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[Steve 9696]

Yep, I know I have to lower my standards in SA, compared to MTY,(banging models in MTY. Hopefully I can get a reliable 6 or 7 in SA), but I can hold out. As you know killing in MTY.

You are so correct about lodging, I could not believe how crazy expensive it has gotten the states. I was wrong, I thought prices would go down, but it totally going the other way. You forgot to mention car rentals, they have doubled is price or more, totally insane.

I musta saved $1000 this year with this little known back door. You go on Hotwire and look at the deals. Note closely how many stars including half stars. Note the rating — like 4. 3 or 4. 4 or whatever. Note also the distance from location.

These things are like a little digital finger print. Then scan down the page and find the hotel that matches that digital fingerprint. You may have to limit your search to a smaller area using the map to ensure uniqueness. But I've saved a ton off high end props like Westin Hilton and Hyatt using this little trick. I 100% get the hotel I expected and save between $40 and $100 a night.

[WyattEarp]

K ima just going to have to disagree on the age thing. I totally vibe with girls under 25, with 23 being almost the magic age over and over. And here's yet another 23 year old home run! BTW virtually all my early 20s home runs have nose rings fwiw. I consider it a tell now!

I wonder if the 20 somethings versus 30 somethings might shake out differently when comparing "civilian dating" (for lack of a better term). I've generally found 30 somethings more sexual. 20 somethings would give me the "I've been told I give great blowjobs". Actually many were terrible. Who's going to tell some hot, girl who's sucking their cock "you're not doing a good job". Anyway, it could be dangerous to criticize a girl who had your cock in her mouth. LOL.

Of course, this is all anecdotal. When I was still able to civilian date twentysomethings, I would come across young women who was a free spirit sexually. Later in my life, the fact that I was twenty years older seemed to excite some of these young free spirits.

Steve, I am very impressed with your post about the tall, black girl. It's possible SA girls are more free spirited than the random girl. You also put in a clever incentive structure out front for this girl. More SA dates if things go well the first night. Every girl should understand that, but you put it out there in detail.

[WyattEarp]

Economically because of Covid, things are so fucked up now that I am not sure how women are going to be doing. On the one hand, hotel rooms are $300 in Abilene and yes a buddy of mine paid $600 for a room at La Quinta in Amarillo. On one hand, we have a housing shortage and people are having a hard time finding a good place to buy or rent. On the other, people cannot get evicted for not paying their rent so they are not paying but when they do have to, there is going to be a ton of homes on the market once the dead beat renters are tossed.

I would imagine that a lot of these non-paying women will have to find a source of money and soon. Maybe the reason Mexico has been so much better than the USA is they do not have government programs that allow people not to pay rent. I went to CDMX before Covid and did not have near the success I did later.

Yes Elvis, the USA Housing market is fucked up. The Fed's pumping in cheap money available to qualified borrowers who drive up prices. There are supposedly a load of foreclosures and evictions being forestalled. I'm not trying to make this a political point, but I would say it's a K shaped recovery so far. I don't know how it will all shake out, but I am optimistic we get through this quickly.

[DramaFree11]

Oh, I know what is going to happen. LOL. I will never forget (I looked up the year) 2014 and the remark Charles Barkley made. San Antonio was playing Oklahoma City and you could tell CB wanted OKC for the NBA finals because the women are hotter in OKC than SA. CB worked for weight watchers then and he said after SA won the series, "Well, it is all right. Weight Watchers is going to make a ton of money in San Antonio. " It was funny watching E. Johnson and Kenny Smith doing all they could to hold in their laughter.

SA was better than I thought but more like a 2 than a 1 out of 10. Nah. JK. No, I would rate SA a 4 out of 10 for women. And MTY is an 8 or 9. Only cities I have been to that are better are Bogota, Sao Paulo. I think MTY is tied with CDMX and Buenos Aires.

Yep, I know I have to lower my standards in SA, compared to MTY,(banging models in MTY. Hopefully I can get a reliable 6 or 7 in SA), but I can hold out. As you know killing in MTY.

