Seeking Arrangements

[DramaFree11]

I have been in arrangement with the model for over a year now. She graduated from her Master Program, I agreed to buy her an expensive purse as a present. She is so humble, she never asked what the status when I would buy the purse It ended up being several months, for a variety of reasons. I bought it yesterday and then we went and had a great dinner at S. Prime. It was a great night. Honestly I was happy to buy the purse. She is a great person.

[DramaFree11]

I just got back from MTY, 7 meeting in 48 hours, what a great weekend. Included one Anal Sessions, 3 girls did rimming. All others kissing and uncovered BJ.

You guys know how I do not line Colombia, chicks especially girls from MDE, in fact I usually just block them or delete there profile. Any way I met a new girl and she was from Bogota. Great experience, very nice and a total freak, we will definitely meet again. Rules are met to be broken.

This is the first time I have been around a girl from Colombia, that I did not want to kill myself with there crappy attitudes. Another thing, I have never had s Mexican girl tell me how hot they are. Colombian girls are always telling me how hot they are, major turn off for me.

[DramaFree11]

Yeah let me start by saying I am a big non fan of how fat America has gotten. It's appalling to go thru the Atlanta or Charlotte airport having just traveled overseas at what a cattle call it is. I trybnot to be a judgy human but can't help myself on this point. Kayla and I were just talking about this. There is no such thing as a BBW. Ok some have a damn pretty face but being fat is nothing we should glorify or call beautiful (off soapbox).

I'the say the fat girls I fuck are likely between 20-40 lbs overweight. They are large all over and some places downright fat but thanks to their age it's not cellulite or extra jiggly. I don't think I could do a 200 lb girl regardless of face and viagra. I guess I have a limit at some point.

And yeah In the US "curvy" is a euphemism for fat. I sometimes point this out to SA girls who are just built but put curvy in their profile. because guys aren't fools and screen curvy girls. The built girls usually appreciate the tip. Actually that is how I met my longest term SB Layla. With that opener. Did turn out to be heavy bordering on fat but damn that face could launch ships.

Ps in the end Layla let me video her blowing me and fucking her doggie style with full face. Its a trust thing u can develop with SBs. Kayla sent me a full frontal with face nude video after our second weekend together. It feels good when u get inside their circle of trust.

So true, when I was flying back Moscow, I would want to throw-up after seeing the fat American Chicks. You think your airports are bad try IAH, just disgusting. Ladies running around in there pajamas or yoga pants with there fat hanging out. I just do not understand how American women dress now. It is one thing to be fat, dressing like shit just compounds there weight. I wish I liked the big girls life would be so much easier.

[Spidy]

I will not do the big girls, but I will go ugly if they have a nice body.

Oh yeah! I concur whole heartedly. Throw in a good attitude and that's the secret sauce to a great romp.

I love a good, "Butterface" girl, with a terrific sexy attitude...kkk

So I mentioned before that I've grown to be quite comfortable with fat girls on SA and in some ways enjoy them as much as fit girls. I suppose I've been with 4 fat girls on SA and have not regretted the experience. Given that finding a local girl where I live that is slim and pretty is tough, I've been dating a fat girl and I rather like her. In all cases they were fabulous kissers and gave a great BJ. And the mechanics work surprisingly well.

Curvy Thick Fat...I'the say the fat girls I fuck are likely between 20-40 lbs overweight. They are large all over and some places downright fat but thanks to their age it's not cellulite or extra jiggly. I don't think I could do a 200 lb girl regardless of face and viagra. I guess I have a limit at some point...

This is a tough one to dissect. I draw the line at "fat" chicks, but I do love "thick" chicks. I find the distinction between fat and thick chicks, is so very hard to explain or describe at times, but all I know for sure is, I sure as hell know it when I see it.

Is there a distinction for you? Or are they both, one in the same to you?

[Steve 9696]

So I've said before that staying in touch long term can pay off (like Vegas Alexa nearly a year after first date we did the Miami trip). There's a girl in London I am totally smitten with. We had a one night SB thing in London in Feb 2020 right before the pandemic. We've stayed in loose touch snd I was thrilled today when I sent a clever comment on her WhatsApp new profile pic and she responded back. Exchanged some nice emojis And then just a pic of her out on the town (she's connected to London fashion somehow and is always in some epic venue in an evening dress. LOL). Anyhow just made my day. We are still connected and the post pandemic possibilities are endless!

