Seeking Arrangements

[The Cane]

Funny story, I saw a girl shaving a man's balls etc in the shower at the Globe because she said it was too much hair for her to find his cock.

A girl at an FKK told me that she tried to get this Chinese guy to cut his pubes down because there was so much hair she couldn't find his "dong" hahaha!

[FastMdSter]

Man if I shaved my junk my wife would know I'm up to no good.

Good thing I'm the one who brings money to the arrangements. I can expect things I don't plan to offer in return. Like shaved private areas.

That was pretty funny. I shave my balls etc. I feel it makes clean up and inspection easier. I know the woman always appreciate it.

I always make them suck my balls, so never any hesitation.

You can always tell the wife the urologist asked you to trim for the exam, LOL.

Funny story, I saw a girl shaving a man's balls etc in the shower at the Globe because she said it was too much hair for her to find his cock.

[AmericanPi]

Agree. Seems kinda lazy. I haven't seen this with most girls. I did see it with Kayla some and I think it spoke to her being complacent. In the end she preferes to stay in and watch Netflix rather than go out to dinner and club. Eventually killed it off (don't get me wrong I'the still see her but the spark is gone). Think stubble was the first sign of the slippery slope to complacency.

But hey it goes both ways buddy! I shave my balls now day of the event for Shayla. As discussed way back I use a Venus and it's amazing. And I don't shave the hair between thighs and balls because it gets sticky and more prone to yeast infection. But the Venus rules. Squeaky clean and no nicks ever.

And Shayla even mentioned my day long stubble feeling agains her tits so I make sure to be clean there too. Nothing too good for my girl. Considering how she treat me in return.

Man if I shaved my junk my wife would know I'm up to no good.

Good thing I'm the one who brings money to the arrangements. I can expect things I don't plan to offer in return. Like shaved private areas.

[Gfefan]

Just beginning to wade into the US waters of SA. Must admit I am still in knee high water. Yet to take a full plunge.

Initial observations are that. A) Girls are a tad more in front foot here than in Europe. Europe girls were waiting for me to make first move b) These girls are a lot clearer about what they want. Europe has a bit more of "not sure what I am looking for" aka leaving me the privilege of showing her how good it is to enjoy nice dinners and dicking while getting some money as well c) In US, girls seem more transactional. Right away asking "How much will you pay?" Is a mood killer.

Too early to jump to conclusions. Will keep posted how it evolves.

[Steve 9696]

What I really don't like, but see quite a bit of, is stubble. Like a girl shaved 2 weeks ago but not since then.

I never say anything because why? But I always think "you knew those pants were coming off tonight and you didn't think it worth your time to make your vag presentable?

Agree. Seems kinda lazy. I haven't seen this with most girls. I did see it with Kayla some and I think it spoke to her being complacent. In the end she preferes to stay in and watch Netflix rather than go out to dinner and club. Eventually killed it off (don't get me wrong I'the still see her but the spark is gone). Think stubble was the first sign of the slippery slope to complacency.

But hey it goes both ways buddy! I shave my balls now day of the event for Shayla. As discussed way back I use a Venus and it's amazing. And I don't shave the hair between thighs and balls because it gets sticky and more prone to yeast infection. But the Venus rules. Squeaky clean and no nicks ever.

And Shayla even mentioned my day long stubble feeling agains her tits so I make sure to be clean there too. Nothing too good for my girl. Considering how she treat me in return.

[AmericanPi]

You would think, but 2 girls I am seeing in CDMX do not shave. Kind of a turn off, but they are both very hot.

What I really don't like, but see quite a bit of, is stubble. Like a girl shaved 2 weeks ago but not since then.

I never say anything because why? But I always think "you knew those pants were coming off tonight and you didn't think it worth your time to make your vag presentable?

