Seeking Arrangements

[J Janni]

Let me put it differently.

You would struggle to get anyone for under 250,300 and upwards is the norm.

I don't doubt it. Have you seen the price of a pint in London?

Happily up North the girls are more my type and much more reasonable.

[DrainMaker]

Luckily I don't hang around London when I'm in the UK.

Besides which, 'decent' is a very subjective thing, which is why I refrain from all the talk of 6's and 7's and 9 and 10's that goes on here.

What I'm after from a seeking girl is not the glammed up Insta go style hottest girl in the nightclub, I want the pretty 18 year old supermarket checkout girl.

Let me put it differently.

You would struggle to get anyone for under 250,300 and upwards is the norm.

[Steve 9696]

Had some pretty great BBFS the last few days. When I think about it, once I became more open to the idea of BBFS, I see that maybe it's been on offer all along. The last five Seeking girls I've had have all been BBFS no fuss no muss. I am realizing now that it was probably ME getting the condom that sent things that direction and had I just mounted up she'the be down. Because like I say the last five have been.

These last two dates are so interesting in their contrast. Liz is a former stripper and def knows the game. And Celia is a newbie with some apparently innocent misguided expectations as you will see. All good in the end.

So first up is Liz. This is the SA girl in a second tier city I visit who I saw for quick fucks a couple years back but now we are doing real complete dates. I like this so much better. She is a ton of fun.

I'the seen her end of 2021 and she knew I was coming back so 2 weeks ago she hit me up saying she needed to buy birth control. And I said Ok maybe I can do that if we plan to take advantage of it and she was down. I think it was clear she was saying she's down for BBFS and why not pick up $100 on the way. Win win.

We met up for dinner at a sushi place and had some pretty good sushi and some different fruit infused sakes. Then bounced to an interesting place with a liquor store in front and a chill club in the back. Killed another bottle of wine plus she chugged a beer. She likes her drinks and gets wild when drinking.

Back in the room it was epic sex for a very long time. I was too liquored up to cum quickly so we sucked and fucked in every position possible. Gave her some nice DATY and fingering early on and she was a hot wet mess. Finished while making out in mish with full BBFSCIP. It was heavenly. Worth every penny of that birth control ask.

Day two was very similar format but with a very nice dinner and no club. We drank too much the night before and kept it under control this night. It led to a very different but equally satisfying bedroom experience. Because I wasn't very lit it all felt amazing but also lasted a lot less. I almost came during her excellent BJ but held off. But fucking her raw in mish while kissing was too amazing. I had a slow build to shattering CIP probably 20 minutes total in the room vs over an hour the previous night. But both great in their own way.

Next night was Celia in a different city. We met on SA about three weeks ago and she was very girlfriendy and we agreed to meet. Originally we were supposed to meet as a prelude to meeting once a month but things changed and that was off. I was transparent that this was now likely a one time only thing but she still wanted to meetup.

This is where the notion of sunk cost can be important with girls. She'the spent alot of time on me. Like texting every morning and evening about my day. Very girlfriendy. So when she found out it might be a one night thing she was super sad but when I gave her the chance to opt out she said "No I def want to see the man I've been talking to all this time. ".

We met up for sushi and sake and had a real nice time. She's def heavier than expected and her face had been filtered a bit. Def not quite the type I like best but clearly a sweet girl and I've had some heavy girls of late. For the most part I find they try harder and that works for me.

After dinner we bounce to a bar down the street. Had a balcony overlooking the street so a really nice place to chill. We talk about going dancing but agree we are both too tired and to just go to the room. But she's in for a treat first. I arranged a pedicab (bicycle rickshaw) and it's waiting for us when we emerge from the bar.

I know the driver well and I've told him ahead where to drop us in the end but let's hit the liquor store and the town first. It's prob a mile to the store but we have a nice chat and I pull her face to mine for our first kisses. She enjoys real kissing and she's a good kisser. At the liquor store we get a white Zinfandel and open it onsite so we can drink from the bottle during the ride.

He takes us on a nice tour and we are pounding the wine. Here's where things go sideways a bit. At some point she says something that makes me respond "that would be great but I'm already taken". There is a bit of silence and she says "what do you mean your taken?" And I say "you know, married" not thinking a thing of it, and point out my wedding ring which has been in plain sight this whole evening.

Well clearly she is an inexperienced girl because it never occurred to her to look. And she is genuinely surprised. There is a bit of back and forth where she says I should have told her, which of course is a bit ridiculous and I say I've had the ring on all night. I'm not tying to hide it (been together close to three hours now I'the say).

Honestly I feel really bad for her. Believe it or not she was totally into me (and my wealth no doubt) and in her young mind plotting some future. Naively thinking she might find that on SA. She says she is going to cry and does shed a tear. Although clearly not my fault, I feel crushingly sorry for her naivety and I don't like hurting anyone.

Well the rest of the ride is a bit awkward but we continue to drink and I guess she's getting over it and thinking about a great one night stand. She had said at some point earlier "I haven't had any good dick in two months" and she was about to get that in spades!

