Bangkok Reports

[TooDirty]

On this day of thanksgiving I'd like to share what I'm thankful for. I'm thankful for Thailand! And here I am counting the days until I can retire near to Thailand. Why can't I risk it all and do it now or soon, I just don't know. Decades and decades of being brainwashed into thinking you need x amount of cash just to get by, when what if, maybe, just maybe you can get by on less? .

Oh, Captain! My Captain! LOL Although I like the food and foot massages too. The mini-split ACs are swell too, much better than crappy American hotel ACs.

[HorseTrader]

Asian guys don't complain. It's much easier for them. They just tell the guy how much, he accepts or declines and that's it.

I occasionally read that Asian guys don't complain, but I find that hard to believe. About 2 weeks ago I was sitting in Thermae with an Asian friend (I'm farang) while he was scrolling through online options because he was not satisfied with the current lineup at Thermae. His number 1 concern was girl appearance but he also talked about price and service. Seems same as farang to me. Perhaps someone can explain how various posters know that Asian guys don't complain.

[BHawk]

Do they still have a no INDIANs policy?

Don't know. I was busy checking out girls, not guys. But but of the few I saw I didn't register anything but caucasians and maybe a couple of SE asians.

[PgReal]

I am as far as you can get from being Asian and whenever I go to Thermae, I never have any issues. Guys go in there with a preconceived idea and that's the experience they end up with. Laws of attraction right? Ya some of the girls prefer Asian guys. So what? Why do they though? I will tell you why. Asian guys don't complain. It's much easier for them. They just tell the guy how much, he accepts or declines and that's it. Not drama. Western guys just go in and talk talk talk talk and drama and conditions and so the girls get bored with having to exercise all that effort.

I too have never had any negative experiences with Thermae girls or escorts / freelancers in general in Bangkok. I am white, European, over 50, balding and slightly (in my dreams) overweight. I find just a bit of common courtesy, decency and respect goes a long way. Girls suss you out quickly and I find while a lot can be a bit wary at first, we generally end up having a good laugh and chat at the end and they are more than happy to give me their line number for any future 'business' I'd like to give them.

However, serious question, do you guys which more experience (long term local knowledge) think a lot of this 'anti Farang' thing comes from a simple case of the language barrier, in that it's easier a lot of the time for local girls to deal with Asian guys? Or am I simplifying the issue too much?

I don't know why but when I first visited Thailand I mistakenly thought most young Thai's in particular (say under 25 or 30) would have a better standard of English, on reflection I don't know why I assumed that and it's down to my own ignorance. But I still find myself going up to people in restaurants, shops (bars, and clubs) and break into English assuming they'll understand me without even realising I am doing it. Also I find many girls with a basic grasp of English want to communicate but a lot gets lost in translation which can make things awkward and it's so important that we 'Farangs' cop onto that and manage the situation carefully to respect the girls and make sure they always feel comfortable around us. Not forgetting to respect their cultural values.

I know English isn't everyone's first language on this forum, I am just using it as an example.

[Raj Patela]

I am as far as you can get from being Asian and whenever I go to Thermae, I never have any issues. Guys go in there with a preconceived idea and that's the experience they end up with. Laws of attraction right? Ya some of the girls prefer Asian guys. So what? Why do they though? I will tell you why. Asian guys don't complain. It's much easier for them. They just tell the guy how much, he accepts or declines and that's it. Not drama. Western guys just go in and talk talk talk talk and drama and conditions and so the girls get bored with having to exercise all that effort.

Last night I saw Nana School berating an old Farang. I think he wanted too much for too little money.

I was in Horror just seeing a potential customer with her. Maybe my Hype ING her did some Good.

[EverythingThai]

Absolutely. Guys who are rejected at Thermae always come on here saying Thermae girls only want Japanese and Koreans. Not true. Been to Thermae with happy go lucky Farang and they have a blast. Been to Thermae with guys who don't smile and then I hear they didn't want me. Well who would with that grumpy look on your face? Been to Thermae with guys who don't know how to properly talk to a girl. Again I hear that Thermae girls only want Asians. I'm not even close to Brad Pitt in looks but I know how to smile and charm a girl in her early 20's. Learn that and you will do just fine at Thermae and every other venue in Thailand. Thermae girls want to enjoy the hour they have to spend with you too.

