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01-30-23 01:19 #27179
Posts: 743You are right
You are right on all counts, and I can relate to this even from other "hobbies". I am also an enthusiast and collect something more materialistic. After a few years of doing it, the hobby lost its charm. The usual dopamine kick that I used to get when I acquired another material thing to add to my "collection" was no longer there. I have since reduced my involvement in that hobby by almost 90% of my time now, and also spend much less money on it. Once you know something is not working for you, stop putting time and money into it.
Mongering is not about finding someone that wants you. I am pretty sure, for all the "GFE" descriptions we see here, very few of them are actually that. It is also the girl faking it so that she gets your money and gives you that high for a few minutes. Once we leave her, she probably texts her friends and makes fun of something we said or did or the size of our johnnies. If you still want female company, not the sex, just try some good old fashioned dating. Going home after a dinner and drinks alone to Onlyfans is not a bad deal, if the food was good and the girl was likeable.
Originally Posted by Apdhillon [View Original Post]
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01-30-23 00:22 #27178
Posts: 498Different strokes for different folk. Personally for me mongering is like eating out, its entertainment pure and simple, nothing more and nothing less. Its (and this is going to sound odd) not even necessarily all about the sex.
You are clearly looking for something deeper and I don't think you are going to find that mongering. Join some social (hobby) clubs, plenty of organisations you can volunteer, make some friends and hopefully that can fill some of the hole you maybe feeling working in Dubai and away from your friends and family back home.
Originally Posted by Apdhillon [View Original Post]
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01-30-23 00:09 #27177
Posts: 137Originally Posted by Apdhillon [View Original Post]
These days I can count the new girls I take in a year on one hand, most of my action are with girls I know. One of my regulars doesn't even work the clubs anymore and has a full time day job working in re al estate. I have another amazing Brazilian regular who also doesn't work the clubs anymore and is a daytime trader now and starting her own company. And yeah lol she's a regular of mine. So you have to create a regular circle.
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01-29-23 20:48 #27176
Posts: 187Originally Posted by Apdhillon [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by Apdhillon [View Original Post]
You have to make peace with yourself & practice acceptance and contentment. Otherwise every time you leave from a punt you are going to feel emptier and emptier, shallow and ashamed of your self rather than experiencing what us real mongers feel. Upbeated, relaxed, satisfied with a skip in your step ready to go to work and fight another challenge in your life.
Hit the gym and get your life in order.
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01-29-23 19:31 #27175
Posts: 154Originally Posted by Apdhillon [View Original Post]
Go out and find a GF, leave this for later.
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01-29-23 18:28 #27174
Posts: 27Coffee anyone?
I arrived very late in DXB but was in a mood of searching for a girl. Usually I visit RS but this time I wanted to try something different. So I ended up at Ratskys which I never entered before. Apart from the girls I was disappointed as. For me. The place was too noisy, too dark and the music too loud. So I was trying not to stay too long.
After a short time I saw a small quite pretty viet girl smiling at me. We had a nice chat, she told me that she's Coffee and from Vietnam and we agreed on 8 reds.
- fast forward to the hotel. In the hotel both of us took a shower (seperately) and then the action started. Coffee is blessed with a great body, made boobs (but in a good way. So not oversized) and she got a quit big tattoo at her neck.
First round was all about BBJ. Great skills and I ended up in her mouth in 69 position.
After that round she gave me a pretty good massage. Not just the usual touchy stuff. And after a while we went for second round. After a short BBJ she pulled over the cover and then we did some cowgirl, missionary and I finished in doggy. She's very tight and so it could not hold it too long unfortunately.
Look: 8/10.
Action: 8/10 (a bit more grip for BBJ would raise the score).
WR: Hopefully.
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01-29-23 18:23 #27173
Posts: 315Originally Posted by Apdhillon [View Original Post]
If you go to a prostitute for an hour, it's to fuck her. Period. Don't expect more than that. I personally don't care if she pretends to like me or not. As long as she is not obviously disgusted or unhappy. But neutral is fine. If she orgasms, good but it's not my main goal. I'm going for my own sexual pleasure and companionship.
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01-29-23 08:11 #27172
Posts: 11Some musings
This will likely get flagged and not even get posted but I wanted to share my $0. 02. I moved to dubai alone a year and a half back. The "meat market" is a good way to escape the loneliness that comes at you in this city. I feel like a lot of us young, specifically Indian dudes spend money to feel "wanted" or "desired' for a bit. I spend a lot of time reading posts on here but when it comes to picking up the phone and ringing a random woman I pussy out thinking of STDs or just the logistics. I had my share of "fun" at spas but frankly. Most of them don't do FS, the BBBJ offering makes me scared of STDs and well a HJ is usually better off at home with some good porn from Onlyfans.
I admire the mongers that have been able to do it for a decade and not catch STDs or feel broken deep within. I realise the mongering is just me slapping a bandaid on what needs surgery. I think I will just retire from any active mongering because it no longer gives me joy to spend money with random women to spend an hour with me. Don't get me wrong- I don't belittle sex work or people that pursue it. I have great admiration for people that can have their needs met and can afford it. Me personally, I come from a third world country and spending the equivalent of a month's wages on a woman for her to pretend like she wants your thing in her. Idk man. It all feels weird.
I share these thoughts because I recognise there's a lot of younger mongers here just lurking just like me. Obv this is ISG and you are not coming here for self help. The mongering world has a lot of soft skills you can actually use irl. I learned to be more street smart, understand the art of "trading" information and interact with women better. But if you are like me, fundamentally broken deep within, perhaps consider other avenues to spend your money and find happiness. Even consider therapy.
I don't mean to retire from mongering. For now I am just trying to find models I relate to and have a steady rapport with. So far there's been shit luck on that end.
Anyway, idk where I'm going at with all this. Just sharing my emo musings on balancing the mental aspects of mongering with the physical.
Have a pleasant weekend.
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01-28-23 17:09 #27171
Posts: 331Originally Posted by KittyLover [View Original Post]
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01-28-23 12:54 #27170
Posts: 102Originally Posted by MickeyDuck1208 [View Original Post]
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01-28-23 12:50 #27169
Posts: 102Originally Posted by Komnetkijken [View Original Post]
Also, you earlier mentioned GND what's the full form to that?
Have you tried the byblos chain of hotels and their respective night clubs?
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01-28-23 12:09 #27168
Posts: 6I would take anyone up on that offer. But not sure where I would find someone. Here till 31st morning. Probably a couple of tries left before I leave. Will be back next month.
Originally Posted by MickeyDuck1208 [View Original Post]
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01-28-23 11:49 #27167
Posts: 743Maybe you should be a wingman. If you are staying longer in DXB. Go in with someone that has done it many times, and just watch and learn. It is no rocket science. As others have said, the girls are in a more risky situation since they don't know what kind of a creep the guy might turn out to be. Just be confident, and polite. Thats all it takes.
Treat it like you are walking up and talking to a new girl / lady at a big fat Indian wedding. We talk to a lot of people for the first time there, don't we? LOL.
Originally Posted by PunjabiHorny [View Original Post]
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01-28-23 10:39 #27166
Posts: 1333Originally Posted by SethiatSpace [View Original Post]
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01-28-23 05:52 #27165
Posts: 32Ratsky Nightclub
Plan on visiting Dubai in coming April 2023. Just want to reconfirm if the popular Ratsky nightclub is located in Fortune Karama Hotel near the ADCB metro station? I have mongered a lot in Dubai back in 2011-2012 and most of my memory of those days are lost in time. I RTFF going back 30 pages and thanks to "Rocko20" here, got a good feel of the current nightlife.