Medellin Reports

[Member #4665]

Dude what is up with all the BS? Scheduling a videocall? What is wrong with when you are messaging with a chick just saying turn on your cam? And if she is a hooker then say come over and fuck at 8 pm and I will give you Xamountofpesos. What is with all the hemming and hawing? Again I thought the reason to deal with hookers was to cut through the BS. It seems you are keeping yourself around for it. Come fuck or kick rocks. It is simple.

According to reports there are a lot of dangerous criminal women out there. They want to steal and they want to drug their victims. Scheduling a video call is just part of the safety procedure so I don't become a victim of a criminal. the guard gets their ID or I get there ID because I don't do businesss with strangers nor dates with strangers.

[Member #4665]

For the most part, though, taking the working girl who has accepted what she is to dinner is a no win proposition. You are better off saving your money for sex. The exception is the woman who can give me as much pleasure with her company as with her orifices. I grant you such women are very rare.

Hey this is a great post. It shares personal experience. I found a woman that is great in the bedroom and at keeping me company. I found her on my 1st try lookiing for someone. So I always wondered if all women were so great or if there was just some things special about her. would it be hard to find someone like her again?

[Mr Enternational]

Okay guys this has been the trickiest scammer so far. She even confirmed her identity through video.

A girl on seeking.

1st red flag after agreeing to videoconference she asked for an up front gift so she can have lunch with her girlfriend.

2nd red flag she doesn't show up for the videoconference.

3rd red flag she doesn't reschedule the videoconference and disappears for 4 days after the videoconference.

Dude what is up with all the BS? Scheduling a videocall? What is wrong with when you are messaging with a chick just saying turn on your cam? And if she is a hooker then say come over and fuck at 8 pm and I will give you Xamountofpesos. What is with all the hemming and hawing? Again I thought the reason to deal with hookers was to cut through the BS. It seems you are keeping yourself around for it. Come fuck or kick rocks. It is simple.

[Member #4665]

Let us know how all that works out. If you go that route, I know of some stores in Colombia which sell excellent hand creams. You're going to want some nice soft hands, because your hands will end up being your only date.

Next time I'll try to make it clear what I wrote was a joke and satire. I'll explain: I've read several reports where women here charge men more money because they appear to be or addressed like or talk like foreigners. This appears to be a poor practice by this woman. How would 1 of these women feel she went to San Francisco and some guy asked for her birthplace and then told her well I will only pay you $100 per hour because you were born over there not here.

So if having an accent or baseball Hat Represents having to pay more then the joke was I ask the escort if she has a WebCam. Any girl who escorts and has a WebCam is clearly very rich. so I should only have to pay 25,000 per hour.

bad jokes happen.

[Blakman]

Whats happening on the ground over there.

[Blakman]

But if they show up to your apartment they fucking. I just give them gifts and they happy. If you flatly say no i am not generous til i meet you face to face and they stick around. Then you are making progress

Okay guys this has been the trickiest scammer so far. She even confirmed her identity through video.

A girl on seeking.

1st red flag after agreeing to videoconference she asked for an up front gift so she can have lunch with her girlfriend.

2nd red flag she doesn't show up for the videoconference.

3rd red flag she doesn't reschedule the videoconference and disappears for 4 days after the videoconference.

She says her phone was getting fixed and that's why she was away.

4th red flag all of a sudden she and her girlfriend owe a business partner 200,000 each in a clothing sale. She wants 100,000 upfront through PayPal so she can get rid of this guy who she claims is angry and threatening her.

5th red flag she says she can only come over at 1 AM and since it's a three-hour date it ends at 4 AM. She says she is okay with staying up late. Suuure. Look how sly she is offering to come over at a time when she knows 98% of people would rather be sleeping. I mean what's the hassle can you just come tomorrow at 8 PM so we can all sleep well?

While she is asking for money I mentioned maybe you should do the videoconference this will help us build trust and confidence each other. So she does videoconference and her identity matches the photos. At 12 AM before going to sleep I message her. But of course she doesn't reply even though she said she's available at 12 AM.

6 red flag the next day during the afternoon she asked for 100,000 up front so she can pay the guy and then come over later that afternoon. The lies begin to add up. She claimed the debt would be cleared the previous night and she owed 200,000 not 100,000. And if she owes some much money why doesn't she come over and get her gift? But of course she only wants money up front. After I politely tell her I will only give her presenTS in person, she disappears on Watts app. The app indicates she has received the messages but has not read them.

This girl asked for upfront money and gifts 3 times. Offered to come over at an unreasonable hour. And made up a story with loose ends.

What she doesn't understand is if she were an honest hard-working person that can be friendly around otheRS she would have made the money. Don't let your guard down.

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[Blakman]

Whats my next steps to get on the plane.

Lolol I humbly step back.

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[Questner]

If you're not into Salsa, it might be overrated. If you're into Salsa, it's definitely not. The week of La Feria, you can see 1 or 2 world-famous bands each day / night. I'm talking El Gran Combo, Hermanos Lebron, Grupo Niche, etc. (no Reggaeton, Bachata, Merengue, etc, only Salsa). The only thing I know of where you can approach that type lineup is during a festival in Cuba, like the annual Jazz Festival in Havana.