Reminded me tho of my London dilemma. Have an off the books escort there that seems wildly into me (surely just a great act but I don't push it) So I have this dilemma of who to see when things open up. It reminded me of dinner with her. She's quite the horny wildcat and grabbing my dick under the dinner table whenever the waiter has his back turned. Somehow we got to the topic of adoption snd she blurts out "You should adopt me!. Then you can fuck me any time you want!" Damn I love me a spicy wildcat!

[Steve 9696]

Hi Steve,

I like your take on fat girls need lovin' too. I'm not being sarcastic.

Just curious, in your opinion what weight qualifies a girl as a fat girl? The term curvy is overused. Some girls who self-define as curvy are two dozen pounds overweight and some are several dozen pounds overweight.

Yeah let me start by saying I am a big non fan of how fat America has gotten. It's appalling to go thru the Atlanta or Charlotte airport having just traveled overseas at what a cattle call it is. I trybnot to be a judgy human but can't help myself on this point. Kayla and I were just talking about this. There is no such thing as a BBW. Ok some have a damn pretty face but being fat is nothing we should glorify or call beautiful (off soapbox).

I'the say the fat girls I fuck are likely between 20-40 lbs overweight. They are large all over and some places downright fat but thanks to their age it's not cellulite or extra jiggly. I don't think I could do a 200 lb girl regardless of face and viagra. I guess I have a limit at some point.

And yeah In the US "curvy" is a euphemism for fat. I sometimes point this out to SA girls who are just built but put curvy in their profile. because guys aren't fools and screen curvy girls. The built girls usually appreciate the tip. Actually that is how I met my longest term SB Layla. With that opener. Did turn out to be heavy bordering on fat but damn that face could launch ships.

Ps in the end Layla let me video her blowing me and fucking her doggie style with full face. It’s a trust thing u can develop with SBs. Kayla sent me a full frontal with face nude video after our second weekend together. It feels good when u get inside their circle of trust.

[Akibono]

Hi Steve,

I like your take on fat girls need lovin' too. I'm not being sarcastic.

Just curious, in your opinion what weight qualifies a girl as a fat girl? The term curvy is overused. Some girls who self-define as curvy are two dozen pounds overweight and some are several dozen pounds overweight.

I consider a girl fat if she has folds and obvious cellulite as well as a saggy face. There are many girls who would be considered fat by weight alone, but are actually quite attractive. Pamela Anderson is curvy and Anna Nichole Smith also fits the mold.

I laugh at the guys on the FKK link that brag about the fact they only bang models. These folks pretend to have endless money but troll in clubs. Most spend their time telling everyone how good a lover they are with no details or travel plans. A pure waste of forum space to stroke their egos. A girl with an attitude that does not kiss, with a load of restrictions, is the worst libido killer. Even a fat girl is better if she has the right attitude. The best monger is the one who takes advantage of any situation that offers sex. I know of a few guys that have banged girls all over the world. They include the young as well as the old. All races. And even some less attractive girls.

[WyattEarp]

So I mentioned before that I've grown to be quite comfortable with fat girls on SA and in some ways enjoy them as much as fit girls. I suppose I've been with 4 fat girls on SA and have not regretted the experience. Given that finding a local girl where I live that is slim and pretty is tough, I've been dating a fat girl and I rather like her. In all cases they were fabulous kissers and gave a great BJ. And the mechanics work surprisingly well.

Hi Steve,

I like your take on fat girls need lovin' too. I'm not being sarcastic.

Just curious, in your opinion what weight qualifies a girl as a fat girl? The term curvy is overused. Some girls who self-define as curvy are two dozen pounds overweight and some are several dozen pounds overweight.

[DramaFree11]

So I mentioned before that I've grown to be quite comfortable with fat girls on SA and in some ways enjoy them as much as fit girls. I suppose I've been with 4 fat girls on SA and have not regretted the experience. Given that finding a local girl where I live that is slim and pretty is tough, I've been dating a fat girl and I rather like her. In all cases they were fabulous kissers and gave a great BJ. And the mechanics work surprisingly well.

