Rants, Stupid Shit and Coronavirus in Thailand

[AirlineCrew]

At Nicfrenzy and Crazy4 thai thanksi for the kind words and wisdom. I think you two are probably right. The thought of being exclusive to this one woman for the rest of my life would seem an impossible task. I'm going to try for now. Since I can't come into Thailand and indulge right now anyway that's an easy thing to say but just like you said this will probably change as soon as Thailand opens up again.

Staying away from all the venues in BKK would seem a bloody shame and since my experience is that every "regular" massage joint will ask you if you want to try the specials I just know that in a moment of weakness I'll say yes and then I'm back for sure. I've had sex at places when I was seriously going to get a massage. Just at a place near my hotel not even close to the RLD. Girl asked if I wanted a HJ like they always do and I just ask if she would do full sex. Sometimes they would hesitate but they always said yes in the end. I'd like to think I've liberated some young girls from their virginity this way.

Imagine if I had stayed faithful to my ex wife all those years what a waste that would have been.

Time will tell, maybe I'll fool myself and just be really picky with the ladies from now on and think that will justify it LOL.

[Crazy4Thai]

I agree with NicFrenchy. My handle could accurately be adjusted to Crazy for Pussy. All kinds of pussy. I have not been picky like many are. Not that I don't have my standards. But it's not just the sex act, it's all that goes with it. The surprise chemistry, the surprise willingness to please, the laughter while we are still playing pool, finding that she matches my wit and banter. It's an exploration and discovering delights. Not always of course, but often enough. And then there is the sustainability of your new love. I'll just say that my own true loves have never worked out and they failed even before I became a world class monger. So that was not a factor. Of course you could try, I mean truly commit, to quit and see how it goes. I know that people not on the game find it so easy to criticize us who are but what's true for me is that I really just love women and want to be around them. And fuck them. Could it be that you now have an obligation to keep us posted?

[NicFrenchy]

Dear Gents,

Nice rant and yes you're between a rock and a hard place.

Now, from experience I am afraid the temptation will be too large for you to abstain from having "fun" in Thailand. As strong as your will may be, once you get a taste of that life, as you so eloquently put it, it becomes a game, an addiction of sorts.

I am in a relationship, and even though I love my partner, I am straying. Mostly non P4 P this past couple years but I do indulge in massages from time to time. I tried to stop, I did for a while, but went back.

What triggered my going back? Could be a million things, but it was alcohol. My mind wasn't 100% and I got weak. Once I had the first taste again, I was done for.

I'm rooting for you and your couple, but your job will provide a lot of time away from your partner. And a lot of temptations. The only thing I would say, is try not to bring anything nasty home back to her.

[AirlineCrew]

Dear Gents,

First off this post contains no information on Thailand, if that's what you are looking for than skip my rant. (Don't want to step on anyone's toes, I've learned my lesson from previous experiences).

I've not been on this site for awhile, as my name suggest I work for an airline and I've traveled to BKK all through covid multiple times. However when I'm there I'm not allowed to have visitors or even leave my hotel room. Even though our entire airline now is vaccinated we are still not allowed to leave the room or have a visitor. But that's not what my rant is about.

For years and years I've visited the soapies and oilies in BKK, mostly out of necessity since the sex in my marriage was basically non existent and absolutely not very exciting. I did see value in my marriage and I was able to live this way with quenching my sexual desires in Thailand and many other places around the world. However my marriage has ended (for reasons that didn't involve cheating on my ex wife) and I've been single until recently. Never stopped visiting the ladies though, but this time in my own country and whenever it was allowed during lockdown. (Even if it wasn't I still got my fix from time to time).

Now I've met a new woman via tinder. She is absolutely wonderful, we have been going on dates a few months now and the sex is fantastic. She is all I could wish for and has made me see what I have missed in my previous marriage. I actually start to have feelings for her. We are slowly planning a future together. Out of respect I've stopped seeing WG's. However I've come to realize this has become an actual hobby of mine. It started out of necessity but I've actually enjoyed seeing women all these years. The thrill of finding that gem in some seedy place or actually exploring some cities in the world using tips from my fellow mongers on this website.

It's hard for me to imagine that I will never get to spend time with a hot 20 year old in Thailand again, especially now that I'm over twice that age and the idea gets more exciting the older I get. I've even had sex with women that are much older than I am which I found enjoyable as well. Or women that I normally wouldn't fall for like black women or fat women. They are usually not my preference but man I've had some good times with a BBW and some African ladies.

My new girlfriend knows about me having visited hookers and she was ok with me doing so in the past but had asked me to stop because of possible STD's and mostly because she considers it cheating.

