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Originally Posted by
Turgid
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A friend of mine in high school said something I have never forgotten: "Sex is like bread, you never get fed up of it".
Wise advise.
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Originally Posted by
StRobert
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Guys from the East Coast, my advice is to move to Chula Vista because there are a lot of apartment buildings there (around $ 1500 per bedroom) and it's cheaper than San Diego. Sign a contract for half a year or a year and if you don't like it, then look for an apartment in San Diego but rent is more expensive there. To rent an apartment you must show your income and your bank account balance. Chula Vista location is good because lots of shops, supermarkets, restaurants the city is generally clean and safe. (Of course this is not Beverly Hills) Everyone here speaks English or Spanish. You park your car for free in the trolley car parking, take the trolley and in 30-40 minutes you are in Zona Norte. Also 30 min. To the beach (Coronado or Silver Strand. Imperial Beach is closed now because pollution), 30 minutes to downtown San Diego, to CBX airport Tijuana, also close to San Diego airport SAN domestic and European connections. There are Indian casinos in the area as well also close to LOS Angeles and Las Vegas. You can meet chicas regularly in Hong Kong, Adelita or at the Mansion motel (4 hours room rental) or at the Cascadas hotel (70% discount on Monday, Tuesday with VIP card). It is important that prostitution is legal in Tijuana Zona Norte and you cannot be arrested and no sting operations. If you smoke then cannabis is legal here in California. Rosarito, Ensenada and Valle de Guadalupe on the Mexican side are also nice. Southern California good sunny climate and good destination for single, divorced and retired guys!
You said it better than I did.
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No Fault
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BigMagick
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I use to care way too much about women in relationships. Thats why I feel like I simp but I've changed. I swallowed the "red pill" if everyone knows what that means since my last break up. I'm way more assertive with women now, I don't put them on pedestals and even to this girl I have said no to some things. I now have boundaries I don't let women cross. My success with women has improved drastically.
I feel I could date a civvie girl no problems and run circles around her. I mean we are men and think more linearly than women. We can definitely outsmart them. But bar girls I have no examples to look at. Treating her like a girl I met at whole foods can't be the right move. Its so out of the ordinary I can't figure out what to do.
It's not your fault. It's the way we're trained and indoctrinated as we are raised from boys to men. "Sugar and spice and everything nice" is bullshit when it comes to women in general. We grow up. Some of us learn (often the hard way), some never learn. I have found that a woman is more likely to respect and desire a man who is strong enough to stand up to her and not let her have her way all the time. I have no problem walking away so she can spend her time spinning her wheels looking for the perfect simp to drain his bank accounts and control him emotionally (women really get off on this because they themselves are emotional beings). Women. They sometimes grow up too and stop doing this bullshit, and finally "settle" on a guy. Everybody settles. Not me! Single and free!
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Originally Posted by
MmaufcFan
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Exactly I don't know how anyone that enjoys going there wouldn't want to live right next to the action and not ever get bored of going 1-2 times a week or more. No more snow no more 20 degree weather and all the hot pussy I want 20-30 min from my home The days till I die will be fun all the time I have a good life come summer.
A friend of mine in high school said something I have never forgotten: "Sex is like bread, you never get fed up of it".
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Originally Posted by
BigMagick
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I use to care way too much about women in relationships. Thats why I feel like I simp but I've changed. I swallowed the "red pill" if everyone knows what that means since my last break up. I'm way more assertive with women now, I don't put them on pedestals and even to this girl I have said no to some things. I now have boundaries I don't let women cross. My success with women has improved drastically.
I feel I could date a civvie girl no problems and run circles around her. I mean we are men and think more linearly than women. We can definitely outsmart them. But bar girls I have no examples to look at. Treating her like a girl I met at whole foods can't be the right move. Its so out of the ordinary I can't figure out what to do.
Relationships with American women are like a tug of war. The successful ones are where one party constantly allows the other to pull him / her over the line. Good luck finding that woman who would often allow herself over the line.
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Originally Posted by
MmaufcFan
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I'm east coast too been going to Tijuana for years 3 times a year. I'm making the move in summer I'll see how I feel after a year there but don't think I will get bored.
