Seeking Arrangements

[AmericanPi]

Gents, we tend to circle around the same cities in these discussions. Yes Mexico is great.

What are the other excellent cities are rich, teeming with sugar babies?

Often I find myself in some part of the world and I look to see what cities are close by and how many girls are in my target age on Seeking. So far very few cities have hundreds (which means probably a few dozen active).

What amazing cities with lots of action have you conquered?

I'll go first.

Barcelona was surprisingly strong. Not as strong as Cdmx but I had zero problem lining up dates.

[DramaFree11]

A question for gentlemen who use Seeking in Colombia and Mexico. Do you have safety concerns, with respect to using the site? It seems like you'd be a sitting target, advertising or exaggerating your income and net worth in countries where kidnappings, murders and theft aren't as uncommon as they are here. I've used Seeking in other countries, but not Latin America.

Elvis, I too enjoyed traveling to Mexico during that period. It was a mixed bag though. The restrictions in Mexico, like the USA, depended a lot on what state and city you were in. A woman from Jalisco I was dating at the time loved coming to my city in the USA, because we were wide open compared to where she lived. You universally had to get your temperature checked when you entered places and wear masks in the malls. I remember in Cabo San Lucas about 3/4's of the stores in the main shopping mall were closed, not because of lockdowns, but because there were no tourists. Leaving Los Cabos once it was impossible to get into the airport club or get food unless you were willing to wait at least half an hour because of staff shortages. On the other hand, it was nice to be there when there weren't crowds. I only went to Cancun once, and it did seem more open than Baja California del Sur or Jalisco, although I remember having problems getting into the hotel gym because you had to make a reservation and they'd only allow 5 people in it at one time.

I've been traveling to Guadalajara and don't have safety concerns. But then I visited Medellin in the mid 1990's and Juarez during 2000-2010, when murders were off the charts. Anyway, I figured you were full of shit about GDL, that it's not that dangerous. Well, after reading up on it a little, I've definitively determined you're not full of shit. It's gotten worse since the last time I looked at the statistics. The homicide rate is comparable to Honduras. A group of local police were busted recently for running a kidnapping ring. And immigration supposedly has been kidnapping expatriates as well, both busting into their homes and setting up checkpoints. They keep them maybe a couple of days, treat them roughly, and then release them when money is paid. I'll definitely be keeping a copy of my passport and entrance stamp with me at all times when I'm there in the future.

I will still continue to go there. But I'm not seeing women from Seeking or escorts in notels. And I don't go anywhere at night except to restaurants, in a car.

As to Sinaloa, I agree. What kind of an idiot would be scouting out sugar babies in Culiacan anyway? I could just see myself dating a Narco's girlfriend and getting whacked. Mazatlan's safer, but I understand air traffic was stopped there for a while, because the Sinaloa cartel was expressing its wrath throughout the state at the capture of El Chapo's son.

I have never had any issues with being a target on SA. I never talk about money and I always meet in public the first meeting. Now I also require Video Chats. This eliminates 90% of the problems. I did have a meeting in Austin and broke my rule. She was about 50 pounds bigger then her pictures. I need to stick to my rules. I look back at all my bad dates, if I would have Video Chatted prior I would have saved a lot of time and money. Also if you tell a girl that you must video chat before you meet this will also help eliminate the scammers.

For the most part the girls in Mexico never bring up Money. Same with violence I have never had any issues in either MTY or CDMX. I did see a little in Tijuana, but it usually involved drugs.

I must say since I got back on SA 3 weeks ago there are much fewer scammers in the states now. I think SA is cracking down, there still there, but they are fairly easy to spot. In Mexico we always use WhatsApp and in the states instant messaging. I do not use any other forms of Social Media. If a girl suggest other forms it is usually a huge waste of time or a scam. Another red flag, if they say they are out of town for a few weeks, this usually some sort of scam. Use Video Chatting, you will have a much better experience.

SA is still tough in the states, but you can still have a great time and meet some greet girls.

[Ggekko2009]

A question for gentlemen who use Seeking in Colombia and Mexico. Do you have safety concerns, with respect to using the site? It seems like you'd be a sitting target, advertising or exaggerating your income and net worth in countries where kidnappings, murders and theft aren't as uncommon as they are here. I've used Seeking in other countries, but not Latin America.

My SA experience in Bogota has been great so far. I have met more than 10 regular chicas just last year alone. Most of them are still in college. For one, it is not Medellin and hence less gringos jejeje. Two, Bogota has a lot of colleges and hence the bigger pools of available girls that I prefer. I think as long as one practice some safety measure, the risk is manageable.