I'm not going to ask you gents what I should do, I realize this forum would not be neutral. It's just a rant and I need to figure this out myself but any thoughts or experiences would be welcome. Thanks to everyone for all the tips I got through the years by reading this forum and it was a pleasure to have helped others the same time.

ALC.

[NicFrenchy]

a punter could go out this very night and be swarmed by perfectly doable if not more than doable young P4P ladies while getting shit-faced drunk if that is his thing. The alcohol part carries risks for now though

The way Bangkok is at the moment, you can easily have a party, 2 or 3 ladies, your own supply of alcohol all in the comfort of your hotel room. Although curfews have been eased, the ladies would not charge an arm and a led for "long time".

You may have to sneak the ladies in 1 by 1 (hotel policies and all) but the safest way these days is house (small parties, 5 people max I believe).

I would avoid places that sell alcohol, at least until restaurants / bars can officially serve. The last thing you want is you being caught and slapped with a fine, a ticket back home and maybe a couple years ban from re-entering the kingdom. As a tourist, you're the lowest hanging fruit. A little notch below soi dogs.

[ThaiGoodTimes]

Other than that "local population" part, my observation and experience is that the things you listed are not exactly true even now, October 21, 2021. I'm talking about the main red light district of Bangkok.

Sure, everything can change on a dime. But a punter could go out this very night and be swarmed by perfectly doable if not more than doable young P4P ladies while getting shit-faced drunk if that is his thing. The alcohol part carries risks for now though.

Remember the "friend" or whatever of a member here who wrote a couple of recent reports his member friend posted about how he'd been in Bangkok for 3 days, how dreary everything looked in Bangkok, how he would not stick his dick in the dregs he saw, how sorry he was if he insulted anyone living here who did?

Well, he was mostly right about how things looked in general and I said so.

But while he was boasting about how his punter knowledge and punter game was superior to the poor confused souls who had not figured out how to behave properly as a very good boy to arrange meetings with sideliners or certain Thai website girls for presumably very safe, polite, basic, standard P4P fare, he pretty much had missed 2-3 elephants in the room where a moderately curious punter could then and can now get what you listed at less than normal cost.

He just either totally missed it or was keeping mum about it for any one of a few reasons. Lol.

100% agree with you.

And I will add that very very very satisfactory punting has continued throughout all the Covid restrictions across pretty much all the playspots in Thailand. I can personally claim that through experiences in Phuket, Bangkok, Pattaya, and Hua Hin, as well as information provided to me by trusted fellow punters in each of those locales.

The ones who missed out on knowing how to keep happy with covid, where those who never fostered "enduring engagements" with bars, girls, etc. , so they had no inside running to how the girls kept working. They were the just come, see, fuck and leave brigade of punters. As I read recently, those in the know, who played the long game, and played it to rules, got invited inside the telegram groups, and have endured good times. My personal approach has always been to get to know Mamasan, and long time, good time girls, and they have helped me continue to meet my needs.

[ThaiGoodTimes]

I'm afraid, You're right.

- Even if your country is on the "OK list".

- Even if you are vaccinated.

- Even if you have a PCR test valid for 48 hours.

- Even if you have to make another PCR test once entering in Thailand.

- Even if you subscribe a COVID insurance up to $ 100 K.

- Even if you must stay in an imposed hotel.

What will you really find in Thailand since November?

- no alcohol (and I'm not an alcoholic but hey.).

- closed bars?.

I'll stop giggling at your reply soon.

If you want all that, well nearly (no gogo's yet), then go to Phuket.

It's all readily available, and it's also where the girls have moved to now that they again can enter.

As always, they follow where the punters are heading with their western filled wallets.

[EihTooms]

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What will you really find in Thailand since November?

- no alcohol (and I'm not an alcoholic but hey.).

- closed bars?

- massage parlors open randomly? With just a few girls?

- a local population mostly hostile to the reopening of the country - https://www.straitstimes.com/asia/se...g-country-poll.

- wearing a mask everywhere, outside, inside.

Seriously, it will take time to find again the Thailand (and the world) we have known.

Shit!

Take care guys.

Other than that "local population" part, my observation and experience is that the things you listed are not exactly true even now, October 21, 2021. I'm talking about the main red light district of Bangkok.

Sure, everything can change on a dime. But a punter could go out this very night and be swarmed by perfectly doable if not more than doable young P4P ladies while getting shit-faced drunk if that is his thing. The alcohol part carries risks for now though.

Remember the "friend" or whatever of a member here who wrote a couple of recent reports his member friend posted about how he'd been in Bangkok for 3 days, how dreary everything looked in Bangkok, how he would not stick his dick in the dregs he saw, how sorry he was if he insulted anyone living here who did?

