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06-25-23 06:47 #6086
Posts: 3379Originally Posted by SubCmdr [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by SubCmdr [View Original Post]
If pussy is pussy, and Mr. E is not paying for it, and you are, he has you beat. Not that hard.
The counter to the argument is all pussy is not equal and there is value in paying for it. Now I do not even agree with that completely but that is the counter argument.
In my world, pussy is what attracts a man but it is not what keeps you with a woman. Sure, first, it is looks then sexual skill but personality and character are what really matters in the end, and the last two are a lot harder than the first two.
The pussy is pussy argument is defeatist. It is saying all pussy is the same and guys should do not even try to do better. It is the phrasing of losers. As I have said before, going on a lot of dates, getting stiffed, having women pretend to like you and the pain when you found out they do not, the craziness, and the materialism are hard to take. It is easier to just say "Fuck it, I am not going to trust anyone and just pay for it and the less the better. " It is funny how JJBee calls me negative when this bullshit thought process is literally the most negative shit that there is.
So a friend said the other day, "I tell everyone that Elvis has a GF who is five foot ten and is a ten", but the truth is anyone can have a 10 on their arm if they pay enough. The pussy is pussy argument is that you can pay for ten 5's the same as you can for one 10 and paying for a 10 is stupid then.
What other guys really envy is how happy she is when she calls and talks to me or when she runs in a full sprint in the airport and jumps in my arms when I come to town. Every straight single guy in the airport is thinking, "Man, I wish I had a woman who looked like that who feels that way about me".
So now the usual response is I am bragging or guys attack the woman. We got losers here in their 50's and 60's claiming 34 is too old. LOL. My point is what I have is possible, but you have to spend the money, shrug off the bad dates, continue to work and learn from your mistakes, and then, you might get someone as good as I have. And by all means, tune out the losers like yourself who say it cannot be done and pussy is pussy.
I was with another gal who had a good family prior to this one, but I cannot even describe how much fun I had with the current one's family. I got to meet her Aunt and Uncle two of the nicest people I have met. Then we took our rental car out and took their daughters around the area. We visited a chocolate factory, a dinosaur museum, and feasted on the best arepas I have ever had. We finished the evening with an amazing chicken dinner in a town with a spectacular sunset. If you are a Medellin moron, you add up all the costs I paid and subtract all the nice things the family did for me (free housing, free meals) and OMG, you got taken you sucker. Losers like that are missing out on life.
I do not care if you want to get married or not but you should want the prime women, AKA wife material because as pleasurable as the sex is, you can have as much fun out of the bedroom as in it if you have the right woman. I have met three women like that in Colombia, one in Mexico, and have not met anyone I consider wife material in the USA.
I have been doing this a long time, and there is a world of difference between a woman who sucks dick for money and one who does it at least in part because she likes you, and that is why pussy is pussy is literally the dumbest thing I have ever heard of.
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06-25-23 06:39 #6085
Posts: 1302Originally Posted by JustTK [View Original Post]
Maybe even make it so his posts automatically go there even if he posts in the main medellin thread.
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06-25-23 03:45 #6084
Posts: 1843Originally Posted by DJFourMoney [View Original Post]
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06-25-23 01:14 #6083
Posts: 1493Originally Posted by SubCmdr [View Original Post]
My issue with Gen Z is they love to tell everybody what they are doing and spread it all over. Putting all their activities on blast and now they wonder why some are getting deleted, drugged by street walkers and chicks off Tinder.
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06-25-23 01:08 #6082
Posts: 1493Originally Posted by JjBee62 [View Original Post]
As Andrew Tate said recently, seemingly you are one of those dudes who would rather date a BBW with bad acne just to say you didn't have any contact with a Hot Travesti who put many natal Colombian women to shame.
To think I just defended your right to date younger women, yet you got problems with consenting adults who are no threat to you. And you think sex toys are a replacement for human contact? You spend way too much time in front of a computer.
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06-25-23 01:00 #6081
Posts: 1493Originally Posted by MiamiBoy1 [View Original Post]
So Dolphins / Marlins / Panthers / Heat Boi is against -.