Here are the prerequisites though. Must have a beautiful face. Must kiss like a demon. And you need Viagra.

The last two are related. Let's face it you are not going to get it up at my age just looking at a girl and certainly not a fat girl. But when you start kissing and it's really great oh yeah I'm coming to attention. And with the Viagra it then stays up. Doesn't matter that she's fat once you get it going and have a great BJ and the rest as long as you are Vitamin V powered there will be no sag and tap out. Enjoy her like u would her slim counterpart. Of course you have to like her because you might tolerate a slim biatch (I don't) but not a fat one. LOL.

While on the subject I just tried Cialis for the first time. Since I tend to do long weekend binge fucks it would be just a lot more convenient. Sure enough it works so far. Popped it around dinner yesterday and no problem getting rock hard this AM. We will see tomorrow. And same basic side effects for me. Feel a bit flushed initially and slightly off but that fades after an hour or two. I use Lumify eye drops to counteract the red eye and they are amazing.

Good luck with the meds and the fatties out there guys. Don't dis it till I have tried it!

Yep, the Meds help. I am on a 2 day binge in MTY. Killing it.

I will not do the big girls, but I will go ugly if they have a nice body.

One girl just left and the other is on the way!

Mexico, Russia Rock! Censorship because you do not like someone point of view is really wrong.

[Steve 9696]

So I mentioned before that I've grown to be quite comfortable with fat girls on SA and in some ways enjoy them as much as fit girls. I suppose I've been with 4 fat girls on SA and have not regretted the experience. Given that finding a local girl where I live that is slim and pretty is tough, I've been dating a fat girl and I rather like her. In all cases they were fabulous kissers and gave a great BJ. And the mechanics work surprisingly well.

Here are the prerequisites though. Must have a beautiful face. Must kiss like a demon. And you need Viagra.

The last two are related. Let's face it you are not going to get it up at my age just looking at a girl and certainly not a fat girl. But when you start kissing and it's really great oh yeah I'm coming to attention. And with the Viagra it then stays up. Doesn't matter that she's fat once you get it going and have a great BJ and the rest as long as you are Vitamin V powered there will be no sag and tap out. Enjoy her like u would her slim counterpart. Of course you have to like her because you might tolerate a slim biatch (I don't) but not a fat one. LOL.

While on the subject I just tried Cialis for the first time. Since I tend to do long weekend binge fucks it would be just a lot more convenient. Sure enough it works so far. Popped it around dinner yesterday and no problem getting rock hard this AM. We will see tomorrow. And same basic side effects for me. Feel a bit flushed initially and slightly off but that fades after an hour or two. I use Lumify eye drops to counteract the red eye and they are amazing.

Good luck with the meds and the fatties out there guys. Don't dis it till I have tried it!

[BrizLad]

1. I'm concerned about my privacy. Do you post your photos on SA? And do you they include your face? Also, do you introduce yourself to girls with your real name? .

My take on this. I'm always starting with a false name, which I can later explain as being my "school years nickname' but you can now call me BrizLad she prefers.

My fake personal details have been honed over 30 years of lying. I have standard prepared answers for the standard expected questions like, What's your job? How many kids? What happened to your wife? Are you divorced? Where do you live? Where have you travelled etc etc etc.

If the questions go off on a tangent then I will use 'opposites" have I three boys instead of three girls etc.

My pic I source from: https://thispersondoesnotexist.com/ . I reload the page until I find a similar pic to me. Similar but different. To be honest, girls that obsess about 'looks' I am not successful with, so this generic pic approach is part of the selection process.

For the girls that have passed the first few meets, then I will open up some more.

As I am playing locally at the moment I am cautious that one of these girls will see me and family in the city streets. Her: "Hey, Jeff from Sydney, great sex, when we meeting again. " . Me & family: no reaction because I'm Brizlad from Brisbane.

Brizlad.

[Steve 9696]

Didn't write this up right after so not my usual detail but you guys deserve an update. And to remind all the newbies that if you put in the work (and have some $ in the US) you can have some amazing experiences.

