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10-25-21 06:59 #2359
Posts: 1202FR please
Tell us how you did!
Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
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10-24-21 20:08 #2358
Posts: 2698Swingers Club Real Deal
Just a quick up on the swingers club thing I mentioned a few weeks back. Damn it is much bigger and better than I expected. The one I went to in BA had maybe 10 couples and a few more in the bar area. This one in FL we pull up and there is a line down the block. At least 50 in line. We get in and there are 200 people in the main club area dancing and drinking and another 75 or 100 in the back in various states of sucking and fucking. It's totally classy and well run. Amazing. Who the fuck knew this was possible in pussy prison USA!
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10-24-21 03:52 #2357
Posts: 5Hi,
I'll give it a try; the Japanese condoms and the sexual position Steve suggested.
No, I do not watch porn at all and neither do I masturbate. But, yes, sometimes to have a release I am into DFK and a HJ; I love that if done slowly, sexily and right way. Some girls love this too. Had a couple of nice experiences on this.
Thank you for sharing information on the Vitamin E oils. I will read and see how it could be of use and help to me.
Thanks again.
Originally Posted by WyattEarp [View Original Post]
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10-24-21 03:50 #2356
Posts: 5Yes, MW, I do wear a condom and I have no issue cuming in it. A few years ago, I did not but once had an infection; so 100% it's always with condom on it. It was a mind issue with me as far as condom was concerned as lost my erection immediately with it but not anymore. It's a sorted issue with me.
Thanks MW for sharing your experience and Wow, 13 times in 8 days; is like he came, he saw and he conquered. Great.
Thanks.
Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]
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10-24-21 03:49 #2355
Posts: 5Hey Steve,
Many thanks for replying. My apologies for late response to you and others too as had been busy working. I use a Durex condom and yes, I have tried Durex ultra thin; same, it's as good as no rubber on your dick. It's recently launched here and is a massive hit with men. With regards to your suggestion about Okamotos, I'll order and get them too but with Durex ultra thin, It's like man I am fucking bareback. It really is as if nothing on cock.
I am a big big big fan of missionary with tones of DFK and tongue action. If a girl is not into DFK, either my johnny doesn't sing or I lose interest because for me that is the most intimate thing in the entire experience. I will certainly try the position you suggested.
And yeah, Steve, you are right about me focusing on my orgasm.
I do love CIM. Girls have asked me how can I make you cum and then I did release in their mouths. No complaints on that front. I have a couple of them who like giving BJs and can really go long on it in spite of their neck paining but they still persist with it.
Thank you for suggestions and replies.
Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
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10-22-21 06:20 #2354
Posts: 164Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
Phoenix was bad, but screw it, it's all part of it. Some you bang, some you don't. My flake rate was abnormally high, but maybe the stars just didn't align or something. I used a different tactic this time as well, which I think probably put too much time between pulling them off of SA and actually meeting them in person. Usually that process takes about 10 days. You are fresh, they like you, and they are willing to meet. In this case, it was more than 30 days and even with texting, things probably just got stale. Lessons learned.
I don't mind scheduling 2 girls on the same night. I did 4 in this case because I saw the flake happening before I even landed. LOL.
Two girls at different times in one night gives me options to potentially call an audible if things are just not going well. The good thing is that I haven't had many girls that I didn't' click with once we hung out. I'm prepping to hit Madrid again in 2 weeks and I have one super solid SB that I've already banged, so I'll cement the relationship a bit more. The italian girl has been very responsive, so I need to officially meet her (I'm surprised she kept in contact this long). She told me that she moved to Madrid (instead of the outskirts), so she has more time now. I'm looking forward to adding her to my list, seriously. The heavy texting will begin in about a week or so and we'll see what happens.
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10-22-21 05:51 #2353
Posts: 1202Flake rate and first date strategy
For the first meet, the flake rate is very high indeed. For me, maybe it was about 80%, with most of them being last minute cancellations. Sometimes they just did not show up, but that was kind of rare. Some would cancel well in advance, but that was also rare.
I won't go into all the reasons why the flaking happens, but just expect it.
Therefore, (1) don't book a hotel room in advance on a first date, and (2) have a backup plan.
