Your point is well intentioned, but unfortunately it's all rather academic. Mongers are all deeply flawed individuals with a myriad of social and mental health problems. Most mongers are socially inept creatures who do not want long term relationships. It is not normal or acceptable behavior in any civilized society to want to travel to third world shitholes to fuck 30 penniless prostitutes in 15 days. What could a monger possibly achieve by trying to mix with high society in the Philippines? Mixing with the hoi polloi in the slums means Monger Man can reach his all important root quota in the time available. Entering a gated community means he won't.
That is very well put. I do not like to be around mongers because they are as you describe. The endless discussions here on how to pay a hooker for sex. And the stupid photos which betray worrying personal traits. I am going to phone a friend now about returning shopping at supermarkets. I just want to know when he goes and how many people are there when he goes. I do that because I am a "deeply flawed individual with a myriad of social and mental health problems. , a socially inept creature who does not want long term relationships "with hookers or shops but prefer to get in and out in the shortest time possible.
Mongers are tourists who, by and large, go to tourist spots. The other holiday makers are the same. They too often confuse holiday flings with something else. As regards meeting the great and the good of the Philippines, who in their right minds wants that? Better a wild fling with penniless prostitutes and back to the grind.
This is yet another generalization that holds true in many, likely most cases, but not all. The circles in which one is able to move comfortably here depend on a number of factors, among which is the duration of your stay here, and the frequency of your interaction with those in the upper echelons of Philippines society. Having worked with select members of the mover and shaker communities, I can state with absolute certainty that, though the barriers are high, they are not insurmountable.
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Your point is well intentioned, but unfortunately it's all rather academic. Mongers are all deeply flawed individuals with a myriad of social and mental health problems. Most mongers are socially inept creatures who do not want long term relationships. It is not normal or acceptable behavior in any civilized society to want to travel to third world shitholes to fuck 30 penniless prostitutes in 15 days. What could a monger possibly achieve by trying to mix with high society in the Philippines? Mixing with the hoi polloi in the slums means Monger Man can reach his all important root quota in the time available. Entering a gated community means he won't.
This is yet another generalization that holds true in many, likely most cases, but not all. The circles in which one is able to move comfortably here depend on a number of factors, among which is the duration of your stay here, and the frequency of your interaction with those in the upper echelons of Philippines society. Having worked with select members of the mover and shaker communities, I can state with absolute certainty that, though the barriers are high, they are not insurmountable.
But what man is going to wait for something with a .001% chance? That is fantasy land stuff for women. There ain't no stories of poor ass men kissing a frog that turns into a princess. Men date and marry across and down. Women date and marry across and up.
This is not limited to limo drivers. Middle and upper middle class Pinays want nothing to do with foreign mongers of any sort, even fat white balding potbellied community college professors. Such a thing would be extremely scandalous in their social circle. Foreign retirees get their pick of the poor social rejects and semi-reformed hookers. Foreign mongers are kidding themselves if they think they can marry into Filipino high society. Rich Filipinos know that that RWML is not sending them their best.
This is yet another generalization that holds true in many, likely most cases, but not all. The circles in which one is able to move comfortably here depend on a number of factors, among which is the duration of your stay here, and the frequency of your interaction with those in the upper echelons of Philippines society. Having worked with select members of the mover and shaker communities, I can state with absolute certainty that, though the barriers are high, they are not insurmountable.
As an avid hater of winter I am planning my future winter getaways. So far I have had to bring my own companion on my short trips close to home such as DR and Mexico. I'm wanting to plan a 3 to 5 month long trip to PI for next winter. I'm hoping to find an affectionate Pina for those months without drama. I'm interested in 40+ with good English skills. I don't have the libido I once did and consider that a blessing but I'm not looking for platonic either. Ideally a live-in at a reasonably upscale place to act as guide, cook, fun companion, and affectionate lover. And then say goodbye at the end of March when I return home. Perhaps to return the following year. I'm using SA successfully in the US when I travel.