You are so correct about lodging, I could not believe how crazy expensive it has gotten the states. I was wrong, I thought prices would go down, but it totally going the other way. You forgot to mention car rentals, they have doubled is price or more, totally insane.

[Midwestern]

I read every word and it was worth it. Congrats bro. M sounds like a keeper. You might have to return, just to see her.

[DramaFree11]

Dude you will surely find a winner. I set my search on 20-25 year old Latinas in San Antonio with a friends with benefits tag and got 10 cuties on line right now! OMG. That is target rich. I would die to have that selection. But you do have to be on every night. Some logon and grab a few contacts and it's a new crop next day.

Yep, it is working slowly. The combination of San Antonio and MTY, is perfect. 2 days to closing on the new business. Hopefully everything goes smoothly, but the seller attorney is killing me. I need to stay calm and the opportunity is too good to pass up.

[Elvis 2008]

K ima just going to have to disagree on the age thing. I totally vibe with girls under 25, with 23 being almost the magic age over and over. And here's yet another 23 year old home run! BTW virtually all my early 20s home runs have nose rings fwiw. I consider it a tell now!.

Great report Steve! I am glad you are catching a few.

Economically because of Covid, things are so fucked up now that I am not sure how women are going to be doing. On the one hand, hotel rooms are $300 in Abilene and yes a buddy of mine paid $600 for a room at La Quinta in Amarillo. On one hand, we have a housing shortage and people are having a hard time finding a good place to buy or rent. On the other, people cannot get evicted for not paying their rent so they are not paying but when they do have to, there is going to be a ton of homes on the market once the dead beat renters are tossed.

I would imagine that a lot of these non-paying women will have to find a source of money and soon. Maybe the reason Mexico has been so much better than the USA is they do not have government programs that allow people not to pay rent. I went to CDMX before Covid and did not have near the success I did later.

[Elvis 2008]

San Antonio is much harder, but I am making slow progress, I knew it would be tough and lot of work, but Holly Shit some of the crap these girls try and pull with there fake pictures, it is just incredible. Video Chat or no go for me. I can afford to take my time, because I always have MTY. I imagine I will give on SA in San Antonio, but who knows, it is a challenge.

Oh, I know what is going to happen. LOL. I will never forget (I looked up the year) 2014 and the remark Charles Barkley made. San Antonio was playing Oklahoma City and you could tell CB wanted OKC for the NBA finals because the women are hotter in OKC than SA. CB worked for weight watchers then and he said after SA won the series, "Well, it is all right. Weight Watchers is going to make a ton of money in San Antonio. " It was funny watching E. Johnson and Kenny Smith doing all they could to hold in their laughter.

SA was better than I thought but more like a 2 than a 1 out of 10. Nah. JK. No, I would rate SA a 4 out of 10 for women. And MTY is an 8 or 9. Only cities I have been to that are better are Bogota, Sao Paulo. I think MTY is tied with CDMX and Buenos Aires.

[Steve 9696]

I am so glad you are back in the game. You are so correct, about the b. S, but I am making slow progress with the girls in San Antonio. I find the Black girls, are the most dishonest when it comes to there pictures and profiles, but it is pretty bad in general compared to Moscow and Mexico. I just need to keep working.

Dude you will surely find a winner. I set my search on 20-25 year old Latinas in San Antonio with a friends with benefits tag and got 10 cuties on line right now! OMG. That is target rich. I would die to have that selection. But you do have to be on every night. Some logon and grab a few contacts and it's a new crop next day.

[DramaFree11]

K ima just going to have to disagree on the age thing. I totally vibe with girls under 25, with 23 being almost the magic age over and over. And here's yet another 23 year old home run! BTW virtually all my early 20s home runs have nose rings fwiw. I consider it a tell now!

Been so excited about my first post Covid trip to a larger US city. Started surfing for SA girls about 6-8 weeks ago, just to have something to do and managed to snag one almost a month ago and another about two weeks out. Both were really nice about being girlfriendy and staying in touch, so I kicked others to the curb and set up M for night 1 and A for night two. The idea is to then repeat with the best on night 3 and possibly 4. I had a third Latina girl in backup in case of a fail and she was really sweet to agree I could be a last minute hookup, but I did not need her after all and let her down gently once I had sampled the other two.

