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05-20-22 13:53 #33566
Posts: 1908Originally Posted by CoolieHigh [View Original Post]
I can't count the times I've been asked to refer a visitor. Both "acquaintances" from home, and even complete strangers.
In my enthusiasm for Sosua I used to try and help. I'd help my local ladies make a little money, and the guys get laid. It worked only about 50% of the time. When it didn't, they'd both be on may case! So I quit that a long time ago. Not interested, except in the odd rare case when a trusted "friend" or relative (you know who you are) might ask, and you really want to see him have a good time.
But, as I. And Mr. E says, YMMV. That should be on a sign hung up in every bar! LOL.
One scenario I used to face all the time is when a group of us are having a good time on the beach, or in a bar, we get the usual "sniffers" hanging around. They work their way into the group, even take over the conversation with grand stories ("I'm an International wine merchant" is one I heard recently, he was arguing about his tab later, LOL), and try to pick off the chicas. Could even be my GF, doesn't matter. Hey it's a public place, right? And we are all used to that, so we'd leave them to make their own deal.
If it didn't work out, the next day the chica complains, "I thought he was a friend of yours)".
Same with a visiting pal, who got caught by the hard core sniffer, a street puta who's always hanging round our group. She wanted 500 P for a blow job across the street. I warned him, but this newbie had had a few drinks and went with her. She apparently gave him a bad time, and he came back at me "I thought she was a friend of yours?
This is the same guy who wanted to fuck my GF's baby sitter from PP, on her only visit to Sosua. She'd never had a foreign dick in her life. She asked me if it was OK, so I said, sure. He wanted to know where he could do the deed. He was staying at CM AI, so I got a moto and sent them to Dulce Secreta. They came back an hour later, him smiling, she's not smiling so I say did he pay you? She shook her head. I asked him, he said no, she didn't ask, but I paid the moto, the room and the beer. So I put him straight and demanded he give her the going rate. 2 strikes with me, and he's out!
Such is the life of an ex-pat in Sosua! LOL.
But we have a lot of fun, and now we leave 'them to it. We have a core group of brothers, but mostly sisters around us and we do look out for each other.
Bottom line is, I find most guys are too much worried about what other people are getting, who's having all the fun, and how much they are paying for it.
They don't understand one of the Golden Rules. YMMV. Actually it's a given that your mileage will vary.
The old sayings, to each his own, there's a lid for every pot, and you can't fit a square peg into a round all, and all that!
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05-20-22 07:45 #33565
Posts: 459Sample size to small to finalize that assertion
Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
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05-20-22 03:17 #33564
Posts: 1912Here we go again!
Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
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Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
Maybe referrals mean nothing to you? Or are referrals from you worth nothing? You don't have to state the obvious. Of course I know what YMMV means. But I would take a referral from a trusted source over a random pick any day. It is a matter of probabilities.
The security guard at the hotel I stayed at recommended the chica I wrote about in Grownman's Boom Boom Room. I don't know if he fucked her. But his recommendation meant to me that she has not been security problem. That had value to me. It also turned out that she performed her social / sexual services to my satisfaction. So, your personal experiences (also known as anecdotal evidence) actually do not allow you to draw a conclusion on the value of referrals. And unlike you, I'm not going to make a blanket statement as to the value of referrals as if I have presented evidence that supports my conclusion. I will state again, I value recommendations. A good friend recommended three chicas to me. Two were great, one was a dud. That is a 66% success rate. Proves nothing to anyone else. But it means something to me. Remind me not to take a referral from you. LOL!
Definition of anecdotal evidence: evidence in the form of stories that people tell about what has happened to them. "His conclusions are not supported by data; they are based only on anecdotal evidence".
This is SubCmdr and I am a man in the arena!
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05-19-22 23:18 #33563
Posts: 15815Originally Posted by SubCmdr [View Original Post]
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05-19-22 16:23 #33562
Posts: 1912Learning from experience or Learning from others: Which is better?
Originally Posted by Turgid [View Original Post]
With respect, I do not write for other men in the arena (most, as you say, have been there and done that). Nor do I write for men with experience. They have developed what works for them and what does not. I write for new people and men of all types who seek to expand their knowledge through the experience of others.