1) Age Gap Marriages. Sounds like you buy right into the feminist rhetoric hook, line and sinker. Not one thing wrong with waiting until she was of legal age. I've had women underage interested in me aka crush. In some ways I wish I had listened to myself intend of people like you. I still haven't found a woman as smart or attractive as one particular woman and that includes visits to Latin America, Eastern Europe and Western Europe.
A good friend of mine specifically waited until his wife who he met when she was 16 have no physical contact until she was 18, she wanted otherwise (crush). When she turned 18, the very morning she called him with the good news.
He was 29 at the time they met. He married her about four months ago. He is 36, she is now 24 recently graduated from Univ.
2) Why is he automatically a sex tourist when you have no idea of his interactions with others. Maybe people see you as a sex tourist?
3) Why do you have a problem with adult entertainment work and why you calling some woman's boyfriend a loser from the safety of your South beach resort home? Do you watch Fresh & Fit too?
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06-25-23 00:20 #6080
Posts: 395Originally Posted by JjBee62 [View Original Post]
Just being real and I think a lot of guys will resonate with what I state here about the women I can fuck. In my 20's I got 7-8's with some regularity. Had some girlfriends who were also in the range. Now close to 40, I can still get a 7-8 to fuck, but it has to come with real emotional attachment and a true commitment somewhere down the line. Without a commitment and just a random fuck, the 7-8's are kinda out of my range at this point unless I am batting 100 and really on my game. I could make another run at it and I am planning it. I got to the point where I was really pissing girls off by fucking them and then ghosting them and it wasn't cool on top of the fact you get a bad rep in town for constantly doing it. Another problem is I am a member of the local community, I am known and due to my employment, I really can't be a life long tinder guy just out trying to bone every chick who pops up on there. By the end of my 20's I already had a bad reputation for that in town and at some point you do have to grow up and you can't be running around like that openly.
My solution to this dilemma is travel and take down them gems, treat them right, play the game right, keep it safe and no one gets hurt.
As to the other stuff, whatever makes you happy BJ69. Define success however you want. The reason I use 1-10 and not 5-10 is because a lot of guys will fuck the girls in the 1-4 range, so I keep it in the scale even though personally I don't fuck with girls below a 5. All I am really trying to get at is, we all can use the 1-10 scale to just get a general idea of where to find the type of girls were looking for. It's just weird to me guys get so offended and insecure if someone wants to give a girl a number rating. I don't get it. Why do you care so much if a guy wants to use that scale to exchange information.
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06-24-23 21:41 #6079
Posts: 5496Originally Posted by MiamiBoy1 [View Original Post]
Being married to someone, having kids with them, or living together guarantees nothing. That's something everyone who has ever had a relationship learns. Relationships are built on much more than fucking someone (and it's bizarre that you define a relationship as having regular sex with someone).
Why does she need to wait patiently for me? She's got school, she's got training, she has her pets to take care of, and of course there's her family. In addition she's in the process of opening a brick and mortar business with her family. It's much different than a girl who depends on fucking to make money so she can afford to party. You seem to believe that women have no purpose in life unless they're fucking a man. Weird.
"If she's good looking", there it is again. The implication that only ugly women would ever have anything to do with me. Are you basing that on the PMs you received from a certain other ISG member, telling you how ugly and misshapen I am? He's certainly entitled to his opinion, and to run around whispering about me like he's training for the passive-aggressive Olympics, but his opinions are not widely accepted.
As for her being "snatched up", again you seem to know nothing about women. She might meet someone, go out with him, fall for him and that will be it. Big deal. First, in order for that to be a possibility, you're once again declaring she's in a relationship with me. Next, that's what I'm hoping for, for her future. I want her to grow, learn, become successful and meet an equally successful man who will treat her well, marry her and raise a family with her. I don't own her, I don't want to keep her until I die. For now our paths run parallel. At some point in the future they will diverge. I think anyone who has ever had any relationship understands that.
Why? Because you literally have it written on your forehead. Do you think people who are not prostitutes are dumb enough not to understand what's going on and why you and other gringos frequent Colombia? Give me a break.
Why would a webcam model showing her pussy or fucking on camera for money refuse to share an apartment with a sex tourist? I think is it a perfect match, "I don't judge you, you don't judge me" type of situation. And why would her boyfriend let her do what she does for living? Because he is a loser and can't provide, and obviously could care less if she lives with a gringo sex tourist.
