Pattaya Reports

[ThaiGoodTimes]

Sell by date. Now that's funny but VERY true! Good observation along with so many piling on for a cut! I never minded helping children. Even a little for mom and dad! But when sisters, brothers and cousins jump in. I'm out!

Hahahaha.

That is because you didn't understand what you were buying into.

The family model in Isaan / Thailand is an extended matriarchal one, not a western nuclear family one.

[CIMguy]

There are always new ladies being added to my rotation, so my dance card is always filled.

You don't seem to understand about the lockdown here. Everything is closed, there is a curfew at night, there is almost nothing to do. Apart from the money, one of the reasons the ladies come over is boredom. If I just did a couple of STs a day, I guess I could watch TV or something.

My point is that you don't have to replace the girls leaving. If you have 20 girls who come regularly and you want to cut back on the number of girls to 15 for example, as they stop coming, just don't replace them until you get to the number you would like. Just use attrition to get to the number you want.

I was under the impression, based on your post I quoted, that you saw the number of girls as a problem. It sounded like it was unfortunate that the girls leaving are being replaced by new girls.

I certainly understand that you would have to find some other things to do with your time. Variety is the spice of life.

[Explorer8939]

It seems like you could go back to ST with the ladies any time you want. First, you are in control of who comes and when. More importantly, if ladies are starting to "peel off" and take themselves out of the rotation, then couldn't you use that situation to reduce the number of girls coming over? You could just not replace the ones leaving.

There are always new ladies being added to my rotation, so my dance card is always filled.

You don't seem to understand about the lockdown here. Everything is closed, there is a curfew at night, there is almost nothing to do. Apart from the money, one of the reasons the ladies come over is boredom. If I just did a couple of STs a day, I guess I could watch TV or something.

[Explorer8939]

This is one of my main reasons for wanting to retire in Thailand. I think it is the best country for this combination. I also add cooking to the equation. That dream is on hold right now but still alive.

Yep, my LT made clear soup with pork and soy last night. She is my-ex, she is good for short stretches, but after a while, she wants to chase after Thai men, so I let her go, and just have her come over once a week. Since I booted her, sex has been 100% better.

[Explorer8939]

Less restrictions starting Wed Sept 1, but bars, clubs, gogos remain closed. Damn 9p-4a curfew still in effect too.

https://thepattayanews.com/2021/08/3...september-1st/

Koh Larn is open as of today. Unfortunately, the beaches are still closed.

One of my lady friends who has been in isolation for 14 days just got a positive antigen test for Covid, so she won't be coming for a while.

[Java Man]

Less restrictions starting Wed Sept 1, but bars, clubs, gogos remain closed. Damn 9p-4a curfew still in effect too.

https://thepattayanews.com/2021/08/3...september-1st/

[Java Man]

The food hand out at Bali Hai pier, in the shadow of the Ghost tower. Every day at 5p. Usually over by 6p. Temps checks at entrance. Sometimes the lines to get in are long. The Pattaya BiB provide security. IFAIK, the food is provided by locals and expats, not Pattaya City. The area is hosed down, disinfected overnight. Pics taken over a couple of weeks time.

[BionicMan]

It seems like your situation is miserable to you but for some reason you feel you don't have any agency over your life or even the encounters that you describe. Pull yourself up by your bootstraps! Take control and be a man. Assert your own will and desires!

Sexual encounters should be exhilarating and explosive but your descriptions are of an endless procession of boring, obligatory half-hearted chores that you are only semi-conscious of. At first it was quaint and curious but now the script reeks with flaccid pathos.

And no pictures The one we saw is one who didn't partake, so what? We can all throw in hundreds of images of girls we didn't partake. Not to mention the constant referral to a bar where the staff is not homogenous.

Fantasy is fading also for the most prolific writers.

[Barney Rubber]

In addition family means a lot in Asian culture. Very rarely one builds her own empire without helping family. Sending money home as an insurance policy is an western thinking. Girl is always welcome to come back home. Family will share what they have.

Quite often this family bond is taken advantage of. Cousins, Aunts, uncles, brothers, sisters, all will ask for help when they learn the girl is doing well selling her body. Unfortunately all girls have sell by date which they do not realize till it is too late squandering all their money and becoming poor.

Sell by date. Now that's funny but VERY true! Good observation along with so many piling on for a cut! I never minded helping children. Even a little for mom and dad! But when sisters, brothers and cousins jump in. I'm out!

[Turgid]

... Instead, I have a lady come over for LT. She will clean my place, as well.....

This is one of my main reasons for wanting to retire in Thailand. I think it is the best country for this combination. I also add cooking to the equation. That dream is on hold right now but still alive.

[CIMguy]

Another day of enduring Thai ladies. The first pair were largely content to just drink and talk. The second were more active, one of them admitted she just wanted to suck dick when she was drunk, which is what she did. After they left, I had an overnight lady come for bedtime sex.

Today is Monday, my designated no alcohol day. Instead, I have a lady come over for LT. She will clean my place, as well.

In general, more ladies are peeling off, taking themselves out of the rotation, which is okay with me. For various reasons, the cancellation rate is increasing, although there is always a replacement. I just got a cancellation now from a lady who has a conflict as she is being vaccinated.

This may be surprising, but the ladies are reluctant to leave when their time is up. They often come early, and stay as late as possible. I want an hour at least between visits, but often I get a lot less time.

