Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[AsianPursuits]

"How long are you staying in the Philippines?" "Why are you Married / Not Married," "Where are you from,.

If you are new to the game then you need to experiment with the range of answers that you can give to these. In many cases I believe they are rhetorical questions and you will go crazy trying to work out what answer get the result you want.

"How long are you staying in the Philippines?

To this I have experimented with I'm here until tomorrow to I live here. I have scored with all. Living here does open up new territory but the girls can be the same crazy.

"Why are you Married / Not Married.

To this I always have a standard story about how we grew apart and nothing last forever. Usually this elicits a story from her and builds some rapport.

"Where are you from.

Means nothing unless their ex was from the same country.

[Sam 14]

I'm new at the chat game. I'm meeting women but the conversations are all the same. "How long are you staying in the Philippines?" "Why are you Married / Not Married," . .

She's asking you that because she wants to know why you dumped every chick you've ever shagged. She's probably looking for a relationship. Those expectations can be adjusted a lot of times if everyone is honest. But a lot of these chicks don't want to be your holiday shag, or worse yet simply one in your lineup of holiday shags.

You can easily reach your million-word text mark with in a month or two, I hope you're using voice dictate.

You can get some fresh stuff without fucking her over if you do it right. I don't know how long you're here, what quality level you're after, how quickly you need results, and what is your patience level. But I have said to girls on many occasions, and in many countries, that I don't expect anything. If you're dealing with someone that don't have experience with foreigners, she needs to feel comfortable enough to actually get in the Jeep or taxi when the time comes. A lot of them are afraid, as I wrote earlier. Unless you're dealing with someone who's already in the game.

A quick way to get to the point is do what Python said. If you don't want to text until your hair turns gray, then end up being disappointed, just get to the point. She might stop text. Or next week her boardinghouse rent might come due. If that happens, you could still be a gentleman about it and tell her you dont expect anything, and she might sock it to you real hard, and you end up with some hot stuff that the typical two-week warrior wouldnt get. Allot of times the ones that say I hate sex are the ones that become the sex maniak. If thats not your gig, you may just want to keep it simple. Change your profile heading into something like On Holiday, Looking For Fun. You’ll still get response, just make sure she’s a real girl.

[Python75]

Here is where I am having problems; how does one go from chit chat to suggesting some P4 P?

KD.

Just ask them directly: "do you want to meet up for some fun?"

You will be surprised at how many say yes.

[Kitty Doctor]

I'm new at the chat game. I'm meeting women but the conversations are all the same. "How long are you staying in the Philippines?" "Why are you Married / Not Married," "Where are you from," etc. Once I get past this we start having more of an actual conversation.

Here is where I am having problems; how does one go from chit chat to suggesting some P4 P?

I'm hoping some of you who have had luck with the chat game can give me some advice.

Thanks.

KD.

[Coolie High]

2 "girls" turned out to be ladyboys even though I asked them up front if they were real girls. One I rejected from outside the hotel the other passed my screening and made it into the room. Then drama ensued when I kicked her out and security was involved. Fake girl got nothing out of but security made a 500 tip.

YIKES. Reminds me of favorite quote from Afroman-Colt 45.

"I took her to my house, because I thought she was fine / BUT she wiped out dick that was bigger then mine" LOL 😆.

All jokes aside I'm glad that everyting turned out ok because that couldve turned into a really ugly situation like almost going to jail or leave the country ASAP ugly. We all like what we like so if folks partake in ladyboys that's cool BUT since I don't and if I ask them out right and they lie and then get all the way back to my place to reveal theyre a dude then Houston we have a problem. Folks have literally died because of being put in that situation so much props for you to hold on to your cool while resolving that situation.

Definitely enjoying your reports and others as I'm gearing up to make my way to the Philippines sometime next year. Keep them coming.

Peace.

[Goferring]

So a few more days in Cebu city and I have to say I like this place...

Now in Moalbal and not expecting any action but Cebu City is great for the dating site players. Even 4-5 days was enough for me to fuck about 7-8 girls.

A good report. Thanks.

There are a few girls in Moalboal who operate online. A couple are available at short notice. Try Tinder and Cupid.

Of course, it's only a short bus ride to truck in your favourite from Cebu.

Cheers. G.

[Expat American]

So a few more days in Cebu city and I have to say I like this place. First of all its the only place in the Philippines where I have had good food. Ayala has some great options (Italienze for the best Italian at a ridiculously low price). Second the sheer number and variety of the girls online and willing to meet. Without going into a play by play I met a couple of the standard struggling single moms that were happy with 2 k for a date and fuck. Interesting that these single moms are also sex deprived and totally enjoy being drilled for hours. They arent as polished and great with the BJ but their innocence and watching their expressions as I pound the shit out of them is priceless. One was a recent mom and had full breasts that were leaking milk and she squirted too. Talk about a messy bed after!