[AmericanPi]

Def overthinking this! ALL girls in their twenties shave their pussies. I haven't seen a trace of Bush in the last ten years save some well trimmed patches in Asia where Bush is considered desirable. I have see lots of non pro SA girls. All clean shaven. Bush is just "out" except in parts Asia. I'm sure they do it as a matter of course when they shave their legs. Only adds another minute or two.

Oh got it. I'm definitely showing my age here. When I was in my twenties, you never saw a bare hooch.

[DramaFree11]

Def overthinking this! ALL girls in their twenties shave their pussies. I haven't seen a trace of Bush in the last ten years save some well trimmed patches in Asia where Bush is considered desirable. I have see lots of non pro SA girls. All clean shaven. Bush is just "out" except in parts Asia. I'm sure they do it as a matter of course when they shave their legs. Only adds another minute or two.

You would think, but 2 girls I am seeing in CDMX do not shave. Kind of a turn off, but they are both very hot.

[TierdTraveler]

I guess I knew this but was very struck recently kissing Shayla how different it is from kissing a pro even one who provides good DFK. With a Seeking girl (at least the ones I adore who I would not even class semi-pro) like Shayla, Alexa, and Sylvia (of late) it's a completely different passion and "set of moves".

What I mean by that is it's not just tongue tangling. There is playful licking and lip biting. Tongue sucking both directions. Just no rules. Wherever that animal passion takes you you go there. It's so amazing and such a joint "dance" if you will.

And because it's real, it's part of the sex. Shayla is definitely more connected mouth to pussy than most girls. But no pro is getting wet from DFK. She's probably even getting out the lube after you eat her pussy. LOL. Cuz there is nothing going on downstairs when u kiss. With a real connection that animal kissing is getting her wet just like it gets you hard. Amazing stuff and one of my favorite parts. And I guess I dont mind the ego boost either knowing that kissing me make Shaylas juice drip down her thighs is def satisfying to the self esteem!

I agree 100%. You can feel the difference and it is BIG.

[The Cane]

LOL. Do you think the women see a guy's Amex card, spread their legs, and say "I love you?

The kind of women I "date" do LOL! Only, I convince many to spread those butt cheeks open too hahahaha!

[Desin]

LOL. Do you think the women see a guy's Amex card, spread their legs, and say "I love you"?

This was your thought, not mine. I would consider such a way of acting as not very elaborate one from the woman. Proclaiming love right on the start is such a male thing to do. But maybe that has happened too, for example in case of millionaires and celebrities. If the girl feels like she has only this one chance on the "man of his dreams". And maybe the woman has felt she is in love.

In Seeking, girls are offered money for meetings. Or, they are provided allowance. Or gifts. Or catered with dinners and certain kind of 'luxury experiences'. And of course there are the occasional Sugar Daddies and Sugar Girls who consider sex out of the question, enjoying the platonic side of the relationship. But basically the concept is, as I understood it was in your case too, that you had agreed to pay for the girl certain amount of money for a meeting, which included sex? This is the typical way. It's also a very convenient way for a woman, who is seeking a man with money, since the girl will get paid either way: she can take the money for the meeting, or if she finds a suitable man, she might try to establish a relationship with him. But if the girl is interested in marriage and the man is not, then I feel sorry for the man, for he is only playing with the girl if this is not made clear. (By the way, I hope that if your lawyer girl is looking for a marriage, you two will have a great future as a husband and wife! That is, of course, if you are interested in such a relationship as well.).

Why would you think her being on the site was about money and not about her friends being happy, her being happy, and her daughter being happy?

Because it's Seeking. But a lot of people believe money will make them happy, so that's not anything new or unheard of.

By the way, there is no mention of "Sugar Girl" or "Sugar Daddy" in the profile making process on Seeking, instead there is the option to choose if one is looking someone who has the money, or the looks. I would consider an adult woman who does not see through this as someone who is probably better on Tinder than on Seeking.

