Boca Chica

[GrownMan1]

Why should he make the chick feel like a hooker when she had already made it clear that she was not? Seems like many people are not passing out money simply because a chick may need it, but rather to keep themselves from feeling bad.

" In the afternoon I met a tinder date. She was 19 and had some real cute pictures and had reacted very strongly when I had asked here if she required money to see me. " If you're not capable of reading between the lines then that's your call. Of course I'm on the outside looking in. That was a young 19 year old young lady. If you think that offering her money makes her feel like a hooker. What do you think about having sex with her and once you're finished telling her to leave? Make yourself think that she just wanted lunch and her back blowing out.

We all know our true intentions. Mr E you will be happy if a chica excepts 100 pesos after you blow her back out just because she didn't open her mouth.

[Stradivari]

I tried to message you but no luck. Perhaps choose a location and I can meet you there later today? Where a pink carnation. And I don-t expect you to slip me DOP 2. 000 or pay my taxi. Haha.

Haha, I'm glad we can meet without the need to exchange money, but just ideas. I will have lunch at the boat house at around 12:30, I'm wearing a yellow shirt. Hope the message is getting through mods quickly enough. I don't know how else to get in touch.

Interesting discussion has started here. I realize there is a lot I have to learn. In fact, I would not call myself particularly handsome, but I might have developed some inner game (and a little bit of regular game also). So, this question comes up every once in a while, when I am in countries much poorer than my home country. I haven't found a perfect solution and while slipping some money discretely might be the perfect solutions for those girls who are not doing this for the first time but are just to shy (I remember one girl in Bangkok in a similar situation. Met her on we chat and her interest was clearly to join me in my week on Kib Samui later, which I did not want; she also refused money but we've spent a lot of time with good talks in a restaurant, than in a skybar and in the morning for breakfast, so I didn't feel bad about that, but I guess, it would have been the right thing for her to have very discretely given her something), for others, who really do that for the first time, or who just want to create some experiences with guys that will not stalk them for the next months, it may be just wrong to "compensate" the pleasure that both had. This is how it felt two days ago for me. It was already very obvious, that she could hardly deal with the situation, that hotel staff needed her cedula, did not allow her to enter the lobby without me. Obviously she wasn't used at all to go to hotels.

[Stradivari]

Oh, man. You blew it. You should've ran to Caribe Express and sent double that amount so she could buy makeup and lingerie to be extra sexy for you!

So you had the two opposites. One that tried to rip you off. And one that came to your place and pretty much did everything right. I would've slipped 2K-2,500 in her purse (in addition to transportation) and said please use this to get a nice meal later (or something like that). She sounds like a nice chick, I would've done something nice for her in return just because it feels right. Also I would want to encourage that type of behavior. She was probably kind of bummed but had enough class to not say anything. I know she strongly said she didnt want money. But sounds like she might even be out of pocket for taxi money. Theres different thoughts on this but I always try to give something anyway because I know theyre probably broke and could use it.

Thanks for the report!

Thank you for your thoughts. Slipping something discretely in her purse sounds like a perfect idea. I wish, it would have come to my mind. I felt like I would do it wrong if I would urge her to take it. But saying goodbye without anything also felt wrong. You are showing me the solution, thank you!

[JustTK]

Thanks GM, I will use that on my way back.

I tried to message you but no luck. Perhaps choose a location and I can meet you there later today? Where a pink carnation. And I don-t expect you to slip me DOP 2. 000 or pay my taxi. Haha.

[JustTK]

Why should he make the chick feel like a hooker when she had already made it clear that she was not? I am not a hooker. Yes you are; take this money.

Seems that some guys here have no means of communicating with girls / women apart from assuming they are hookers. Everyone assumes she is flat out broke and would appreciate money. Perhaps she just wanted and appreciated the opportunity to meet someone and move on from her previous relationship? I wouldn-t knock Stradivari for that. Seems to me like he was the one that listened to her and gave her what she wanted.