Do you honestly believe I run around declaring to everyone "I'm looking for hookers?
You're familiar with elevator etiquette in Colombia? Whenever someone gets on or off the elevator there's an exchange of courtesies. "Buen theía", "hasta luego", it confused me at first, because in the US, nobody speaks or makes eye contact.
Living in a high-rise, I often bumped into other residents, people with their kids and pets. Once I opened my mouth, everyone knew I was a gringo. Would you encourage your child to practice her English with an obvious sex tourist? Would you strike up a conversation with him in front of your wife?
Colombians love Colombia. They think Colombia is wonderful and beautiful. Most, at least that I've met, are thrilled that foreigners come to their country and appreciate all it has to offer. Not one person, who was not connected with prostitution, has ever suggested anything to me about sex tourism. Shit, at the urging of a friend, a taxi driver invited us into his house and introduced us to his wife and granddaughters. He was driving us around Paris and pointed out his house. My friend told him to stop and asked if we could see his home. Do you invite obvious sex tourists into your home with your granddaughters? Assuming your granddaughter didn't die from the raccoon attack.
My roommate's boyfriend was an engineer and professor at National University in Bogota. Her current boyfriend emigrated (before they met) to a first world country, where she lives now. They own property on 2 continents.
Add webcam models to the lengthy list of things you know nothing about. She was finishing her BS when I was there, and has since earned a graduate degree. Like most of the successful webcam models I've met, she comes from a good family (it's a work ethic thing. The lower economic classes don't seem to have a good work ethic. The middle class seems to understand the value of working every day towards your goals).
So no. She didn't assume I was a sex tourist. Her mother, father, grandmother, brother and stepmother didn't assume I was a sex tourist. Maybe because I've never been a sex tourist. She knew me as someone who was respectful, well-mannered, protective and funny, all from my visits to her webcam. While her father may have been skeptical at first, he talked to me (yet another reason to learn the language) and I got his approval. Her mother loved me from the start, because she had told her all about me. Plus, she tasted some of my cooking and almost 6 years later is still raving about it.
Because you know so little, let me fill you in on my behavior when I was watching and working in webcams. I was never the guy saying "show me", or anything sexual. Instead I treated everyone the same as I would treat anyone. I'd just talk, be respectful and make jokes. If someone else was rude, I'd tell them to be respectful. It's how I got asked to work. I took a chat room of guys saying "show me your tits" and turned it into a bunch of friends all chatting and laughing. The "Show me" guys rarely spend any money. The guys who feel appreciated and accepted do spend money.
Many webcam customers are guys who can't talk to women, they have no social life. They're lonely and trying to fill the emptiness. Seeing a naked woman doesn't compare to having a normal conversation with a naked woman while a bunch of friends are all having a good time with you.
You could not even answer a simple question.
Al Pacino is a celebrity multi-millionaire. He is one leg in the grave, and his GF and their kid will be set for life once he passes away.
The woman has her own money and it doesn't appear the relationship is still ongoing. He may or may not provide any support, but it's certain the woman and child won't receive everything when he dies.
Once again you missed the point. You've said such a large age gap can't work, yet it's easy to find examples where it does work.
Touched on the subject? LOL. What commitment are we talking about? You are a sex tourist, and I hope she is not dumb enough to marry your ass, let alone have kids with you. What is she going to inherit once you die? A semi-truck? Will she be ready to take care of your ass once your health deteriorates?
Last June she came for a short visit. Less than 2 months later she came for a longer visit. That visit was originally planned to last for 5 months. Naturally we discussed the possibility of making that stay permanent. It's part of trying to accumulate knowledge and being prepared for the future.
However, see&BP has the final say on anything. When she entered, they decided she could only stay for 7 weeks. We went through the appeal process, I paid the fee, she went in to get fingerprinted and we waited until the last week for their decision, before getting a return ticket. I've got a letter right here from DHS saying they approved the extension and she could stay for 5 months. The date on the approval was 5 months after the 5 months ended. Government efficiency.
Why would she inherit anything? If we did get married and we did have kids, she'd get the right to live and work in the US. If I died, she'd get a big enough payday from the insurance to retire comfortably back in Colombia, or to ensure her future in the US.