A woman cannot do anything for a man such that the man needs her? It is just sex? She is incapable of being interesting enough such that a man does not get bored? My God, you are a sexist. Your opinion of women is nauseating.

Hehee, you must be trolling for laughs. I can't believe you wouldn't be able to see how you are again projecting your own thoughts to the other person.

I do hope that any woman wouldn't have to be in the situation where she is looking for a man for serious relationship and possibly a marriage, but the man in question is just having his fun with the woman without having the discussion of his hopes for the future, if these hopes doesn't involve getting married or having a serious relationship. This would be using of another person as his instrument of enjoyment, in the case of the man.

But when both person are on the same page and it's clear for both of them, then it's a honest relationship which can be based on money as well as mutual interest and love.

And yet the women love it. Go figure. Maybe your problem with that is you are jealous that you did not think of it first.

I do agree women love this kind of behaviour, since I'm very familiar with the mechanism of how narcissistic personalities make good impression on their "targets". It's not something I would be jealous about, since manipulativeness and using other people as objects is not my cup of tea. Sadly, the person who is the target of such behaviour is not aware of this. It will come out after a shorter or longer period of time.

That is interesting. Did you speak with her about a prenuptial agreement? Or is that a second date thing?

I don't go for relationship with women who are interested for it to become more than I am willing to. This is a moral imperative. Then the woman in question can spend her time more wisely and look for the future father for her future kids.

Well, I had my fun. Desin, quit with all the pseudointellectual bullshit and moral dilemmas and get on the site and go on a few dates. You have strangled yourself with all these moral issues to compensate for your fear. The women are not as innocent as you think and the men are not as crude as you think. The truth is when you are on a date it is two people and you can set whatever rules you want to.

I follow moral codes for the respect of other people. And for my own respect.

I disagree with your statement. The correct form is that the two people can set up their rules in the way they like, when they are doing it together. When they are playing only for themselves, they are using the other person as an instrument. It's how some. If not many. People act in regards to the other sex (men to women and women to men), but this does not mean it's the way to go when one grows up above the age of teenage and being young adult. Morality and proper way of acting towards other people is not a given thing, it is something each person either does or does not develop in himself or herself.

(I used the "you" form intentionally do make the point that it's not about you, Elvis 2008, but you and the girl. Even as you might have meant the two of you.).

[Shyzai]

So just returned from a week in Seattle and unexpected trip to Vancouver.

The normal SA leg work had started before the trip. Had a lot of responses from who I thought were attractive going on pics.

I target 8+ under 35, white women. After having multiple conversations and then video calls I was getting worried. They just didn't seem that attractive to me from what I have been used to lately.

The pros there are plentiful and also on SA. BBFS is out in the open in Seattle. After all the work set up 2 dates, one was decent 25 yr she was really into it, but for me no fire. 400. She wanted to stay the night, had dinner etc before but I told her I had an early call with NYC.

2nd, was just too enamored with my fit and accessories, was getting stalker vibes but pounded anyway. She is blowing up my phone still. She was 500. Both were my normal PSE experience, but not enough for me to continue further.

I just don't think the women are that attractive, now I'm a little different. I need their outfit, appearance, style, banter etc to match what I'm used too. I'm willing to upgrade the right one if they polish up, but even in the bars etc only saw a handful.

Bar pickups would be pretty easy there, from 2 experiences out during the night. Had two women who were dtf, but was with some business colleagues and didn't want to go full throttle.

Anyway, 2 of my previous hookups from Vancouver have been asking me return. The Finance mgr and realtor. Plus I have been texting with a real 9. 5 23 yr old law student (reminds of young Gal Gadot, with implants). So took the quick flight to Vancouver to hit the 3 of them. That was the best part of this business trip.

As was walking through the city with 23 yr old, she was telling me about her new apartment and dog. So bought her an espresso machine and stuff for her puppy. Totaled to about $550. After a full night of bed breaking sex and morning repeat I offered another 5, she said the presents were enough this trip. So $550.

