Seeking Arrangements

[AmericanPi]

ISG Wise Men: my normal jam is the escort scene. Thinking to take plunge on SA, honestly just to have a less transactional experience. Been on this thread a while. A few questions I'd love some sage input on.

1. I'm not looking for a commitment (monthly stipend to girl). I am looking to show a girl a good time for a day (nice restaurants and such) and bang end of night. And then move on. Will that be received badly? Like are SA girls more just looking for a stipend?

2. Looking in Tijuana. Maybe San Diego. Anyone know the scene there?

3. Is the right way to do this to pick a few and message, or do a blast-out spray and' pray?

4. How much risk, in your experience, girl says after dinner but before hotel "thanks for the great night. I'm out." Is it crass to say you're looking for some hotel time in your chat before?

[Gfefan]

Totally spot on advice and comments! Agree with everything that you wrote..

Thank you all. I spent the last two weeks reading through all the pages here and now I think I have a good handle of do's and don'ts.

Taking the plunge now. Will keep posted how it goes.

P. S: As soon as I made the payment, my account was suspended. Has reached out to their customer service. Wonder if anyone else faced similar issue.

[Midwestern]

Totally spot on advice and comments! Agree with everything that you wrote.

1. I think prices are pretty decent in Europe and quality is good. I don't have specific experience in Luxembourg or all the countries you mentioned, but that is my general experience in EU.

I would suggest however that you should browse seeking re: how many girls are present in each place and city you are targeting.

Seeking is not the only sugar site. It is great in US and many other countries but depending on city, there may be other sugar sites with better, more diverse selections.

2 and 3 - too many to list, and change from girl to girl. If you have your wits about you and are experienced in life, you will figure them out quickly.

4. How can anyone answer this question? When you fuck a girl w / o a condom you run some risks, no need to list them here. No one can tell you if those risks are worth taking. Only you would know your risk tolerance (unless you are coming here for reassurance from people you don't even know).

General tips: Don't send money to any person you never met, even if that girl looks ravishing in photos and promises all kinds of goodies. Don't discuss sex and money in seeking or in texts. If the girl is willing to have sex, you will sense that quickly and if the girl is not willing to have sex, she will say so as well. Finally, keep your expectations grounded, don't think you will have copious amounts of sex with supermodel type girls for a hundred bucks etc. , and be prepared for catfishing, no-shows, frauds and cheats, other nasty surprises; it is a long slog and you will need a lot of patience.

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[Pessimist]

I'm thinking of entering the seeking.com scene. Some of my questions below are therefore novice. Please bear with me.

1. How is the scene in Europe? I live in Luxembourg. So, neighboring border areas of Germany, France, Belgium, Netherlands are easy.

2. What are some tips you pros would recommend?

3. Are there any specific pitfalls I should be aware of? Particularly, how do you spot time wasters / baiters?

4. Lastly, if I do find a good fit (let's say a Girl next door type who is not a WG), what are your thoughts on considering engaging without protection?

Many thanks for your guidance / help.

1. I think prices are pretty decent in Europe and quality is good. I don't have specific experience in Luxembourg or all the countries you mentioned, but that is my general experience in EU.

I would suggest however that you should browse seeking re: how many girls are present in each place and city you are targeting.

Seeking is not the only sugar site. It is great in US and many other countries but depending on city, there may be other sugar sites with better, more diverse selections.

2 and 3 - too many to list, and change from girl to girl. If you have your wits about you and are experienced in life, you will figure them out quickly.

4. How can anyone answer this question? When you fuck a girl w / o a condom you run some risks, no need to list them here. No one can tell you if those risks are worth taking. Only you would know your risk tolerance (unless you are coming here for reassurance from people you don't even know).

General tips: Don't send money to any person you never met, even if that girl looks ravishing in photos and promises all kinds of goodies. Don't discuss sex and money in seeking or in texts. If the girl is willing to have sex, you will sense that quickly and if the girl is not willing to have sex, she will say so as well. Finally, keep your expectations grounded, don't think you will have copious amounts of sex with supermodel type girls for a hundred bucks etc. , and be prepared for catfishing, no-shows, frauds and cheats, other nasty surprises; it is a long slog and you will need a lot of patience.

[DonCarlos1234]

What am I selling with these women on Cancun (or PDC) anaggie, is a great time. Only places in the world I have been to that compare fun wise with the Cancun area are Orlando and Singapore (Yes, Singapore is a ball). What are you offering them? Money, and that is not what you want to do not with Cancun.

I keep telling guys to quit with the john-hooker attitude especially in the sugar daddy arena. The money for sex thing is transactional and safe but it is also sterile. The emphasis should be about improving the woman's life and not just throwing money at them. What I tell the sugar baby prospects is when we are together, we are together and when we are apart, we apart. I cannot control if you see other men and you cannot control if I see other women so let's not worry about that. My goal for you is to make me feel better in the moment and my goal with you is to give you a better life. I am going to do what you need but maybe not what you want.

I totally agree! And I am not far behind you. It may be a little warm in June, Is there a 2nd best MX travel option?

[DonCarlos1234]

IMO guys in LA should flog the log during the week, hop on the train to Tijuana on the weekends, and have a ball there. $500 can score you 5 (or more) different women on the weekend.

You could not pay me $500 to have sex in California with a woman there. No fucking way!

In the 60"s there was "free love" ? Today If that other Elvis was alive, imagine the lawsuits. Probably over 1,000. And Frank Sinatra LOL Yes Tijuana is a bargain. So crowded last few days, like wild animals let out of their cages. (sex prison).