Originally Posted by Turgid [View Original Post]
"Some benefits of learning from experience: opportunities for reflection, very personal learning, internalizing the information, and unintended discoveries.
On the flip side, some benefits of learning from others: avoiding common pitfalls, not recreating the wheel, access to wisdom, and a vast source of information."
https://www.verbaltovisual.com/best-...rience-others/
Men of all types chose the methods that work best for them. Always a pleasure to exchange thoughts with a man of experience.
I remain open to learning from others. Grownman shared a negotiating method that has worked for me at times. And he also refined the concept of "Amiga con derachas" based on his experience. It has been working quite well for me also. Men of experience can do it however they like. If they like it, I love it!
This is SubCmdr and I am a man in the arena.
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05-19-22 15:45 #33561
Posts: 5611Originally Posted by SubCmdr [View Original Post]
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05-19-22 14:48 #33560
Posts: 1908And another thing
Also important for a prospective monger to understand is that Sosua, like all tourist destinations, has peak and slow seasons.
The high season runs from November to the end of May, peaking in December and again in Superbowl week. Hotels, bars. Restaurants and chica's take advantage of that and charge their highest prices.
June through October is the summer doldrums, it gets hot, sticky and rainy. The good news is that you can negotiate hotel room prices, and chica prices come down. The bad news is there's slim pickings, and you'll only find the hard core chica's working the streets and beach, not a lot of choice, unless you are connected.
That's the time when DC and other dating apps can be useful.
It "dies" every year and "revives" every year.
Something to keep in mind when planning a trip, or even reading a monger report.
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05-18-22 19:32 #33559
Posts: 1912The Puta Hierarchy in The Sue and other places in the Dominican Republic
Originally Posted by Oakie [View Original Post]
Problem is hierarchy: "A hierarchy is a system of organizing people into different ranks or levels of importance, for example in society or in a company. " Different ranks or levels of importance, let's take a hard look at that. For the uninitiated that can lead one to think if you move up the Puta Hierarchy rank and price, your experience will improve. With putas, the Puta Hierarchy is only related to what they ask you to pay them.
I have found in The Sue and other places in the Dominican Republic that the amount that you pay can be completely unrelated to the quality of social / sexual services you receive. And this is based on my personal experiences. So, buy "eye candy" if you like if that is your thing gentlemen. If you like it, I love it! I personally prefer a 6 who fucks like a 10, rather than a 10 that fucks like a 6. And you are going to pay more for the 10.
This is SubCmdr and I am a man in the arena.
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05-18-22 12:29 #33558
Posts: 1908More random thoughts on Sosua
There's a puta hierarchy.
Street Chicas.
Street chicas as those who sell their services on the street and beaches to casual tourists. There are some rare newbie gems to be had when old experienced hookers bring a fresh one to town. But you have to act quick if she's strolling past your post up point. She likely won't make it past the corner. Might not see her again. No game needed. Going rate 1500-3000.
Part Timers.
Have day jobs, constantly get hit on, so they get to choose their clients. Part of the local community, so wouldn't be seen on the street soliciting. A little game needed. Going rate 3000-5000.
High End.
So, what is high end? Think steak and lobster vs rice and beans. It's all food. But to me it means a body and face (and hair and ass) that wouldn't be out of place in Victoria's Secret, or a Miss Universe contest. No game needed, just money. But you need to be connected to their scene. Going rate 5000 and up.
Game.
Good hygiene, grooming, pleasant personality helps. No need to lie. It's legal, so keep it a straight legal business deal.
Tipping.
Most tourists tip, so a propina has become expected. But you are not under any obligation to tip. If you don't tip, just remember to take your phone, sunglasses, keys with you when you leave. If you go back looking for them, you might be faced with a blank stare and a head shake.
And never get into an argument with staff that serve and prepare your food and drink. They have ways of getting even, I'm told.
General.
Never carry too much money. ATM's are within walking distance. Lock up your valuables, so you won't be that guy complaining about being ripped off.
And if you are not enjoying your time there, you are just in the wrong place for you. Move on.
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05-15-22 10:13 #33557
Posts: 1908Originally Posted by SubCmdr [View Original Post]
It's always good to see a positive report on the finer points of Sosua! LOL.
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05-15-22 02:33 #33556
Posts: 1912An open letter to Oakie
To my fellow ISG Brother.
