Stupid shit in Medellin

**JjBee62** · 11-16-22 23:03

Originally Posted by DramaFree11 [View Original Post]

Elvis / Miami Boy I will never understand why you guys are slumming it in Colombia, but that is your decision. You both seem to have your shit together. Come to CDMX or MTY you do not have to deal with the drugs, violence, the girls bad attitudes and bad food.

You are wasting your time arguing with these guys, they hate everything, there whole goal in life is to be cheap, I guess this is why they are hanging out in MDE. They get pissed off if you do not agree with there cheap ass lifestyle.

Move on the, grass is greener on the other side.

Ah yes. DramaQueen has returned. And his grasp of reality remains as tenuous as ever.

Top 50 cities in the world by murder rate. 13 of the top 25 cities by murder rate are in Mexico. 21 of the top 60 are in Mexico, and only 2 in Colombia. After 60 it's basically all US cities. Violent crime rate by country, Mexico is 4th in the world, Colombia is 7th.

Of course the footnote in both countries is that tourists are less likely to be victims than natives.

I've never had to deal with the violence or the drugs. I've almost never encountered girls with bad attitudes. Although I've probably eaten nearly 1,000 meals in Colombia and probably less than 50 in Mexico, guess which country's culinary offerings put me on the toilet for 7 days.

Nobody has gotten pissed off because those 2 don't agree with their lifestyles. In fact I'll wager that my lifestyle in Colombia is much better than Miamiboy's. What annoys people is when they come along insulting everyone who doesn't follow their style.

So if CDMX is so incredibly good to you, what brings your sorry ass here? I just checked on the fabulous, can't be beat CDMX forum and there have been 2 posts this month. Seems to me, if it's so fucking incredible, someone would occasionally post something talking about how great it was. Shit. Battle Creek, Michigan, population 52,000 has more activity on their forum than CDMX.

Is that the problem? You need to beg people to come to CDMX so maybe 1 person might agree with your opinion? Good luck. While I enjoyed playing tourist in CDMX, I didn't see anything to convince me it was worth choosing as a mongering destination.

**Bill** · 11-16-22 20:45

Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]

No one cares about any of the personal stuff. The only thing that is relevant in your personal story is your inability to say something sucks. If you hit rock bottom and bounce, the only thing to say is that you learned enough so it will not happen again. Saying it was part of some master plan you hatched is crazy.

Most of the time you see a pro, it is not good. It is like fast food. You are scratching an itch. If you have been on a desert island or the sex prison, and you come to Colombia, I get the need to stuff one's self with it as you have been deprived, but it is rare to have great sex fucking someone on a cardboard bed or massage table surrounded by paper walls with Clorox in the air.

But if you find a good one, then it is worthwhile to try to keep her on retainer. Maybe you find her in a club, on the street, or on line, it does not matter. It pays to keep quality.

Thing is I found it better to have more than one, and I think three or four is ideal. If I rotated my women, I cured the need to get strange. You are getting enough different and you are getting the highest quality women and sex to boot.

Guys who have done this know it is way better than just your random street girl. Some guys call this hooker on retainer but I do not like that because there is more intimacy with these women then a hooker, so I go with sugar baby.

What is annoying about this is when you are paying the retainer fee, some douche like you used to be says that money is not worth it because the girl ALWAYS picks it up at Western Union with her BF. What you are trying to say is how much better you are because damn it, you only pay for sex. You think we are getting ripped off by these women when we are paying a retainer. We were never paying for exclusivity.

Of course, you never got it JJBee. Maybe you do now. You are paying for a good time in the future, a retainer or investment. So when you come to Colombia, she is going to drop everything and show you a good time. You dumb asses made fun of the term investment and now you are doing just that. LOL. I repeat. Welcome to the club.

What you never got is that I do not care if she has a BF. I care that when I am in town she treats ME like I am her BF. I cannot control her when I am not there and vice versa. Hell when I got to know my SBs, they would talk to me about their BF problems.

And of course, if you are collecting the best looking and performing women in your SB harem, you are going to have better sex than just some random WG. How could that not be true? It was stupid that people were actually debating this.

Unless you are exclusive with her and she with you, you do not have a GF, and it is not like having a GF is automatically better. With a GF, there are expectations you have to meet that as a SD you do not. A GF is going to demand more of your time whereas a SB will be on your schedule.

