Stupid shit in Medellin

[Nounce]

LOL, and I am only interested in using your post to point out how strange and desperate Hollywood has become. What's your point in telling the forum "your only interested in the love angle" in response to my post haha?

All that shit goes down and you just want to know how much they still love each other? Hmmm my guess would be since for years there have been rumors that they have an open relationship and his wife fucks his son's friend, there is not very much of a "traditional" love left between the two. 3.5 billion men on Earth, and she has got to rock the cock of her son's friend and then make sure the world knows it, that is some cold blooded shit LOL.

I am just being polite. That's all. Not to the whole forum. It is to Elvis since he seems to be on top of it. LOL.

[Paulie97]

If you feel the need to call me a "pretender" or whatever else then that is on you, I have nothing to prove to you or anyone else on ISG.

You have to overlook JustTK as he can get cranky and menopausal at times. It stems from so much time spent in a UK basement, listening to his favorite wuss band Echo and the Bunny men (LOL) while picking fights with Americas online. Such a meager existence involves a lot of frustrations and need to snivel at strangers.

[MarquisdeSade1]

You are fighting against your own position here by giving more reasons why one should not be monogamous or get married!

A directed verdict is in order!

[Elvis 2008]

A question not really related to the post. What is your opinion of the love between Will Smith and his wife? I read they are in some kind of "open" relationship?

That one was not really in love with the other and from what I have read it seems like it was her.

I had a girl I was seeing before the current one, and she was great. She checked a lot of the boxes, but I would not commit to her. It caused tensions although she said it did not. There was like this distant voice in the back of my head saying something was wrong. A distant cousin of mine asked me about her, and she was like, "You idiot, if there are any questions, she is not the one." When you find a good one, you are not going to risk an open relationship. I did that with one I was not sure of.

Anyway, Jada Pinkett was the one who wanted the open marriage, and apparently she was fucking Chris Rock at one time. So CR makes a joke about JP, and Will Smith initially laughs about it. Then WS sees JP is upset and says in his own way "I will show you I am worthy of being your one and only" and punches CR. One of the guys in the manosphere called it a beta move, and IMO he is right.

[Elvis 2008]

I actually think it is the opposite. Women care more when they know they are in competition with someone else. If they know you are not going anywhere and have no other options then they can be complacent. You have to keep them on their toes. Also the less a man seems to care, the more a woman is attracted. Nice guys finish last.

I think the question is care about what? Maybe a woman will compete harder for you to be their guy sexually and appearance wise. But in your own words, you go for average women, and I did not. The women I shot for have tons of men as suitors to them. I can see why you would say what you do, but I do not think it applied to me.

What I was talking about was at the intimacy level. If you are not committed to a woman, you are going to lose out on the intimacy level.

If say you and a woman are at a movie theater, and you run into the girl's friends and they know you are seeing five different women, they are going to look at your girl with pity. If you are committed to her, then these same friends will be happy for her and may look at her with envy.

I was the first guy my gal introduced to her daughter. The daughter disowned her father because of his abusive behaviors. I joked around with her, played games with her, and we have gotten along. I think she saw that I wanted a comfortable place for us. Anyway, we go to dinner with my gal's brother and his SO. The brother and daughter are talking and the daughter taps me on the shoulder and says to her uncle, "Este es mi padre", and I thought that was really nice.

Given the choices most guys have, no sex, a family but with a wife as pseudohooker and guys being accused of being shallow but in control and at least not miserable seeing multiple women, the last choice IMO is much more appealing.

The reason we go abroad is the American system is expensive or broken and we are looking for better. I am just suggesting that there may be another way. Maybe it explodes in my face, and I get burned, but for all the spunk you are showing Mr. E, look at the negatives you have mentioned: a sporadic sex life, the emotional discussion with women and having them go through your phone, the lack of intimacy, and seeking out and often getting less than satisfying women. You keep saying not of it bothers you and maybe it does not, but I am not having to deal with any of that nonsense.

[Elvis 2008]

You are fighting against your own position here by giving more reasons why one should not be monogamous or get married!

No, I was pushing back against the due diligence angle and how you cannot do it. I suspect you have not been married Mr. E because over its course there are so many twists and turns that no one can anticipate.

There is no right or wrong on this topic, so I do not have a position; it is whatever makes you happiest. If it is monogamy or seeing multiple women, it is whatever works. I just do not think guys are honest about talking about what makes them happy.

Just because a guy fucks another chick does not mean his girl is not meeting his needs and he wants to break up with her.

You are forgetting about the part where he said he would forego all other women. So every guy who promises to be faithful to a woman is a liar? Maybe you are right, but that again is a cynical attitude towards men.

I actually looked up why married men cheat, and there was novelty and fetishes and the like but this is the one that hit home the most with me: https://shesaid.com/truth-married-me...t-prostitutes/.

There's something pretty awesome about feeling wanted. When husbands approach their wives for sex, they want them; there's no conditions around it and it's all about the sex. Wives, on the other hand, can place conditions around sex. This is supported by the statistics that men who do more housework get more sex.