For example, I would try to meet with them first over a drink or dinner before bringing them back over to my apartment. I would also stay in apartment where there are front desk security. One time, before one of my girl left the following morning, the security actually called me on the apartment phone to verify that I am ok and she was who she said she was before allowing her to leave.

Also, I was offered a threesome session the first time by one girl. I told her that I needed to have a session with her first before I can do a threesome the next time, in which she understood and agreed to.

Another thing, never leave your drink unattended in the bar or anywhere outside and don't drink from anything that is offered by any girl. Getting drugged may be more common there. If I am to go clubbing, I would usually include a wingman to keep an eye out for one another.

Just my 2 cents.

[AsianPursuits]

So any of you guys use pre-paid? Does SA ban you on the 2nd month once they figure that same pre-paid Visa has no more fund in it?

There is an auto-renew option. Whatever you payment method if your subscription expires and you haven't paid then you are lapsed. You can see but cannot message. You cannot even read your previous messages. So if you plan to expire, you need to have extracted any contact details.

But for me, I always delete the profile once it has expired. Messages keep coming and the desire to repay and read new messages is too tempting.

[Tiny 12]

A question for gentlemen who use Seeking in Colombia and Mexico. Do you have safety concerns, with respect to using the site? It seems like you'd be a sitting target, advertising or exaggerating your income and net worth in countries where kidnappings, murders and theft aren't as uncommon as they are here. I've used Seeking in other countries, but not Latin America.

JC, I was in Mexico when the Covid restrictions hit. When American gyms and restaurants were closed in March 2020, Mexican ones were open and then they closed too. I remember thinking they even got Mexico, Mexico which has laughed and profited off the USA's "moral" stand with regards to drugs, prostitution, and gambling.

But the border never closed and when an American border town mandated wearing masks and none were too be found in the USA, I was able to buy several in Mexico.

Mexico reopened faster than everyone else and never required Covid vaccination to enter their country. When Colombia closed down, Dramafree suggested I look at Mexico, and the Mexican women literally kept me sane in this world that had gone totally mad. I traveled to Cancun when air fares were dirt cheap and stayed at resorts for next to nothing and went to amusement parks that were empty. Quite frankly, while the world was mad, I was having the time of my life.

And a month after Colombia reopened is when I met my woman, which would not have happened without the lockdown and travel ban, so you may think I am upset at someone like you but honestly people like you gave me the biggest gift of a lifetime. And what I mean by people like you is this:



Like I said, personally, I should hug and thank a guy like you because my life was never better than during the pandemic. But I do have to ask if you have any regrets about what you posted. And do you find it at all hypocritical that you are traveling and asking advice for guys like me about Mexico, the one country that gave guys like you the middle finger?

Elvis, I too enjoyed traveling to Mexico during that period. It was a mixed bag though. The restrictions in Mexico, like the USA, depended a lot on what state and city you were in. A woman from Jalisco I was dating at the time loved coming to my city in the USA, because we were wide open compared to where she lived. You universally had to get your temperature checked when you entered places and wear masks in the malls. I remember in Cabo San Lucas about 3/4's of the stores in the main shopping mall were closed, not because of lockdowns, but because there were no tourists. Leaving Los Cabos once it was impossible to get into the airport club or get food unless you were willing to wait at least half an hour because of staff shortages. On the other hand, it was nice to be there when there weren't crowds. I only went to Cancun once, and it did seem more open than Baja California del Sur or Jalisco, although I remember having problems getting into the hotel gym because you had to make a reservation and they'd only allow 5 people in it at one time.

I would be careful going to or near Jalisco or Sinaloa. Sinaloa cartel, which tried to keep a lid on violence, has been overtaken by the Jalisco cartel who are killing people everywhere including the beaches of Cancun and Tulum. Sinaloa has been in turmoil since one of El Chapo's sons was arrested. Guadalajara is a great town and may have the best weather of all the major cities in Mexico and best P4P scene but I would hesitate going there now unless I got reassurance from those who have been recently.

I've been traveling to Guadalajara and don't have safety concerns. But then I visited Medellin in the mid 1990's and Juarez during 2000-2010, when murders were off the charts. Anyway, I figured you were full of shit about GDL, that it's not that dangerous. Well, after reading up on it a little, I've definitively determined you're not full of shit. It's gotten worse since the last time I looked at the statistics. The homicide rate is comparable to Honduras. A group of local police were busted recently for running a kidnapping ring. And immigration supposedly has been kidnapping expatriates as well, both busting into their homes and setting up checkpoints. They keep them maybe a couple of days, treat them roughly, and then release them when money is paid. I'll definitely be keeping a copy of my passport and entrance stamp with me at all times when I'm there in the future.

