Seeking Arrangements

[Steve 9696]

Have you guys ever registered a female profile to take a look at the competition in your area?

I did, upon wondering why I was getting such a good hit rate.

My competition in the area consisted of low effort profiles with zero pictures, poor spelling, guys obviously just looking for escorts (hell, half of the profiles were obliquely hinting at bareback, things like 'I've had a vasectomy' or 'Looking for a intimate and natural meets' guys with pictures that wouldn't look out of place under a newspaper headline of 'Local man arrested for kiddy fiddling. '.

I wouldn't say I have much game, but if you can present yourself as a normal human being (hide the dirty pervert you are) it really isn't difficult to get interest from quality girls.

So you had me super curious and I carefully created a girl profile (don't want to fuck up my status and of course it's tricky to not get tied into it via IP etc.) I was surprised there are ALOT of guys out there in two cities I do. And more surprising MOST had pictures. Wtf? I didn't poke into anyones profile to see what they said because I didn't want to show up in their "interests" list and then contact me. It already felt super creepy and I couldn't do it for long! All these ugly old dudes looking for pussy. I guess I am one (well not ugly!) but it just felt super creepy! I'm amazed girls survive the gauntlet to find the gems!

[Steve 9696]

Steve I can't respond to your messages. Please clear out your mailbox. Thanks!

Fire away.

[J Janni]

Have you guys ever registered a female profile to take a look at the competition in your area?

I did, upon wondering why I was getting such a good hit rate.

My competition in the area consisted of low effort profiles with zero pictures, poor spelling, guys obviously just looking for escorts (hell, half of the profiles were obliquely hinting at bareback, things like 'I've had a vasectomy' or 'Looking for a intimate and natural meets' guys with pictures that wouldn't look out of place under a newspaper headline of 'Local man arrested for kiddy fiddling. '.

I wouldn't say I have much game, but if you can present yourself as a normal human being (hide the dirty pervert you are) it really isn't difficult to get interest from quality girls.

[The Cane]

A friend of mine had to get shot injections into his dick to get erections. Not sure what it was?

No gain hahahaha!

[The Cane]

Steve I can't respond to your messages. Please clear out your mailbox. Thanks!

[NeilGeorge]

This happened about 7 or 8 years ago, when I was in HK. During a shower with an incall, she brings out a tube and squeezes out some black paste and spreads it all over my cock. Then she washes it off. Suddenly, my cock is as hard as a rock and it stays that way until I shoot my load maybe 45 minutes later while we were fucking in her bed. True story.

Does anyone know what this paste or cream was? I would love to buy it. But that said, I wonder if it's not good for the cock in the long run.

A friend of mine had to get shot injections into his dick to get erections. Not sure what it was?

[Midwestern]

You don't need any penis cream what the heck is that? You can fuck for hours and not need any special cream.

This happened about 7 or 8 years ago, when I was in HK. During a shower with an incall, she brings out a tube and squeezes out some black paste and spreads it all over my cock. Then she washes it off. Suddenly, my cock is as hard as a rock and it stays that way until I shoot my load maybe 45 minutes later while we were fucking in her bed. True story.

Does anyone know what this paste or cream was? I would love to buy it. But that said, I wonder if it's not good for the cock in the long run.

[Steve 9696]

I land in Bog later tonight. (posting there also) One very pretty girl from SA messaged and she wants to do lunch. I have 2 more that most likely will want to fuc. Scheduled one day apart. My friends in USA say, so "she wants a free lunch on a horny old man. " So, I got rid of these usa idiots, brainwashed people. My concern is yes she will enjoy lunch and since she is very good looking (however small breasts) I might succumb to take her to the hotel. No $ discussed. I might insult her if I offer anything. The other 2 will be all evening dates and they already know the program.

Since I am an "old man" LOL I am concerned about my recovery rate, chafing of the penis and basically too many girls available. Some booked in advance. I will immediately get a shot of testosterone upon landing. Also have some cream for the penis which I use in between sessions. Anything else I need?

Next is the hot as fuc actress / model / yoga instructor 22. That has told me blatantly, "I broke up with my professional football player / jock / boyfriend, he was too jealous and I have not had sex for 1 year and 7 months. I have never had an orgasm" this she told me over a week ago. So in preparation (we will spend 3-4 days together all-nighters in a cabin on top of a mountain. I purchased multiple sex toys, various lubricants, vibrators etc. She thinks she is in love with me. Wtf? So I will go with the flow and see what happens.

There are too many women and not enough time to meet. And once I land there will be even more. I downsized from over 200 (with their numbers, texting etc.) to only around 50 but in different cities all over Colombia. Most are 10's. They are all nice people. My penis is apparently running the show. So I increased the time in Colombia to 2 months. I figure 10 of these girls will want long term relationships. If I fall in love, it won't be the first time. I hope to meet them and return to close a deal with someone, maybe more than one. Help Elvis! . I feel kinda bad about that. But you only live once.

How the heck old are you? Surely not older than a lot of guys on here. You don't need any penis cream — what the heck is that? You can fuck for hours and not need any special cream. I'm thinking pussy juice and saliva have you covered (literally! Assume h have vigará or Cialis or generics? This is all an old man needs in his arsenal.

[The Cane]

Please clear your inbox. Thanks!