You need to stop playing. The disagreement has never been about the qualities of Sosua as a vacation spot. It has always been because you don't agree with the choices I have made in comparison to yours as we live on different coasts of the same island. Search my posts and find the one that says it is not worth visiting The Sue. You won't find one. I have always taken the position that The Sue is a great place to visit. But I would not want to live there. That was almost 8 years ago.
Now, I have been to The Sue four times since I have been living on this island. And I can tell you more than a couple of factors have played into my re-evaluation of The Sue as a place to visit and to live. I have made three trips to The Sue with people. And one (the longest one I might add) by myself. Two ISG members (and I am not talking about the first one I traveled to The Sue with) have made a lasting impression on my view of The Sue. One does not even post up here anymore given the negative tone that permeates the Sosua Forum. The other is known as Mr. T. They (along with my personal exploration) are the most responsible for my updated view on The Sue. Remain stuck in the past if you like. I live in the expanded present. And I am telling everyone on this board that The Sue I visited 8 years ago is nothing like The Sue I have visited during my three trips within the last year. By no means does that make me an expert on The Sue. But I can say I am an expert in what I like. And I have discovered The Sue that I like and works for me.
Here is where you call out me and Mr. E.
Originally Posted by Oakie [View Original Post]
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Originally Posted by Oakie [View Original Post]
So tell me Oakie, you going to stay with your assertion that I've got a problem with The Sue or the Dominican Republic? Or more importantly that you can tell me anything about the Dominican Republic at all?
I am Subcmdr and I am a Man in the Arena.
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05-14-22 11:59 #33555
Posts: 1908Originally Posted by OldKool [View Original Post]
I repeat, the King of Sosua is cash, and the Queen of Sosua is pussy. It's as simple as that. LOL.
But everybody has different needs, Some like casual sex, the more, the merrier, some like a GFE, and some have built relationships that provide a little of both. Why.
Like with the chicas, You can rent one by the hour, lease one, or buy one, take publico, a bus, or a moto, depending on your location and needs.
I see lots of opportunity to make Sosua and the DR work for everybody.
I'm not there right now but will be back in a couple weeks.
After 13 years I can honestly say, when I step out of that little POP airport, I feel I'm home, and I feel the stress leaving my body.
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05-14-22 07:02 #33554
Posts: 1912OldKool is posting up like a man in the arena
Points of total agreement: 1. The average price of pussy has gone up since 10 years ago. 2. 100 USD = 5500 DOP is too much for a short time. 3.30 plus girls give better service. 4. Try to like the girls and build friendly relationships (works for me and OldKool). 5. We all have different needs and requirements. 5. The key to enjoying The Sue is getting your needs met. 6. Man law number 1 and 2 is in full effect.
So the range for a short time must be somewhere between 1500 DOP and 5500 DOP. I know this is The Sue Forum but in Santo Domingo / Santo Domingo este social / sexual services for a short time (1 or 2 hours, 1 leche) can be routinely purchased for 2000 DOP. I have only been able to do that here in The Sue one time. 2500 has been my offer with a 500 bonus for good performance. That is a 25 to 30 percent increase in the price of social / sexual services due to location. The bonus has been predicated on where they take my leche. The chicas I have been with have been earning their bonuses. Am I overpaying?
I made friends with a German that was staying on the same floor of my hotel. He was in The Sue for two weeks. He was complaining that about the price (3000 DOP) and the service of the chicas. After a few sessions of my tutoring. He reported that he fucked 10 chicas at 2000 DOP (short time full service) and two at 1500 DOP. He even gave those referrals (1500 DOP). But most importantly he was happy with the service. Told me he was comfortable paying 2000 DOP. Of course his requirements were different from mine. And so that explains the difference in average prices we were willing to pay to get the services we wanted. By the end of the trip he said he was wanted to return to the Dominican Republic. He even told me that he had an encounter with a girl that he considered ideal and that his trip was complete because he found his fantasy girl. I told him that he had a brother in the Dominican Republic now and he told me I had a brother in Germany.
I also want to add this his desire for value in social / sexual service was a part of his overall desire for that in all purchases he made in The Sue. So I directed him to the best value restaurants and barbers. Told him to focus on the deal and not the girl. I showed him how to get off the tourist economy and into the Dominican one as best as possible under these conditions. And he said he noticed the difference after I arrived and shared a few things with him.
