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02-12-21 20:48 #18421
Posts: 16001Originally Posted by DarkKnight1 [View Original Post]
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02-12-21 17:30 #18420
Posts: 72I agree with Big Fun
I have been married for 44 years to the woman of my dreams. Has been all wine and roses, NO! Now this is another way to meet a pinay. At the time I was in the Navy and had just gotten back to the ship after 18 months in Vietnam and seeing more senseless carnage than anyone should ever see. Ernie had just gotten back to the ship from a school in the sates. We were drinking buddies. I had taken are&are trips from Vietnam to Singapore and the Philippines and had spent many 3 or 4 days with a bar girl for nothing but sex. We got our schedule and was going to spend several week in and out of the Philippines so I told Ernie I wanted to see what the Philippines was like not just a bar trip. Ernie gave me this girl's name and address, then started playing 20 questions and I asked him who this is. Ernie tells me she is his cousin and I told him if that was all I was interested in I would stay in the bars. I wrote her letters and sent her pictures of me, but she never sent any pictures. 3 months before I met her I told Ernie I was going to marry her and his response was "Are you crazy you've never see her what if she is ugly. " I told him "she can't be". Fast forward three months I finally get enough time to go to Manila and Ernie makes sure I make it there safe. I went to the address and she is not there, but her brother is and he takes me to a neighbor hood bar for two reasons. 1 he knew I would pay for the beer. 2. And to see what My intentions were. Surprise, surprise there were working girls trying to get me in the back room. While we were drinking a little kid runs up and says she is back. Her brother and I go back to where they were staying and I'm in the setting room when she comes down the stairs and my jaw hits the floor. She was and still is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. Three months later I asked to marry me and three months later we were married. Bottom line if you Filipino friends are wanting to fix you up be open to it and see if they have a picture of that person. You may not be a lucky as me.
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02-12-21 09:57 #18419
Posts: 27My Experience
Occasional poster, I thought I'd provide some insight on meeting girls in the Philippines. OK that comes at the end.
My situation. I have been here for a year now in pandemic. I am 57 and I have a serious Philippines girlfriend -- two years now. I did meet her at the bar where she worked, but her situation is very similar to many bargirls, as I explain below. (I have done all the shagging many girls before, threesomes etc etc.).
She came from a poor family, and her father died. Mother and younger brother could not do anything. She has a high school diploma but that is barely enough to get a job. To be a waitress in a good restaurant requires a college education. Ridiculous, I know. But there is such a labor supply.
So before working at the bar, she supported herself and two family members. Their diet was rice + soy sauce usually. Maybe rice + blood. On the occasion that they did cook, they cooked with a charcoal fire inside their house. This is all true and there are people in her neighborhood who do the same.
Some of the girls in the neighborhood worked at the bar, and had met foreigner husbands. So she decided to try. Did she want to work at a bar. No.
For her, she made a lot of money at the bar with her perspective. And lots of tips from customers.
What does she say about working at the bar? Oh I happy that now my family can have yummy food. How do you feel when someone bar fined you? I feel very happy because I can help my family. This is very typical Filipino attitude.
She definitely liked and formed friendships with some of her customers who treated her well. Of course, lots of the time it was a bummer, but she made some cash. "Many times I did things that I don't want to do".
With working at the bar, her family got their first refrigerator, first stove, first TV. Etc etc. Without the bar, she would likely spend the rest of her life eating rice, getting impregnated by some lazy neighbor with him cheating on her when she is looking a little old. Really, Filipino girls from poor backgrounds, limited education, no money have no options. No hope no future, as we would consider it.
We've been together for 2 years. Do I support her, obviously. My one condition is that her family members try to work and don't just rely on taking handouts from me. The males in her family are construction laborers who make about 500 peso per day.
Per the comments below, I don't think it is fair to judge a girl if she hopes for support from you. Even in the West, most girls of all ages are looking for security / support from their partner. ("no money, no honey".
And to add, I know many bargirls in Makati as friends, given that I am in a relationship with their friend. I would say about half qualify as having a similar situation and hopes as my GF. If you are attracted to heavily tatted, slutty performers, then that is a different group. Again, I did fine meeting my GF at the bar. If you happen to be at the bar and want meet a more genuine one, treat the mamasan well, and ask for a younger one, and one that maybe just started. I can think of several super sexy fun girls that work at the bar, but at the bottom of their hearts they want to meet a foreigner and have a decent life. I haven't tried them out personally but they seem like they would make any man happy.
So yes, to meet loyal normal girls in the Philippines, let's remember that there are a few million to choose from. I would agree that you need to put in the time. If you want to start on the internet, SKYPE with camera every day to chat etc.
On the internet, if the girl is based in Angeles. Consider yourself lucky she is a girl. LOL.
OK where to find girls? They're everywhere! Gorgeous girls working in 711. Gorgeous girls working at supermarkets or department stores. It is incredibly easy. Many girls ask me if I have a wife just in small talk. Hmmm.
