Seeking Arrangements

[Lois Sanborn]

Hey all,

Long time lurker, first time poster. I've just started dipping my toes in the SA pool, and the first case I've set up seems to be some type of scam? I don't see the point though. So I've been browsing the Colombia threads and this thread on how to set something up. I find a girl whose profile mentions wanting mutual benefits multiple times, so I ask about setting up a date. She asks me "in exchange for what?" So I tell her let's take things to whatsapp, where we discuss the concept of mutual benefits and what exactly it is that I want. I tell her I'm looking for sex, at which point she tells me that I've seen her photos, but she hasn't seen my photos. I figure, that's fair, so I upload a selfie (I realize someone in the thread mentioning to tell them to wait for a face to face, but I forgot in the heat of the moment), at which point she stops responding and blocks me. My most paranoid thought is it's a scam to get my photo and try to find me through social media to extort me. My other thought is I'm an uggo and she instinctively hit block, LOL. Anyone familiar with this?

[Nounce]

Took a 6-day business trip to Beijing. Here's long and boring full report.

Where can I get this type of job? I will work for free. LOL.

[DramaFree11]

DF, can you provide info on the drive from Laredo to MTY? I presume you think it's safe. Do you stay on the main thoroughfare? Do you avoid making stops? Is there anything else to consider?

I've thought about driving through Mexico, perhaps down the Baja coast.

There are a lot of reports on the MTY and Laredo reports. I encourage you to read them, there is some great information. I do feel the toll road from Laredo to MTY is safe. I do not feel Laredo is safe after 10 pm. I do drive in Laredo occasionally, but it is straight to the hotel. Laredo is dangerous, but if you are not doing drugs or hanging out in the bars, you will be fine.

There is always danger driving in Mexico, you do need to be careful, but I do feel for Americans it is safe, as long as you are not selling or seeking drugs.

[DramaFree11]

Took a 6-day business trip to Beijing. Here's long and boring full report.

Day 1: Arranged to spend the first night with a former outcall girl. I will call her LL. I was not sure what the hotel situation was going to be like, so I asked her to book a room for us on AirBnB. That night, I meet my friends for drinks and we get totally wasted. Then I get a car to meet LL at our room, but to my disappointment, she was still on her period. I was kind of mad, but we still fooled around and she gave me lots of nice long blowjobs, and since I was super drunk, I eventually do not care about not getting laid and I pass out.

Here is some boring backstory on LL, which you can skip. I met her 10 years ago. She was the prettiest girl that I met from this escort agency that I used regularly, and she had a great little body with some nice fake tits. We met regularly for over a year, but then I stopped seeing her because I thought she stole money from me, but then I later found the lost money on the day that I moved out of Beijing. So that was tragic. Anyway, I rekindled with her on a business trip to Beijing later.

Sounds a lot of fun and a great trip.

[Midwestern]

Took a 6-day business trip to Beijing. Here's long and boring full report.

Day 1: Arranged to spend the first night with a former outcall girl. I will call her LL. I was not sure what the hotel situation was going to be like, so I asked her to book a room for us on AirBnB. That night, I meet my friends for drinks and we get totally wasted. Then I get a car to meet LL at our room, but to my disappointment, she was still on her period. I was kind of mad, but we still fooled around and she gave me lots of nice long blowjobs, and since I was super drunk, I eventually do not care about not getting laid and I pass out.

Here is some boring backstory on LL, which you can skip. I met her 10 years ago. She was the prettiest girl that I met from this escort agency that I used regularly, and she had a great little body with some nice fake tits. We met regularly for over a year, but then I stopped seeing her because I thought she stole money from me, but then I later found the lost money on the day that I moved out of Beijing. So that was tragic. Anyway, I rekindled with her on a business trip to Beijing later. She had stopped being a WG, she now owned a condo in her hometown, and she was now a part owner of several small businesses (one is a small bubble tea shop). She was also engaged to be married to her longtime boyfriend. However, she never forgot me, and we met up and we had bareback sex. I was shocked that we had bareback sex. She said that she only has sex with her fianc now, and so she was safe and clean. She was the first person that I had barebacked in a while who I was not having a real relationship with. Anyway, we meet up and have sex every time I come to Beijing on business. I still pay her. She always insist that I do not pay her, but she still accepts the money.

