Pattaya Reports

[Paolo99]

Huh? She asked for nothing and she very nearly got it. I think my record shows I was more of a cheap Charlie! But now that she HAS gotten money out of me, will your assertion start to come true?

I didn't read back your post but I assumed you gave her money to pay back her loan, so that's not a cheap charlie's act.

She didn't ask explicitly (maybe), but she made you fully aware of her financial struggles.

The way you write your reports, it's clear that you're very hesitant of what you should do (or what you should have done). All these questionings (I assume that you probably gave her many signs of these hesitations) are typically showing you as a big easy target in my opinion.

[FL Hawk]

I'm not here to criticize you will get enough without my help.

Haha. I am here to educate and entertain. Best lessons are from real life examples. But I will not say much more about the loan and the land. I have not revealed it all and, as I said, I should write pages here and many here would still not believe. More may be revealed in the future. I will leave it at that.

I noted the Thai culture has laid a heavy burden on the females if not the land it would be something else?

Quite true. But remember, Secret is not 18 or 19. She worked in industry for 10 years. Her family did not push her to be a BG.

Thais in general aren't going to come right out in majority of situation and tell you exactly what they want she has been crying out to you in her own way....

True. She was very reluctant to talk about it. She felt shame.

What you are writing many don't see the importance only that you are getting sucker down deep much to learn from your report sadly not many will see the light at the end of the tunnel? Good luck!

As I said, I am trying to educate and show insight into one particular BG. I am still trying to show she is NOT a typical BG however.

[Berrys66]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5XSC4Q4_HXM

[LittleBigMan]

I appreciate the comments. Here are some responses.

Of course I have not gotten over her yet! This is still October 2019! The story is not over.

If she thought she and the family would be better off going to Korea she would have gone. After the next chapter I guess we will find out if the relationship is shot or not.

Good man and good friend.

Haha. Yes. And I made out pretty well in life by being aware of the risks.

Huh? She asked for nothing and she very nearly got it. I think my record shows I was more of a cheap Charlie! But now that she HAS gotten money out of me, will your assertion start to come true?

What story is there to verify? She knew the truth. If she ended up going I would have insisted on a copy of the final contract she signed if she ever wanted to see me again. Read the first chapter to get references to the original reports from April 2019 if you want to go all the way back. At my urging in August 2019 she got a passport.

You insult me Danny. You think I would be going through this for an ugly?

Thanks. This is certainly a real-life story and I am telling it as it happened, with an occasional 'look ahead' when I think appropriate.

It was a huge amount to her and she should treat it as such. If she could not be trusted with what I gave her, then I would not want to stay with her. I do have money, and if we end up together then I would want to be sure I could trust her with it.

Umm, care to share what my relationship with Secret is today? I have asked you guys to make predictions.

And a common question: Why is the farm suddenly having a problem?

A legit question. It started years ago. Can I simply say the widowed mother took out a loan and only paid the interest? The debt grew and grew until Secret felt she had to work in Pattaya to get enough money to finally pay it all off. But Secret was not a successful BG and she failed. She was going to make the mother sell the land to avoid an imminent foreclosure (oh, can I mention a mother who didn't want to sell and let her daughter go work in Pattaya? Then she talked to an agent about working in Koreas who offered to advance her money (at an outrageous interest rate of course) if she signed a long work contract with him. Even this is a simplification, but many of you will still say I was scammed no matter what I say.

I'm not here to criticize you will get enough without my help. As I noted they have their own school in her village or farm way before she ever step foot into the business she basically has very little educationa and her mother even less. Just based on your comments when it comes to the farm it most likely isn't the first nor it be the last " interest only " sure didn't come from a bank. It isn't that she is a bad bar girl in many cases it will always be something for these girls as I noted the Thai culture has laid a heavy burden on the females if not the land it would be something else?

I wasn't born yesterday but as I noted the two year deal is a big red flag " Agent " I want to laugh stop rolling on the ground advance money that she will never be able to get out even if she works the field all day in between and working a massage parlor in Korea. I don't have enough text to explain how it works the cost to get her there which most likely is illegal and once there her passport is confiscated I think you assume what might happen thereafter. Sure it happens but a 2 year labor contract into another country and with a advance I've not seen or heard too many of those?

Depending on where she is from unless the family owns lots of rai I would think if real what you spend at GoGos might be able to pay the sum off? It kind of comes down to this for me we all be. S. You need to learn " Not the Art of the deal " but the Art of be. S. " You are asking some of the right question now ask for even more tell her you want to help but you don't have a lot of money but have to borrow it yourself to help that you know a friend of a friend if she can forward the contract the mother signed you can have a lawyer you know in Bangkok look at it and explain to you and if possible we can fix it so it doesn't happen again now wait for a reaction? This goes the same for the contract to Korea.