So, that just goes to show that The Sue is what you make of it. And we each can make it what we want with the right knowledge, skill and execution.
Fuck long, cum hard and prosper. And may the pussy be with you, always!
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05-14-22 04:35 #33553
Posts: 3093Singing in the choir
I have been doing the SU for almost 10 years. It has changed greatly but still provides more easy access to young pussy then most guys can handle. Dudes complaining that they can not get 1500 peso pussy like they did 10 years ago is hilarious. There is always way more girls then guys and most girls struggle to get any action. 20% of the girls get 80% of the action. Not to mention the influx of young weekend warriors has really changed the game. They have little interest in GFE and are running back to the club as soon as they wipe their dicks off. The girls have adjusted to there methods. I am older now and wam bam thank you mam does not work for me. The 30 plus girls are becoming more appealing to me. BETTER SERVICE.
I try to like the girls I have sex with and build a friendly relationship. Just because a girl is not well educated does not make her stupid. I enjoy spending time out of bed with some of the girls I deal with. My bank account has been growing and I can afford my hobby but I never over pay which means 100 for short time aint happening. I am sure there are some girls whose game is so good that it may be worth it. We all have different needs and requirements. The key to the hobby is developing the skills to satisfy your needs. I wine and dine give small gifts. This works for me. I have a great team of regulars but finding a new jewel every now and then is still a thrill.
In closing what you pay is your business. Just remember cash is King. Pussy gets old but cash is always fresh.
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05-13-22 20:58 #33552
Posts: 1912Useable Intelligence
Originally Posted by Durandpaul [View Original Post]
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I have a brother who rolls large. He does not brag about it up here in ISG, but the brother has it. The girls at the lowest priced agency he uses start at 150 hour /200 for two hours. Sometimes he keeps the girls all day. And that means he has to feed them and entertain them also. They get to eat what he likes to eat. I see the pictures of the girls he hires. The are paid model / music video quality gorgeous. I can't roll like that. He has no interest in the girls I hire. Difference in female tastes. No, I don't think so. If I had his money I would spend it the same way he does.
Someone once jumped in my shit, beating his chest, asking me when I tried a girl from my friends agency if it was better experience than my regular girls are. Damn straight it was! In the same way that a Ruth Chris Steak is better than one from Outback.
It has been said there are no stupid questions. But there are. Like when someone asks a question to make their own point instead of actually seeking information. Because you should not have to ask if flying in business class or first class is better than cattle class. Anyone that has ever actually flown in business class or first class knows there is a difference.
Originally Posted by Durandpaul [View Original Post]
But that sometimes happens. Because the girl you have hired likes you or is just feeling more freaky in the moment. So you get more in the moment than maybe some other guy gets. My recommendation is to never sleep on the value of personal interaction with another human being. I am not saying be "Capitan Save a Puta". I am saying use all of your senses including your intuition when dealing with the girls you are working with.
Originally Posted by Durandpaul [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by Durandpaul [View Original Post]
I don't visit Sosua much. So I do not have and established stable of girls I can call upon for consistently satisfying sexual activities.
So, I wander around and let my fingers do the walking in my dating applications (that some feel like they never need to use). That is fine. It does not mean that I don't have any social skills as some try to infer. I just means that I prefer doing things differently than some others.
As a visiting sexpat I only have a much time as I allow for my libido. I am looking for good deals. But I will tell you that asking prices in The Sue are much higher (at least 33%) than the amounts I pay in Santo Domingo / Santo Domingo este. And that is even after I negotiate down here in The Sue. I have only received one deal equal to what I pay in Santo Domingo este. And it took me about a week to negotiate that. I will post the details in Grownman's Boom Boom room.
Girls rarely ask me for 4000,5000 DOP or 80,100, 120,150, 200 USD for an hour for social / sexual services in Santo Domingo / Santo Domingo este. They routinely ask for that in The Sue. Somebody is paying those prices. I get way too many "no's" on my counter offers for the chicas not to be sure they can get the amount of money they want from someone else.
Now if you are an expat that lives in The Sue (especially one that never has had to use a dating application) your overall cost for social / sexual services should be lower because of established relationships.