Then there was the desperate Semi Pro who needed rent. I was reluctant but finally agreed if she agreed to whatever perverted desires I had. She came over and I put her through her paces, had her clean out my ass, take it however I wanted, took all the home porn videos I wanted and sent her home where she could pay her rent. You'd think after the abuse and desperation was over she would never want to see me again but no, she is constantly texting offering her self and her friends for more of the same. Maybe I was too nice to her. LOL.

2 "girls" turned out to be ladyboys even though I asked them up front if they were real girls. One I rejected from outside the hotel the other passed my screening and made it into the room. Then drama ensued when I kicked her out and security was involved. Fake girl got nothing out of but security made a 500 P tip. LOL.

The best find of the trip was regular girl. Not struggling, not asking money, offered to pay half the dinner the first time we met. First date ended just in some DFK in the taxi before she left but second and third nights she turned into the LBFM we all know and love so well. Crazy intense sex, rough play, slapping spanking she wanted it all. On the last night she started getting a bit emo and kept asking if I would still text her after I was gone. Of course baby I said. Maybe I actually will. She's a diver too and we talked about a trip to Dumagete (her home town) so maybe I will stay in touch with her.

Now in Moalbal and not expecting any action but Cebu City is great for the dating site players. Even 4-5 days was enough for me to fuck about 7-8 girls.

[Expat American]

This is my first trip to Cebu in many years. Main purpose is diving but decided to spend a few days in the city and see what the whole dating site fuss is about. All I can say is, wow. Cebu is really the center of dating site hookups. I chatted with a few before I came. One was a TINY 35 kg, 4'11 with heels little spinner. She was the main course. But for appetizer a girl messaged me on the drive in from the airport. I thought I wanted get a quick rub out so not desperate. LOL. Girl comes over to the hotel only 20 min late (not bad at all). Quick negotiation in the lobby, she asked 2 k, offered 1 k she accepted plus 150 taxi fare. 24 yo single mom. Nice enough body and average face. No fuss BBFS creampie. She was sweet and accommodating so happily gave her 1500 and sent her off with a dripping pussy and a smile.

Main course was supposed to come at 7, showed up at 8. But she did keep me updated along the way along with real time tracking of her bus and she did leave home at 6 pm. It just took her 2 hours to get here. I was pleased with what I saw. 35 kg dripping wet and she could probably blow me standing up. She was not really a working girl. Took her to dinner first at the mall, she said she never ate chicken because her father is a fisherman and they eat only fish. She enjoyed a rotisserie chicken like it was Salt Bae steak. It was nice to watch. Back to my room relax on the bed, cuddle she falls asleep. I let her sleep a bit and then tell her I am going to shower. She gets the hint. After me she showers and climbs into bed naked. Still acting a bit shy. But then a little pussy play and I get a few fingers in and she turns into a freak. We must have fucked non stop for an hour. I am glad I got my first nut out so could last. All the positions, ball slapping ass spanking hair pulling fest. Finally creampie her. No talk of money at all. But I know she has kids and lives far away. I give her 1 k for taxi money and she smiles and puts it away. Wants to come back again tomorrow. Maybe worth a repeat. Only downside is she didn't blow me but I hardly missed it.

My Pinalove account is blowing up now that I am actually on the ground here. I can have a girl over pretty much anytime of day I think. Its quite different than AC but interesting in its own way. Good mix of semi pro and non pro in the mix. Semi pro for a quick pump and dump and non pro for a more relaxed date seems like a good plan to me.

[Goferring]

As a case in point, call centre girl this afternoon.

First pina message 1202 pm.

Her work out 1300 hrs.

Meet for 'coffee' 1400 hrs.

I've always wanted to see what's fastest, me getting through the airport or finding a hook-up online to meet at my hotel. Could be an even competition given that phones aren't allowed until after Immigration.

Sounds like a fun competition when I'm arriving next. I'm sure 3000 p, winner takes all, would ensure a good sized field. 🙂.

[AsianPursuits]

All of the rework that I did prior to arrival where I had 7-10 names & numbers per location pretty well went out of the window.

As others have said it's better to just be here and work from the 'active' most recent results from the dating apps. If a girl is online then she is more likely to meet now.

Two of the university student types I've had lined up for evening study sessions bailed before their attendance. Maybe they got better offers. Maybe they didn't like the subjects that we had agreed for schooling.

As a case in point, call centre girl this afternoon.