Thais in general aren't going to come right out in majority of situation and tell you exactly what they want she has been crying out to you in her own way but you are stuck in the Western way of thinking that she is going to just come right out and say you want love this is how much it is going to cost you a month for me to be yours.

What you are writing many don't see the importance only that you are getting sucker down deep much to learn from your report sadly not many will see the light at the end of the tunnel? Good luck!

[SinfullyKorean]

From the BKK thread but I will apply it to Pattaya.

Cheap Charlie Budget:

Food. Cheap breakfast 99 baht. Somtam for lunch 40 baht. Street cart noodles dinner 60 baht. Bottled water for the day 50 baht.

Transportation. Baht bus 20 baht. Motorbike 100 baht.

Condo - 6 k per month so 200 baht per day.

Soi 6 or G club in the afternoon - 120 baht for your drink.

Gogo bar or bar beers at night - 300 baht per night for your drinks.

Lady drinks - 1 special lady will get a lady drink at one of the bars - 150 baht.

1 G club or Soi 6 girl in the afternoon - 1000 plus 300/350 barfine.

1 FL at night 600 baht.

So for just over 3000 baht per day you have banged 2 girls and groped many.

Great report, Banana. I hope travel restrictions will be removed so I can visit again. Til then, keep the reports coming! It's very much appreciated. =).

[Danny Duck]

Watch out their might be Covid on the barstool you are sitting on. LOL.

That French lady caught Covid from interacting with infected gym equipment in Pooket.

[Banana Boi]

From the BKK thread but I will apply it to Pattaya.

Cheap Charlie Budget:

Food. Cheap breakfast 99 baht. Somtam for lunch 40 baht. Street cart noodles dinner 60 baht. Bottled water for the day 50 baht.

Transportation. Baht bus 20 baht. Motorbike 100 baht.

Condo - 6 k per month so 200 baht per day.

Soi 6 or G club in the afternoon - 120 baht for your drink.

Gogo bar or bar beers at night - 300 baht per night for your drinks.

Lady drinks - 1 special lady will get a lady drink at one of the bars - 150 baht.

1 G club or Soi 6 girl in the afternoon - 1000 plus 300/350 barfine.

1 FL at night 600 baht.

So for just over 3000 baht per day you have banged 2 girls and groped many.

[Banana Boi]

(I originally posted this reply in the General section, but since everyone is replying here I have re-posted it over here where it is in context with the current conversation).

I also posted my reply in the General Reports section since that's where the discussion of layovers and jet lag belong imo. Not reposting it here as it is imo not Pattaya specific.

[FL Hawk]

I appreciate the comments. Here are some responses.

Sammon: Looks like you still have not got over this woman. She scammed you.

Of course I have not gotten over her yet! This is still October 2019! The story is not over.

Natty: The relationship is shot and it is your fault.

If she thought she and the family would be better off going to Korea she would have gone. After the next chapter I guess we will find out if the relationship is shot or not.

Banana Boi: I would have paid that for someone I truly like in a heartbeat, whether she is a bargirl or a civilian girl making 300 baht per day.

Good man and good friend.

Dg8787: Send her the dang money! Shit, how the hell did you make it in life? Analysis paralysis at its finest.

Haha. Yes. And I made out pretty well in life by being aware of the risks.

Paolo99: Your posts and the story about that girl are showing that you are an easy target for money.

Huh? She asked for nothing and she very nearly got it. I think my record shows I was more of a cheap Charlie! But now that she HAS gotten money out of me, will your assertion start to come true?

MeltonPie: Why didn't you just take her to South Korea and verify the story?

What story is there to verify? She knew the truth. If she ended up going I would have insisted on a copy of the final contract she signed if she ever wanted to see me again. Read the first chapter to get references to the original reports from April 2019 if you want to go all the way back. At my urging in August 2019 she got a passport.

Danny Duck: .Insults Secret's face.

You insult me Danny. You think I would be going through this for an ugly?

German Man: I am following your story with great interest.

Thanks. This is certainly a real-life story and I am telling it as it happened, with an occasional 'look ahead' when I think appropriate.

DioRetz: If the sum is so little to you, why not just give her the money?

It was a huge amount to her and she should treat it as such. If she could not be trusted with what I gave her, then I would not want to stay with her. I do have money, and if we end up together then I would want to be sure I could trust her with it.

LittleBigMan: The outcome is obvious; different writer, different name, and different day. {punctuation added for clarity}

Umm, care to share what my relationship with Secret is today? I have asked you guys to make predictions.

And a common question: Why is the farm suddenly having a problem?

A legit question. It started years ago. Can I simply say the widowed mother took out a loan and only paid the interest? The debt grew and grew until Secret felt she had to work in Pattaya to get enough money to finally pay it all off. But Secret was not a successful BG and she failed. She was going to make the mother sell the land to avoid an imminent foreclosure (oh, can I mention a mother who didn't want to sell and let her daughter go work in Pattaya? Then she talked to an agent about working in Koreas who offered to advance her money (at an outrageous interest rate of course) if she signed a long work contract with him. Even this is a simplification, but many of you will still say I was scammed no matter what I say.