We have finished the bottle of wine by the time we are home and I am thinking that's it for the drinking but there is a complementary bottle of red in the room and she cracks that and we start drinking that too. It's only seconds till we are making out and getting naked. This girl is def a horny beast.

Her blowjob is good but not great, but no hesitation to lick and suck my newly shaved balls when encouraged to do so. And man does she ride me bareback like a blue ribbon Cowgirl. Never any mention of condoms. We also do RCG, doggy, and The Steve for a long time. Amazing mish with urgent, needy making out DFK. But finally, knowing I can't CIP move to CIM for a big finish. Clearly it's a big load and after spitting she says damn she hadn't done that in a while.

We sleep the sleep of the dead or at least she does she snores super loud LOL and was asleep 30 seconds after spitting my cum. Musta fucked her good. But I sleep well also.

Pleasantly and I don't get this enough from SA girls she starts a nice wake-up BJ as the way to start the day. She wants the D bad though because she only BJs till I'm hard and mounts up Cowgirl within a minute. And man does she fuck the hell out of me. That aggressive Cowgirl where they lean over so the can really jam it in and out. She has two apparent medium Os as I just let her use me as her fuck toy.

Then it's my turn and we do doggy and of course my fave DFK mish. Man it was fine. I hold off cumming though and roll on my back for another CIM finish.

After cleanup showers we check out and have a nice brunch before ubering together to her place to drop her off and me to the airport. And so ends my three day two girl bareback adventure and a study in contrasts between SA girls. Spent and satisfied.

[J Janni]

You would struggle to find any decent SA chicks for under 250 ppm in london.

Luckily I don't hang around London when I'm in the UK.

Besides which, 'decent' is a very subjective thing, which is why I refrain from all the talk of 6's and 7's and 9 and 10's that goes on here.

What I'm after from a seeking girl is not the glammed up Insta go style hottest girl in the nightclub, I want the pretty 18 year old supermarket checkout girl.

[DrainMaker]

I'm back in the UK in April. Unfortunately going to have to spend 18 days there before making my escape to the Phils or anywhere in South East Asia I can get to.

18 days. Conservatively, that's three girls I'm going to need to see to take the edge off.

So tempting to just pay the 100 for a seeking membership again and creampie some chavvy British teens.

Going rate for pro escorts is 100-150 per hour. Bad service, or not very hot girls.

Seeking girls are 150-200, plus 40-50 for a hotel. Multiple hours, no restrictions. Banged some British spinner teens last time, BBFSCIP.

Is it worth it for less than a month? Probably.

You would struggle to find any decent SA chicks for under 250 ppm in london.

[The Cane]

I could not find a phone number on their website.

When I was suspended, I received an email that had their telephone number in it. Unfortunately, I no longer have that email to be able to share the number with you. I understand the frustration. Went through it myself. In the end it was worth it. Me and my hot sugar baby had bareback sex again last Friday night. Ate out her asshole for the first time. Nutted inside her pussy. Try a Google search.

[J Janni]

I'm back in the UK in April. Unfortunately going to have to spend 18 days there before making my escape to the Phils or anywhere in South East Asia I can get to.

18 days. Conservatively, that's three girls I'm going to need to see to take the edge off.

So tempting to just pay the £100 for a seeking membership again and creampie some chavvy British teens.

Going rate for pro escorts is 100-150 per hour. Bad service, or not very hot girls.

Seeking girls are 150-200, plus 40-50 for a hotel. Multiple hours, no restrictions. Banged some British spinner teens last time, BBFSCIP.

Is it worth it for less than a month? Probably.

[AmericanPi]

Yes, I had the same thing happen. You need to call Customer Service and have them manually process the payment. Good luck getting anybody to answer the telephone!

I could not find a phone number on their website.

[AmericanPi]

So frustrating.

Created a SA account and tried to pay with prepaid Amex. Immediate account suspension. They said they don't take prepaid Amex and I could unfreeze it by submitting my ID. Uh. No.

Tried again with a prepaid Visa. Different account, different email. Immediate suspension.

Wtf! Anyone know what's going on here?

[PavanDude]

My SA account is getting suspended whenever I try to buy subscription. Anyone have the same issue.

Emailing Customer Service helped me resolve this. I was trying to buy a UK membership (I am in the UK now) using my Indian credit card that triggered the suspension.

[AsianPursuits]

Surprised to find this forum as I have been looking for other people's experiences on Seeking.com.

I have been a regular user of seeking on and off for the past three years. I always setup a new account, new payment and take a one month subscription. I know a month is enough for me in my local area.

In my area, Australia, conversation on the site has always had its fair share of PPM mentions, usually initiated by the girl. After about three weeks into my last subscription when I logged in I was promptly suspended due to discussing PPM. I thought it was unusual because even in the first week there would have been lots of PPM mentions. Anyway. I'll be back when I need to top up my prospect list.