I am as far as you can get from being Asian and whenever I go to Thermae, I never have any issues. Guys go in there with a preconceived idea and that's the experience they end up with. Laws of attraction right? Ya some of the girls prefer Asian guys. So what? Why do they though? I will tell you why. Asian guys don't complain. It's much easier for them. They just tell the guy how much, he accepts or declines and that's it. Not drama. Western guys just go in and talk talk talk talk and drama and conditions and so the girls get bored with having to exercise all that effort.

[Nyezhov]

On this day of thanksgiving I'd like to share what I'm thankful for. I'm thankful for Thailand! It's about the power dynamics. That's what it's all about ain't it folks? More often than not, I feel like I'm being stamped down, walked all over and just barely getting by. You look at your 401 k, your IRA, paying your shitty mortgage, up to your neck in medical bills, looking back at your miserable life, and you think to yourself, God. Life sucks. But then you go to Thailand, and you realize the chicks you're banging have way more terrible lives than you do. Much more than you could even begin to conceive, cause think about it. Would they really be banging your ugly mug if they had the cash not to? What kind of world exists where opportunities are so lacking, and situations are such that they have to resort to sex to pay the bills? As shitty as my life is, that's why I love Thailand so much, cause when I'm there, I can be reminded of how much worse other people have it. Hence, it's all about the power dynamics. We get pushed around at work, we have to suck up to management, etc. But when we be in Thailand, we hold the cards. Even in Europe, some of the chicks doing this for a living, are better than most of us financially, believe you me. But in Thailand, odds are pretty high, 9 out of 10 chicks there you pay for sex are way worse off than joe average flying in from the states, I'm just saying. We don't want to admit it fellas, but it's a form of poverty tourism. Us throwing our weight around, and for some folks from north America, quite literally fat ass dudes throwing their weight around, hah! The kind of mindset where you're there to gawp at the poor brown people, but be all up in their culture and stuff, but really it's all about just lording it over them. That's why I'm saying fellas. Don't waste your lives. Go to South East Asia. I'm not quite there yet financially, but by God, when I can, believe you me, I will.

How many wars are happening right now? There's so much uncertainty in the world. And here I am counting the days until I can retire near to Thailand. Why can't I risk it all and do it now or soon, I just don't know. Decades and decades of being brainwashed into thinking you need x amount of cash just to get by, when what if, maybe, just maybe you can get by on less? Then again, you don't want to end up like some of them white dudes homeless on the streets of Pattaya. Reports were coming in about them some 10 plus years ago, odds are most of them are dead by now, but then again, there's not many places better than Thailand to die in. I'm thankful for Bangkok! The city that exists for one reason, and one reason only.

Do you feel better now that you have let it all out?

[Nyezhov]

Absolutely. Guys who are rejected at Thermae always come on here saying Thermae girls only want Japanese and Koreans. Not true. Been to Thermae with happy go lucky Farang and they have a blast. Been to Thermae with guys who don't smile and then I hear they didn't want me. Well who would with that grumpy look on your face? Been to Thermae with guys who don't know how to properly talk to a girl. Again I hear that Thermae girls only want Asians. I'm not even close to Brad Pitt in looks but I know how to smile and charm a girl in her early 20's. Learn that and you will do just fine at Thermae and every other venue in Thailand. Thermae girls want to enjoy the hour they have to spend with you too.

Dude my entire schtick is totally happy old man. I have had girls grab me and say "you are happy man". After money, they want happy.

Happy and fun beats looks and arrogance.