I will still continue to go there. But I'm not seeing women from Seeking or escorts in notels. And I don't go anywhere at night except to restaurants, in a car.

As to Sinaloa, I agree. What kind of an idiot would be scouting out sugar babies in Culiacan anyway? I could just see myself dating a Narco's girlfriend and getting whacked. Mazatlan's safer, but I understand air traffic was stopped there for a while, because the Sinaloa cartel was expressing its wrath throughout the state at the capture of El Chapo's son.

[Tiny 12]

Last time I looked, SA still does the auto-renew right?

So any of you guys use pre-paid? Does SA ban you on the 2nd month once they figure that same pre-paid Visa has no more fund in it?

My membership doesn't auto renew.

[Steve 9696]

So Liz is a reg in a city I visit. Met three years ago and just did motel quickies but when I've moved away fro the area and come back to visit we have much more relaxed times. Turns out I really enjoy her company. She's def a wild child with lots of tats and a fuck May care vibe to match. So she's a ton of fun. First night was a bust because she wasn't feeling well but she said she'the make it up to me. So second night I played a bit of hooky and we started about 3:30 PM.

Had a couple warmup drinks at the hotel bar and then round 1 was on. We really went at it. I've found the Steve 2 to be an amazing position that girls love equally. We did a ton of this (her on her back. Kneel near her head. Dick in mouth. Fingers in pussy.) You can really drive her crazy with clit and gspot work while she sucks you off. Liz loves to suck cock and gives the boys equal treatment so it was heaven. All the usually positions. Told her to look at me while I hammered out a big load CIP. Wow. amazing to look into her eyes while blasting. (She's on the pill).

Then some cuddles and off to a spectacular dinner. Four or so drinks in back at the room with some Red Bull vodka acquired on the way. Round two was quite a hoot. In the car on the way back we got to talking about porn and Japanese porn and bukkake daddy daughter and you name it. She says she loves role play and I told her I had done a filthy daddy daughter role play with a girl in vegas. So it's on.

We decide to do the innocent school girl and old man role play. She gets right into it on the way from the elevator. She's wearing these amazing high spike fuck-me boots and says "I borrowed these from my mom!" Oooh so on point. Liking the role play.

So we continue in the room with her pretending she's never seen a dick before and me showing her that it goes in her mouth and pussy. Well you get the idea. Great fun and shockingly hornifying! The crowning achievement in the role play is when I'm fucking her hard in mish and close to finishing. And she says "oh ohh. I feel something. What. Oh my god!" Like she's having her first ever orgasm. OMG. She was so great to hit that note. I shot a hard load immediately after. What fun.

This is SA at its finest. When you get to another level of comfort with a girl and both just let loose.

[Gfefan]

I have a dark lit backside photo of me just to show how tall I am (I like tall women. Average sex with a tall chick, for me, is more satisfying than great sex with a short girl).

I do have face pics on "Private" mode which I share only if I am going to meet the girl, and remove access later.

Following some seniors' advice. Have a well buttoned up story / alibi. My face pics are those found by a mere google search of my name. So, that's my story if ever busted "some scammer used my public photo".

My phone, credit cards are in no way connected to SA profile. Granted an investigation will show my location / IP address but wifey will not "investigate" and I fully intend to not get in to any situation that truggers an investigation.

Be careful out there, use your best judgement, and have fun.

Better yet don't post any photos in your profile. No lead photo. No hidden photos. I have been doing this wildly successfully for four years now and have NO photos posted on the site at all. No chance of being outted that way. I do cover this in my profile saying that I am an executive and have to be discreet so no photos on site but glad to send.

And then depending how conservative you want to be you can either send a girl a photo thru the site as part of a message or you can say you aren't comfortable posting photos on the site and move them to WhatsApp. Not a problem for s girl worth her salt.

And yes you can def put your city as elsewhere. I am moving my city around all the time depending where I am headed next.

[DramaFree11]

JC, I was in Mexico when the Covid restrictions hit. When American gyms and restaurants were closed in March 2020, Mexican ones were open and then they closed too. I remember thinking they even got Mexico, Mexico which has laughed and profited off the USA's "moral" stand with regards to drugs, prostitution, and gambling.

But the border never closed and when an American border town mandated wearing masks and none were too be found in the USA, I was able to buy several in Mexico.