Guys from the East Coast, my advice is to move to Chula Vista because there are a lot of apartment buildings there (around $ 1500 per bedroom) and it's cheaper than San Diego. Sign a contract for half a year or a year and if you don't like it, then look for an apartment in San Diego but rent is more expensive there. To rent an apartment you must show your income and your bank account balance. Chula Vista location is good because lots of shops, supermarkets, restaurants the city is generally clean and safe. (Of course this is not Beverly Hills) Everyone here speaks English or Spanish. You park your car for free in the trolley car parking, take the trolley and in 30-40 minutes you are in Zona Norte. Also 30 min. To the beach (Coronado or Silver Strand. Imperial Beach is closed now because pollution), 30 minutes to downtown San Diego, to CBX airport Tijuana, also close to San Diego airport SAN domestic and European connections. There are Indian casinos in the area as well also close to LOS Angeles and Las Vegas. You can meet chicas regularly in Hong Kong, Adelita or at the Mansion motel (4 hours room rental) or at the Cascadas hotel (70% discount on Monday, Tuesday with VIP card). It is important that prostitution is legal in Tijuana Zona Norte and you cannot be arrested and no sting operations. If you smoke then cannabis is legal here in California. Rosarito, Ensenada and Valle de Guadalupe on the Mexican side are also nice. Southern California good sunny climate and good destination for single, divorced and retired guys!
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If zona was boring you would not be going often
Originally Posted by
BigMagick
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Maybe just me but it got old. Idk I'm like 60 ish putas in and over it. Maybe its because theres some other things I want to prioritize. It lost the novelty because I did it so much. That was my goal going in though. I wanted to be over that player lifestyle part of my life. It was one of the craziest, funnest and most exciting parts of my life and trust me that's saying something. I've had some intense party phases.
Hi Big Magick,
How often did you go to Zona when it was more interesting for you?
How often do you go there now?
If you are still going to Zona at least once a month then I would say you must not find it boring / old.
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Originally Posted by
MmaufcFan
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Exactly I don't know how anyone that enjoys going there wouldn't want to live right next to the action and not ever get bored of going 1-2 times a week or more. No more snow no more 20 degree weather and all the hot pussy I want 20-30 min from my home The days till I die will be fun all the time I have a good life come summer.
Maybe just me but it got old. Idk I'm like 60 ish putas in and over it. Maybe its because theres some other things I want to prioritize. It lost the novelty because I did it so much. That was my goal going in though. I wanted to be over that player lifestyle part of my life. It was one of the craziest, funnest and most exciting parts of my life and trust me that's saying something. I've had some intense party phases.
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Tuesday night met a guy from San Diego. He was happy to have a guy to talk to to slow the spread of his thousands. He bought me some beers then I bought him some beers and food, I thought I didn't like a guy paying for girls to drink with me then when he went upstairs. I realized quickly I like a wealthy wing man. I was sitting alone without woman once he left. Then I found him as I was leaving and he spent another 100 on woman for me. I need to find this guy quick before he finds new wingman.
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Originally Posted by
CaptainSolo
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MMUFC.
Hurry up and make your move.
A few HK girls, hotter than Salma Hayek, are anxiously waiting for you and your python hehe.
Exactly I don't know how anyone that enjoys going there wouldn't want to live right next to the action and not ever get bored of going 1-2 times a week or more. No more snow no more 20 degree weather and all the hot pussy I want 20-30 min from my home The days till I die will be fun all the time I have a good life come summer.
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Originally Posted by
LuvMexicanas
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You're not a simp as long as you know when to say no. Unless a guy has that in him (when to tell a chica to fuckoff), he's best advised not to wade into the deep end of the pool so to speak.
I use to care way too much about women in relationships. Thats why I feel like I simp but I've changed. I swallowed the "red pill" if everyone knows what that means since my last break up. I'm way more assertive with women now, I don't put them on pedestals and even to this girl I have said no to some things. I now have boundaries I don't let women cross. My success with women has improved drastically.
I feel I could date a civvie girl no problems and run circles around her. I mean we are men and think more linearly than women. We can definitely outsmart them. But bar girls I have no examples to look at. Treating her like a girl I met at whole foods can't be the right move. Its so out of the ordinary I can't figure out what to do.
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Originally Posted by
BigMagick
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Hope everyones been having fun in the zona. Its been a wild experience for me going multiple times a month for like the past year. In that time I have managed to go on dates outside the club with two girls. The guys on here have always given me good advice on all mongering matters. I have asked older mexicans and older americans for advice on if I should trust these bar girls and they all say the same thing. Don't. I've learned about the true nature of women and its why I find it hard to trust these girls. I dropped my last bar girlfriend because she would ask for way too much money. I wasnt born yesterday so I walked away.