M (23) is a 5-10 black girl, super slim with a very cute face. And wow what a body but I didn't know this going in, from her nondescript pics. Then there is A (20), who is a Brasileira with traditional Moreno look that I love, with the classic silky black hair. Both girls were great. But M was awesome and kinda just blew the doors off A and most other girls I've been with honestly..

I am so glad you are back in the game. You are so correct, about the b. S, but I am making slow progress with the girls in San Antonio. I find the Black girls, are the most dishonest when it comes to there pictures and profiles, but it is pretty bad in general compared to Moscow and Mexico. I just need to keep working.

[Steve 9696]

K ima just going to have to disagree on the age thing. I totally vibe with girls under 25, with 23 being almost the magic age over and over. And here's yet another 23 year old home run! BTW virtually all my early 20s home runs have nose rings fwiw. I consider it a tell now!

Been so excited about my first post Covid trip to a larger US city. Started surfing for SA girls about 6-8 weeks ago, just to have something to do and managed to snag one almost a month ago and another about two weeks out. Both were really nice about being girlfriendy and staying in touch, so I kicked others to the curb and set up M for night 1 and A for night two. The idea is to then repeat with the best on night 3 and possibly 4. I had a third Latina girl in backup in case of a fail and she was really sweet to agree I could be a last minute hookup, but I did not need her after all and let her down gently once I had sampled the other two.

M (23) is a 5-10 black girl, super slim with a very cute face. And wow what a body but I didn't know this going in, from her nondescript pics. Then there is A (20), who is a Brasileira with traditional Moreno look that I love, with the classic silky black hair. Both girls were great. But M was awesome and kinda just blew the doors off A and most other girls I've been with honestly.

M had been super girlfriendy by text -- literally checking in daily on how things were going and just light chit chat. I was really thinking she might be the one, so I scheduled her for night 1. We had agreed terms by text. She'the said she got 500 with her last Daddy and I didn't try to push her off that. But Instead said OK I'll do 500 date 1 but then 900 for two dates and 1200 if we have three dates. (500+400+300) She was good with this. (Later during pillow talk she let something slip that she mighta gone for 300 but damn she is worth every penny of four or five.).

We met up just two hours after I landed, at a pub with some great food. We ate in a circular booth, not quite side by side but more adjacent than across the table. The vibe at dinner was really good. Slightly awkward at first because she is so good at this game. She would just stare straight at me with intent interest! I am so used to girls being a bit shy or looking away, but not M! So it threw me off my game a bit. But we got to vibing and chatting and it got really easy quickly.

As we finished up dinner, I said want to get out of here and she said sure. OK. So far so good. As we walked towards the parking lot she asked where I was parked and she said she was over there. This was not my finest moment as I walked her to her car I didn't have a good flow going. We got there and turned face to face she's my height in heels and I just said "uhh, so do you want to continue?" Kinda awkward! But she says YES and plants a big kiss on me! And we rock on to the hotel, her following me.

In the room things go super easy. I don't have any wine but it doesn't seem to matter after we each have a bathroom break she is sitting legs sidewise on the bed looking expectant. So I oblige and join her and we start making out. She is a GREAT kisser and clearly loves to kiss. We shed her dress and her bra and I start to work her magnificent tits.

And they are MAGNIFICENT. Prior to M, Kendall in London held the sole crown of having the finest firm D cups on planet earth. And yet, here was M right before me, with truly world class tits -- I'd say a dead tie with Kendall and everyone else paling in comparison. Her Victoria's Secret bra says 32 DD, but they are notorious for making a girl feel good by overstating her assets. She later told me she's usually a 34 D. Super slim. Huge, amazing and firm rack.