First pina message 1202 pm.

Her work out 1300 hrs.

Meet for 'coffee' 1400 hrs.

[Chocha Monger]

Waaay to hard for my feeble mind to handle.

If my girl isn't there sucking my dick then she doesn't get paid. The finer points of how she organises that is her issue. If the planets don't align, then I move on to one of the other 50 odd million women in the PI.

Sounds cruel but I'm not paying my hard earned cash to get bogged down in other people's problems.

Enjoy. G.

Exactly! Limiting the scope of your mission to pounding your Pinay hard in the ass with your meat hammer will prevent you from getting bogged down in barangay politics. You are not there to educate the natives on the finer points of obtaining official identification and the use of merchant accounts to facilitate digital payment of sex services. The native men manage to purchase sex services without official identification or cash, a plastic bag filled with rice suffices as payment for services rendered.

[Mr Enternational]

Because the types of Filipinas that mongers meet on dating apps are desperately poor, have minimal education, are usually unemployed and are not organized

Hell. I figured the neighbor would probably be in that same category. If the neighbor could get one then why couldn't she? Easy money for whoever has their ducks in a row though. In the land of the blind the one-eyed man is king.

Waaay to hard for my feeble mind to handle. If my girl isn't there sucking my dick then she doesn't get paid.

Amen to that. Keep it simple.

[WestCoast1]

Waaay to hard for my feeble mind to handle.

If my girl isn't there sucking my dick then she doesn't get paid. The finer points of how she organises that is her issue. If the planets don't align, then I move on to one of the other 50 odd million women in the PI.

Sounds cruel but I'm not paying my hard earned cash to get bogged down in other people's problems.

Enjoy. G.

For the 2-week warrior especially, GC and other remit-type services are rarely needed or wanted. The longer you live here, with multiple girls, GC is probably THE country standard app now for transferring money, pinoy to pinoy. Taxi drivers have started using it to receive fare. Just yesterday riding in a tryke with some lady, she tried to hand the driver a p500 note for a p20 fare. He balked. She didn't have anything smaller. Off the top of my head I asked her to ask him if he'd accept a GC payment. He agreed and that's how she paid. Almost all stores accept it now, as do many sari-sari's (they might add a convenience fee). GC can get you out of a jam if you only have large notes on you for a small item.

Who would bother going to Cebuana or LBC to remit money to family on another island, when they can send from their GC account directly to a family member elsewhere, instantly? GC is also great if you want to taxi a girl to you from wherever-the-eff-she-is, as Grab has a p79 fee for Manila. GC is also accepted by Lazada / Shopee, while many foreign debit and credit cards are not.

There are positives and negatives.

[Engine Driver]

Why wouldn't she just get her own ID and Gcash account so she can keep all the money?

Because the types of Filipinas that mongers meet on dating apps are desperately poor, have minimal education, are usually unemployed and are not organized like western girls. Most do not have bank accounts, PayPal accounts or GCash accounts. I've met girls who have jobs, but only possess an employer ID and no official ID. I've met college girls with college ID, but no official ID. When asked, the answer is always "I will get it next month".

The requests for money only start after the Filipina has taken the monger to another chat platform. If a request for help is turned down, the Filipina will terminate the conversation. There is no need to delete or block the girl. If a monger actually lands at NAIA, he is free to contact the girl again and invite her for a root. All would have been forgotten, and if she needs urgent cash, the chances of meeting are good.

[Goferring]

GC. I had assumed everyone in Phils had a GC account. But discovered months ago that some girls don't yet have one. Using GC means you must 'Verify' your account, by allowing the app to take your picture (a selfie), a picture of your valid ID (GC only accepts certain valid ID's), a selfie of you holding your valid ID next to your face, and possibly also a picture of your SIM card (your GC account can only be used with 1 phone number), and also possibly a selfie of you holding your SIM card next to your face. Usually the process goes smoothly, but you can't send money to anyone until you Verify.

Also if you Verify and then try sending money to another GC account that has not been verified, you get a warning msg from GC: "You are trying to send money to an Unverified GC account. Are you SURE you want to do that?

GC can be great, and also a PITA.

1) You girl needs money and has no phone or GC....

2) Your girl doesn't have a Gcash account...

3) Your girl doesn't have an ID

Your girl contacts you asking p500

Your girl never mentions any of this to you...

Waaay to hard for my feeble mind to handle.

If my girl isn't there sucking my dick then she doesn't get paid. The finer points of how she organises that is her issue. If the planets don't align, then I move on to one of the other 50 odd million women in the PI.

Sounds cruel but I'm not paying my hard earned cash to get bogged down in other people's problems.

Enjoy. G.