When my health deteriorates? You already declared I have 1 foot in the grave. Make up your mind (or better plan, stop making shit up).
This means she was barely 18 years old (or even younger?) when you first met. She was (and still is) just a kid. While you are an old pervert. You could find someone more mature and suitable for your age, a woman in her 30's or 40's, but instead you picked a girl who just graduated high school. And while you were waiting for 18 months to fuck her, I'm sure you you didn't observe celibacy.
If an 18, or 20 year old is "just a kid", how is it acceptable for a 30-40 year old man to be fucking them? You understand you shot yourself in the foot again? You keep grasping at straws and just keep contradicting yourself.
I'll fill in the details.
When we first started talking she was 17. She said she was 18, her sister confirmed that she was 18. I didn't even realize it until last year when I needed a copy of her passport. However, we were just talking, not even talking about sex. I know that's not something you can understand, but it's possible to talk to a woman without discussing anything sexual (or in your case without asking how much she'll charge you for sex).
She turned 18 about 2 months before we first met, which I believed was 19. However, our contact was limited to 4 quick hugs (at airport, in front of my apartment, at the restaurant and at her car after dinner. All 4 were chaperoned by her sister, who got the same hugs. The first time we kissed was shortly before 19 and she was halfway through 19 before we had sex.
I was never "waiting to fuck her. " Again we're venturing into completely alien territory for you, so I'll try to simplify it.
When we were first talking, we were just online acquaintances. When we first met in person we were just casual friends. 8 months later we were friends showing interest in becoming friends with benefits. 9 months later we were FWBs deciding whether or not to make it something more. A few months later the decision was made.
If you say "Hello," to a woman do you immediately take a vow of celibacy? Waiting pure and chaste until you figure out that she was just being polite? If you have a conversation with a woman do you immediately start shopping for an engagement ring? Seems a bit premature.
I didn't "pick a girl. " I got on speaking terms with a lot of women. While my motives weren't entirely pure, I wasn't seeking anything in particular. It turned out we enjoyed each other's company. Later, it turned out we enjoyed each other physically as well. Then it turned out we enjoyed being emotionally supportive of each other.
So, now you claim yourself a guru who knows what a woman wants and how to arouse them through their mind? LOL. I guess time to sell pickup courses.
Perhaps the most damning thing, in all of your statements which illustrate your lack of knowledge about women, is you scoffing at the idea of arousing a woman through her mind.
Arousal comes from the mind. Sure, you can rub your dick and get it hard, but what do you think is causing you to wake with an erection? That's all coming from your mind, which seems to be the only time your mind does anything useful.
Sticking your hand between a woman's legs and fumbling around is frequently painful to the woman. Dry skin rubbing dry sensitive skin isn't a pleasant thing for most. You're like Eric Idle in the sex education scene in "Meaning of Life. ".
If you're doing it right, long before you touch anything, a woman's panties are going to be soaked. If you only deal with prostitutes there's no need to understand that. The smart ones lube up because they know you probably won't have a clue. Of course, paying by the hour does put limits on what you can accomplish.
After all that it's time for the big questions. You've already confirmed, multiple times and in multiple ways, you believe I have a relationship with the girl who I refer to as my girlfriend.
Why does it matter? Whether she's "ugly af" or gorgeous, whether she's 20 or 40, whether we live together, get married, or have kids, why does it matter so much to you?
What is it about me being in a relationship which causes such a huge disruption in your life? In what way is my interaction with a woman you've never met, creating trauma for you?
Before you you claim it doesn't matter to you, do something you never do, think. This is at least the second time you've ventured down this road. When it comes to the material on ISG there is nothing more important to you than the fact that I have a girlfriend.
Why? Why go through all the mental gymnastics trying to prove something that you can't prove?
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06-24-23 17:16 #6078
Posts: 743Originally Posted by JjBee62 [View Original Post]
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06-24-23 03:44 #6077
Posts: 17Originally Posted by JjBee62 [View Original Post]
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06-23-23 23:51 #6076
Posts: 5496Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
Never heard this but I think it is 100% true. For some reason chicks always say I am mysterious and I guess that is what makes them more curious. Besides that, I never tell them what they want to hear like most guys probably do. I tell them shit that is against the grain or they will disagree with.