Mexico reopened faster than everyone else and never required Covid vaccination to enter their country. When Colombia closed down, Dramafree suggested I look at Mexico, and the Mexican women literally kept me sane in this world that had gone totally mad. I traveled to Cancun when air fares were dirt cheap and stayed at resorts for next to nothing and went to amusement parks that were empty. Quite frankly, while the world was mad, I was having the time of my life.

And a month after Colombia reopened is when I met my woman, which would not have happened without the lockdown and travel ban, so you may think I am upset at someone like you but honestly people like you gave me the biggest gift of a lifetime. And what I mean by people like you is this:



Like I said, personally, I should hug and thank a guy like you because my life was never better than during the pandemic. But I do have to ask if you have any regrets about what you posted. And do you find it at all hypocritical that you are traveling and asking advice for guys like me about Mexico, the one country that gave guys like you the middle finger?

As for your question, I never showed a photo on seeking and did not have any problem getting women. Best cities were Monterrey and CDMX for seeking. Best cities for P4 P were MTY and Tijuana. I would be careful going to or near Jalisco or Sinaloa. Sinaloa cartel, which tried to keep a lid on violence, has been overtaken by the Jalisco cartel who are killing people everywhere including the beaches of Cancun and Tulum. Sinaloa has been in turmoil since one of El Chapo's sons was arrested. Guadalajara is a great town and may have the best weather of all the major cities in Mexico and best P4P scene but I would hesitate going there now unless I got reassurance from those who have been recently. Seeking women in MTY want less than CDMX but MTY gets old after a while. In general, outside of the tourist areas like Cancun / Tulum, in general, the further South you go in Mexico, the less attractive the women are. If you find a babe in CDMX and want to spend a weekend away somewhere warmer and sunnier, Cuernavaca is a great place and only a cheap 90 minute bus ride from CDMX. Hope that helps.

So true about the lockdown. I had 3 of the most beautiful girls in my life during lockdown. I would have never had a chance with them if it was not for Covid. 2 of the 3 now have boyfriends in Europe. I lost contact with the other girl.

I have been working a lot, so I have not been able to go to CDMX as much, not to mention flights were crazy expensive over the Holidays. I am back hanging out in MTY. Much cheaper and the girls are sexually freaks here, but it does get boring quickly.

[Dj Tan]

Last time I looked, SA still does the auto-renew right?

So any of you guys use pre-paid? Does SA ban you on the 2nd month once they figure that same pre-paid Visa has no more fund in it?

[Elvis 2008]

I'm leaving next week for a solo moto tour of Mexico and, after reading about all the successes here, I had it in mind to try and hook up with someone 1/4th my age on SA.

JC, I was in Mexico when the Covid restrictions hit. When American gyms and restaurants were closed in March 2020, Mexican ones were open and then they closed too. I remember thinking they even got Mexico, Mexico which has laughed and profited off the USA's "moral" stand with regards to drugs, prostitution, and gambling.

But the border never closed and when an American border town mandated wearing masks and none were too be found in the USA, I was able to buy several in Mexico.

Mexico reopened faster than everyone else and never required Covid vaccination to enter their country. When Colombia closed down, Dramafree suggested I look at Mexico, and the Mexican women literally kept me sane in this world that had gone totally mad. I traveled to Cancun when air fares were dirt cheap and stayed at resorts for next to nothing and went to amusement parks that were empty. Quite frankly, while the world was mad, I was having the time of my life.

And a month after Colombia reopened is when I met my woman, which would not have happened without the lockdown and travel ban, so you may think I am upset at someone like you but honestly people like you gave me the biggest gift of a lifetime. And what I mean by people like you is this:

Republican-voting suckers actually caught and died from Covid-19 after refusing to wear a mask for fear that they would be taken for a "Democrat"/"lib" for doing so.

Kind of wishing it was a little more deadly.

This is not about you, it's about the health of all humans.

1) If you're not vaccinated, you will get it (unless the disease is first eradicated through the efforts of others).

2) The longer the disease circulates, the more it mutates. The delta mutation is apparently 100X more contagious than previous mutations. It exists in the US because you didn't get vaccinated.

Like I said, personally, I should hug and thank a guy like you because my life was never better than during the pandemic. But I do have to ask if you have any regrets about what you posted. And do you find it at all hypocritical that you are traveling and asking advice for guys like me about Mexico, the one country that gave guys like you the middle finger?