Day 2: I wake up hungover, so I am not up for fooling around with LL. I leave, but promise to see her the next day, after her period was over. That night, I was going to see a girl that had a crush me from 9 years ago. I will call her JJ. We only went out once 9 years ago, and we made out, but I was not that into her, so I never asked her out again. However, during the pandemic, she suddenly contacted me, and we became chat buddies. So, I told her that I would be in Beijing and we should meet for a drink. I was planning on fucking her that night, because she looked good in her recent WeChat pictures. But just in case I could not fuck her, I arranged an incall with a new person. The incall was fantastic. Really surprised how great her body was. Very slim. And her English was very good. As soon as we finished, I walked to the bar from her place to meet JJ. We get pretty drunk, and we are touching each all over, but she drinks too much and she suddenly said she had to go home. So I walked her to a taxi. I then stayed out and tried to find a sleazy MP to get laid in, but no success and ended up with a real massage and then went to my hotel room and I slept alone.

Day 3: During the last two days, I notice that many escorts were coming to the hotel. I know they were escorts because most hot girls do not just wait at the elevators for a guy to bring them up, unless they are escorts. So, I told LL to come to my hotel to spend the night. Just in case she was still on her period, I contacted someone that I knew from many years ago. I will call her KY. She was never a real escort, but she fucked my friend for money on a regular basis, and this friend would let his friends fuck her too, including me. She had huge tits and gave amazing blowjobs. Anyway, I had not seen her in over five years. When I contacted her, she had no idea who I was, and I told her that we had fucked a few times, and she said it was impossible she could not remember me. But after exchanging about 30 fucking texts that lasted a few hours, she finally agreed to come over. She arrived in the afternoon, and she remembered me when she saw me, and we started fooling around. Eventually, we are barebacking passionately. We went at it for almost two hours. I wanted to stop, because I was getting exhausted, but she wanted to keep going. Eventually, I told her that I had to go to work. I gave her some money and she left. A few minutes later, she sends me a text, saying that she had not been laid in over three years, and that this was the best and happiest day that she has had since the pandemic. Indeed, the sex was amazing and passionate. She was into it. But I decided I would not see her again on this trip because she had put on over 10 pounds since I last saw her, and when I last saw her, she was already 10 pounds overweight. Anyway, that night, LL comes over. We are drinking together, and then we start fooling around. We start barebacking, but she is squirming around, which was really annoying. She said that she had just shaved her pussy smooth for me, to make the night a special occasion, but I had shaved my entire cock a week earlier and so my slight stubble was irritating her cleanly, smoothly, freshly shaven vagina. This was super annoying. Every time I tried to fuck her, she complained that my cock stubble was irritating her freshly shaven and thus sensitive vagina. So, I just fucked her until she came, and then I kept drinking while she fell asleep.

Day 4: I get breakfast with LL and then we part ways. Normally, I fuck girls the day after spending the night together, but I was just annoyed with LL. I was hoping that LL was going to be my sleeping mate most of my nights in Beijing, but I decided to bail on that plan. So, I texted an ex-SB of mine, who was always willing to meet me when I was on business trips. She is tall and thin, and loved DATY and bareback sex. So, I asked her to come to Beijing that day, and spend the next couple of nights with me, but she said she could not on such short notice. I was pretty bummed. I should have planned better. Anyway, that night, I met a former GF of mine from 10 years ago. I will call her WT. We met at her apartment, and I bareback fucked her for a few hours, and then as I was resting, she told me to go back to my hotel. She always does this, so I was fine with it.

Here is some boring backstory about WT. She is a celebrity. We met at an event about 10 years ago, and we hit it off, and so we then went for a drink afterwards and we kissed. A week later, we went out on a date to dinner, but she was always being recognized by so many people. That night, she spent the night at my place and we had passionate sex. Since that night, we just met for sex on a regular basis. We never went out in public ever again. And then, after I moved from Beijing, any time I returned to Beijing, we would meet up and have passionate sex. That is all that we did. The kind of weird thing is that she prefers to sleep alone. So, she always bolted after sex at my place, or she always asked me to leave after sex at her place. I actually kind of like this.

Day 5: I was going to get drunk with my buddies again that night, but I decided to get laid first. I made an incall appointment with a new girl. When I arrived, I was shocked at how young and great her body was. She had the firm body of a 23 year old, because she was 23 years old, haha. Anyway, she gave great service, and so I asked her if I could return to spend the night that night, and she said okay. That night, I get hammered, and when I am done, I texted her, but she said she was busy, and so I went to sleep alone at my hotel.