So Kayla is the stunner that I met about a month ago and liked so much we played bareback boyfriend girlfriend for three days with her totally moving into my hotel. This trip was a quick turn but still awesome.

I arrived at night and we met up at our favorite Asian fusion place. OMG it is so good. Some wine and back to the hotel. It was great to see her and her 10 body so we got right down to business. I will note that we are a shade off of how awesome it was last time. Our kissing is less tongue and she didn't fully shave her pussy. Maybe she's getting a bit too comfy. Don't get me wrong. It was great. But I am noticing little corners cut.

Anyhow the bareback sex was spectacular and her BJ remains awesome. Went a super long time. We talked about how she can't really get an O without a vibrator (not going to fake like most girls) but after a super long time of fucking she had a small O. She threw one arm over her face and then the other and then squeezed down tight and released. After some deep breaths She said what the fuck was that. That never happens. So that was cool. She finished me by mouth CIM and we crashed like big dogs.

Day two she was off work so we were able to sleep in then kick around looking for brunch. We went to the sex shop for a vibrator but she was too embarrassed to go in during the day. Said she has to work up her courage. So I went in and bought her a nice medium size one (no insert. Just clit). Was not cheap but I've decided I'm not going to look at it as the cost of sex which is already agreed but instead treat her like my real girlfriend. And I would do that for her.

Well I was rewarded well for this POV because after lunch when we went to the room to regroup she emerged in a two piece red lingerie with tits pouring out the top. We had some damn fine fully sober sex which I don't do often. So while it didn't last as long it felt AMAZING. Especially the BJ. OMG.

About midway thru, the vibrator had enough charge and we broke that bad boy out. First some FIV and her vibing. She was edging so as to not cum too soon. Eventually we went to the edge of the bed me standing position. This is not only great for not getting tired but she can vibe her clit while being fucked. And oh boy did she like that! Wasnt too long before she had a crashing O. The real deal she clamped her legs closed on me but then literally pushed me out while she crashed the waves. I let her recover a bit and got in some more strokes then moved to BJ and let it loose CIM again. We went to the speakeasy and strip club that night but then just crashed. I was wiped.

Final day we had an amazing canal-side lunch and she marveled at how I am showing her around her own town. She really likes doing the high end stuff. Late night we were both tired (she did a ten hour day on her feet!) and just watched Netflix in bed together and had sushi in bed. The sex was a bit perfunctory but I have to say she was a trooper she was really not feeling all that great but we got down to business and got er done.

Can't say it was as awesome as our first time but in some ways the new comfort level was nice as well. Thinking we are prob only good for another visit or two and onto something new and spicy but damn she's pretty, a quality human, and bareback. Hard to beat. Will just play by ear. But as I've said before fellas SA completely worth all the work.

[DramaFree11]

I have been going to Mexico City a lot here lately, and I love it. We went to the castle there and the anthropology museum and a female friend of mine came with us. She said it was the best museum she had ever been to, and it was one of the best I had seen as well.

Rents in Monterrey are nuts, but they are not too bad in Mexico City, and I am tired of paying for hotels, but I am almost at Ambassador level at Marriott. Maybe we could split the cost of a place there if you are interested.

We had met in Cancun several times but I was ready to see other parts of the country. We went to Cabo this time, and we loved it. I never had marlin before and damn that tasted as good as the finest steaks. Food in Cabo was fantastic and outside of the resorts it is not too expensive. I rented a car, and driving there was fine.

The two beach areas I have wanted to check out are in Oaxaca and Acapulco, and you have to go through Mexico City to get there which is fine. Even though the airport there is a pain, there are a ton of flights to Mexico City, and they are cheap..

Yep, it is definitely cheaper then MTY, who would guess that. I have negotiated great rates in MTY, but it might be time for a change. Most of the girls I am meeting are 20-25 and real can not travel or do not want to travel.

I am looking for older girls that have the opportunity and desire to travel. Also, it would be nice to meet girls that can meet me in the states.

I am going for Thanksgiving if you are interested.

