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09-22-20 00:55 #909
Posts: 1202Originally Posted by WyattEarp [View Original Post]
I used to go to cougar bars, but there's usually young guys that go there too, and the hot cougars always ended up going home with them, so I just quit that scene.
In fact, I just feel like it's pretty easy to hook up with someone in their 50s, but you're right in that we have to know where to find them, especially the ones that take good care of themselves.
Married women are another possibility. Some of them haven't had sex in years. But not sure where your ethics are with this. I had an affair last year with someone whose been married for over 20 years. Her husband doesn't even kiss her. And the last time she had sex was 6 years ago, and that was also an extramarital affair. So, she and I would meet once or even twice per week, and all we did was fuck. We barely even chatted. She never asked for a dime. That was the perfect arrangement, LOL.
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09-22-20 00:21 #908
Posts: 3228Originally Posted by Rextor [View Original Post]
I liked your report as well. I will say that the escort scene was much better than the SB scene preCovid in Mexico City. I have two Mexican SBs now who meet my needs there, and I have given up trying to find better.
Originally Posted by Rextor [View Original Post]
I hope they do not require this test for long. Anyway, with seeking, I would always shoot for the best looking women. With the USA, that meant like a date a month. Precovid, with Mexico City, that was like two dates a week. After Covid, I was going on a date a day.
In Bogota, preCovid it was one a day. In Medellin, it was two per day, so I cannot imagine what it is like now.
I am not going to be able to see all the women I have been chatting up in Colombia which is fucking crazy. I am only going to be able to meet 4 out of the 6 I have been chatting up.
Every country in the world has the best women available, every country but the USA. I guess all that government bailout money has prevented what has been going on in other countries.
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09-21-20 20:31 #907
Posts: 2041Originally Posted by Travv [View Original Post]
I don't mind the competition, but I prefer meeting women when they least expect it. They tend to be impressed with someone who can come up to them in a store or non-club environs.
This reminds me of a time I was shopping years ago. This attractive, older woman put something in my cart by accident (or maybe not by accident. I have very bold, quick reactions and immediately said "What are you doing? Are you coming home with me?" The lady was a gamer and quickly replied "Why? Do you want me to?" We laughed and talked. I got her number and took her out a few times. Always winding up at her nice house. She was a firecracker.
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09-21-20 16:51 #906
Posts: 657Free Cruises on Loveboats.
You might want to check into free cruises on "Loveboats" that cater to women travellers. Talked to one guy who went on a free cruise in exchange for going to social activities and dancing with mature female paying passengers. Apparently there was a shortage of men for these older mature women so the cruise ship was giving out free cruises to get enough men on board to go to social activities with the mature ladies. Be prepared to dance a lot and be pursued on the ship by herds of mature "groupies."
Originally Posted by WyattEarp [View Original Post]
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09-21-20 16:19 #905
Posts: 101Mature Women
Loved your insight. I just find it hard finding mature woman that look half way decent and take care of themselves!
Originally Posted by WyattEarp [View Original Post]
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09-21-20 16:06 #904
Posts: 2041Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
It's not hard to find mature women. It's finding the mature women who take care of themselves.
Strangely, there are a few mature women on Seeking and some of them are seeking some type of remuneration. How much do they pay Seeking for their subscription?
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09-21-20 15:51 #903
Posts: 2041Thanks Guys!
Steve and Midwestern, thanks again for your insights. When screening profiles, it's good to know that other than the obvious non-starters that there are many different types of profiles that can lead to good encounters. I don't consider FWB too forward. I like a girl who notes discretion. Any girl who discusses having fun in her profile is making a good impression.
While I have not stuck my toe in the Sugar Bowl, I started to realize that these young women were not always sure how to stick out from the crowd and make a good impression. Should she come on strong? Should she be chill? She doesn't want to come off like a szlut on her public profile, etc, etc. I think there are plenty of pretty girls who have photos in clothing that show off their figure (bikini or not). They seem genuine and interested in a good time.
I am mostly considering SA for the USA Right now. Although Rextor's great trip makes me think you can plan a fun vacation (if you don't mind some flakes and head games). The expectation as a foreign visitor has to be that the relationship is one or two nights. Yes, if you really dig someone you can meet up on another trip or fly them to meet you somewhere. I am more worried of USA SBs who want more from me, get crazy and indiscreet.
Let me insert here, I like Steve's not too young (too flaky), not too old (thinking about being married) analysis of his experiences. He recommends the 21-24 year old girl who is sexual, adventurous and just wants to have fun. (I hope I got that right, Steve.) Midwestern, I don't rule out divorced women. I have also dated them on occasion. It's nice when they just want to have fun and nothing serious. And yes, Midwestern I like intelligent girls. I couldn't relate to dumb twentysomething women even when I was a twentysomething.
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09-21-20 13:31 #902
Posts: 96Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]
And yeah kids these days are fucking and sucking whomever, and the world is a better place for it.
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09-21-20 12:05 #901
Posts: 1202Small update
I only saw her twice in the past couple of weeks, once for lunch, and another time in a movie room, which is like a KTV room, but it's for watching movies, at $8 an hour. There's a huge bed in the room, and we fooled around for two hours. Then, I didn't see her for a week because I was busy at work and also her Aunt Flo visited. But we text each other every day.
Anyway, I finally saw her today, and we had a hot 2. 5 hour love making session. She said she loved me. I am starting to have real feelings for her too.
I didn't give her a dime today. She even paid for the hotel room ($30).
So far, this saga has lasted for 3. 5 weeks.
Eventually, I will start paying her $1,200 per month, which was our previously agreed arrangement before we got into a huge fight when I told her that I was married. I have to give her money, because I can't have her thinking that this is a real relationship.
My update seems pathetic compared to Rextor's epic report and SA adventures, but I'm a pretty happy camper right now.
Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]
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09-21-20 11:54 #900
Posts: 1202Rextor: Dood, you did EPIC work, very well done
Originally Posted by Rextor [View Original Post]
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09-21-20 11:43 #899
Posts: 1202Originally Posted by BrizLad [View Original Post]
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09-21-20 04:36 #898
Posts: 1Great review. Hoping to get down there in Oct.
Originally Posted by Rextor [View Original Post]
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09-21-20 04:14 #897
Posts: 2968You keep saying or at least implying that I like USA Cops.
I don't.
But you keep saying things that aren't supported by an actual analysis of data.
There have not been tens of thousands of Johns arrested in sting operations.
Some of us actually study arrests and techniques.
It seems that your solution when you dislike USA Cops, or read some propaganda that you disagree with, is to abandon the USA Entirely.
That is certainly what the USA Cops want.
Most of us recognize that non-USA Sex workers provide a better value than those in the USA But most USA Johns earn far more than foreign workers when doing the same jobs in the USA So it has never been clear to me why the same principle would not be true for USA Sex workers.
For those of us who do this in the USA, real risk / reward calculations are important, which is why I object to your generalizations and numbers that aren't supported by an analysis of actual data. And massage parlors were never safe, by the way. Even before the Kraft case, if you were in there when a cop was wearing a wire in another room and gave the signal for the backup to arrive after she said the "wrong thing", the cops went around and opened doors trying to find illegal activities in process.
But Seeking Arrangement is one on one private activity that would seem to fall outside of all known arrests and citations. Those of us into seeing independent escorts who screen, and / or Seeking ladies, keep a close watch to see if L. E. Ever crosses boundaries it never has before. I don't think that will ever happen.
Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
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09-21-20 01:56 #896
Posts: 2794Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]
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09-21-20 01:53 #895
Posts: 1202Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]