We are not sure if you've been to the Philippines before, but let me tell you that Filipinas in the 40+ age group are generally fat and ugly. I'm not sure why, but Filipinas rapidly decline in physical appearance between the ages of 30 to 40. They just look haggard. Maybe it's because the ones we come across in Mongerland are all dirt poor slum dwellers who don't have access to proper nutrition, health care, beauty products, exercise regimes or maids to do their work. Hahaha. Life is hard when you've got a million kids and are also looking after your daughters' six kids. If you've ever seen a photo or video of a Filipinas house in provinces, you will notice two things. The walls will be green and there will be 20 kids under the age of 5 running around.
Now back to your vacation planning. You are selling yourself short. Many slim, pretty 23-year olds from the same slums as their aunts, would be most happy to accept your assignment. Just be clear that you are hiring her as a tour guide / cook / companion and will pay her a monthly salary. That way she won't feel like a prostitute even though she will be spreading her legs for you each night. Hahaha. She will think you are dangling the carrot of marriage at the end.
I take your point. Middle class and upper middle class Filipinos / Filipinas got there through nepotism, political connections, bribery, corruption, tax evasion and other unethical business practices. They are too busy screwing over their own countrymen that they don't have time to be chasing down retired, fat, bald, septuagenarian white mongers. Haha. Class and social status are very important to Filipinas from the posh gated communities in Manila and Cebu and they would not be seen dead with a retired limo driver from the USA. People like Arthur from the video and the majority of mongers on this board will need to be content with chasing barely literate, bird brained nincompoops from the slums.
This is not limited to limo drivers. Middle and upper middle class Pinays want nothing to do with foreign mongers of any sort, even fat white balding potbellied community college professors. Such a thing would be extremely scandalous in their social circle. Foreign retirees get their pick of the poor social rejects and semi-reformed hookers. Foreign mongers are kidding themselves if they think they can marry into Filipino high society. Rich Filipinos know that that RWML is not sending them their best.
Nothing good ever comes from lonely mongers cruising these dating sites for months on end. You will only find lies, misery and desperation. It will wear you out. You should only go on these sites about 2 weeks before your trip to collect phone numbers of prospects. You then fuck these girls when you get there. Many girls won't show up, so it pays to have a long list. Tinder and wechat also worked perfectly well for getting hookers on arrival so it makes these dating sites unnecessary.
I was a big fat zero for a hundred numbers gathered through pre-work on my last trip. That's no exaggeration. Yet I met many great girls with between 2 and 36 hours notice when in country.
That's it, I'm soooo done putting in ground work on the online hookup sites!
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No more of this "see you in 2 weeks" bullshit for me.
For those who still insist that pre-work is required, the test is simple. Go online, say you are in Ayala, Makati or wherever and ask to meet today. No stories of liking sunset strolls with your cute puppy required. No one cares: Where are they, you are there too, are they busy today, want to meet? No need to be crude or demanding. It's implicit what you want. Non believers will be amazed at how many will accept the offer. Don't rule out girls being prepared to travel 4 hours on a bus to spend the night. Many actually prefer to travel and not be seen in their home town entertaining lecherous 70 year olds.
Its his body language. Learned that lesson from an old HR manager many years ago. When your talking to someone and there body language doesn't match their words then that sets off warning bells.
But something about this guy seems off to me and there is more to the story. .
Its his body language. Learned that lesson from an old HR manager many years ago. When your talking to someone and there body language doesn't match their words then that sets off warning bells.
That lesson is a lesson not only for the PI but for any place in the world. But something about this guy seems off to me and there is more to the story. If you want to give a few bucks, then go ahead heck I do it myself. But don't be silly and sell the farm to someone you meet online or that you know in person since they don't have to be dirt poor to screw you over. Many a middle class person got that way by sometimes doing things under the table so don't automatically think that just because she comes from a "good home" in a Manila suburb and has a college degree doesn't mean that she will not rip you off if given the chance.
I take your point. Middle class and upper middle class Filipinos / Filipinas got there through nepotism, political connections, bribery, corruption, tax evasion and other unethical business practices. They are too busy screwing over their own countrymen that they don't have time to be chasing down retired, fat, bald, septuagenarian white mongers. Haha. Class and social status are very important to Filipinas from the posh gated communities in Manila and Cebu and they would not be seen dead with a retired limo driver from the USA. People like Arthur from the video and the majority of mongers on this board will need to be content with chasing barely literate, bird brained nincompoops from the slums.