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Originally Posted by DramaFree11
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Here's the best part, all the girls thank me. I want to me again. Loving life.
Yeah, I was really shocked by how nice the women were. In the past, I thought MTY was so close to the border and some had American attitudes. Not this time. They did everything I wanted: no clock watching, no running out the door. I just could not believe how sweet and accommodating the women were.
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Originally Posted by GeneHickman
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Simple solution. You want that kind of a woman and treatment? Marry an American feminist. Isn't that what most here are running from! Guess some men are confused masochists. Or these women are in fantasy land.
Exactly I am running from the American women. I am not sure I will ever date one again, they just drive me crazy and everyone else around them. Love the post.
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Originally Posted by Steve9696
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There are great and smart girls on SA and those are the ones I end up with. But I continue to be dumbfounded by the ignorance or arrogance of so many. Girls who post "I want to be spoiled and go on trips and stuff. " And that's it. No discussion of what they bring to the party and why I will want to be with them. Does this really work? Last thing I want is a girl that leads with I want money and have nothing to give in return.
I contacted one girl who was even more direct. Something like "I'm a spoiled little be*tch" and asked her if that really works. She pretty much bitched me out and said it does. OK. Good luck with that.
Simple solution. You want that kind of a woman and treatment? Marry an American feminist. Isn't that what most here are running from! Guess some men are confused masochists. Or these women are in fantasy land.
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Originally Posted by Midwestern
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A girl stood you up for a first date, but still asked you for money, and then she threatened to block you when you ignored her? Jeezus fxxxing Khrist. Is she out of her mind?! Does even one guy out of a hundred fall for this? LOL, man.
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There are great and smart girls on SA and those are the ones I end up with. But I continue to be dumbfounded by the ignorance or arrogance of so many. Girls who post "I want to be spoiled and go on trips and stuff. " And that's it. No discussion of what they bring to the party and why I will want to be with them. Does this really work? Last thing I want is a girl that leads with I want money and have nothing to give in return.
I contacted one girl who was even more direct. Something like "I'm a spoiled little be*tch" and asked her if that really works. She pretty much bitched me out and said it does. OK. Good luck with that.
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A girl stood you up for a first date, but still asked you for money, and then she threatened to block you when you ignored her? Jeezus fxxxing Khrist. Is she out of her mind?! Does even one guy out of a hundred fall for this? LOL, man.
Originally Posted by Elvis2008
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The good thing about Monterrey is the hit rate is so high that you can blow one off easily. As I said I was kind of fucked out and my schedule was packed in MTY. I had only 2 out of 8 no shows for first time meetings which in my experience is really good. Anyway, the last day I was supposed to meet a newbie at 10 AM. I hear nothing and do not care. She was an 8 I thought by her photos and I sensed in real life she was not even that.
She texts me at noon and says she overslept. I say, "That is okay. Maybe I can meet you next trip." She says "Well, you know I really need money to go see my parents today. I cannot meet you because I have to be at work by 2 PM. "I really wanted to be a smart ass and tell her off. You really expect money after standing me up *****? I think maybe my silence will send a message. Wrong. She texts me again and says, "Well, you know, if you are not going to give me money, I am just going to block you.".
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Originally Posted by Elvis2008
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I got two stories for you on this, DF. I have this lawyer in CDMX, and I know you do not like my saying a girl is a 10 (I thought the pic of the one you sent me was damned close to one BTW), but I think she is: internationally ranked swimmer, smart. Anyway, I am talking my friend about her. She is like "Elvis, that woman has self esteem issues and is borderline." Immediately, I knew she was right. The saying with borderlines is I love you, I hate you, do not leave me. So any time you have a woman freaking out about your abandoning her, and this girl did, she probably is borderline, and it is time to head for the exit. I had a terrible incident with a borderline SB, and I cannot believe I missed it with this one. It sounds like your girl has a mental illness or personality disorder. It sucks that I have to dump mine. She was so hot and great in bed.
The good thing about Monterrey is the hit rate is so high that you can blow one off easily. As I said I was kind of fucked out and my schedule was packed in MTY. I had only 2 out of 8 no shows for first time meetings which in my experience is really good. Anyway, the last day I was supposed to meet a newbie at 10 AM. I hear nothing and do not care. She was an 8 I thought by her photos and I sensed in real life she was not even that.
She texts me at noon and says she overslept. I say, "That is okay. Maybe I can meet you next trip." She says "Well, you know I really need money to go see my parents today. I cannot meet you because I have to be at work by 2 PM. "I really wanted to be a smart ass and tell her off. You really expect money after standing me up *****? I think maybe my silence will send a message. Wrong. She texts me again and says, "Well, you know, if you are not going to give me money, I am just going to block you.".
I am so glad you had fun. My trip definitely turned around after you left. You are so correct about hit rate. Not to mention there are some real stunners, that are professionals and love sex. I hope we can meet soon.
Trip Report.
1. Friday a beautiful 20 year spent the night. Very Exotic and beautiful.
2. Saturday / Sunday sucked but it gets better.
3. Monday starts off bad, cancellations. At 4 pm everything turned around a beautiful 20 year old college student met me, wow very hot and a even nicer person. We spent the 6 hours together and multiple sessions. So much fun.