I don't know how many times I drove over an hour for a first date, only to be flaked on and then stuck with a paid-for hotel room.
Eventually, I chose meeting places that I wanted to check out anyway. So, when the date flaked, I at least got to check out a new bar or new neighborhood.
Also, for the first date, I stopped doing dinners. For me, they were hit or miss, and when they were a miss, then I was stuck on a boring date for two painful hours. That said, when the dinner date was going well, it went very well. So, totally hit or miss, and given the misses, I stopped doing dinner dates as a first date.
For the second dates, the flake rate was almost zero for me, and I assume similar for you guys.
As for flying SA girls to meet me somewhere, I only did it twice, and both times they showed up. However, this was only after we were seeing each other. I would never fly a girl into town for a first date. Many girls say they are willing to do that, but I never took the chance.
Anyway, my attitude for first dates with an SA gal was to not have high expectations. You might then ask why I bothered. That is because there were the occassional pleasant surprises, and that made all the time and work worthwhile.
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10-22-21 03:09 #2352
Posts: 112Laredo is the best.
Originally Posted by DramaFree11 [View Original Post]
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10-22-21 03:08 #2351
Posts: 2793Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
I had a couple of girls say I have 2 your, for example 1-3 pm. I would reply politely, no. I can only meet for dinner or drinks because of my work schedule.
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10-22-21 03:00 #2350
Posts: 2698Lots of Pluses for SNL
Originally Posted by DramaFree11 [View Original Post]
There are lots of pluses for doing dinner and pushing for the SNL (single night lay). Even tho I do it because I've found it most effective I think there are clear reasons it's more effective.
1. Dinner is more relaxed and intimate and romantic.
2. You are both drinking. Beer goggles work both directions.
3. If you let her think overnight then in the light of day this old guy idea might not seem too good. But once you have fucked and she enjoys it and is comfortable w you then you are in for good.
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10-21-21 21:41 #2349
Posts: 2793Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
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10-20-21 18:15 #2348
Posts: 2698Flake Rate
Originally Posted by DramaFree11 [View Original Post]
I have had 3 local girls flake or try to scam me but literally 20 for 20 in US where I fly in and the meetup happens as planned. Could be pure luck but I'm inclined to believe it's that we are both already "in a mini relationship" when I land. And only clear non-pros are willing to engage at this level, so that is a filter also.
PS maybe its just me but I never schedule two girls for the same time. My approach is to schedule my fave for night 1 and second fave for night 2 and 3rd place for night three (if there is deep enough bench like Vegas). Then repeat with my fave(s) nights 4 and 5.
PPS To be full disclosure I have had an additional 3 where the meetup happened so not a flake but the sex did not. Only one was a true fail where we had mad chemistry and she balked in the room. The other two were early in my journey. One the wrong age range snd a breakfast meet and one that I woulda closed without batting an eye if it was today.
My formula from the school of hard knocks is simple — Age 22-26, heavy girlfriend level texting, meetup for dinner and close with sex same night. Never lunch or breakfast. Never just a meet and greet. Always dinner and sex after.
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10-20-21 13:29 #2347
Posts: 2793Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]
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10-20-21 11:55 #2346
Posts: 1202Originally Posted by MiamiBoy1 [View Original Post]
"When I was active on SA in the USA, I spent at least 20 hours each week on the website. No exagerration. During a 20 month period, I probably contacted five to ten thousand gals, conversed with one or two thousand, and met about a hundred. I eventually had relations with about two dozen SBs. ".
So, I averaged about one good SB per month. If you are scoring two dates per week, then you are doing better than most of us.
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10-19-21 22:00 #2345
Posts: 2698Yeah Get Used to It
Originally Posted by Akibono [View Original Post]
Like Kayla wears nearly see thru dresses and no bra with her DCups. And damn Uma was wearing a short leather skirt and some fuck me boots and showing a ton of her double DDs and here she is sitting across from me chatting amiably as some matron looks on. They are both black and the way they are dressed there is no mistaking it for the daddy daughter dance. But they just rock on and don't give a fuck either. I think Uma in particular has complete confidence. Sexy black woman soon to be a doctor. She knows she stands out in a crowd.