[Oakie]

First full day today and realized there is a lot to learn. However, some nice experiences happened and I will report.....

......In the afternoon I met a tinder date. She was 19 and had some real cute pictures and had reacted very strongly when I had asked here if she required money to see me. She strictly denied that and thus, our conversation on tinder and Whats app was not sexual in any respect. She was half an hour late (supposedly because of her uber) and had a nice face. Her body however was not exactly my style, I had scotomized that one on the pictures. Anyway, as we where there, we walked along the beach, talking talking talking, sat down here and there and walked and laughed again. One and a half hour later, I asked her what was her worst and best hope of how this evening was going the end. When I then asked if she liked massage and wanted to come over to my room, she silently nodded. She told me, she started her relationship with late 13 and terminated it two years ago, had some experience with women then and was now almost 18 months without sex. I guess, the fact that I had pointed her too, that I would be away in a couple of days again, helped her to try out a dick speaking another language and being much older than her. She was pretty active in the room, despite her shyness, but of course not at all experienced and not at all used to dicks in her pussy anymore, even more if they are a little bit bigger then small. We were sitting on the balcony for half an hour afterwards and I assume she would have liked to stay, but I wanted to be on my own and so I made her leave without paying anything (except our drinks just before)........ What does the community say?.

I'd say a Boca Chica that shows up to have sex with a stranger, is just working her game.

She gives the GFE, in the hope that you'll feel good about it, and come back for more. After all, you did write up a nice review.

Sales promotion is not limited to getting a free sample from the supermarket, or a free test drive from the auto show room.

In your case, you just said thanks, and moved on.

With other mongers, her game will be successful, often enough.

Cheers!

[Mr Enternational]

To be fair, he mentioned that his girl had told him she didn't want the money. Still, you're right that he should've paid nevertheless, but I don't know how I would've approached it in that situation, (perhaps would've slipped the money discreetly into her purse).

Why should he make the chick feel like a hooker when she had already made it clear that she was not? Seems like many people are not passing out money simply because a chick may need it, but rather to keep themselves from feeling bad.

Of course everybody on the planet needs money, but that is no excuse to make a hooker out of someone. From this reasoning even if they did not have sex then he still should have given her money, because she still needed it whether they fucked or not. Or is the need only to be fulfilled if you got to stick your dick into her?

I am not a hooker. Yes you are; take this money.

[Sam 14]

For tomorrow there is another tinder date (with the lady being offended by me offering a regalo) and another one cancelled, where we had agreed on 2500 for 2 hours plus transport (by guagua), because just in the last minute I was told that she wanted my to pay upfront before she was coming (because she had to pay for the transport and for a babysitter also upfront); can't help it

Oh, man. You blew it. You should've ran to Caribe Express and sent double that amount so she could buy makeup and lingerie to be extra sexy for you!

So you had the two opposites. One that tried to rip you off. And one that came to your place and pretty much did everything right. I would've slipped 2K-2,500 in her purse (in addition to transportation) and said please use this to get a nice meal later (or something like that). She sounds like a nice chick, I would've done something nice for her in return just because it feels right. Also I would want to encourage that type of behavior. She was probably kind of bummed but had enough class to not say anything. I know she strongly said she didnt want money. But sounds like she might even be out of pocket for taxi money. Theres different thoughts on this but I always try to give something anyway because I know theyre probably broke and could use it.

Thanks for the report!

[Xpartan]

So you had sex with her and sent her on the way without giving her anything? Did you think she was just wanted to fuck you for free and not hope that you give her anything? Even if she didn't ask you should understand Everywoman can use extra money. She didn't put a price on it trying to be respectful. Stop coming to this country trying to fuck girls for free. Give her something when you are finished with her that way you don't owe each other anything and everybody's happy.
My opinion of course. If your intentions are not to be her boyfriend why would you treat her in this manner? All you did was used her and send her home when you didnt have any more use. Thats sad.