[Newton York]

On this day of thanksgiving I'd like to share what I'm thankful for. I'm thankful for Thailand! It's about the power dynamics. That's what it's all about ain't it folks? More often than not, I feel like I'm being stamped down, walked all over and just barely getting by. You look at your 401 k, your IRA, paying your shitty mortgage, up to your neck in medical bills, looking back at your miserable life, and you think to yourself, God. Life sucks. But then you go to Thailand, and you realize the chicks you're banging have way more terrible lives than you do. Much more than you could even begin to conceive, cause think about it. Would they really be banging your ugly mug if they had the cash not to? What kind of world exists where opportunities are so lacking, and situations are such that they have to resort to sex to pay the bills? As shitty as my life is, that's why I love Thailand so much, cause when I'm there, I can be reminded of how much worse other people have it. Hence, it's all about the power dynamics. We get pushed around at work, we have to suck up to management, etc. But when we be in Thailand, we hold the cards. Even in Europe, some of the chicks doing this for a living, are better than most of us financially, believe you me. But in Thailand, odds are pretty high, 9 out of 10 chicks there you pay for sex are way worse off than joe average flying in from the states, I'm just saying. We don't want to admit it fellas, but it's a form of poverty tourism. Us throwing our weight around, and for some folks from north America, quite literally fat ass dudes throwing their weight around, hah! The kind of mindset where you're there to gawp at the poor brown people, but be all up in their culture and stuff, but really it's all about just lording it over them. That's why I'm saying fellas. Don't waste your lives. Go to South East Asia. I'm not quite there yet financially, but by God, when I can, believe you me, I will.

How many wars are happening right now? There's so much uncertainty in the world. And here I am counting the days until I can retire near to Thailand. Why can't I risk it all and do it now or soon, I just don't know. Decades and decades of being brainwashed into thinking you need x amount of cash just to get by, when what if, maybe, just maybe you can get by on less? Then again, you don't want to end up like some of them white dudes homeless on the streets of Pattaya. Reports were coming in about them some 10 plus years ago, odds are most of them are dead by now, but then again, there's not many places better than Thailand to die in. I'm thankful for Bangkok! The city that exists for one reason, and one reason only.

[Banana Boi]

And for many of the girls, it's not worth it for them to deal with unattractive mongers with arrogant and misogynistic attitudes who think and act like they are high class men instead of just gutter crawling perverts.

Absolutely. Guys who are rejected at Thermae always come on here saying Thermae girls only want Japanese and Koreans. Not true. Been to Thermae with happy go lucky Farang and they have a blast. Been to Thermae with guys who don't smile and then I hear they didn't want me. Well who would with that grumpy look on your face? Been to Thermae with guys who don't know how to properly talk to a girl. Again I hear that Thermae girls only want Asians. I'm not even close to Brad Pitt in looks but I know how to smile and charm a girl in her early 20's. Learn that and you will do just fine at Thermae and every other venue in Thailand. Thermae girls want to enjoy the hour they have to spend with you too.

[AmPervert]

...Thermae...independent contractors.

Some form of Empowerment. We should encourage this. I stay out of the clubs that seem as though they have farm girls who have been sold a bright, shining city bill of goods or are somehow in debt.
I like the women that control what they are doing. Their bodies, their choice even if you don't like that choice!

...Happened to my wingman and many guys. A regular client I know has the bad habit....

You need to dump some wingmen. lol

[Captain Solo]

I found most Thermea women below average in looks and manners, but was never turned down by them. If anyone turns me down I just move on to the next ones. Always had good sexy times with a few nice, pretty ones.

I saw a bunch of them talk rough with nasty, disgusted expressions when a couple Western guys, may be Euro or Americano, walked into the place separately. They may have known those guys in the past, but nice people would never show ugly expressions like those in public without cause. I found ugly expressions only with Thermae women. Girls in bars, on streets, on line, escorts ect have all been very nice and sweet, except a few transsexuals.

Bar girls in Tijuana are not employees but are independent contractors. They do what they please. They do turn down lots of guys for drinks or sex by age, looks, dress, manners ect. They can call security over to throw out or ban guys who cop free feels, or act rude to them. Happened to my wingman and many guys. A regular client I know has the bad habit of bullshitting girls about his infatuation and love for them. A woman got pissed off with his bullshit, claimed he abused her and had the guy banned from the club.

HK knows the girls are the main attractions that bring in clients. They treat the girls very well as their main assets with flexible work rules and relaxed work atmosphere.

I had good sexy times in both Tijuana and Bangkok.