If you're really looking for someone, then don't get to sex too fast. But Filipinas are generally romantic and passionate. Won't take hardly any time. Most are pretty serious Catholic, in spirit, so don't be too dirty to start, with a normal girl. And if you want a hybrid experience, real GF and benefits from others. Not a good idea if you are serious.
So yeah, if you can afford the time and money, best to come here for 6 mos.
To each, do what you want. If you want to have 3 girls a day, you can have it. If you want a serious and loyal GF to take care of you, that can be found too.
Good luck!
JC.
Originally Posted by Goferring [View Original Post]
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02-11-21 22:49 #18418
Posts: 3442Originally Posted by SteveNash [View Original Post]
Living a normal life in country, you will bump into girls with similar interests at the store, movies, dive shop etc.
Enjoy. G.
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02-11-21 21:12 #18417
Posts: 150Originally Posted by MohdirFan82 [View Original Post]
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02-11-21 17:02 #18416
Posts: 78Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
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02-11-21 15:41 #18415
Posts: 340Originally Posted by SteveNash [View Original Post]
Some things are best left to fantasy.
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02-11-21 12:26 #18414
Posts: 16001Originally Posted by SteveNash [View Original Post]
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02-11-21 08:50 #18413
Posts: 173Originally Posted by ViperF33 [View Original Post]
How serious are you in finding your soulmate in another country?
Because if you are very serious, 2 weeks is not enough, even 3 months in Philippines won't be enough, I would say you will need to live with her for at least 6 months to really know her and to start thinking of bringing her to your country.
Since you were OK sending her $200 without even knowing her in person, I feel you are aproaching this the wrong way, if you want to meet your soulmate, don't ever send money to a girl you haven't met in person and don't ever meet her in Angeles City.
In fact don't even step in Angeles City if you are looking for a serious woman, either she is a goldigger if she is the one insisting to meet you there or if you are the one insisting you will look bad on her eyes if you ever meet her there, and she will see you as those losers who pay for sex (not offense to anyone here, but that's how good girls see people who go to Angeles City and pay for sex), you don't want to marry a girl who sees you that way so don't hangout in those places.
That's the reason I never step my foot in Angeles City, you will never find good girls there, maybe there are afew, but is like winning the lotto 1 in a million.
Another question you should ask yourself, age difference, if she is 30+ years younger than you forget it!
Go find someone older and closer to your age, less than 20 yrs difference is fine in Philippines.
If I was you I will take my time, visit Philippines many times and only meet normal girls not pros or semi pros, not girls that are expecting money in return, just pay for the date, and if she wants to pay even better.
If you still want to insist in meeting her, then meet her in Manila, if she is very interested in you she will go meet you there, if she don't then you know she doesn't care about you. And make sure to tell her that you are not looking to bringing her to your country until you know her very well, just don't even mention that subject of bringing her to your country.
Like I said you need to make afew trips, and videocam her everyday, know her family, her friends, places she hangout, Goferring gave you good ideas on cues you should look for.
I'm telling you all this from personal experience, and everything I'm telling you is exactly what I'm doing, and finally I met a good girl who I have great chemistry with, I spent 8 months living with her during covid, and trust me 8 months seeing eachother everyday during lockdown is like having a 2-3 years relationship back home. I already know she is a good girl with good intentions, but I'm still deciding if I want to end my single life, I will go back to Philippines at the end of this year for another 3-4 months there, hopefully Covid is gone by that time and I will get to do island hopping with her and spend more time before I can finally make my decision.
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01-24-21 17:31 #18412
Posts: 123Originally Posted by Goferring [View Original Post]
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01-24-21 16:45 #18411
Posts: 459Great list!
Thanks for making this list. What would your list look like for a 40 yr old?
Originally Posted by Pcdilwj [View Original Post]
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01-23-21 23:02 #18410
Posts: 3442Originally Posted by Pcdilwj [View Original Post]
Bali is possibly the worst place in Indonesia for mongering. The influx of cashed up short time tourists leads to girls that come from elsewhere just to rack up as much money ASAP. Very hardened and not service focused at all. Jakarta is much better if you want foreigner friendly. You seem to like the less developed places too so try Bandung, Jogjakarta or Surabaya. Sulawesi has some gorgeous girls.
Cheers. G.
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01-23-21 22:45 #18409
Posts: 3442Originally Posted by Detwing1 [View Original Post]
My gym membership card works fine to receive funds.
I've told the girls and they are keen to chat. Do you by chance use a CPap machine or Oxygen Concentrator? I've found these really make the girls really horny.
They did mention that if you send $3600 each they will be able to afford a iPhone 12 Pro. It has enough camera resolution to include their friend. You remember the lesbian Victoria Secret model that likes your pacemaker scar?
Let me know. G.
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01-23-21 10:15 #18408
Posts: 6866Originally Posted by SinfullyKorean [View Original Post]
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01-23-21 09:57 #18407
Posts: 111I'm in
Originally Posted by Goferring [View Original Post]