Day 6: This was my last day in Beijing before leaving early the next day. So, I decided to fuck 4 or 5 girls that day. First, I made an appointment with the 23 year old again. It was great. I asked if I could bareback her, and she said it would cost $750. I balked, and then she said $600. I still balked. Then she said we could bareback next time, when she knew for sure she was not in risk of getting pregnant. Then I contacted an MP manager that I knew, and I asked her if she had any girls available for sex. She said she had two girls available for sex that day. So, I made an appointment with one of them. I arrive, we have pretty good sex. After I leave, I contact the MP manager and tell her I was going to return in 30 minutes to fuck the other girl. She said okay. When I return, the girl asks me what I want and I said sex, and she was surprised and said no. So I contacted the MP manager and told her the girl does not offer FS and the manager apologizes and I leave. I get back to the hotel at 4 pm. I think I am still able to fuck more two more girls that day, before I meet a friend for drinks at 9 pm. So, I contact an outcall escort agency. Unfortunately, the girl is late, due to traffic. But she was worth the wait. When she finally arrives, I am a little surprised at how very cute she is. And, I am surprised by her enthusiasm. She says she cannot believe how handsome I am and what a great body I have. I know this is just bullshit, but it makes me feel good. Anyway, we get naked, and she is so hot and yet very tiny. I ask her about her height and weight, and she is under 5 feet tall, and weights 70 pounds. I feel like a fucking humongous giant. I feel like I am fucking an elf or a fairy. It was super passionate. Eventually, I notice that it is after 8 pm, and I had to meet a friend for drinks. So, I tell her that I had to leave. Before she left, the front desk calls me. He says that someone complained about the loud sex noises. She was quite the screamer. But I said I did not understand Chinese, because I do not, and so he hung up and she left. Then my friend came over and we got drunk on wine. After he left, I went out and got a bunch of KFC to bring back to the hotel. I ate it and passed out. Next morning, I left Beijing.

So, I got laid 9 times with 7 different women in 6 days. There is no moral of this story, except maybe this: One should always keep old contacts. When a girl has fucked you once before, she is usually okay to fuck you again.

The end.

[WyattEarp]

Friday evening I met my regular Sugar Baby from San Antonio. We met for drinks and some fun. She is a little crazy, but reliable and fun to be around. She is a solid 7, sex is ok, but nothing like the girls from MTY. She leaves around 1 am. I wake up early and drive to MTY and the craziness begins.

DF, can you provide info on the drive from Laredo to MTY? I presume you think it's safe. Do you stay on the main thoroughfare? Do you avoid making stops? Is there anything else to consider?

I've thought about driving through Mexico, perhaps down the Baja coast.

[Steve 9696]

So as I considered whether to repeat with slightly awkward but pretty Michelle or fly in a more dynamic girl, the question was answered for me. Some personal plans changed and suddenly I am going to be with my girl for 2 days and 3 nights pretty much non stop. Given that, I need a girl I can spend 24 x7 with and not get bored. And that's not Michelle unfortunately.

My first thought was my crush Alexa who I have traveled before and it was awesome. We'the always said we'the repeat but she'the been a bit cool of late. Nonetheless I thought what the heck and reached out. She was totally down for it but couldn't get a day off work with her new job. Still it was good that I asked and she was down. Says she's def down after her 90 day Newbie period at work is done.

So then I pinged Mika and she was totally down to go. Yes would have loved Alexa. But Mika is going to be dynamite. Need to make up for the "lady issues" last visit. And yes we have both counted the days and are in safe territory! Should be awesome.

[Akibono]

So I don't bareback a lot but I think the answer to your question is that is more the second thing you get them off they want to please you back. There is some post orgasm euphoria that works different for guys and girls. Guys just want to be left alone and sleep. Girls want to give back in kind.

I will never forget Andressa at Scandallo the way she looked at me after surprising her with a real orgasm from DATY (was 100% real with a ton of mega pussy clamps on my finger). It was amazement and gratefulness and genuine Fondness if I can use that word. And then she serviced me like no other! DATY is def the way to their heart.

In general, you are much more likely to get bb service if a girl trusts you and likes you. That starts by good hygiene. But you know this already. So, yes, if she enjoys sex with you she is unlikely to focus on safety. The downside is her trapping you because she likes you too much. That is more drama to deal with.

[DramaFree11]

Wow. Didn't know you could just bop over to Mexico, fuck a handful or chicks and drive back. That is amazingly cool. Well more than a handful really I lost count. I think you may have set some sort of record. Certainly most chicks in 24 hours outside an FKK. I am amazed all the logistics lined up especially given this is SA (or some are Facebook chicks? I guess it helps that many are repeats.

Anyhow great job. Truly amazing in terms of hitting it hard and heavy. I thought I was the king but.

Funny but I think we met in the Moscow thread. Amazing to be discussing the SA scene. Never thought I'the fuck on American soil yet here we are!! Thank you SA!

Yes, American women drive me crazy. I miss Moscow, I was hoping to return for Christmas, but I am not sure now. I doubt there will be much of a Nightlife left in Moscow, if the Virus continues, so sad.

[Steve 9696]

Lately, I have been having success getting bareback after DATY. I have two theories about this. First, DATY turns the girl on so much that she is down to bareback. Second, the girl will let you bareback her to show her appreciation for DATY.