Off the topic there is way to much censorship going on this site and some Admin. Have developed way too much power. I follow the rules, but somehow my posts are deleted, because Admin does not agree with my point of view. Total be. S. They let there buddies get away with murder. I am cutting way back on my posts. Midwestern does a great job.

[Globo]

I have been using SA for a few years now in Las Vegas, Europe and the Middle East. I am still friendly with a few ladies some are still active there. I will answer your questions based on my experience. One of my best experiences was on a trip to Vegas.

1. I'm concerned about my privacy. Do you post your photos on SA? And do you they include your face? Also, do you introduce yourself to girls with your real name? It sounds like some of these SA meets last several hours, so it would be nice to avoid awkward situations where it's obvious you're faking (like if you show your ID at a hotel or something) - but maybe it's normal to have an alias, and the girls aren't phased by it?

My Take on this Always have a photo but you can have one that does not readily identify you and have other private that you can share. Depending where you are using SA remember you will be competing again lots of other men so you need to also stand out. If in doubt set up an alter ego female profile so you can see what the competition is presenting. Showing a natural dating type photo will work much better for you and you can disable once you trip is over. As for you name, if it goes on for a long time they will know who you are so use your first name but not your surname. If using on a short trip what is the harm of them knowing your first name. Like any mongering be careful not to share too much personal info. I have had people threaten to blackmail me but there was nothing to blackmail me for, they were just desperate people in desperate situations. Please remember that the ladies are not always what they seem as well. There are lots of fake profiles.

2. It sounds like SA girls really don't want to be seen as too transactional, so are there shortcuts to find ones that are more DTF than others? I'm filtering on 'friends with benefits' and 'no strings attached', but maybe there's a better way?

My Take on this There is a huge mix of ladies on SA. Some are looking for guys to pay for their lifestyles but will give nothing in return. Some are curious, some are interested in finding a husband etc. It is a number game. Start chatting to as many as possible that catch your eye. I usually ask if they have had an arrangement before and how did it work for them. I tell them I have had a few longer term arrangements to break the ice and then try and see if we have similar interests before then asking their expectation $. This give me an idea of their seriousness. Some say they re looking for $$ for a date. In my experience the $ seems to similar across the place I was $250 - $500 for a date. I always say we should meet for coffee first to see neither of us are axe murderers.

3. I live in a city where it sounds like there are plenty of SBs to be found. But do you have girls over to your own place in your home city, or just get a hotel? I'd rather not be at home because I don't want the girl seeing my personal stuff that they can tie to my identity, or showing up at my place uninvited after we were supposed to part ways. But maybe I'm overthinking it?

My Take on this I have always gone for a hotel or apartment, see how you get on and take form there. If you have a long term thing they will find out who you are but you need to build that trust and remember both your and their safety. Also SA is not about just a hook up you can wine and dine them if you like or even just go for a drink first. Sometimes they are DTF but usually not.

4. I'm going to Vegas in a couple of weeks, and that seems like a great place to try SA since I can be anonymous and staying in a hotel. But I'll only have one free night, and it seems like a lot of the SA stories here have multiple encounters to get real payback. Is worth even trying if I only have one night in Vegas?

My Take on this I used SA for the first proper time in Vegas. I was there for a week. There was a lot of groundwork so 1 night might be too little to get the full benefit but you will still enjoy yourself if you start a week in advance and line up a few people. You may need to have a a few dates as some will not turn up or cancel at the last min.

[Alex7J]

Agree 1000%. I like San Antonio and it is nice to have someone to hang out with, but it is a losing game. This is why I put very little time or energy into American girls. I just shake my head at the way they dress, there behavior and just there substance abuse issues. 95% of my resources are put into Mexico.

By the way I am looking at traveling to Mexico City. A friend speaks very highly of M. See.

There is so much SA pussy in CDMX that it is amazing. Last year was there for 3 months in the covid lockdown and every single day I had a new SB ready to meet but I'm not young so 3 SB every week was enough for me. Don't give them $100 but 2500 pesos ($110) plus taxi and she is super happy plus dinner and drinks.

Office Girls.

Nurses.

Students.

Workers.

You name it and I did them and rarely I repeat a girl unless she is super sexy in bed.

Threesomes.

Bi sexual girls.

Everything was on offer.