Seeking Arrangements

[CarloRogue]

What if I'm ugly and the only way I can get sex is by paying for it?

Lack of confidence is the ugliest of ugly to girls. We're all dealt less of a hand than we'd want. It's how you play what you have that makes you who you are. If you're out of shape, use your will and make lifestyle changes to improve your fitness. Wear fresh clothes, especially nice shoes (trust me, the women are scrutinizing these) and a high-end cologne (lightly applied). Be clean shaven, with a recent haircut. If you're boring, travel to interesting places and accumulate fun stories. Take some risks. Smile, make eye contact, be charming. Talk about her not you. Go on lots of dates. Analyze what works and do more of that, change what doesn't, but fit congruently within your personality. Practice really does make perfect.

All of the above comes out of the much-maligned pick-up artist community, but it's all rather straightforward and really inoffensive self-improvement if you think about it. You're training yourself to be more attractive to women, which also incidentally makes you more attractive to your friends, family, co-workers, and even yourself. Also worth noting that many girls I talk to on SA are there because they're rather disgusted with how immature and boring boys their age are.

[DramaFree11]

I am currently investigating my options around South America and wondered whether any of you guys got an idea how much the standard date would be in Caracas? At least some point of reference?

I asked this question some time ago in the CCS section but never received an answer. Caracas appears to be some kind of paradise for our hobby.

It is even safe to travel there?

[Ailton]

I am currently investigating my options around South America and wondered whether any of you guys got an idea how much the standard date would be in Caracas? At least some point of reference?

I asked this question some time ago in the CCS section but never received an answer. Caracas appears to be some kind of paradise for our hobby.

[Steve 9696]

Now is apparently the time to find some new presents to open on Seeking. In my city it is rare to see new girls on the app. Got into a nice chat Christmas Eve. Then, feeling a bit odd went browsing on Christmas day. WTF? Several new hot girls. Maybe the holidays makes them lonely? But suggest you go "shopping" over the holidays. It appears many new presents are under the tree!

[WyattEarp]

What if I'm ugly and the only way I can get sex is by paying for it?

The answer is straightforward. Visit the destinations here on this forum like Canada, South America, Asia and Germany.

I mention Canada because most Americans can get there with a short flight. There are some really good-looking escorts in Canadian cities.

[BroComplex]

If you are under 30, I might add 10 years to your age. These gals go onto SA specifically to meet older rich guys. I've been told by some SBs that the younger guys on the site are aZZholes, and now they screen out younger guys. But this was for the SF market, where a some of the young guys were rich nerds that gotten beaten up in HS and are now taking it out on SBs. Yeah, huge generalization, I know.

BTW, if you are under 30, then why not just use Tinder and get laid for free? If it's an issue with showing your face, well, for most non-pros, they want to see what you look like before the meetup, generally speaking. So, not sure why you'd use SA instead of Tinder. At my age, I cannot easily score a young hottie on Tinder. But I can score them on SA.

What if I'm ugly and the only way I can get sex is by paying for it?

[Steve 9696]

Because I think of my best girls as both friends and lovers I keep track of birthdays and usually send $50 or $100 (depending on the girl). Been sending out a handful of Christmas gifts and it's really satisfying. Responses ranging from:

"I don't have CashApp but just that You'the think to send me something is gift enough. " (She's kinda in love with me) to videos of graphic pussy masturbation (from a semi pro in So Paulo) to "it actually made me cry" to "want to meet up New Year's Eve?

A lot of us have the coin to do it. I highly recommend a little Christmas cash. It does the heart good and pays back many times over.

[Nuupter]

Anyone searched Seeking Arrangement on Reddit? There are plenty of post from the SB perspective, nice read and into their minds and what are they thinking. But from reading these, I can guess they are mostly American women. That's why I don't prefer American Women and much prefer Latin American or Europeans.

[CarloRogue]

What exactly is an "albercada"?

Good question about Puerto Rico. There are many hot Puerto Rican women in the USA San Juan is a great place to hang.

Albercada is an organized pool party, periodically held, usually at a motel the promoter rents out. There is lots of info on the CDMX thread if you're interested. I haven't been yet, but I'm a huge fan of FKK's and they sound a bit similar in structure, except for the venue.

Does anyone have hotel or restaurant suggestions for San Juan, PR? Anyone been recently? I've also met some PR girls on SA in the past and they're typically very sexy and passionate.

[Oneminuteboy]

I usually ask for their Amazon wishlist to get a better understanding.

Usually when I see lingerie, vibrators and butt plugs they are the Pro girls.

[Big Boss Man]

Tonight I started looking at the Wishlist on the woman's profile. (Bored) If they are asking for lingerie, vibrators and butt plugs, is that considered a healthy sign? I am intrigued. Has anyone had any experience?

[WyattEarp]

........The SA scene looks quite ripe, but I also have to try one of the albercadas, so I'm going to try to plan a trip around one of those.................

Unrelated topic: Does anyone have SA experience in Puerto Rico, or know what it's like right now in the covid era? It's just an easier destination for a last-minute trip.

What exactly is an "albercada"?

Good question about Puerto Rico. There are many hot Puerto Rican women in the USA San Juan is a great place to hang.

[CarloRogue]

I do not know if this is true or not, but IMO Polanco seems like snobby older money and Roma is like new rich fun. I love the streets of Roma and every meal I have had there has been great and not like breaking the bank. I went to a high end steak place in Polanco: very good, very formal, very expensive. Roma just has more of a care free open, fun vibe. It is more of a feeling. Do you know how you can feel the energy of a city? I felt this incredible positive wave much more in Roma than Polanco, but they are both great parts of an amazing city.

Now that you describe it that way, Roma sounds exactly like my kind of place. I love the gritty authenticity of old cities with a bit of an underbelly, but also satisfying my first-world indulgences. I prefer a modern gastropub over an expensive old-school steakhouse any day. What are the best hotels in Roma? What about AirBnB?

[Elvis 2008]

Elvis, At any rate, why is Roma your favorite over Polanca?.

I do not know if this is true or not, but IMO Polanco seems like snobby older money and Roma is like new rich fun. I love the streets of Roma and every meal I have had there has been great and not like breaking the bank. I went to a high end steak place in Polanco: very good, very formal, very expensive. Roma just has more of a care free open, fun vibe. It is more of a feeling. Do you know how you can feel the energy of a city? I felt this incredible positive wave much more in Roma than Polanco, but they are both great parts of an amazing city.

[RahulSinghD84]

India is the trickiest place for SA mongering. Delhi has the best collection within India. I'm not sure if 10 K INR could get you something nice but it could. May be a 20% chance. 15 k to 25 k inr could definitely get you a decent bird. People who don't know the value of money just throw crazy money on girls. Can't help it. We are discussing this here coz we value our money...

Have been using SA in Delhi since 3 years. Yes, 10 k would not get something nice, perhaps someone young but not pretty.

15 k seems to be the sweet spot although feels more like 20 k if you really want good quality. There are some that ask 25-30 k INR for a meet and 90 k-100 k INR for a monthly arrangement.

In between all this, one can find gems that can cost around 12 k but can be brought down to 10 k if you are regular.

My preference is young girls on SA, so I do end up paying around the 15 k mark usually.

Also most girls over 30 would be a waste in India. Just going by the rule that their body would be out of shape. Also there are some professionals and some SPs as well so one needs to be aware of them!

Happy to help if someone is visiting the city.

P.S.: Also have tried SA in Dubai, US (Orange County, Austin, NY) and a couple of times in Europe. Keen to explore SA in Mexico, Colombia in 2021 if travel opens up!