Will be back in Seattle in 2 weeks, and MTL so report any updates.

Also, heading to Amsterdam at the end of the month and thinking of taking one of them. The sex is that good as is the connection in general.

Be well and good luck.

Sir, be honest with us. You must be a pretty good looking guy. Nice reports!

[Steve 9696]

Kind of an odd question and observation here.

I like seeking for the amateurs. The ones who really are just uni students trying to make rent. But who aren't pros.

Sometimes I being a girl home, like yesterday, and she's young and beautiful. 19 years old and cute.

And then we get to the bedroom, pants come down, and she's shaved bare.

And I like me a bare cooter. Love it really. But it always makes me suspicious. A bare cooter? Is she really all that innocent? I mean, to get to the point you shave bare you've had some life experience, you know? Maybe a lot of miles on the odometer. Like I prefer a shaved snatch but ID rather see some fuzz in these situations just to announce she's not a prostitute doing seeking on the side.

Am I overthinking this?

Def overthinking this! ALL girls in their twenties shave their pussies. I haven't seen a trace of Bush in the last ten years save some well trimmed patches in Asia where Bush is considered desirable. I have see lots of non pro SA girls. All clean shaven. Bush is just "out" except in parts Asia. I'm sure they do it as a matter of course when they shave their legs. Only adds another minute or two.

[AmericanPi]

Kind of an odd question and observation here.

I like seeking for the amateurs. The ones who really are just uni students trying to make rent. But who aren't pros.

Sometimes I being a girl home, like yesterday, and she's young and beautiful. 19 years old and cute.

And then we get to the bedroom, pants come down, and she's shaved bare.

And I like me a bare cooter. Love it really. But it always makes me suspicious. A bare cooter? Is she really all that innocent? I mean, to get to the point you shave bare you've had some life experience, you know? Maybe a lot of miles on the odometer. Like I prefer a shaved snatch but ID rather see some fuzz in these situations just to announce she's not a prostitute doing seeking on the side.

Am I overthinking this?

[FastMdSter]

So just returned from a week in Seattle and unexpected trip to Vancouver.

The normal SA leg work had started before the trip. Had a lot of responses from who I thought were attractive going on pics.

I target 8+ under 35, white women. After having multiple conversations and then video calls I was getting worried. They just didn't seem that attractive to me from what I have been used to lately.

The pros there are plentiful and also on SA. BBFS is out in the open in Seattle. After all the work set up 2 dates, one was decent 25 yr she was really into it, but for me no fire. 400. She wanted to stay the night, had dinner etc before but I told her I had an early call with NYC.

2nd, was just too enamored with my fit and accessories, was getting stalker vibes but pounded anyway. She is blowing up my phone still. She was 500. Both were my normal PSE experience, but not enough for me to continue further.

I just don't think the women are that attractive, now I'm a little different. I need their outfit, appearance, style, banter etc to match what I'm used too. I'm willing to upgrade the right one if they polish up, but even in the bars etc only saw a handful.

Bar pickups would be pretty easy there, from 2 experiences out during the night. Had two women who were dtf, but was with some business colleagues and didn't want to go full throttle.

Anyway, 2 of my previous hookups from Vancouver have been asking me return. The Finance mgr and realtor. Plus I have been texting with a real 9. 5 23 yr old law student (reminds of young Gal Gadot, with implants). So took the quick flight to Vancouver to hit the 3 of them. That was the best part of this business trip.

As was walking through the city with 23 yr old, she was telling me about her new apartment and dog. So bought her an espresso machine and stuff for her puppy. Totaled to about $550. After a full night of bed breaking sex and morning repeat I offered another 5, she said the presents were enough this trip. So $550.

Will be back in Seattle in 2 weeks, and MTL so report any updates.

Also, heading to Amsterdam at the end of the month and thinking of taking one of them. The sex is that good as is the connection in general.

Be well and good luck.