In the streets we used to say she hates my fucking guts but she loves my pimpin. Chicks are used to guys trying to butter them up and use money, but come from a different angle and they become curious, which leads to said advantage. But it is all in personality. You can read all the pick up artist books you want, but personality can not be taught. Some of the shit that I naturally say or do would seem really weird coming from other people that I know because it is not their personality.
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06-23-23 16:52 #6075
Posts: 5496Originally Posted by JjBee62 [View Original Post]
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06-23-23 12:58 #6074
Posts: 2213Please leave the building Elvis 2008
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Originally Posted by Mtndew704 [View Original Post]
Mr. E is way more intelligent that you and has no reason to be jealous of you. The mere fact that you think he is are the thoughts of a stone cold narcissist. Mr. E is not lying his dick. You very well could be Elvis 2008..
Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
Finally, figure out who you are. You step to me initially screaming names at me like a man child now your are acting like a girly man with your passive aggressive bullshit. Man Up! Or just leave the building. You don't even know what it means to be a capitalist. You do not determine who is a winner. Take your narcissistic ass of the building please and give the rest of us "paz and tranqulidad" we deserve.
How you like me now?
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06-23-23 07:32 #6073
Posts: 5496Originally Posted by MiamiBoy1 [View Original Post]
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06-23-23 07:31 #6072
Posts: 5496Originally Posted by MiamiBoy1 [View Original Post]
I'm going to bounce around a bit in addressing the various points in this latest proof of your insanity.
What does living in Colombia full time have to do with anything? While it does limit the amount of time we spend fucking, it also requires both of us to put in more effort. Until my father's death, my mother was married to a man who spent 9 months of every year halfway around the world, fighting a war in Vietnam, and he didn't have Whatsapp. They could only communicate through letters which took several weeks to arrive. Yet somehow they had a relationship which netted 5 kids.
Why would she think I'm a sex tourist? If you had spent any significant time in Colombia, meeting people who weren't prostitutes, you would realize that most Colombians think nothing of the sort.
For 10 months I shared an apartment with a webcam model. We've been friends ever since. I've met her entire family. I just saw them all again over Christmas and Valentine's Day. Not one of them had any issue with me living in the same apartment with her. Even her boyfriend at the time, had no problems with it. If they all think every gringo is a sex tourist, would that have been acceptable?
Funny thing is, when I was with the old roommate and her father, somehow the subject came up. My roommate asked if I had ever paid someone for sex. I told her that women always make men pay for sex, 1 way or another.
Women care very little about any age gap. Put on a movie with an older leading man and women aren't shy about how sexy they think he is. Shit, AL Pacino is 82, and he's not looking very good at 82, but he's got a 29 year old woman carrying his child. Last year everyone was griping about Leonardo Decaprio dating women 30+ years younger. Back when I was in high school a bunch of 14-18 girls drooled over a teacher who was in his 40's.
And this has been going on forever. Until fairly recently, if an old man's wife died, there was no shortage of father's offering up their teen daughters, even if he wasn't wealthy. That still happens within certain communities.
You seem to think women have no interest in anything beyond a man's age and his fitness level. I understand why you think that. It's because you have nothing to offer. However, most women are looking for something more.
Who has declared I won't commit to anything serious? It wasn't me and last time I checked, I'm the only one who gets to make that decision. I'm not shopping for rings, but we have touched on the subject. However, I don't expect that to happen.
This might come as a surprise to you, since you've clearly only had sex with prostitutes, but most women don't expect to be paid for sex. Most women would be offended by the suggestion of being paid for sex. However, most women aren't giving it up for free either. They want something in return. I started giving it to her the moment I decided she was worth the effort. Although I had flirted with her, like I do with most women, I hadn't pushed her towards anything sexual. She was the one who first steered our conversation to sex. That was what sealed the deal, although it took us another 18 months to get it into the bedroom. I wish I had saved that conversation.
But what is it that women want? What payment is more effective than cash? They want to feel valued. They want to feel respected. They want someone to get them aroused through their mind, instead of fumbling around in their panties.
Of course there are other benefits, but until you learn at least something about women, there's no sense in listing them.
I'm not going to elaborate, but it's obvious you don't even understand P4 P.