What do you guys think? I used to hate DATY on pros, but lately it has been leading to bareback sex. It happened for the first time a couple of months ago. I tried it out recently on a couple of new pros (one that I knew before and one who was new), and it worked out both times.

So I don't bareback a lot but I think the answer to your question is that is more the second thing — you get them off they want to please you back. There is some post orgasm euphoria that works different for guys and girls. Guys just want to be left alone and sleep. Girls want to give back in kind.

I will never forget Andressa at Scandallo — the way she looked at me after surprising her with a real orgasm from DATY (was 100% real with a ton of mega pussy clamps on my finger). It was amazement and gratefulness and genuine Fondness if I can use that word. And then she serviced me like no other! DATY is def the way to their heart.

[Midwestern]

Lately, I have been having success getting bareback after DATY. I have two theories about this. First, DATY turns the girl on so much that she is down to bareback. Second, the girl will let you bareback her to show her appreciation for DATY.

What do you guys think? I used to hate DATY on pros, but lately it has been leading to bareback sex. It happened for the first time a couple of months ago. I tried it out recently on a couple of new pros (one that I knew before and one who was new), and it worked out both times.

[Steve 9696]

Friday evening I met my regular Sugar Baby from San Antonio. We met for drinks and some fun. She is a little crazy, but reliable and fun to be around. She is a solid 7, sex is ok, but nothing like the girls from MTY. She leaves around 1 am. I wake up early and drive to MTY and the craziness begins.

1. I get to hotel around 11:45 am. The hotel will not let me check in early. The manager shows up and that is taken care of, off to my suite. I meet the first girl, we had met before, about 1.5 years ago, but she says she does not remember me. This meeting was much better, she is very worried about Covid, but we had a great session.

2. Next meeting is with the Model. We had not seen each other for about 4 weeks, her crazy add parents are in town and they are very strict, even though she is 28. Great everything, but Anal.

3. I meet another girl around 7 pm, she offers to spend the night, but I declined, I was exhausted and Sunday was gong to be wild.

4. Sunday, First regular shows up at 9 am. Anal and everything else included. I faked and orgasm.

5. A new girl shows up at 11 am. So cute and nice. Holly shit we have 90 minutes of great sex totally amazing. No Anal, but everything else.

6. Model show up, great sex and companionship. Faked the Orgasm.

7. Next regular show up, everything, with Anal and Rimming.

9. Another regular shows up at 6:15 Great Sex and Rimming.

I run into the hotel GM, we have became friends. This was around 8;15, he asked how everything was going, I said great. Then I told him I was driving back to SA that night. He said I was crazy, kind of. I told I had one more meeting, he just laughed. The last girl shows up. She is the one I met from one of the Agency. She is great, perfect English and great sex. We hit for about an hour. I grab my shit and take off. I get to the border around 12:30 am. I am exhausted. I drive about 45 minutes I pull over and go to sleep. I sleep 2 hours drive to work. I worked all day outside. I get home and pass out. What a great trip. A little too much, but my time is very limited now, working a lot with the new business Not bad for 51 hours.

Wow. Didn't know you could just bop over to Mexico, fuck a handful or chicks and drive back. That is amazingly cool. Well more than a handful really I lost count. I think you may have set some sort of record. Certainly most chicks in 24 hours outside an FKK. I am amazed all the logistics lined up especially given this is SA (or some are Facebook chicks? I guess it helps that many are repeats.

Anyhow great job. Truly amazing in terms of hitting it hard and heavy. I thought I was the king but.

Funny but I think we met in the Moscow thread. Amazing to be discussing the SA scene. Never thought I'the fuck on American soil yet here we are!! Thank you SA!

[Steve 9696]

Just going to throw this out there. One should never be so busy at work to not have time to write sex reports for your buddies. It's just morally wrong. Just sayin. 😜.

[DramaFree11]

Any luck with SA girls in MDE, guys?

I used it in Bogota recently and it was a disaster. The response rate was way too low, and the flake rate was through the roof. I barely scored any dates. It was way better the last time I was in Bogota back in February.

Now I'm in MDE, and was wondering if SA here is any better (or worse? Since most girls seem to be pros) and I'm debating if I should renew my membership or not bother. Trying to work Tinder, but no luck so far.

If you have good SA contacts to share, please PM me.

There are much better destinations then MDE. Very over rated destinations. Way too many sex tourists and the food sucks. If you like fake and big asses maybe.

[Butch145]

I renewed my SA for a trip to turkey and got a bunch of numbers of girls for prep up work before I get into Turkey in a few weeks. Figure line up a 1 dozen to have as I wish and go from there.