Pattaya is not the same as before Covid. Hopefully, things will return to normal soon, so I can go back to ST with ladies.

It seems like you could go back to ST with the ladies any time you want. First, you are in control of who comes and when. More importantly, if ladies are starting to "peel off" and take themselves out of the rotation, then couldn't you use that situation to reduce the number of girls coming over? You could just not replace the ones leaving.

[ThaiGoodTimes]

In addition family means a lot in Asian culture. Very rarely one builds her own empire without helping family. Sending money home as an insurance policy is an western thinking. Girl is always welcome to come back home. Family will share what they have.

Quite often this family bond is taken advantage of. Cousins, Aunts, uncles, brothers, sisters, all will ask for help when they learn the girl is doing well selling her body. Unfortunately all girls have sell by date which they do not realize till it is too late squandering all their money and becoming poor.

Your reply is close to being perfectly spot on.

Two points I will add to it.

1. A Thai girl is always welcome back home if she's been a "good" Thai girl in the Isaan / Lao sense.

That doesn't mean western connotations like sex, drugs, bad behavior etc.

It means that she has "always" sent money home.

She has always looked after the family needs foremost, giving to mama / grandma what they ask for.

Isaan / Lao family units are matriarchal.

2. Not all girls squander their money, but yes, the family can be leeches on them.

Especially if they are not the favored daughter, the first born daughter, who are destined to be matriarchs one day.

The Isaan family unit is cousins, uncles, aunts, brothers, sisters, everything under the ruling matriarch.

And the matriarch can easily be a great grandma in her 70-80's when a WG starts on the game in her (late) teens.

So that means a big family, sharing the earnt income sent home.

On the flip side, when these girls, or women if it's been years, go home they aren't shunned, they are welcomed.

And when they "marry" there is no stigma, they are feted with land, house, etc, from the family unit.

The bottom line is that family is all important to an Isaan girl, unless she completely breaks away.

It is ingrained in her, a key essence in her upbringing, and rarely forgotten by them.

Hence Farangs from nuclear western style families find it difficult when Thai girls tell them this.

How can there be so many calls on support, IE accidents, sick buffalo, etc?

And Thai girls with many sponsors play on this, as being a family "good girl" is more important to them than loving a Farang.

It's also why Thai girls seek to acquire gold, it's their only sense of personal money.

As whatever is in the bank is available to send to family when asked, yet gold is for their rainy day, or dreams.

A good Thai girl, looks after mama / papa, grandma / grandpa (m / p, gm / gp).

A good Thai girl, gives m / p, gm / gp whatever money they ask for.

A good Thai girl, goes and gets a job (any job) that lets them earn the money that m / p, gm / gp ask for.

A good Thai girl, finds an income stream, or multiple, read that as Farang sponsor (s) (ATM) that gives them that money.

A good Thai girl, can have true love with a Farang if she does the above, or move easily with a Thai man if she goes home.

And beware, if the Isaan Thai girl you meet and fall for is the favored first daughter, then she has added responsibilities.

She must give up her lied and go home when her duty calls.

She is the daughter tasked with the family caring burden of grandparents, parents, children of the family.

So when the first born above her can no longer do so, it is her return home and take on the role.

Now a last point.

Don't think that all the Isaan Thai girls were shipped off to do sex work.

Far from it.

Long before Patpong, Pattaya and the Thai sex tourism existed Isaan girls went away to work.

Farms, factories, businesses, construction, shops, hotels, anywhere labor intensive unskilled work was required.

And they still do today, with many working in Taiwan, Japan, China, Europe, even the USA and other western countries.

[Member #4729]

Another day of enduring Thai ladies.

It seems like your situation is miserable to you but for some reason you feel you don't have any agency over your life or even the encounters that you describe. Pull yourself up by your bootstraps! Take control and be a man. Assert your own will and desires!

Sexual encounters should be exhilarating and explosive but your descriptions are of an endless procession of boring, obligatory half-hearted chores that you are only semi-conscious of. At first it was quaint and curious but now the script reeks with flaccid pathos.

[Member #4729]

As we get older, we have to let things go. South East Asia, sadly, seems to be one of those things as tourism there will have to wait for Gay Paree and other places to pick up first.

"Gay Paree!

Anyone else totally confused by this post? Like. What? Paris, France, Peaches, Mick Jagger "Gay Paree". There are some serious non-sequiturs on display here. What am I missing? Maybe its a Boomer thing.

[Explorer8939]

Another day of enduring Thai ladies. The first pair were largely content to just drink and talk. The second were more active, one of them admitted she just wanted to suck dick when she was drunk, which is what she did. After they left, I had an overnight lady come for bedtime sex.

Today is Monday, my designated no alcohol day. Instead, I have a lady come over for LT. She will clean my place, as well.

In general, more ladies are peeling off, taking themselves out of the rotation, which is okay with me. For various reasons, the cancellation rate is increasing, although there is always a replacement. I just got a cancellation now from a lady who has a conflict as she is being vaccinated.

This may be surprising, but the ladies are reluctant to leave when their time is up. They often come early, and stay as late as possible. I want an hour at least between visits, but often I get a lot less time.

Pattaya is not the same as before Covid. Hopefully, things will return to normal soon, so I can go back to ST with ladies.