And just because you meet family does not mean the woman is not a SB. You will and should be intimate with your SBs. That enhances the relationship but a SB SD relationship will not or should not exist unless there is money for sex. It is P4 P plus some intimacy.

I honestly think the situation where a man has three or so women he rotates as SBs is ideal. Yes, you will have to cut some off when they get overly greedy, get BFs, or are not dependable. The desire to upgrade also is something that can keep things fresh and exciting. Still, when you have a harem, you have pussy in abundance and companionship that is not solely $ based without the emotional commitment of a typical relationship. It is the most realistic and best sexual relationships that most guys can get.

Most guys get GF to get pussy. They go from starving to abundance, and that is when I think women have the upper hand. With me, I was coming from abundance, and the woman had to earn my giving up other women. She had to be so hot, so good in bed, and so nice that I look at my harem and say "I am better with just this one woman. " That is what I call earning a man's monogamy.

And JJBee if you are not willing to give up other women and she other men, you do not have a GF. You are just saying that because you think GF is a more mainstream term than sugar baby.

You have a real GF when you willingly give up all other pussy.

As for my dispute with Nounce and saying this is the best sex there is, it has to be. If my harem was made up of some of the best P4 P women there are, and if I am giving up my harem for one girl, then she had better be sexually better than the harem. IMO it is very rare to find such a woman.

Maybe you will get this now. It is a natural progression for guys when one is looking for the best sex.

This may take a while to read and may be worth the effort.

**Elvis 2008** · 11-16-22 19:57

Originally Posted by DramaFree11 [View Original Post]

Elvis / Miami Boy I will never understand why you guys are slumming it in Colombia, but that is your decision. You both seem to have your shit together. Come to CDMX or MTY you do not have to deal with the drugs, violence, the girls bad attitudes and bad food.

You are wasting your time arguing with these guys, they hate everything, there whole goal in life is to be cheap, I guess this is why they are hanging out in MDE. They get pissed off if you do not agree with there cheap ass lifestyle.

Move on the, grass is greener on the other side.

DF, half the time I am with my gal, it is in Mexico. I am in Colombia now. Roads are flooded due to the rain. Did I ever tell you I drove halfway from Medellin to Bogota? It is mountainous and about 250 miles and google maps put the time to get from Medellin to Bogota at 9 hours. It was also dangerous as hell.

It is the same distance from Mexico City to Acapulco. Again, the road is mountainous and total time to get from CDMX to Acapulco is 4 and a half hours but I felt much much safer. When your have shit infrastructure like Colombia has, you will always be poor.

That said, there is opportunity among the women you will find in Colombia that you will not get in Mexico. You can date an elite woman here. In Mexico, there is so much money it is much harder to do so. If my gal was not here, the only reason I would be coming is the women I had met before.

As for posting here, it is strict payback. I sat on Villiany's stupid crime comments for months. JJBee and Paulie got in a fight, and Paulie left some juicy gossip. It was time to pounce. After giving me shit for years about paying Colombian women from the USA, Mr. Hypocrite JJBee AKA Professor Shit for Brains has been doing the exact same thing. He has a sugar baby and calls her a GF. He tries to make her out to be elite and then says if his broke and ugly ass cannot date elite women, certainly you can not. Once again, he is lecturing about seeking while not having the money for years to use it.

As you know, Colombia cuts up cities in level or stratas. Level 6 was the highest but according to my gal, there are higher levels now. I never thought much of it but when I introduced a hot woman that I turned down to a friend, my gal said she was a level 3 girl, and she subsequently ripped my friend off.

If you are going to hook up long term with a gal, she needs to have a good relationship with one parent preferably the father. Otherwise she is not going to be trusting with an older man. So while I was dating good looking and performing women in Mexico, I never dated the elite like in Colombia. I went out with three beauty queens, my current gal who was living in strata 6 housing when we met, and the daughter of a brain surgeon among others.

I am looking back at that time with that daughter, and I wish I had picked up on what was different about her. You can imagine a girl challenging and being defiant if their parents are druggies or alcoholics but a brain surgeon? Probably not, and she acted like I should have anticipated. She whined about money and wanted it for doing nothing. That was annoying and the bad and should have been expected. The good is she did anything I wanted in bed. There was zero resistance with anything, and I should have pushed it even further than I did, and my gal is the same way. She has never said no. Waking her up for a blowjob at 5 AM? Okay, honey, and she does it.