[Goatscrot]

Thermae girls are independents so they can act out bad attitudes with no restraints. I have seen them giving dirty looks and shit talks to Euro guys. It's not worth dealing with hookers with haughty attitudes who think and act like they are high-class women.

I was in Billboard and Rainbow in Nana Plaza this month. Guys would buy $5 LDs and just sit and talk with bar girls in their broken monkey English. There was no closeness, touching, groping, poking. They were very chaste.

In Tijuana's Hong Kong club, guys buy a $10 LD most times can do DFK, mutual squeezing, groping, grinding in the middle of the club. Girls would rub, grope, grind on guys to get them aroused enough, could not resist, have to pay for sessions in the hotel. Happened to me a few times, got way aroused by hot girls touching even tired after multiple sessions.

I had girls sitting with me in HK's dark secluded spots. We were DFKing, mutually groping under the clothes, I was toying with her clit until she got drenching wet and exploded in an O. A new wingman was shocked and embarrassed of our public display of passion hehe.

Other guys claimed to have had BBBJ, one even BBFS in Chicago Club. I have seen Chicago's hot young girls take out guys' dicks and do BBBJ in the middle of the club. I had my fingers up hot girls' wet and warm pussies many times in Chicago Club.

Yeah, the entire scene is so different than it was when a first moved to Bangkok about a quarter of a century ago. Thermae was very interactive then and you would walk around the place and gals would grab your unit and be extra flirtatious and interactive. Same was true of the bars. I remember my first night in Bangkok sitting in long gun and within 10 minutes I was locked in a DFK and heavy petting session. I believe the change in the girls behavior went hand in hand with the change of punter demographics. Our East Asian brethren prefer girls to be not as aggressive and really shun public displays of affection unless it is in a bar specific for that task. I've not been impressed with Themae in well over a decade. Back in the early 00's I would pull two to three times a week from the place. Never discussed price, it was always 1 K, and sometimes didn't even get the girl's name till the deed was done. Another fun fact is the gals all talked about the regular punters so many times you take a gal and even though you hadn't been with her before she would know what you were into. Good times.

[Asian_Pimp]

Thermae girls are independents so they can act out bad attitudes with no restraints. I have seen them giving dirty looks and shit talks to Euro guys. It's not worth dealing with hookers with haughty attitudes who think and act like they are high-class women.

I was in Billboard and Rainbow in Nana Plaza this month. Guys would buy $5 LDs and just sit and talk with bar girls in their broken monkey English. There was no closeness, touching, groping, poking. They were very chaste.

In Tijuana's Hong Kong club, guys buy a $10 LD most times can do DFK, mutual squeezing, groping, grinding in the middle of the club. Girls would rub, grope, grind on guys to get them aroused enough, could not resist, have to pay for sessions in the hotel. Happened to me a few times, got way aroused by hot girls touching even tired after multiple sessions.

I had girls sitting with me in HK's dark secluded spots. We were DFKing, mutually groping under the clothes, I was toying with her clit until she got drenching wet and exploded in an O. A new wingman was shocked and embarrassed of our public display of passion hehe.

Other guys claimed to have had BBBJ, one even BBFS in Chicago Club. I have seen Chicago's hot young girls take out guys' dicks and do BBBJ in the middle of the club. I had my fingers up hot girls' wet and warm pussies many times in Chicago Club.

I have been to Thermae Girls multiple times. I agree with you that some girls there have attitudes. But have you ever wondered why they would do such a thing when they don't do it to everyone else? They are FREELANCERS. Which means they can refuse anyone. Girls in HK and Chicago are more of an employee than a freelancer. They will fuck you if you pay them. Maybe you are just not accustomed to being turned down even if you pay them and sounds like you should stay away from Thailand altogether and just go to Tijuana.

[Nyezhov]

Thermae girls are independents so they can act out bad attitudes with no restraints. I have seen them giving dirty looks and shit talks to Euro guys. It's not worth dealing with hookers with haughty attitudes who think and act like they are high-class women.

And for many of the girls, it's not worth it for them to deal with unattractive mongers with arrogant and misogynistic attitudes who think and act like they are high class men instead of just gutter crawling perverts.