Thread: Stupid shit in Medellin
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12-30-23 16:07 #6936
Posts: 4051It is like every other premium price point in the game. You are not paying for a good performance or even sex. You are paying a premium for fantasy, illusion, make up, sometimes plastic surgery, furnishings, air freshener, etc. It's all good as long as we don't get caught up in the bullshit like gamblers who think they are going to change their lives if they just keep playing until the big score comes.
Originally Posted by Gabacho [View Original Post]
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12-30-23 16:03 #6935
Posts: 4051I'm going to make a big bowl of popcorn and watch the rebuttals from guys who really believe the seeking lore. This should be good, even though Mr. E spoiled some of the fun with this response.
Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
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12-29-23 17:02 #6934
Posts: 50Originally Posted by Zenduka1 [View Original Post]
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12-29-23 13:21 #6933
Posts: 16002Originally Posted by Zenduka1 [View Original Post]
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12-29-23 04:04 #6932
Posts: 1277Originally Posted by Zenduka1 [View Original Post]
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12-28-23 22:57 #6931
Posts: 272Originally Posted by Gabacho [View Original Post]
Seeking is a big ripoff. I tried it for a Month, most of them wasted my time, blah blah for days only when I tried to arrange something they back away, one came and she was a twisted ugly old rag who was a former street prostitute, another I met, she was average but ok looking and she said she is not sex for a hire but want real Sugar / baby / Daddy relationship although I made it clear to her what I wanted and she agreed.
If you have money to throw away then get one of these who want thousands per month only for you to be with them few times. If you are trying to find sex for pay as you go, do not use this site.
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12-28-23 22:19 #6930
Posts: 162Originally Posted by Villainy [View Original Post]
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12-27-23 21:33 #6929
Posts: 681Originally Posted by Huacho [View Original Post]
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12-25-23 17:16 #6928
Posts: 1277Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
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12-25-23 06:20 #6927
Posts: 723Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
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12-24-23 20:09 #6926
Posts: 3331Originally Posted by Gabacho [View Original Post]
The real issue though is on the guy and screening the woman. If I was particularly smitten with a woman's photos, there were times I would ditch my screening techniques, and that is when they were issues. If someone were a teacher, I would say tell me about your lesson plans. If an actress, tell me about what your last job was ETC. It would not take long to tell if the women were full of shit or not.
And my preference was always to meet them in a hotel where there were cameras all around. It was not 100% safe but it was safer than going to Santa Fe or Centro.
As far as seeing fewer and better women, I get you, but there is a difference between many of the women off of seeking and the hookers / strippers ETC. They both want money, but many of the seeking women did not want the feeling of being a hooker. If a woman meets a guy in a bar and fucks him and does not ask for money, she is not a hooker. The idea is seeking is the same thing but the man is helping the woman out. You may see that is the same as a woman selling herself for sex, but many women feel differently fucking a sugar daddy over a john.
And the opposite is the guy wanting to believe he is helping a woman out versus paying for sex. You can see Mr. E needling me on this subject. You ARE paying for sex. You ARE paying women to like you. He thinks he is always right, but the thing is I am asking myself those same questions about the women. And just as you had the experience when a woman turned out to be all about the money, I have met several of the same. In fact, I would be hard pressed to say I have met a stripper / hooker / cam girl who was not like that.
Still, I have met many women on seeking I have met who are not just all about the money, and the guys who have used the site have seen the same thing. It is not just you can get said women from seeking. It is just the easiest place for someone visiting to do it that I know of.
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12-23-23 17:44 #6925
Posts: 1277Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
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12-23-23 13:48 #6924
Posts: 1277Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
As far as wanting as many women as possible, I was in a marriage type relationship for like 7 years right off the bar when I was younger and I felt like I wasted my best years when I could have been out exploring instead being tied down to just one woman. Then after her another one for 3 years LOL. So now I just want to test drive and move on. I guess I'm trying to make up for lost time idk. But to each his own.
I e had a cpl chicas here in Medellin that I genuinely liked being with. Like Reimarby, the one I took on the santa marta trip back in 2021 but I realized that it was all just a show she was putting in for me to keep me fucking her and giving her money instead of broadening my horizons, so I stopped seeing her and moved on.
For me it's better not to get emotional or worry about if a chica likes me or not because I don't want to be with just one I want to keep test driving.
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12-23-23 05:31 #6923
Posts: 3331Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
If she had a job where she could work, and I quit mine, and we spent every night together, that would be heaven for her.
I guess you have never had a woman determined to be a good partner.
It is funny for me to be getting used to this, but when a couple has luggage, it is customary for the man to carry the heavier load. Not her. She carries everything and if she cannot do it on her own, she makes her daughter carry what is left. She won't let me carry the luggage. That is symbolic of who she wants to be in our relationship.
You seem hell bent to believe she is all about the money even though you have never met her. What does that say about you?
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12-23-23 05:17 #6922
Posts: 3331Originally Posted by Gabacho [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by Gabacho [View Original Post]
The downside is that she was naive about relationships and put me on a pedestal, and I did not want to be around once I came off. IOW, she liked me too much without knowing me that well, and she was in school. I was going to have to be there for her when the realism of a relationship and the work place hit her, and the reality of the law is cold and hard. That naivete is the downside of relationships with the 18 to 23 ish range women IMO.
Thing is the women in Colombia remind me of people I used to hire. With white collar people, they responded great to incentives. Blue collar folks took that as license to steal, so I had to learn that to get the best out of them was to kick their ass if they did not do the work. So I get your attitude about I don't give a fuck about them because that was the way I was with blue collar types. If you do not do the job, I will find someone who will. The hookers / strippers / centro gals think kindness is weakness. Long term for them is tomorrow.
But many white collars in Colombia do not make that much. One of the first women I met was in Barranquilla. She was a 9, great in bed, nice, ambitious, and she was working at a bank making $300 a month. She looked like a younger Thandiwe Newton. If I were there, I would be like, "Hey, why don't you go part time and I will cover your salary. You can see me versus going to work, and I am a lot more fun. " That is where the woman liking you and trusting you pays off. If she likes you, then you are banging a smoking hot classy intelligent woman two or three times a week as much as you want for $150 a month. I don't get the fucking as many women as you can. Why would you want 20 hookers who are just in it for the money over two or three women who are better looking and better in bed and like you and actually want to please you?
Of course, the ultimate reason for the girl to like you is you fuck them for free. If a woman brought up price, then I would talk about it, but I have met women who fucked me without a price. I just used seeking to meet them but if I were there and could network, I would have not had needed it. I cannot tell you how many times I have had to tell guys not to mention price in Colombia.