The site is so addictive and consuming here. Within a day I was in bed with a legit former international beauty contestant.

Other exploits in this few weeks. Heaps of girls have had covid isolations which delayed a few meets. One girl I met it was her first day out of isolation. She just wanted to fucking anything, anybody and anywhere. That was a great experience.

Had one overnighter in a hotel. She had a couple of wines and was keen for anything. The condoms which she had requested stayed on the side table as she quickly declared she didn't like them anyway. Maybe the wine influenced that decision a little. Multiple pops over night and next morning. Paid her the agreed allowance and she left. She blocked me! OMG I felt used. I don't understand her generation (25 yo spinner). At least I always make some lame excuse and don't leave the girls hanging when I drop them.

Have another Asian mum whom catches up while the kids are at school.

Have another one of European descent, 28 yo single mum. Same deal, I need to be out before her son comes home from school.

I have found I need to be picky. I have wasted quite a lot of time on girls that are just never going to work out. I have learned to cull quickly. I need the girl to Host so I avoid the hotel fees and the restrictive check in / out timings. I also need girls that don't have a fulltime job. I know that rules out a lot of the talent but they are so hard to plan around. I also tried a few students at my local university but they invariably have share house and unable to host also.

In my profile description I chose not to put "Girl must host" as I think that would turn them off.

I'm enjoying reading of other people's experiences.

[SeekingHead]

SA is about relationships between older men and younger women. I have not been on Tinder, but I don't understand that to be the focus of Tinder at all. I'm sure it can and does happen, but if you want to maximize hooking up with much younger women, then I think sugar daddy sites would be the better way to go. If you can tolerate the knee-deep bullshit you have to wade through that is LOL! And, it definitely is expensive! I signed up for a three-month membership. At this point, I doubt that I will renew. I'm getting some numbers. Lots of numbers in fact. If I can build up a "practice" with a small stable of girls I'm fucking, that would be fine by me. No need to remain on SA.

I usually sign up for a month, get 4-6 girls to move to text then meet up with usually 2-4 of them for a lunch date. Out of those I will usually come to an arrangement with 75% of them usually $200 to $400 ppm. Currently I have 2 girls I meet up weekly with, one is a 23 year old spinner the other is a licensed CMT who does a 90 massage plus sex, which is $250 ppm. About every 3 months I will join up on SA & do tryouts to see if I want to replace the spinner with another one. The big benefits is all sex is bareback & no time watching, with the spinner it's basically a 3 hour date, she comes over for dinner, we have sex, smoke weed, goto the hot tub, come back in & have sex again.

[Oneminuteboy]

What happened to your relationship with her? Why and how did it end? Could be instructional for me.

Due to COVID we weren't able to meet up as frequent near the end. Both had situations where we were just about to meet and had to quarantine.
Had the last few times we met she didn't even want to be paid so the subject never arose. I helped pay for something which wasn't even half of the PPM we had agreed one time.

Then she had some family issue come up and didn't hear from her again.

It was a bit odd because before we were regularly chatting.

Steve summed it up in a great way.

Had another who I only met 2-3 times and could see she didn't like the lifestyle with the association of sex and money so "openly".

[WyattEarp]

There are a variety of innocuous ways it can end like she gets a better paying job or she realizes she is uncomfortable with this lifestyle (realizing it's sex for money or realizing that being out with an older man gets her the death stare both these have happened) but the single biggest thing I caution against is advancing money.

I of course know that paying ahead is a bad idea in P4 P but I am not talking about that here. What I am talking about is when you are fully engaged with a girl for a time you will grow to know her and like her deeply (despite her flaws) and yes, care about her. You will also grow closer to her personal life (if you don't specifically cordon this off). And as a result, when she gets in a money bind, you might advance her some funds. You are thinking "well we will meet up again and we'll even out". But this is not what happens. Instead it hurts the relationship. Not intentionally really but my experience is it's hard / impossible to get her out again if you advance her a PPM or two. It's not that she's a scammer. You know her better by that point I think they just need money and that feeling of "seeing you for free" when they could see someone else for money. Well it's no contest.

Anyhow it's happened a couple times. Usually can be healed with more money. LOL. But the idea of an advance against future dates def tends to kill things off. Least that is my experience.

I feel like I have complete access to the Tao of Steve. (That's not sarcasm. That's a compliment.).

[The Cane]

SA is more expensive than Tinder or Cupid. Is there any other difference between them? Is SA better in anything?

SA is about relationships between older men and younger women. I have not been on Tinder, but I don't understand that to be the focus of Tinder at all. I'm sure it can and does happen, but if you want to maximize hooking up with much younger women, then I think sugar daddy sites would be the better way to go. If you can tolerate the knee-deep bullshit you have to wade through that is LOL! And, it definitely is expensive! I signed up for a three-month membership. At this point, I doubt that I will renew. I'm getting some numbers. Lots of numbers in fact. If I can build up a "practice" with a small stable of girls I'm fucking, that would be fine by me. No need to remain on SA.