I wrote what I found in my post and what the natural order will be in guys looking for the best sex. You are rotating a number of hotties that are good looking and great in bed. Mixing them up kind of quashes the desire to find something new. The times you venture out for strange you are looking for an upgrade to your harem or if you cannot get together with your women. Been there, done that, and like you are doing now, it is a lot of fun.

But the women know you are seeing other women, and they do hold a part of themselves back. You have to commit to a woman in order for her to give all of herself to you. Thing is I did not find any woman in Mexico where I ever even dreamed of totally committing. The best I did was a stunning lawyer with mental health issues. There were three women here, amazing women, where I considered it AKA wife material.

Unlike V and JJBee, who are pretty much centro rats and deny it, Paulie admits that is what he sees. DF, seeing as how you did not use seeking when you were here, my assumption is that you did not date the elites. The women you described, and I am not talking looks or performance, seemed to be low strata women with their attitudes.

It sounds like MB is dating the elites and I know Don Carlos has. My gal was in strata 6 housing in Bogota. She paid a 1/3 of the rent and it was a few hundred bucks. Cartagena is the most expensive city in the country. I asked my gal what strata we are in and she said strata 5 or 6 and it is 3 million COP a month for our place. That was $700+ or so when we moved in and now is close to $600, and I am sure it is lower than that in Medellin.

And it is 3 bedroom. So you are talking $200 a month if you split it 3 ways, and Professor shit for brains is saying guys here cannot date strata 6 women? LOL. Give me a fucking break. How cheap is that MF?

When you date lower class women or hire people for a McDonald's, Mr. E's approach is totally correct. I am giving you this amount of money. Take it or leave it. If you leave it, I will find someone else.

What he does not get is that approach does not work on elite women. Directives work on the poor and lower classes. Incentives are best for the elites.

At some point, you are going to get tired of the SB roller coaster you are on, DF. Yeah, the relationships are great now. There is more in the relationship than just $ for sex, but you know if there were no $, the women would be gone. At some point, you are going to want to find someone who likes you for you. I was looking for that without even realizing I was.

At that point, you should consider returning to Colombia. There is great SB material in Mexico DF, but I never did find much wife material there. Maybe you did but there is much more of it here.

But in general, I agree with you. Outside of the women and prices, there really are no other reasons to be here. And there really is not much point in arguing with two arrogant douche bags who never admit they are wrong outside of my enjoying rubbing their face in their lies and hypocrisy, and I did enjoy it so.

**Elvis 2008** · 11-16-22 18:17

Originally Posted by Villainy [View Original Post]

I don't think I ever said anything about you "following or fighting the Fed". If anything, I would posit that you haven't the fainest clue what the Fed does.

Faintest? Okay Mr. Grammar police. Here is a summary of our dialogue:

V: I am long real estate. I am not fighting the Fed.

Me: Fed chair Powell said the real estate market is overvalued and he is determined to bring it down.

V: You are an idiot who does not understand the Fed, and I never said I was not fighting the Fed.

Originally Posted by Villainy [View Original Post]

Investing isn't about making trades that may or not make you a few percent and then cashing out. Investing is about understanding the fundamentals of a company and how those fundamentals play forward. You make a fortune by buying an Apple when they unveil their new invention "the smart phone" and you hold on for dear life.

Me: Fundamentals are about knowing the value of something. If something is worth $3000, you sell when someone offers you $4000 and buy when someone offers to sell it to you at $2500.

V: What I read about fundamentals comes from a book. You do not need an exit strategy. Buy Apple. It will always go up.

Originally Posted by Villainy [View Original Post]

I can tell you that I bought Amazon and Google in 2002 rand 2004 respectively, and sold them in November 2021. But I didn't do that. I wish I had but I didn't. You never did anything of the sort and you can't show that you did either. All you are doing is Monday morning quarterbacking.

V: In August 2022 Amazon was $140 a share and Google was at $120. Today they are both at $90+ but I know what I am doing. Google and Amazon will always go up.

Me: I bought SQQQ around $45. It went to $60+, and I sold a chunk of it. It went back down and I bought more at $50+. It went up to $60+. I sold half my total stake and am now looking to get back in now that the price is at $45.