4. Tuesday morning rocks. Super sweet regular shows up at 8:30 am, everything included. Multiple sessions with Anal.
5. 10:45 2 regular show up, threesome, Anal, bi-sexual experience, and riming. Most guys would rate these girls 6.5-7.5.
Here's the best part, all the girls thank me. I want to me again. Loving life.
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Originally Posted by Midwestern
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For me, SBs have been more expensive. Buying them presents, and paying for expensive dinners and trips, all adds up. But I paid for all of this because I like the GFE.
But that said, my current negative opinion of SBs are probably all coming from my very recent SB experience. I paid a monthly allowance when I barely saw her, and she gave me a lot of shit because I mostly cared about sex. In addition, I got tired of the dates. They were becoming tedious and boring.
But I still think SA is the best way to go in the United States.
Hey MW. I feel you. I had gotten to this same place with one of my SBs. Dates got boring and I kinda wanted something new. After months of hanging out (when I was in town), she cut comms after one disagreement. This kinda made me intolerant when it comes to SBs. Now I reply in kind. If you are a sweet girl and perform your part of the arrangement, then we will have a great time with dinners, clothes, trips, and great memories. If you are greedy, unfair, or show signs of not being cool (like taking the allowance without making absolute sure to see me), then I'll be unfair before I suddenly cut ties. There are too many girls and too many cites.
Cost. I agree. You spend more money dealing with an SB. However, if you compare time, then I think an escort would usually come out being way more expensive. The exception that I have found is Prague. The escorts normally have 4 hour deals for about 300- 400 euro. I haven't had much success in Prague with SB, but I have knocked it out of the park with escorts for about the same price. In this case, I prefer a GFE escort instead of the czech SBs. I know one escort that will easily blow 6 hours with me and ask for 300 eu at the end (love ukrainian girls) In other cities, I prefer seeking by far!
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Originally Posted by GuyBrusg1957
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When are referring to SA do we mean seeking com or seekingagreements com?
Seeking com aka Seekingarrangement.
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Originally Posted by DramaFree11
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She show up, of course hungover, she asked about money before she came I said $300, which is $100 more than I usually pay, but she is that hot, but that was for the night. 2 hours in she says she is tired and we should go to bed, it was 8 pm, and I said lets wait 20 minutes then we can go. She then tells me she can not spend the night, to my surprise. I thought she was joking, but she had to go home because of her brother. This was total be. S. , because they party all night all the time. I was speechless, she knew I was upset. I said why did you not tell me this before you came. Of course she has all kinds of excuses. I real love being around her, but just too much drama. I suggest we meet Monday, have dinner and she can spend the night. She says no, and end of story. It was not about the money, it had to do more with here being real hungover, and was not up front about not spending the night.
I got two stories for you on this, DF. I have this lawyer in CDMX, and I know you do not like my saying a girl is a 10 (I thought the pic of the one you sent me was damned close to one BTW), but I think she is: internationally ranked swimmer, smart. Anyway, I am talking my friend about her. She is like "Elvis, that woman has self esteem issues and is borderline." Immediately, I knew she was right. The saying with borderlines is I love you, I hate you, do not leave me. So any time you have a woman freaking out about your abandoning her, and this girl did, she probably is borderline, and it is time to head for the exit. I had a terrible incident with a borderline SB, and I cannot believe I missed it with this one. It sounds like your girl has a mental illness or personality disorder. It sucks that I have to dump mine. She was so hot and great in bed.
The good thing about Monterrey is the hit rate is so high that you can blow one off easily. As I said I was kind of fucked out and my schedule was packed in MTY. I had only 2 out of 8 no shows for first time meetings which in my experience is really good. Anyway, the last day I was supposed to meet a newbie at 10 AM. I hear nothing and do not care. She was an 8 I thought by her photos and I sensed in real life she was not even that.
She texts me at noon and says she overslept. I say, "That is okay. Maybe I can meet you next trip." She says "Well, you know I really need money to go see my parents today. I cannot meet you because I have to be at work by 2 PM. "I really wanted to be a smart ass and tell her off. You really expect money after standing me up *****? I think maybe my silence will send a message. Wrong. She texts me again and says, "Well, you know, if you are not going to give me money, I am just going to block you."
I know from your posts and texts DF you are a rational guy and so am I. I think people like us with common sense sometimes forget it is not that common because when I told my female friend about this girl, she laughed and scolded me. "You know, Elvis, I think you forget how many dumb bitches there are in the universe." I laughed and pleaded guilty to the charge.
I wish everyone here had a friend like her.
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No matter how hot they are, if they are a pain in the ass, OR, if you feel like they are not really into you, then you have to cut them loose. There was a 26 year old, 180 cm, model from Poland that was really into me. But all she wanted to do was smoke weed and watch movies in bed, like almost 24 hours a day. It was boring and annoying. And, for some people, being high makes you not horny, and that was her. We only did the deed twice out of the hundreds of hours that we spent together. So I finally broke it off with her, and she couldn't believe it, because she was so hot. Another SB hottie that I dated for a short while always wanted to take off right away, after the deed, so she could go clubbing with her friends. So I stopped seeing her too. To her, I was just a part-time job.