[DonCarlos1234]

I land in Bog later tonight. (posting there also) One very pretty girl from SA messaged and she wants to do lunch. I have 2 more that most likely will want to fuc. Scheduled one day apart. My friends in USA say, so "she wants a free lunch on a horny old man. " So, I got rid of these usa idiots, brainwashed people. My concern is yes she will enjoy lunch and since she is very good looking (however small breasts) I might succumb to take her to the hotel. No $ discussed. I might insult her if I offer anything. The other 2 will be all evening dates and they already know the program.

Since I am an "old man" LOL I am concerned about my recovery rate, chafing of the penis and basically too many girls available. Some booked in advance. I will immediately get a shot of testosterone upon landing. Also have some cream for the penis which I use in between sessions. Anything else I need?

Next is the hot as fuc actress / model / yoga instructor 22. That has told me blatantly, "I broke up with my professional football player / jock / boyfriend, he was too jealous and I have not had sex for 1 year and 7 months. I have never had an orgasm" this she told me over a week ago. So in preparation (we will spend 3-4 days together all-nighters in a cabin on top of a mountain. I purchased multiple sex toys, various lubricants, vibrators etc. She thinks she is in love with me. Wtf? So I will go with the flow and see what happens.

There are too many women and not enough time to meet. And once I land there will be even more. I downsized from over 200 (with their numbers, texting etc.) to only around 50 but in different cities all over Colombia. Most are 10's. They are all nice people. My penis is apparently running the show. So I increased the time in Colombia to 2 ½ months. I figure 10 of these girls will want long term relationships. If I fall in love, it won't be the first time. I hope to meet them and return to close a deal with someone, maybe more than one. Help Elvis! . I feel kinda bad about that. But you only live once.

[Steve 9696]

So we already discussed how Secret Benefits doesn't work. But worse it's a spammy scam!

So there is this girl I know. We had a date but agreed to be buds (she gave me a pity BJ LOL) So we chat all the time. Suddenly yesterday I see an email that she's sent me a message on Secret Benefits. And I say I'm not going to pay $10 to read it when I can just text her. And she's like WTF I didn't send that to you — apparently it just spams a bunch of guys that you are interested. And of course each guy has to pay to read the message. And she didn't even send it! What a scam.

[PilotPete]

I was going to reply in detail to Pussycat123 then decided to dump my thoughts here instead. Consider that the members here are mostly coming from other parts of ISG. Their searches for dates are based on a specific perspective. Getting lais ASAP for as little as possible and hoping for a GFE. If you want to know how much various types of girls "charge" in Bogota. ISG posts are mostly it related to that perspective.

I dated a bilingual attorney in Bogota who picked me up in her Mercedes, went to university in Barcelona and is a 10. Also a very nice person to be around. Also dated a violinist, an Actress (Barcelona transplant) and others. If you approached them with the desire to get laid. Mentioning friends with benefits and money on your whatsapp. A quick visit, 300 800 COP you just lost the opportunity to ever know who they are. Even the ones who are middle class might be turned off. And yes you will make SA look like a P4 P site and make it more difficult for the next serious person to be successful.

The SA girls in Bogota who I want to meet are not all "for sale" however they will respond to someone respectful, kind and "at their level" because that is what they really want. Not money. Probably why Elvis does well with these types. I am not saying you can't do the P4 P with many of them. You might miss out on a lot. Not really friends with benefits at all.

IF she has been on SA for over a year, she's fair game (P4 P) she uses it as her income. All pro pussy I call it. I dislike those types..

Thanks for taking the time to provide this valuable perspective. I'm almost exclusively interested in the type of woman you have dated and have had successful experience in Medellin this way. Money was never mentioned but I discreetly put money in their purse and / or in a thank you card or we went shopping. Traveling together and shopping, obviously on my dime, was the most satisfying. It's encouraging to hear that this type dating is still available.

[Steve 9696]

Just a few words: period sex. BBFSCIP. Seeking rules.

[The Cane]

And so on text, I asked her why she disappeared from the site, and she said that within the first couple of hours of her being on it, she got hundreds of guys messaging her, and it just overwhelmed her and so she went off of it. So, this really made me realize how competitive it was for us guys. SA keeps bragging that there are 4 or 5 women for every guy on the site. But there obviously is a lot of competition to get the gems. Every gal that I talked to on SA said that they have to weed through hundreds of messages every time they log onto the site. They spend a second on each message and move on to the next. And so, we really do have to figure out ways for our messages or profiles to stand out. I did not have a picture on my profile, and so that made it easier for the gals to just move onto the next guy's message.

Yes, we guys don't have an appreciation for how overwhelmed the girls can get. I have met a couple already, and they tell me what you say. They log in and have 100's of messages to weed through. Makes them want to quit. I also don't have a public picture, but they can see that I have a private one. So, if somebody is interested in my profile and responds positively to one of my messages, I will let them see my private pic. I understand that not having a public pic makes it easier for an overwhelmed girl to just move on, but that's what I feel comfortable with right now. Besides, I think I may have met somebody anyway who's going to do the trick. Will advise later.

[The Cane]

Most people lie about many things on this site. Age, location, animal lover, etc. But they check "prefer not to say" if they have children. I have not owned a dog for 40 years but post a photos with a puppy, women love it. Many women have multiple profiles to increase their hits, it costs them nothing to create a new profile with a different multiple email account.

This is so true. Lying going on everywhere! Including by us guys. But, I find the "prefer not to say" about having kids to be pretty funny because it obviously means that you do have kids LOL! So, you may as well just go ahead and say so.