in SM will always take priority over a guy in Nebraska.

Enjoy. G.

[Thampi62]

Hi friends.

Dating sites are interesting. But as a monger who stay less than one week in a destination is better to check in a dating site closer to the travel dates. Choose two or three and explore it in the short holidays. You won't get disappointed. If it is a failure can fish from bars or street. In long term relation the level of expectation will be high and outcome ca be low for a short time traveler.

Happy mongering. F* corona.

Regards.

[WestCoast1]

People think I'm crazy but I find these girls good when you actually want a decent night out, a dinner and perhaps some semi intelligent conversation.

Guys who are only flying for a week or two at a time never believe me but for extended periods, where sex is so available and frequent, just plugging a way numerous times a day gets old pretty quick so its good to have some that can break up that monotony.

Concur. Have not been of that thought or habit much before, but Covid has changed things. While I keep a less-than handful of regulars, the dating sites are full of oodles of local girls who want to meet. I have taken several on coffee or lunch dates, just to have a date with a cutie. Have dropped several quickly for immaturity, and kept two others for repeated once-a-week (or so) dates only, no thought of bedding them. They are mature and have been out of the country for work, having a larger-than-normal viewpoint. Good discussions, and it never hurts to be seen with a pretty girl. Friends. Why didn't I think of this before?

S Nash: Stick with the shy girl, consider 1-2 more dates. A coffee at Starbucks or lunch at Jollie or in the mall is worth it if she gives up the panty.

[Goferring]

I had a first date today with an engineer, she was shy at first and you can see she had never go out with a foreigner before, just came out from a long serious relationship last year, we kissed for afew seconds and I thought she can be taken to a short hotel in the first date, but she said: "No, I'm just scare and shy right now, on the second date I promise we will go to the short hotel". Good thing we pay half-half during the date (I was willing to pay but she insisted to pay her half), and good thing I only spent 1 hour with her, enough time for me to call one of my friends who was waiting if my date didn't workout so we can go to the short hotel afterwards. At least the day wasn't wasted.

People think I'm crazy but I find these girls good when you actually want a decent night out, a dinner and perhaps some semi intelligent conversation.

Guys who are only flying for a week or two at a time never believe me but for extended periods, where sex is so available and frequent, just plugging a way numerous times a day gets old pretty quick so its good to have some that can break up that monotony.

Of course, with the right training, they can often become the best of both worlds. 😁.

Enjoy. G.

[Steve Nash]

I suspect that there are a lot of girls on the sites who have never chatted with a foreigner before. They simply do not know what to expect. I think some girls have been telling others that just chat then ask for money and all will be sent.

When asked for details or about anything sexual they get offended and confused. Offended because they are a modest people and confused because they honestly thought all they had to do was ask for cash and then head to the western union.

Once the reality sets in and they realize what is happening, they return.

Or maybe they are my type of girls, girls who are actually looking for a relationship or for romance, they play hard to get at first but eventually most of them will give-in, if not on the first date then in the second date.

I had a first date today with an engineer, she was shy at first and you can see she had never go out with a foreigner before, just came out from a long serious relationship last year, we kissed for afew seconds and I thought she can be taken to a short hotel in the first date, but she said: "No, I'm just scare and shy right now, on the second date I promise we will go to the short hotel". Good thing we pay half-half during the date (I was willing to pay but she insisted to pay her half), and good thing I only spent 1 hour with her, enough time for me to call one of my friends who was waiting if my date didn't workout so we can go to the short hotel afterwards. At least the day wasn't wasted.

Anyways when you date filipinas who are looking for serious relationship or romance, you take a risk that it might not workout in the first date so you better keep it a short date, and try to get her on the second date which they more likely give-in, if not I will just say bye to her and never see her again.

I understand now why most people here will rather pay for sex than going to an actually date and fuck them for free, but if you play your cards right, is very gratifying knowing that a girl felt for you and is having sex because she likes you and not because of your money. Plus I notice that if you are a good lover and a good guy who is honest to her after having sex, and you tell her that you have a girlfriend so she won't fall for you, some will like your honesty and be faithful to you, I have afew of them who are waiting faithfully for the next meet-up, I use them as my back-up plan and they know it, I'm not naive either, I know they are chatting with other guys and if that guy is here in the Philippines there is a chance they will meet them and have sex with them, BUT it surprise me that two of them asked my permission if they can meet the other guy (one with a foreigner and the other one with her ex), of course I told them: go ahead meet him, you know I have a girlfriend so is fair for you to meet other guys.

Only in the Philippines!

[Goferring]

I suspect that there are a lot of girls on the sites who have never chatted with a foreigner before. They simply do not know what to expect. I think some girls have been telling others that just chat then ask for money and all will be sent.

When asked for details or about anything sexual they get offended and confused. Offended because they are a modest people and confused because they honestly thought all they had to do was ask for cash and then head to the western union.

Once the reality sets in and they realize what is happening, they return.

That and sheer terror that a random white guy might pop out of thin air and confront them.

I've found the least answered question is drilling down and asking exactly where they are: where in manila; cebu province or cebu city? Etc. Obvously they think I may actually turn up on their doorstep and they would not have the faintest idea what to do.

Keep in mind I'm not a big cammer nor nudes fan so rarely ask about them. Obviously I'll accept what ever is sent but I don't chat just to get them. Normally I spend a lot of time in country so prefer organising meeting in person. Again for some girls that is a positive but for other's its terrifying.

Cheers. G.

[Kabul Guy]

Agreed there. All in, with the higher number of girls online and the frequency of replies form the hotties, I've also had a large uptick in the times I have been blocked. Sometimes after just one comment or request for deatails.

G.

I suspect that there are a lot of girls on the sites who have never chatted with a foreigner before. They simply do not know what to expect. I think some girls have been telling others that just chat then ask for money and all will be sent.

When asked for details or about anything sexual they get offended and confused. Offended because they are a modest people and confused because they honestly thought all they had to do was ask for cash and then head to the western union.

Once the reality sets in and they realize what is happening, they return.

[Turgid]

Had a walk down Burgos today on way out to do shopping. Not great, two of the bars are already closed for good it seems with signs up advertising they are available for lease or business ventures. While I'm not surprised this is happening, and I don't see things getting better any time this year, it's a shame.

No doubt p4p entrepreneurs have been the hardest hit by this pandemic.

[Muttley81]

Had a walk down Burgos today on way out to do shopping. Not great, two of the bars are already closed for good it seems with signs up advertising they are available for lease or business ventures. While I'm not surprised this is happening, and I don't see things getting better any time this year, it's a shame.

[Goferring]

I am looking 'in country' and have a couple of regular coffee shops and places I am visiting to meet filipina. Knowing a little language helps and some Ph geography. Almost any tagalog accent I hear in the streets I will respond to.

May not be so easy in the smaller Australian towns closer to our homes.

PP.

Sounds like your having fun. 😁.

Does your city have produce markets and / or casinos? Both are very popular places for pinas to work at and visit.

Enjoy. G.

[PilotPaul]

What are others doing?

Cheers. G.

I am looking 'in country' and have a couple of regular coffee shops and places I am visiting to meet filipina. Knowing a little language helps and some Ph geography. Almost any tagalog accent I hear in the streets I will respond to.

May not be so easy in the smaller Australian towns closer to our homes.

PP.

[Goferring]

I have even had girls block me then send nude pictures a couple days later.

Go figure.

Agreed there. All in, with the higher number of girls online and the frequency of replies form the hotties, I've also had a large uptick in the times I have been blocked. Sometimes after just one comment or request for deatails.

G.