V: You are a liar. People should listen to me.

And then there is the future conversation we would have:

Me: It is hard to double down on an investment when you see nothing but red / losses. The emotion you feel is fear, and there is the desire to sell. You have to train yourself that you are not wrong but things are getting cheaper. The opposite goes when you are seeing nothing but green. That is the skill: knowing you are right and the market is wrong. Shorting the market was easy. Anyone who listened to CNBC knew the market was going down. The hard part is when to buy and sell.

V: That is the dumbest thing I have ever heard.

Me: That is pretty much what Warren Buffett said. Be greedy when others are fearful and fearful when others are greedy.

V: You do not understand Buffett.

I am not sure you have to post any more V. It is pretty obvious what you are going to say. Your giving advice about investing is as worthy as the advice you gave on crime, and I am sure in your fucked up head, you think that is a compliment.

**DramaFree11** · 11-16-22 17:33

Originally Posted by RacShack [View Original Post]

Interesting, thanks bud, are you saying theirs no drugs, violence, and girls "all " have amazing attitudes in Mexico, don't they just do it differently their and if remember right us chocolate instead of scop? Oh and no gangs their neither. ? Any and all information will be greatly appreciated bud! Thanks travel safe guys! I understand the food part!

Yes, In Mexico if you behave yourself, you will have no issues. In Colombia trouble can find you quickly, sorry it is true. Read the reports.

Obviously, not all the girls have good attitudes, but in general far better then the fat ass Colombian girls in MDE and the ones that travel to CDMX are even worse, They love to tell me how hot they are, and most I would not do for free. If I read anything about Colombia in Mexico instant block. Life is much better without there terrible attitudes.

**Mtndew704** · 11-16-22 17:23

Lmao mans said there's no violence or drugs in Mexico, I'm done.

**MiamiBoy1** · 11-16-22 17:10

Originally Posted by LoveItHere69 [View Original Post]

So basically if she has a job as a janitor she is ugly and is horrible in bed. Then she gets promotes to working on the manufacturing line she is then ok looking and is ok in bed. Then if she works really hard she becomes the CEO then magically becomes sexy as hell and is a goddess in bed?

Comparing women to airline seats is pointless. More costly seating has more room, more cushion in the seats, more leg room, etc. Everyone agrees. But that does not apply to women. So poor uneducated prostitutes (Centro) have small boobs, are fat, and horrible in bed. Better educated with more money prostitutes (casas) have medium boobs, little chubby, and ok in bed. Finally the Parque Lleras or FB prostitutes with even higher education and more money have huge boobs, skinny, and awesome at sex.

Wow! Your world is overly simplistic.

Your conclusions are all fucked up. Clearly, you have poor reading comprehension. I will follow Dramafree's advice and move on. I no longer want to waste my time explaining simple things to you, morons (JustTK, BBBJ62, and their fan club). Good luck!

**RacShack** · 11-16-22 15:14

Originally Posted by DramaFree11 [View Original Post]

Elvis / Miami Boy I will never understand why you guys are slumming it in Colombia, but that is your decision. You both seem to have your shit together. Come to CDMX or MTY you do not have to deal with the drugs, violence, the girls bad attitudes and bad food.

You are wasting your time arguing with these guys, they hate everything, there whole goal in life is to be cheap, I guess this is why they are hanging out in MDE. They get pissed off if you do not agree with there cheap ass lifestyle.

Move on the, grass is greener on the other side.

Interesting, thanks bud, are you saying theirs no drugs, violence, and girls "all " have amazing attitudes in Mexico, don't they just do it differently their and if remember right us chocolate instead of scop? Oh and no gangs their neither. ? Any and all information will be greatly appreciated bud! Thanks travel safe guys! I understand the food part!

**DramaFree11** · 11-16-22 04:24

Elvis / Miami Boy I will never understand why you guys are slumming it in Colombia, but that is your decision. You both seem to have your shit together. Come to CDMX or MTY you do not have to deal with the drugs, violence, the girls bad attitudes and bad food.

You are wasting your time arguing with these guys, they hate everything, there whole goal in life is to be cheap, I guess this is why they are hanging out in MDE. They get pissed off if you do not agree with there cheap ass lifestyle.

Move on the, grass is greener on the other side.

**LoveItHere69** · 11-16-22 01:58