As for your question, I never showed a photo on seeking and did not have any problem getting women. Best cities were Monterrey and CDMX for seeking. Best cities for P4 P were MTY and Tijuana. I would be careful going to or near Jalisco or Sinaloa. Sinaloa cartel, which tried to keep a lid on violence, has been overtaken by the Jalisco cartel who are killing people everywhere including the beaches of Cancun and Tulum. Sinaloa has been in turmoil since one of El Chapo's sons was arrested. Guadalajara is a great town and may have the best weather of all the major cities in Mexico and best P4P scene but I would hesitate going there now unless I got reassurance from those who have been recently. Seeking women in MTY want less than CDMX but MTY gets old after a while. In general, outside of the tourist areas like Cancun / Tulum, in general, the further South you go in Mexico, the less attractive the women are. If you find a babe in CDMX and want to spend a weekend away somewhere warmer and sunnier, Cuernavaca is a great place and only a cheap 90 minute bus ride from CDMX. Hope that helps.

[HumbleHal]

Me no wife sex for 25+ years. For "status" I used Open Relationship, as there is no real good fit. I am not "Married but Looking" (I'm not planning to change my marriage sitch) nor am I single.

I always tell women I am a widower. My ex-wife died a few years ago. I get more sympathy and understanding from the women.

If they ask more I say "I cut the brake lines of her car" and look at the expression on their faces change.

[AsianPursuits]

Plenty of talk about the potential for chat bots to ruin the world. Here is the profile that ChatGPT suggests for me.

I suggested: write a sugar dating profile for a white male adventurous guy.

Occupation: Adventure Tour Guide

About Me:
I am a white, adventurous guy who loves to explore new places and try new things. I am outgoing, confident, and always up for a good time. Whether it's hiking a mountain, bungee jumping, or trying a new type of food, I am always down for an adventure. I am also a very ambitious person and am always working towards achieving my goals. I am looking for a sugar baby who is fun-loving, adventurous, and enjoys trying new things. I am willing to be your sponsor, in exchange for your company and companionship on my adventures.

What I Offer:

Exclusive and luxurious travel experiences
A financially stable and generous sponsor
A fun-loving and adventurous companion
A chance to experience new and exciting things
What I'm Looking For:

A sugar baby who is fun-loving, adventurous, and enjoys trying new things
Someone who is open-minded and ready for new experiences
A sugar baby who is looking for a financially stable and generous sponsor
Someone who is willing to join me on my adventures and make new memories together

Then being more specific: write a sugar dating profile for a male adventurous guy that prefers Asian girls.

About me: I'm a thrill-seeking, adventurous guy who loves to explore new places and try new things. I'm always up for a challenge and am always looking for new ways to push my limits. I'm also a huge fan of Asian culture, and I love to travel to different parts of Asia to experience new cultures and meet new people.

What I'm looking for: I'm looking for a fun-loving, adventurous girl who is open to new experiences and is willing to join me on my travels. I'm particularly interested in meeting Asian girls, as I find their culture and beauty to be incredibly captivating. I'm looking for someone who is open-minded, outgoing, and confident, and who is not afraid to take risks and try new things.

My ideal sugar baby: My ideal sugar baby is a confident and adventurous Asian girl who is open to new experiences and is not afraid to take risks. She should be open-minded, outgoing, and confident, and should be willing to join me on my adventures and explore new places with me. She should also be able to hold a conversation and be able to engage in a variety of activities.

What I can offer: I can offer my sugar baby an exciting and adventurous lifestyle, with the opportunity to travel to new places and experience new cultures. I can also offer my sugar baby financial support and help her to achieve her goals and aspirations. I'm also a great listener and can offer my sugar baby a listening ear and a supportive shoulder when she needs it.

If you're a fun-loving, adventurous Asian girl who is looking for a thrill-seeking guy to join you on your adventures, then I'm the guy for you! Let's explore new places together and make unforgettable memories!

[Steve 9696]

Thanks for all the superb advice, which I've come to expect from (90%) of this forum. I'm kind of tempted just to tell the truth -- I've been married for forty years and, while I haven't had sex with my wife in almost twenty years, I don't want to embarass her.

I will report back with the results.

We are in very similar situations. Me no wife sex for 25+ years. For "status" I used Open Relationship, as there is no real good fit. I am not "Married but Looking" (I'm not planning to change my marriage sitch) nor am I single.

I have some girls ask if I'm married and I explain yes but it's sexless. Generally they are appalled and did not know such things exist! And quite sympathetic. So it's usually positive when disclosed.

[John Clayton]

...I do cover this in my profile saying that I am an executive and have to be discreet so no photos on site but glad to send...I am moving my city around all the time depending where I am headed next.

Thanks for all the superb advice, which I've come to expect from (90%) of this forum. I'm kind of tempted just to tell the truth -- I've been married for forty years and, while I haven't had sex with my wife in almost twenty years, I don't want to embarass her.

I will report back with the results.