And she loves to have them sucked hard and nipples licked. I was in heaven. Between that and the kissing she is a sloppy wet mess downstairs when I get there. Turns out she's a full Bush girl, which I haven't seen since Vietnamese girls but it's neatly trimmed enough. I do some DATY and she's ok with it but not going to orgasm. She has a beautiful pink pussy inside and the fingering is awesome, which she seems into.

After a while, I maneuver to my fave position. Her on her back or partially on her side. Me kneeling near her head. Fingers in her pussy. Dick in her mouth. OMG I looooove that. And she can suck dick. So long and slow with her thick lips. And with the wet pussy I am about to burst several times and have to stop her.

Eventually we suit up and a do a few different things but the mish is legendary. She's tall so we are face to face. We just make out non stop while I fuck her. So good. Deep, passionate kissing while fucking in mish is my top activity aside from a great BJ and I could do it almost forever. But finally I drop a load inside her and collapse.

During the break it's really nice pillow talk. She's a smart girl with a quick wit and it's just effortless to hang together. We prob chat for 30-40 minutes. After a quick bathroom break we start kissing again and it's on!

Round two I am always a bit floppy and she goes down to get me worked up. Well she's a magician and gets me going in no time. Back on my knees with wet pussy fingers and soft and slow BJ and I have to stop her several times again which is amazing because I'm never ready to cum in the first five minutes on round 2 . But I finally let her proceed fully and let loose a hot load in her mouth which she SWALLOWS without a word. Smiles and kisses me. Wow. What a girl! (as I've said before, SA rocks here -- no negotiation, no upsell -- I often get CIM with swallow and a smile. Sooooo awesome.).

So after this experience, I am sure that M is the repeat girl. One of the top girls I've found on Seeking. She's the whole package. Tall, lithe, and beautiful, with amazing firm the cups and a sopping wet pussy. Great in bed but most importantly a passionate full time kisser who truly enjoys herself. And finally she is smart, witty and a great girlfriend but totally knows the score.

But my Brasileira, A, is really nice too. And we had invested in a lot of chat and had a fixed dinner date and reservation and I really didn't want to let her down, so I proceeded with A for night two. Plus never hurts to have more girls in the harem.

When we had talked allowance A said we'the just figure it out when we meet. I have usually found this awkward but it worked OK. And I was thrilled to meet a Brasileira stateside who was not a mega gold digger. I figure if she hits me with a big figure at dinner, I will just part afterwards. But it didn't go that way thank goodness.

I sent an Uber for her as she does not drive. I met her just outside the restaurant as she was coming down the sidewalk from the Uber. Uau! To linda! (Wow so beautiful). Tight, short LBD and strappy white stripper heels. Really hot.

At dinner it was a little less of a flow as she is young, plus not a native English speaker and needs me to carry the conversation. She turns 21 the next day (and couldn't meet up on her birthday) but I manage to order wine for both of us without missing a beat. She squeals with delight when she takes her first sip. This kinda thing is so great about SA also -- introducing these young ladies to the world and its delights.

So pretty quickly two slightly awkward topics come up. One, she has a one year old kid at home, who she is checking on. And two she thinks I live local and we are here to set up something regular. The kid isn't a big deal but the second was a BIG disconnect. She clearly thought she was headed to setting up a regular income stream and instead finds a dude who just wants to bang her once or twice. Damn I felt horrible I got her out with the wrong expectations and we are just a one night thing. But it really was just a misunderstanding and frankly more her fault than mine.

Well after a few minutes of her seeming flustered and confused about what to do and me apologizing but saying I thought it was clear I am only there a day or two, she finally says it's ok and no problem. And sure enough, she compartmentalizes this and we never talk of it again. Great job on her part pivoting to the moment.

We have a nice enough dinner but it's a bit more FWB than sexy lovers. We talk about how she had to pay some guy $20 K to get her into the US. And shortly thereafter, another guy got her pregnant and ditched her. We talked about some of her prior SBs including a 70 year old guy, who was super sweet and I guy she sees who is loaded but fat and ugly and treats her like a doormat.

In general I get the feel that she's been treated badly by men and I feel really bad for her. She yearns for some true affection. She comments how much she loves that I check in on her daily. She's a sweet soul and deserves better than the lot in life she's been given (she cleans houses as her day job).