Well, he was mostly right about how things looked in general and I said so.

But while he was boasting about how his punter knowledge and punter game was superior to the poor confused souls who had not figured out how to behave properly as a very good boy to arrange meetings with sideliners or certain Thai website girls for presumably very safe, polite, basic, standard P4P fare, he pretty much had missed 2-3 elephants in the room where a moderately curious punter could then and can now get what you listed at less than normal cost.

He just either totally missed it or was keeping mum about it for any one of a few reasons. Lol.

[Khondjii]

Unless you are completely okay without going to gogobars, nightclubs, or bars, you would be better off leaving on Dec. 1. The ban on serving alcohol is still in affect until Dec. 1, so IMO not worth going until then.

I'm afraid, You're right.

- Even if your country is on the "OK list".

- Even if you are vaccinated.

- Even if you have a PCR test valid for 48 hours.

- Even if you have to make another PCR test once entering in Thailand.

- Even if you subscribe a COVID insurance up to $ 100 K.

- Even if you must stay in an imposed hotel.

What will you really find in Thailand since November?

- no alcohol (and I'm not an alcoholic but hey.).

- closed bars?

- massage parlors open randomly? With just a few girls?

- a local population mostly hostile to the reopening of the country - https://www.straitstimes.com/asia/se...g-country-poll.

- wearing a mask everywhere, outside, inside.

Seriously, it will take time to find again the Thailand (and the world) we have known.

Shit!

Take care guys.

[Explorer8939]

Quite right, and in the dating scene, my money is on Tinder at the moment. TF, Badoo, Tagged are just a mere side entertainment.

As a local, the only negative in playing the non P4 P game is that, no matter how many times you tell these girls you are not looking for a relationship, they always want more.

Golden Rule: Never bring them home (they should not know where you live), or work.

On the contrary, I bring many home. That's how I have my condo cleaned, about 50% of the ladies clean up the place.

[StudBucket]

I'm Swiss and supposed to fly in Bangkok 3rd November.

For now Thailand says that 5 countries can enter without quarantine: China, Germany, Singapore, UK and USA.

Thailand government could announce an extended list with other countries in the coming days. Ok.

Even if your country is or will be on the list there are quite a few conditions to obtain a "Thailand Pass", including the purchase of COVID insurance and the choice of a specific hotel. When I look at the "how to" chart for entering Thailand, it already gives me a headache.

Note for myself: think of a plan be.

Unless you are completely okay without going to gogobars, nightclubs, or bars, you would be better off leaving on Dec. 1. The ban on serving alcohol is still in affect until Dec. 1, so IMO not worth going until then.

[Khondjii]

I'm Swiss and supposed to fly in Bangkok 3rd November.

For now Thailand says that 5 countries can enter without quarantine: China, Germany, Singapore, UK and USA.

Thailand government could announce an extended list with other countries in the coming days. Ok.

Even if your country is or will be on the list there are quite a few conditions to obtain a "Thailand Pass", including the purchase of COVID insurance and the choice of a specific hotel. When I look at the "how to" chart for entering Thailand, it already gives me a headache.

Note for myself: think of a plan be.

[Houston Player]

Quite right, and in the dating scene, my money is on Tinder at the moment. TF, Badoo, Tagged are just a mere side entertainment.

As a local, the only negative in playing the non P4 P game is that, no matter how many times you tell these girls you are not looking for a relationship, they always want more.

Golden Rule: Never bring them home (they should not know where you live), or work.

Your Golden Rule of advice is certainly in the right thread. LOL.

[NicFrenchy]

Fuck that. I have money. Some of the dating sites that you use and have proven to work for you, then it is best to pay the money.

Quite right, and in the dating scene, my money is on Tinder at the moment. TF, Badoo, Tagged are just a mere side entertainment.

As a local, the only negative in playing the non P4 P game is that, no matter how many times you tell these girls you are not looking for a relationship, they always want more.

Golden Rule: Never bring them home (they should not know where you live), or work.

[Mr Enternational]

Are some people still getting effective use from the free membership? I can only view profiles for free, I must pay to contact the desirable ones.

Fuck that. I have money. Some of the dating sites that you use and have proven to work for you, then it is best to pay the money. It is all a numbers game, and the more numbers you can hit in a given time, the better. Damn waiting 10 minutes. That is ridiculous. As far as TF goes, I have not paid for it since I left because there is no reason to. I do not need it when I am not there. But when I am in the country I keep my subscription paid. My Latinamericancupid I pay by the year ($119) because I am always traveling around Latin America.