Think about how you would feel if your husband had sex with you to get his dinner cooked, clothes washed, house cleaned. Get the picture? What a turn off! Unfortunately, that's exactly what's happening in some marriages. Men don't feel wanted. They know sex will cost them in the long run; so they choose to pay for it up front.

In a recent TV interview, a married man who regularly visited a prostitute stated that the emotional connection actually makes the sex better. This is backed up by what another men have been brave enough to admit. It's not just the sexual release because they can get that for free. It's the emotional connection that maybe lacking in their marriage that they are craving and paying for.

End of quote. Having to do more housework to get laid in a marriage? LOL. Isn't that another form of prostitution? And there is not even any guarantee if you do the housework you will get laid.

I do not think married guys really go for an emotional connection. I just think they want someone who makes them happy even for a little bit because their wives / SOs clearly do not.

My big issue with the current situation is the assumption that women are paying their fare share. I get the above situation if that were the case, but I see so few examples in my life where women actually make a significant contribution financially in marriages. What I see is women stepping up and taking half the credit for shit they not only were not responsible for but the husbands / SOs often accomplished in spite of them.

[Mr Enternational]

That changes too: a woman has a child and is no longer interested in the man. A woman gets fat and the man is no longer interested ETC.

You are fighting against your own position here by giving more reasons why one should not be monogamous or get married!

[RamDavidson84]

Thanks for the reply but I am only interested in the love angle.

LOL, and I am only interested in using your post to point out how strange and desperate Hollywood has become. What's your point in telling the forum "your only interested in the love angle" in response to my post haha?

All that shit goes down and you just want to know how much they still love each other? Hmmm my guess would be since for years there have been rumors that they have an open relationship and his wife fucks his son's friend, there is not very much of a "traditional" love left between the two. 3.5 billion men on Earth, and she has got to rock the cock of her son's friend and then make sure the world knows it, that is some cold blooded shit LOL.

[Nounce]

Will Smith's movies were fucking awesome back in the day, ...

Thanks for the reply but I am only interested in the love angle.

[JjBee62]

I think he and JjBee62 are in competition to see who can write the longest irrelevant posts. Kind of like Kamala Harris talking.

Apparently the posts aren't irrelevant. After all, for some reason you can't resist talking about me, even when I'm not involved in the conversation. I haven't experienced such dedication since my last dog died.

[Gabacho]

Am sure the statistical evidence will arrive shortly, otherwise we can put him in the rubbish along with the rest of you pretenders.

I didn't base my statement on any statistical or scientific data, simply my own experience. I have gotten gonorrhea 3 times in Mexico but not once in Colombia. And I have barebacked with quite a few SWers in both countries, even candy girls in Medellin haven't given me stds (that I am aware of) versus several times in Tijuana and DF. Plus the girls in Colombia seem to have better hygiene (clean shave, don't stink, use intimate shampoo and clotrimazole) compared to those I have come across in Mexico. I'm simply contributing my own personal experience, what you make of it is up to you. If you feel the need to call me a "pretender" or whatever else then that is on you, I have nothing to prove to you or anyone else on ISG.

[MarquisdeSade1]

I think he and JjBee62 are in competition to see who can write the longest irrelevant posts. Kind of like Kamala Harris talking.

Maybe try having some compassion for the mentally ill, mental midgets.

[Fun Luvr]

Why he keeps imposing his viewpoint on all of us is mystifying. Not sure where he finds the time to write so many Gone with the Wind length posts.

I think he and JjBee62 are in competition to see who can write the longest irrelevant posts. Kind of like Kamala Harris talking.

[MarquisdeSade1]

I actually think it is the opposite. Women care more when they know they are in competition with someone else. If they know you are not going anywhere and have no other options then they can be complacent. You have to keep them on their toes. Also the less a man seems to care, the more a woman is attracted. Nice guys finish last.

Touche'.

Many women won't appreciate a man not matter how "loyal" he is.

If she thinks hes only loyal because she's as good as it gets for him.

A comedian said once, I think Bill Maher, men are only as loyal as their options, Amen brother.

[Fudi Maar]

I actually think it is the opposite. Women care more when they know they are in competition with someone else. If they know you are not going anywhere and have no other options then they can be complacent. You have to keep them on their toes. Also the less a man seems to care, the more a woman is attracted. Nice guys finish last.

This. 100% agree. And not just with WG's, but with civvies too. In my last serious relationship, I treated my woman as a queen, and she ended up treating me like shit, knowing that I would always be there for her, whenever she felt like it. In the end, I terminated the relationship, and she was shell-shocked, begging me, but it was too late.

A woman is more attracted to a man when she can see him chatting / flirting-with other attractive women, or when other women want to be with him. It's called Pre-Selection.

When a guy has lots of options, it makes the man high-value, and raises his status in her eyes. It actually gives the woman that adrenalin / drama-rush that they so crave.