Not much pretense here as we wrap dinner and head to my car. She hops right in and off we go to the hotel.

The in room experience is just a bit off maybe too friendly and not romantic enough but I can't really complain -- she's kinda goofy, fun and beautiful. She gets her clothes off and hops under the covers saying it's cold (later I realize this was likely to hide her baby damage). I get naked and under as well. But rather than initiating sex she seems to want to cuddle. Again I feel a bit bad for her because she needs affection. So I play along nuzzling and stroking not knowing if this is somehow going sideways or not.

But after maybe 15 minutes of cuddling and nuzzling she swings her leg over and gets up in cowgirl naked junk and lady parts pressed against one another and starts grinding. She too has great tits and is super pretty so this gets the act started. Feeling her pussy, she is much wetter than I expected. She is ready to rumble! She asks if I have a condom and how I want to start. I say mish, but what no BJ? She giggles "oops I forgot!" she's a bit drunk on a glass and half of wine. And she goes down on me raw like one would hope. Pretty good BJ but we suit up pretty quickly after.

She's a good kisser and when we talk later about how I have had SBs who don't kiss she is mystified. Like how can you have sex without kissing? And I have to agree!

She is super loud and over the top with her moans. She is in fact a sloppy mess but I am not sure I believe her verbal histrionics. Nonetheless we try various things and end with her on her back at edge of bed and me standing and driving with her legs over shoulders. I do this a lot with Layla and it's quite good. So I drop a load inside her there. There is a bunch more cuddling and we both almost fall asleep -- but I know she needs to get back to her daughter. I feel like I gave her what she needed and vice versa.

Uber home is going to be $70 so I drove her and got to see what a dicey neighborhood she lives in. I would not feel safe there at night. On the way it was fun though, because I said let me practice my Portuguese and we had a conversation like I might with a girl I just met. She was very complimentary and said it was perfect, which made me feel good.

As she exited my car at her place, I gave her 400 in a card. Since we are chatting still by text, guess she was good with that. Honestly she mighta taken less but damn she has a rough life compared to me. I felt I definitely left her better than I found her. And I wouldn't mind seeing her again I had a lot of fun. But she can't compare to M.

Next up is night two with M which was truly epic. We went to a restaurant of her choosing which was really good. When she arrived in an LBD with black spikes. OMG statuesque does not even capture it. She looks amazing even in clothes!

Nice dinner but the main event is back in the room. We are now so comfy together. Flirty and fun. The kissing is epic. The pussy wet and wild. Those tits absolutely to die for. We get to joking how I don't enjoy cowgirl that much from a feel standpoint but the view of her with her the cups bouncing up and down and a big smile and perfect thin waist is so epic. She says that I get this "kid in a candy store" look. And she loves making me do it!

We do some 69 for the first time and it's super nice. I guess because she's 90% legs her torso isn't so long. So her pussy falls a bit short of my face. But this is great because I can lean forward and dive in with tongue or I can finger her and watch as my finger sinks inside. Wow. And of course the BJ is great also. Duh.

Lots of fucking and BJ and everything in between. After some great mish kissing I get close to the edge but we stop and let her finish bare by mouth. CIM and swallow of course. Yummy.

We have a TON of pillow talk and round 2 which is again BJ only and CIM swallow. Which is great because I'm beat. The cuddling and talk is amazing, even talking about our craziest sexual experience (me sex club, her being spit roasted which she loved. LOL) We spent a full 5 hours on this date, although she did decide to go home around midnight and we'the meet up again the next day.

Next day we met up for brunch and had some out of this world stuff at a place she knew (great having a local tour guide) and we spent some good time just hanging out and having a coffee in the park before going to the room. She looked hot AF again -- I mean she dressed in a form fitting peach dress and matching peach spikes for BRUNCH! What a girl. And come to find out she doesn't even have a bra on! What girl can rock the D cups without a bra? Those are some firm and perky tits man!