[Midwestern]

Midwestern, I believe you have been in China for awhile. I don't think I would recommend going to the apartment of a Latin American girl you barely know with cash. Even if you throw out the concern of theft, there are jealous boyfriends or the frumpy roommate in the next room.

Now I have been to the apartments of Brazilian escorts. However, they have been well-reviewed and live in nice neighborhoods.

Hiya Wyatt:

Actually, I was referring the United States. When I was active on SA, I ended up going to over a dozen girls' homes. And I will tell you something, it was scary as shit, LOL. Of course, I wouldn't just go to their homes the first time straightaway. We would meet in a bar or restaurant, and then later we would go back to her place. However, every time that I did this, before I entered her apartment, I would jot down her apartment number and address and text it to someone (or pretend to text it to someone). I would tell the girl that I am doing this in case I disappear, and she would either chuckle, or say that she understood and that it was a good idea.

This reminds me of one time when the girl invited me over to her place on our 2nd date. She actually had a nice home, which was something that she got in a divorce. Anyway, that night, it was snowing. As I walked up to her front door, I noticed huge boot prints that were very fresh. I panicked, because maybe there was a huge guy waiting to rob me. But this girl had such great big tits, that I decided it was worth the risk. How stupid was that? But I got rewarded for my risk taking.

But I agree with you that it is risky and that everyone needs to exercise caution. As for Latin Americans, I don't have a thing for them. Every person that I dated on SA were white Americans. I have boring tastes.

[WyattEarp]

Other than chemistry and physical appearance, probably my next most important criteria for an SB is if she can host. I often brought this up at the meet and greet. But eventually, it was one of the first questions that I asked when we started texting. Man, when an SB cannot host, it racks up the costs and the inconvenience.

I was thinking about this today when I visited my favorite pro at her apartment. As an aside, she has a new roommate, and so we had her join the fun. Just nice being able to show up and then leave.

Midwestern, I believe you have been in China for awhile. I don't think I would recommend going to the apartment of a Latin American girl you barely know with cash. Even if you throw out the concern of theft, there are jealous boyfriends or the frumpy roommate in the next room.

Now I have been to the apartments of Brazilian escorts. However, they have been well-reviewed and live in nice neighborhoods.

[Midwestern]

Most of your questions have been answered in depth and in detail in this thread. You might start from the very beginning to get some basic answers, and then look for Steve's excellent guide for noobs. After that, you should skim the rest of the thread, as lots of posters from all over the world have provided excellent suggestions. Lots of Europeans on here too. Spending a few hours reading this thread will definitely pay off. Good luck!

I'm thinking of entering the seeking.com scene. Some of my questions below are therefore novice. Please bear with me.

1. How is the scene in Europe? I live in Luxembourg. So, neighboring border areas of Germany, France, Belgium, Netherlands are easy.

2. What are some tips you pros would recommend?

3. Are there any specific pitfalls I should be aware of? Particularly, how do you spot time wasters / baiters?

4. Lastly, if I do find a good fit (let's say a Girl next door type who is not a WG), what are your thoughts on considering engaging without protection?

Many thanks for your guidance / help.

[Gfefan]

I'm thinking of entering the seeking.com scene. Some of my questions below are therefore novice. Please bear with me.

1. How is the scene in Europe? I live in Luxembourg. So, neighboring border areas of Germany, France, Belgium, Netherlands are easy.

2. What are some tips you pros would recommend?

3. Are there any specific pitfalls I should be aware of? Particularly, how do you spot time wasters / baiters?

4. Lastly, if I do find a good fit (let's say a Girl next door type who is not a WG), what are your thoughts on considering engaging without protection?

Many thanks for your guidance / help.

[Midwestern]

Other than chemistry and physical appearance, probably my next most important criteria for an SB is if she can host. I often brought this up at the meet and greet. But eventually, it was one of the first questions that I asked when we started texting. Man, when an SB cannot host, it racks up the costs and the inconvenience.

I was thinking about this today when I visited my favorite pro at her apartment. As an aside, she has a new roommate, and so we had her join the fun. Just nice being able to show up and then leave.

[DramaFree11]

Hey gents,

What city or cities are the best in terms of SA girls quality and selection and affordability / price? Top-3 based on your experience.

In Central and Latin America only.

Thanks!

1. MTY 2. Mexico City 3. GDL 4. If you can get a cheap flight Colombia, (Some likeit there others do not).

[TonyMontanaaO7]

Same here, I call them sugar girlfriends. I've had a few where it was boyfriend / girlfriend type of stuff.

Getting Catfished is really very common in SA.

[SeekingHead]

Over the past few months, I had to shift from SBs / regulars to WGs. I will say, I have saved a lot of time and money. However, I miss the text messages. My SBs / regulars used to text me about a dozen times a day, and now I miss it. These SBs / regulars really make me feel like that I am their BF, while the WGs just make me feel like a customer, even though their service may be great. At some point, I will start looking for new SBs / regulars soon. Especially as the weather gets better. I love having a GF when the weather is nice. Or maybe I just get hornier when girls start showing more skin when they start wearing their shorts and summer dresses.

Same here, I call them sugar girlfriends. I've had a few where it was boyfriend / girlfriend type of stuff.

[MiamiBoy1]

Hey gents,

What city or cities are the best in terms of SA girls quality and selection and affordability / price? Top-3 based on your experience.

In Central and Latin America only.

Thanks!