[LittleBigMan]

Well what fucks my mind is that this is supposed to be a collective culture, but some always seem to be in need. You got 18 mfs living in the house. You mean to tell me you can't find a way to get 100 baht each? Even consider their other family members and friends. They can't take up a collection to save the farm? Even they could go to their facebook and get 50 baht from everybody on their friends list.

In the Black American community in the 60's and 70's if someone could not come up with their payment they would have what is called a rent party. Everyone came to a party at the house and paid an entrance fee, therefore they would have the money for the rent.

Finally getting the chance to kick a bit back and catch up here as I noted early a month up here in the wife farm. First couple of days hook up the water / drain line for her kitchen sink and washer. Then today painted 3 window shuttles in the brazing sun using the make shift Thai ladder. Family getting a blast how I'm doing everything as my wife calls it " Make in the USA " what shocking is they couldn't believe my painting skills, using oil, not one drop on the floor just taking a large cardboard and moving it. Next week is my son cultural indoctrination into the Monk Temple.

I haven't responded to Hawks writing " Secret " for me what is really the secret? The outcome is obvious different writer different name and different day. Sometimes like kids like my Granddaughter no matter how many times they are told not to touch the fire they do some due to being curious they is how they learn. Some read all the books go by their experiences yet come away with little? The writing is about 1 thing yet there is 99.9% more in making it work even 50% and it doesn't matter whether it is a bargirl or not! We grow up with what we learn in the West it is taken for granted it is tough if not impossible to not apply it here? I hear people say " I understand " but next word or move same action.

When it comes to the Thai culture they have really done a number on the female here making them feel guilty or responsible so much that they selll themselves to us and even their own. Who really knows the truth but as one poster noted why all of a sudden the farm is having a problems. I too read the writing with interest but there are warning signs everywhere believe or not the 2 year contract is a big red flag although I'm sure there are some majority of them are at best for 1 year. Thais with very little education everything seems to be based on hearsay, rumors and superstitious they have their own network so unless they know first hand someone who has actually gone abroad they might getting themselves into something they can't get out. For someone who doesn't even like to travel to Bangkok now is going to take a 2 year contract?

Thais that have very little are surprisingly very resourceful in the end they seem to make it happen? Looking for Love, it comes down to the more you give the more they love why do you think they call us ATM, even if she Loves when you get over that huddle it is only the first one what is he going to do the rest of the race or journey? I being Asian it comes down to this! If she is looking for Love they might as well stay with her own race this I know has come out of the mouth of many Thais I know who are BG or just normal. Any Thai who is with a foreigner is to have a better life just like winning the lottery if she was sitting eating Songtam with her family and friends they be comparing and if she told them it is just love and got nothing she would be laughing and rolling on the ground but of course Thai aren't going to do that they will wait until she turns her back.

Finally took a shit today I had to squat for 5 minutes my legs nearly gave out!

[Member #4698]

(I originally posted this reply in the General section, but since everyone is replying here I have re-posted it over here where it is in context with the current conversation).

I used to enjoy laying over for a couple of nights in Amsterdam on my way to and from Thailand. I liked the Coffee shops, walking around the red light districts, and then doing the shop girls stoned on Nederhash. I have not flown the trans-European route in a long time, ultimately preferring the longer trans-Pacific no layover route, but I am sure that post pandemic USA-AMS-BKK flights will be available again. The shortest duration USA trans-pacific route is to either Manila or Hong Kong. Hong Kong sucks now and I will never lay over there again, but Manila is a great place to stop off for a few days on the way to BKK. So is Singapore if you don't mind spending a few bucks.

[Kerrstar]

Long non stop flights are cheaper. Otherwise you need to buy multi city tickets. Some airlines allow free stopover at their home airports. Those cannot be booked online. Need to use travel agents.

You can book stopovers through some airline websites. I've done it many times with Thai and Singapore Airlines. You need to choose the multi-city option when you book.

[Dg8787]

Has anyone broken up the long flight into 2 or 3 shorter legs with overnight layover? Would love to go but don't think I could handle the long flight.

You can hop flights to Honolulu, Guam to Asia.

[Dg8787]

You better be careful taking that shit. You didn't see the story of the preacher that peed on the girl in the plane the other night?

Depends. I mean he can use depends with his meds!

[Mr Enternational]

Thanks Horatio. I have gotten very antsy on flights as I age. I would need a sleeping pill or tranq to make it. The stops you mentioned would even be too far. My problem though. Will see if I can get the right meds and make a decision.

You better be careful taking that shit. You didn't see the story of the preacher that peed on the girl in the plane the other night?