Much more of the same (two rounds and CIM swallow to finish both times) and a total of four hours on our last day! Wow. M is the total package. I definitely want to see her again and likely fly her with me somewhere so we can really hang out.

As you guys know SA is sifting thru large piles of bullshit to find the gems. And I found a sapphire in A and a diamond in M. Makes it totally worth all the rest. Totally.

[DramaFree11]

Back in the MTY and killing. I did have a couple of new girls scheduled, but they went dark. No problem, called one of the regulars and amazing sessions. Just got done with a session, Anal, Rimming, and everything else. She is a total Porno Star. Never says no. The model is scheduled for this afternoon. Meeting another hot girl at S. Prime this evening. Life is good.

San Antonio is much harder, but I am making slow progress, I knew it would be tough and lot of work, but Holly Shit some of the crap these girls try and pull with there fake pictures, it is just incredible. Video Chat or no go for me. I can afford to take my time, because I always have MTY. I imagine I will give on SA in San Antonio, but who knows, it is a challenge.

[Drbombay]

I had a great time with gals in their 30's, 40's, and even in their 50's, yes, 50's, on SA. These older gals loved to fuck. And they were genuinely into me.

I met some college gals on SA, and after a while, I decided that I was not into that. And so eventually, I never talked to anyone under 24 on SA. But everyone is different, and everyone is looking for different things. But I really enjoyed the older gals on SA. And, for me at least, they were better for dating too, outside of the bedroom. Yes, these older gals do want to get to know you, so there is that. But I did not mind it.

The thing about older women on SA is that they understand their "glory days" have passed and are looking at more for their long term stability. So they are less likely to just "trip out" and understand a man's got to do what a man does more easily than some younger ones. I've also found that some older women do really enjoy sex more, especially if they aren't worried about starting a family.

[WyattEarp]

This is unscientific but usually at that age if a woman is attractive, IMO she is going to stay attractive. For that reason, there are a lot more hot 20 somethings than 30 somethings but the women in their 30's IMO have a bigger sexual appetite.

All in all, I prefer women in their 30's but the problem is that more often than not, age or having children has hurt them looks wise. But if you get a hottie at 34, you are in for a great ride. Honestly, the women in their 30's are better in bed and more passionate than those in their 20's in my experience.

Yes Elvis, a lot of sexy women under 25 can't carry that sex appeal into their 30's. Weight gain and child bearing stressing the body. I think you'll agree, shorter women generally suffer more physical decline. There's also cutie looks that don't really age well.

You're also right that thirtysomething women really get into bed with the idea of pleasuring their partners and enjoying themselves. I won't digress on why here. Too many young hotties take sex and their sexual partners for granted.

[Elvis 2008]

Any thoughts on getting into something like that with a 34 Y. O? I'm sure if I take it further she will poke around even more and I intend to keep myself as insulated as possible.

This is unscientific but usually at that age if a woman is attractive, IMO she is going to stay attractive. For that reason, there are a lot more hot 20 somethings than 30 somethings but the women in their 30's IMO have a bigger sexual appetite.

The woman of my dreams is 32, and I have to add that my first year in the "real world" was 30. I had worked and had jobs but never run my own business, and that was a hell of an education to see how some people really are. I grew up more that year than any of my life.

Thing is that I do not like to go through that maturity phase with women. Women in their 20's typically do not respect the work it takes for us to have money whereas women in their 30's generally do. As such, the older women appreciate our generosity more in general.

The exception, and this is weird, but I am just going to say it, has been women who have been involved in the drug world. I am not advocating drug use by any means but women who have been in that world in their 20's do not have to be introduced to reality. They have lived it.

All in all, I prefer women in their 30's but the problem is that more often than not, age or having children has hurt them looks wise. But if you get a hottie at 34, you are in for a great ride. Honestly, the women in their 30's are better in bed and more passionate than those in their 20's in my experience.

Also, I am in my mid50's, and I have had so many women tell me that age is not important to them, but the women in their 20's do get shit from their friends if they are dating an older man. With women in their 30's, there is none of that from people she knows or from strangers.