This new girl though. She seems to be genuinely interested in me. I met her inside Hong Kong. I did pay to go up with her a few times but she never asked for much. She would stay the whole night and be happy with 100 $. She constantly texts me and shows up to all our dates outside the club. All the signs of a girl being genuinely into me are there. In the back of my mind I can't help but feel she's just playing the long con game to sucker me in. We are looking at apartments I'm tijuana right now so things are getting serious.
It seems the outcome of this no one can predict but any advice from the bros would be greatly appreciated. Hope you guys are enjoying the putas. Stay singly guys! Don't be a simp like me LOL.
So you get all nighters at 70% off? And free company sex on other dates? So you basically pay like 15% of what it would cost. That's pretty good. Keep it. Don't fall in love. Assume she's banging everyone though.
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Mas
Originally Posted by
BigMagick
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Hope everyones been having fun in the zona. Its been a wild experience for me going multiple times a month for like the past year. In that time I have managed to go on dates outside the club with two girls. The guys on here have always given me good advice on all mongering matters. I have asked older mexicans and older americans for advice on if I should trust these bar girls and they all say the same thing. Don't. I've learned about the true nature of women and its why I find it hard to trust these girls. I dropped my last bar girlfriend because she would ask for way too much money. I wasnt born yesterday so I walked away.
This new girl though. She seems to be genuinely interested in me. I met her inside Hong Kong. I did pay to go up with her a few times but she never asked for much. She would stay the whole night and be happy with 100 $. She constantly texts me and shows up to all our dates outside the club. All the signs of a girl being genuinely into me are there. In the back of my mind I can't help but feel she's just playing the long con game to sucker me in. We are looking at apartments I'm tijuana right now so things are getting serious.
It seems the outcome of this no one can predict but any advice from the bros would be greatly appreciated. Hope you guys are enjoying the putas. Stay singly guys! Don't be a simp like me LOL.
Well with such little info on your relationship with her it's hard to offer up much advice. I think with the writings of KB and how things have progressed with his girl you can see the things to do and not do. If you plan on living in Tijuana with her you have a better chance as compared to just visiting her from time to time. Like I advise anyone that looks to get involved with a bar girl is to not make yourself poor trying to impress them or do things for them. If you want to give her an allowance since she's no longer working that's up to you but just don't take advantage of her as well since she is giving up making money to be with you. You both need to be honest in what you want and expect and see if it works out.
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Originally Posted by
BigMagick
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Hope everyones been having fun in the zona. Its been a wild experience for me going multiple times a month for like the past year. In that time I have managed to go on dates outside the club with two girls. The guys on here have always given me good advice on all mongering matters. I have asked older mexicans and older americans for advice on if I should trust these bar girls and they all say the same thing. Don't. I've learned about the true nature of women and its why I find it hard to trust these girls. I dropped my last bar girlfriend because she would ask for way too much money. I wasnt born yesterday so I walked away.
This new girl though. She seems to be genuinely interested in me. I met her inside Hong Kong. I did pay to go up with her a few times but she never asked for much. She would stay the whole night and be happy with 100 $. She constantly texts me and shows up to all our dates outside the club. All the signs of a girl being genuinely into me are there. In the back of my mind I can't help but feel she's just playing the long con game to sucker me in. We are looking at apartments I'm tijuana right now so things are getting serious.
It seems the outcome of this no one can predict but any advice from the bros would be greatly appreciated. Hope you guys are enjoying the putas. Stay singly guys! Don't be a simp like me LOL.
You're not a simp as long as you know when to say no. Unless a guy has that in him (when to tell a chica to fuckoff), he's best advised not to wade into the deep end of the pool so to speak.
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Advice on dating bar girls
Hope everyones been having fun in the zona. Its been a wild experience for me going multiple times a month for like the past year. In that time I have managed to go on dates outside the club with two girls. The guys on here have always given me good advice on all mongering matters. I have asked older mexicans and older americans for advice on if I should trust these bar girls and they all say the same thing. Don't. I've learned about the true nature of women and its why I find it hard to trust these girls. I dropped my last bar girlfriend because she would ask for way too much money. I wasnt born yesterday so I walked away.
This new girl though. She seems to be genuinely interested in me. I met her inside Hong Kong. I did pay to go up with her a few times but she never asked for much. She would stay the whole night and be happy with 100 $. She constantly texts me and shows up to all our dates outside the club. All the signs of a girl being genuinely into me are there. In the back of my mind I can't help but feel she's just playing the long con game to sucker me in. We are looking at apartments I'm tijuana right now so things are getting serious.
It seems the outcome of this no one can predict but any advice from the bros would be greatly appreciated. Hope you guys are enjoying the putas. Stay singly guys! Don't be a simp like me LOL.