Anyway, my point is if you're going to be in Colombia for the week between Christmas and NY, the best place to be by far is Cali.

Frankie Lebrón passed away last month. The Feria will be mostly virtual this year. You can watch it on Telepacifico.

[Kafka]

I can live without Bachata.

If you're not into Salsa, it might be overrated. If you're into Salsa, it's definitely not. The week of La Feria, you can see 1 or 2 world-famous bands each day / night. I'm talking El Gran Combo, Hermanos Lebron, Grupo Niche, etc. (no Reggaeton, Bachata, Merengue, etc, only Salsa). The only thing I know of where you can approach that type lineup is during a festival in Cuba, like the annual Jazz Festival in Havana.

Anyway, my point is if you're going to be in Colombia for the week between Christmas and NY, the best place to be by far is Cali.

[Luminus]

Lolol I humbly step back.

Today she said mucho money mucho sex. I said no dinero. Just a few gifts. She said ok then gifts no sex. I said no sex then take care and find someone else who pay you mucho money. So lets see who gives in. But your fired LOL.

[Surfer500]

And after a few minutes they literally stop using the translater LOL. It was like you figure it out lmao..

So you've been with some girls that are frustrated with you because you don't speak much Spanish. Not surprising, and I'm not busting your chops on this, but makes perfect sense, especially if your spending a lot of time with them. Communicating using a translator has its limitations, especially for those who speak very little Spanish and are totally dependent on a translator to communicate, hence it's a pain in the ass and boring for the girls to have to sit there trying to communicate very basic things like are you hungry, do you want something to drink, etc.

I struggle with my Spanish to communicate, and sometimes because of the girl's accents, I have a hard time understanding them. To illustrate imagine speaking with someone from California, New York, New Orleans, and South Carolina. I remember once visiting a factory in Tennessee and somebody came on the public address system and I asked if they were speaking English as the accent was so strong I could barely understand it. Or once when I was in Glasgow in Britain and couldn't understand much either albeit they were speaking English. So my point is that there is quite a variance in the Spanish at least how it is spoken in Colombia. And it's one thing to be able to speak Spanish, and another to understand Spanish. I understand way more than I can say, why and it takes a long time to learn what the words sound like when they are pronounced, especially with all the conjugations and different tenses.

The better your Spanish skills are, the easier it is to navigate things in Colombia, and especially with the Chicas.

[Combo]

You must be able to speak Spanish to succeed in Cali. The 2 popular clinicas are good options.

No different than Medellin or Bogota for Spanish.

IMO the music scene is overrated.

If you're not into Salsa, it might be overrated. If you're into Salsa, it's definitely not. The week of La Feria, you can see 1 or 2 world-famous bands each day / night. I'm talking El Gran Combo, Hermanos Lebron, Grupo Niche, etc. (no Reggaeton, Bachata, Merengue, etc, only Salsa). The only thing I know of where you can approach that type lineup is during a festival in Cuba, like the annual Jazz Festival in Havana.

Anyway, my point is if you're going to be in Colombia for the week between Christmas and NY, the best place to be by far is Cali.

[Golfinho]

In real life dating not (hookers not seeking not escort). I would never pay for a women's dinner during the courting phase. I expect friends pay 50/50. Because if I take her out to dinner three times and then she says she's not interested in me that would put me in an awkward position because I paid three dates for nothing.
Plus I broke my back earning the money at work for those three dinners.
For Free dates and courting I will just take the girl for a walk at the park.

In real life, whoever does the inviting picks up the check. Isn't that a universal?

[Member #4665]

Agree it matters. Just like with economic opportunity and prosperity come the rise of feminism and fewer women out to make us happy. Neither can be stopped. Roll with it.

There are a lot of avenues opening up to exploit the gap between lonely sexless men of which there are hordes in the west and poor, available and decent looking chicas in the poorer countries, and more and more of this will unfortunately go virtual. It is what it is. But agree I won't be supporting it. Covid or not, habits get formed.

Interesting ideas that you added to the conversation. Just to add a few more things. Some girls do make money with WebCam. However it isn't an easy answer. Being a cam girl or being associated with these sex industry jobs come with a huge stigma which is very real. There are social emotional consequences. I'm not going to dive deep into the issues but they are in the news and the girls have told me about it too.

Don't believe? They have cried on my shoulder talking about these things.

[Sangnyc21]

In real life dating not (hookers not seeking not escort). I would never pay for a women's dinner during the courting phase. I expect friends pay 50/50. Because if I take her out to dinner three times and then she says she's not interested in me that would put me in an awkward position because I paid three dates for nothing.

Plus I broke my back earning the money at work for those three dinners.

For Free dates and courting I will just take the girl for a walk at the park.

Different culture here. In Colombia even with locals men are expected to pay. So I'm ok with paying for dinners and taxis.

If I'm in the USA I always pay as well but that's just me.

I don't wait 3 dates. They know based on the restaurant I take them too they're giving it up on the first date.

However if a girl still pays half the bill after I ordered top notch steak bottle of wine and a shot of expensive whiskey then she's earned the right to hold out the pussy LOL.

But if after the first date I don't get the pussy there is no second date. And so far I've never had an issue.