To be fair, he mentioned that his girl had told him she didn't want the money. Still, you're right that he should've paid nevertheless, but I don't know how I would've approached it in that situation, (perhaps would've slipped the money discreetly into her purse).

[Durandpaul]

My opinion of course. If your intentions are not to be her boyfriend why would you treat her in this manner? All you did was used her and send her home when you didnt have any more use. Thats sad.

He must be sexy and handsome, and got this girl wet as soon as they met LOL. Why not sending her home when he does that regularly in his hometown.

This girl isn't doing anything next time without getting her money upfront. Rookie mistake on her part.

[Stradivari]

So you had sex with her and sent her on the way without giving her anything? Did you think she was just wanted to fuck you for free and not hope that you give her anything? Even if she didn't ask you should understand Everywoman can use extra money. She didn't put a price on it trying to be respectful. Stop coming to this country trying to fuck girls for free. Give her something when you are finished with her that way you don't owe each other anything and everybody's happy.
My opinion of course. If your intentions are not to be her boyfriend why would you treat her in this manner? All you did was used her and send her home when you didnt have any more use. Thats sad.

Yes, agreed. I know exactly what you mean and I am thankful for your input. I'm not up to take without giving. This leaves both, the taker and giver, unhappy.

In fact, I tried to give her something. I was trying to put it in her hands and said "I guess you can need that more than me", but she rejected, saying: Entonces, cuando acepto eso me siento una puta why eso no siente bien.

Well, it is not always easy to tell, by which action one is respectful or disrespectful to a particular person.

I didn't come her to fuck girls for free. I have experienced very similar situations using tinder back home as well. But there, it has not the dark shadow of abusing someone in need. While mongering in poor countries always has this kind of shadow, regardless of how much you pay. My 5 cents.

I am 100% sure it was very clear for her, that we would not be girlfriend and boyfriend, even not for a couple of days. I was very clear about that. If she did it out of curiosity or because she just did not want to put a price on it, I don't know. I tried several times but she gave me the strong impression that she was very much offended by talking about money. Respect may also be payed in other currency than in money.

And yes, compared to all the other countries I've mongered in, it seems a lot less common here to put the price on it in advance. Not used to this.

[GrownMan1]

First full day today and realized there is a lot to learn. However, some nice experiences happened and I will report.

I guess, the fact that I had pointed her too, that I would be away in a couple of days again, helped her to try out a dick speaking another language and being much older than her. She was pretty active in the room, despite her shyness, but of course not at all experienced and not at all used to dicks in her pussy anymore, even more if they are a little bit bigger then small. We were sitting on the balcony for half an hour afterwards and I assume she would have liked to stay, but I wanted to be on my own and so I made her leave without paying anything (except our drinks just before).

Cheers, Stradivari.

So you had sex with her and sent her on the way without giving her anything? Did you think she was just wanted to fuck you for free and not hope that you give her anything? Even if she didn't ask you should understand Everywoman can use extra money. She didn't put a price on it trying to be respectful. Stop coming to this country trying to fuck girls for free. Give her something when you are finished with her that way you don't owe each other anything and everybody's happy.
My opinion of course. If your intentions are not to be her boyfriend why would you treat her in this manner? All you did was used her and send her home when you didnt have any more use. Thats sad.

[Stradivari]

Uber is your best friend. The price from the airport to Boca chica is about 250 pesos. Five dollars.

Thanks GM, I will use that on my way back.

[GrownMan1]

Fellows,

This is a newbie report. Newbie to DR, Newbie to BC. So, the senior members will not find anything useful, but for the newbies like me it might be helpful.

Arrived late in the evening and it took me almost an hour to get through customs and immigration. QR code was checked twice, even so vaccination certificate (but not very thoroughly). I asked my hotel if they can organize transport to BC. They offered transport for 35 $, I denied and told them, I was expecting no more than 25 $ and would organize myself otherwise. They replied, that they talked to the driver and 25 $ would be alright. Finally, my driver had to wait quite a while and obviously they did not really talk to him. Because when I gave him 25 $ plus 5 $ tip he was surprised an told me, his regular price (for this hotel?) was 35 $. Anyway, we had a nice chat and he had a nice car driving carefully, so I didn't mind.
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Uber is your best friend. The price from the airport to Boca chica is about 250 pesos. Five dollars.