Great advice as always. I wanted it to work, but I have my limits. I tried monthly and PPM, but nothing will ever be enough for her. Love her to death, but it is no win situation.
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Totally agree!
No matter how hot they are, if they are a pain in the ass, OR, if you feel like they are not really into you, then you have to cut them loose. There was a 26 year old, 180 cm, model from Poland that was really into me. But all she wanted to do was smoke weed and watch movies in bed, like almost 24 hours a day. It was boring and annoying. And, for some people, being high makes you not horny, and that was her. We only did the deed twice out of the hundreds of hours that we spent together. So I finally broke it off with her, and she couldn't believe it, because she was so hot. Another SB hottie that I dated for a short while always wanted to take off right away, after the deed, so she could go clubbing with her friends. So I stopped seeing her too. To her, I was just a part-time job.
Originally Posted by DramaFree11
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Sometimes you just have to say no. The girl I met last night is one of the best looking girls I have ever been with in my life. 5'8', 110, just beautiful. Honestly I think she is better looking then my main girl in MTY, that is an actual model, She is super nice and loves to party, but just too much. She has a drinking problem, I thought there had been improvement, but I guess I was wrong.
She show up, of course hungover, she asked about money before she came I said $300, which is $100 more than I usually pay, but she is that hot, but that was for the night. 2 hours in she says she is tired and we should go to bed, it was 8 pm, and I said lets wait 20 minutes then we can go. She then tells me she can not spend the night, to my surprise. I thought she was joking, but she had to go home because of her brother. This was total be. S. , because they party all night all the time. I was speechless, she knew I was upset. I said why did you not tell me this before you came. Of course she has all kinds of excuses. I real love being around her, but just too much drama. I suggest we meet Monday, have dinner and she can spend the night. She says no, and end of story. It was not about the money, it had to do more with here being real hungover, and was not up front about not spending the night.
I am flexible, but I have my limits. Time to move on. We had a monthly arrangement at the beginning and obliviously*that did not turn out well, another story for another day.
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Hold your ground
Sometimes you just have to say no. The girl I met last night is one of the best looking girls I have ever been with in my life. 5'8', 110, just beautiful. Honestly I think she is better looking then my main girl in MTY, that is an actual model, (It Sucks, She is on total lock down, her parents came to visit, now they will not leave and the will not let her leave the house because of Covid. They are crazy about Covid in MTY) She is super nice and loves to party, but just too much. She has a drinking problem, I thought there had been improvement, but I guess I was wrong.
She show up, of course hungover, she asked about money before she came I said $300, which is $100 more than I usually pay, but she is that hot, but that was for the night. 2 hours in she says she is tired and we should go to bed, it was 8 pm, and I said lets wait 20 minutes then we can go. She then tells me she can not spend the night, to my surprise. I thought she was joking, but she had to go home because of her brother. This was total be. S. , because they party all night all the time. I was speechless, she knew I was upset. I said why did you not tell me this before you came. Of course she has all kinds of excuses. I real love being around her, but just too much drama. I suggest we meet Monday, have dinner and she can spend the night. She says no, and end of story. It was not about the money, it had to do more with here being real hungover, and was not up front about not spending the night.
I am flexible, but I have my limits. Time to move on. We had a monthly arrangement at the beginning and obliviously*that did not turn out well, another story for another day.
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When are referring to SA do we mean seeking com or seekingagreements com?
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Just another Example of great experience on SA
I hear a lot of guys complaining about SA, for me I can not say enough good things about it. L Here is just one example. Friday I arrived late, in MTY, because of work issues. One of my regulars meets me at 10 pm at the hotel. I was exhausted so the sex was not the best that was all on me, and I purchased t Viag, and when I arrived at the hotel the box was empty, it happens. Anyway, we spent the night together, we watched a movie and ordered Pizza. All for $200, plus pizaza. What a great night, besides being exhausted from work drama. I have several more dates lined up over the next few days. Loving Life and SA in MTY.
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Originally Posted by Elvis2008
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MW, for me a SB is fun in and out of the bedroom. A WG is just friend in the bedroom, or that is all I care about it. I think you need to define what you want.
With me, the definition of what I want in any woman is that they make feel better sexually and emotionally. That is what I am paying for. If there is too much shaming or greed, then that woman is done.
What are you saying she is right for that you wanted sex and were selfish? Fuck that. You are paying the bills. She never should have felt comfortable even saying those things to you. You are better off without her.
Correct, time is money. You can not put a valley on good SD relationship. The phone calls, text messages, spending the night, you can not put a value on any of this. Not to mention you are with a girl half your age, she is not complaining, and she is happy to be around you. I am 51 and hanging out with girls between 20-27 in MTY, it is unbelievable. The girls I am with now are way better then the girls I was dating traditionally when I was in my 20's-30's. With a few exceptions the girls are also way better looking then the girls I was meeting in Kiev and MDE, honestly when you add in there personality it is not even close. Moscow is a different story, if you have the time, money and any game you can write your own ticket, but I know longer have the time, money yes.
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