[Stradivari]

First full day today and realized there is a lot to learn. However, some nice experiences happened and I will report.

First, on the way to the ATM, a very nice looking slim young girl waved me over and offered massage. I rejected and did not change the side of the road, but I remembered her as I liked her smile. Its a bit of a hidden massage place, I wouldn't have seen it hadn't she called. On my way back, I took a closer look and her friendly smile made me follow her up the stairs. On the way I asked what kind of massage she offered and she smiled and offered happy ending. Upstairs in the room, she was already almost taking my clothes off but I managed to agree on the prices: 1000 Massage only, 2000 with oral happy ending. I was not in the mood to negotiate. We had a nice talk while she gave a good (at least significantly more than average) massage and we were already in a good mood when she started to suck my dick (uncovered). She was constantly smiling and we really had a good atmosphere, I didn't give her much time to show all her talents until I shot in her mouth where she kept it for a little while, constantly smiling, then swallowing and with another smile show her empty mouth. Nice indeed. We had not kissed before, so it came as a surprise that she was softly continuing her massage and started with deep tongue kisses and promised, on the next days, she would also be able to provide full service and I'm already looking forward to that! She left me with some advice to be very careful with the ladies on the street and in the park, ("todo loco" those at the beach were less risky she told me and she also told me, that tourist have been robbed under the eyes of the police without any action from the police. I don't know if that's true but I imagine it is.

During the day, in between swimming and working I walked up and down the beach and indeed, almost every guy there was selling almost everything, including chicas. All of them had pictures on their phones, stunning and much less stunning ones, but nobody offered their service for less than 4000 (for one hour!) and some made 7000 as an initial call (those with the hottest pictures).

I wasn't approached by any lady except the old ones with the dark shirts that offered probably regular massage. I got a lot of smiles however, but they came also from those sitting at the beach playing with their kids, obviously on a family holiday and not for working, so I did not really identify many hookers on the beach.

In the afternoon I met a tinder date. She was 19 and had some real cute pictures and had reacted very strongly when I had asked here if she required money to see me. She strictly denied that and thus, our conversation on tinder and Whats app was not sexual in any respect. She was half an hour late (supposedly because of her uber) and had a nice face. Her body however was not exactly my style, I had scotomized that one on the pictures. Anyway, as we where there, we walked along the beach, talking talking talking, sat down here and there and walked and laughed again. One and a half hour later, I asked her what was her worst and best hope of how this evening was going the end. When I then asked if she liked massage and wanted to come over to my room, she silently nodded. She told me, she started her relationship with late 13 and terminated it two years ago, had some experience with women then and was now almost 18 months without sex. I guess, the fact that I had pointed her too, that I would be away in a couple of days again, helped her to try out a dick speaking another language and being much older than her. She was pretty active in the room, despite her shyness, but of course not at all experienced and not at all used to dicks in her pussy anymore, even more if they are a little bit bigger then small. We were sitting on the balcony for half an hour afterwards and I assume she would have liked to stay, but I wanted to be on my own and so I made her leave without paying anything (except our drinks just before).

For tomorrow there is another tinder date (with the lady being offended by me offering a regalo) and another one cancelled, where we had agreed on 2500 for 2 hours plus transport (by guagua), because just in the last minute I was told that she wanted my to pay upfront before she was coming (because she had to pay for the transport and for a babysitter also upfront); can't help it.

Interim summary: Tinder might be useful, especially for those being longer in the same place. For me, it seems very very time consuming with uncertain results. I would prefer to keep the tinder game on a low level and find some other solutions for the day (in addition to the really good massage), but the prices called by the beach vendors just seem way to high. What does the community say?

Cheers, Stradivari.