Seeking Arrangements

[NoBuglyFitches]

How did you see her profile if you'd deleted your account? Is it possible to browse seeking profiles without an active (unpaid) account?

I will not go into how to view profiles without a paid account because I don't want that loophole shut down.

What loophole? I thought you found a way to browse profiles without an UNPAID account, I. E. Without logging in at all. Like you can read this forum without logging in. Perhaps I'm missing something here. It certainly possible to create a dummy / lurker account on SA. It's also possible to let your paid subscription expire and continue to use that account to view profiles. But when you make a new account and a new subscription, SA may detect that you now have more than one active account, which can get you banned.

I have a girl account that I use to scope out the competition. After using it for about 20 min I convinced myself I'm a catch

This can also get you banned if SA algos catch you. Also, many SD profiles (competition) are hidden.

[Gfefan]

I do the same. Lurk around, find profiles that interest me, make a secret note.

My thinking is the exact opposite. I want them to think I'm a seeking virgin and therefore gullible and inexperienced. I do this by writing a somewhat substantial, wity / pithy profile and no scammer would spend near that much time or have that much wit. I've never had an issue with a lack of any kind of varification and wouldn't pay a dime to do so with hacking scandals happening every other week these days. If I'm really interested in a girl and she doesn't reply I just chalk it up to the fact that she has hundreds of choices and I don't fit the bill. Nothing personal, move along now. If she is interested I take a pic of my license plate making very sure the badges are readable right after we agree on a nuetral meeting place and she knows I'm the real deal.

I've said this before, I have a girl account that I use to scope out the competition. After using it for about 20 min I convinced myself I'm a catch (to sound arrogant as fuck) but it's true. There are way too many guys out of their league and / or way too old to be chasing 20 yr olds. I haven't delected that account but I probably should as I haven't logged in in well over a year.

I will not go into how to view profiles without a paid account because I don't want that loophole shut down. I'm assuming that since most of you are successful enough to spends hundreds or more for a single date, you're intelligent enough to make said money and are therefore intelligent enough to figure it out yourself. If you can't then just call me a liar, I'm good with that.

[FilthyBeaver]

For me it's not a matter of if, it's a matter of what nationality.

Yeah right now I scoff at these guys that pay for platonic. I don't know I would ever get there. But I can def visualize myself at 80 w a hot live in girlfriend and we don't ever have serious sex. Just watch her booping around in her bikini. Giving me the doe eyes at dinner. Sweet kisses cuddling and affection. Maybe a BJ a couple times a month. I'the be good. Happy to pay her and keep her happy for that.

[FilthyBeaver]

My thinking is the exact opposite. I want them to think I'm a seeking virgin and therefore gullible and inexperienced. I do this by writing a somewhat substantial, wity / pithy profile and no scammer would spend near that much time or have that much wit. I've never had an issue with a lack of any kind of varification and wouldn't pay a dime to do so with hacking scandals happening every other week these days. If I'm really interested in a girl and she doesn't reply I just chalk it up to the fact that she has hundreds of choices and I don't fit the bill. Nothing personal, move along now. If she is interested I take a pic of my license plate making very sure the badges are readable right after we agree on a nuetral meeting place and she knows I'm the real deal.

I've said this before, I have a girl account that I use to scope out the competition. After using it for about 20 min I convinced myself I'm a catch (to sound arrogant as fuck) but it's true. There are way too many guys out of their league and / or way too old to be chasing 20 yr olds. I haven't delected that account but I probably should as I haven't logged in in well over a year.

I will not go into how to view profiles without a paid account because I don't want that loophole shut down. I'm assuming that since most of you are successful enough to spends hundreds or more for a single date, you're intelligent enough to make said money and are therefore intelligent enough to figure it out yourself. If you can't then just call me a liar, I'm good with that.

Recently was only my 2nd time using Seeking. I'll only use it when I need it, but I would never do that for a specific reason. There are all sorts of verification you can get on Seeking, anywhere from ID verified, to photo verification check. Also, if you get the criminal background check, the icon stays on your profile, but it also tells female members when the check was performed. Then also they have them for social media accounts like Instagram, etc. But maybe more importantly is when your profile was created. "Member since" at least indicates you likely have not engaged in any behavior that someone felt was bad enough that they reported you, and Seeking banned your account. From my perspective, I'd think it way less likely a member who has been on there for 2 years would be running a scam, as opposed to a profile that is 2 days old.

Anyway, I would imagine if you delete your account, getting some of those verification back if you created a "new account", particularly ID verified and some of the others, would be next to impossible. While I certainly didn't conduct business with all the girls I exchanged messages with, I heard back from almost everyone. And I got a lot of messages from members I was not expecting. And that's considering I did not put my net worth or salary at the maximum setting possible on Seeking. And if I was a woman in this business, regardless of whether I was predatory or legit, I probably would be going for the richest guy possible. I certainly could be wrong, but I'm guessing that a significant number of female members on there won't contact new guy's accounts without any verifications, even if they list their annual income as more than a million, and net worth at more than 100 million. If the girl is legit, I doubt she'd want to put her safety at risk on some guy making grandiose claims, but yet won't even make the effort to get some simple verifications. That being said, I'm sure for those guys who are married, they are terrified about their spouses discovering their dirty little secret, and probably don't want their profiles up a day longer than needed.

[GoingDumb]

Midwestern, BlueMoon, DramaFree et al. Do tell. Let's get some more retrospectives in here. I know you are killing it out there!

Highlight of last year was Spain for me. Had a good sa experience on my first trip, but met a great girl on the second. More of an alt look. Short hair, piercing. So not really my style but she was so open and sexy we just hit it off. I had such a good time I went back to spain instead of an FKK trip I had planned a few months later to see her. Hard to imagine a better time than being on a rooftop bar with a sexy girl having a few drinks late into the morning and trying to speak bad spanish haha. We even did it on the roof of the hotel one night, which was probably the most memorable experience. Overall 3 really good experiences and 1 average in spain. Plus the p4 p scene is there too.

In the fall had some local success, although one was my first std scare. Still had a memorable experience where I was playing with her standing up and she was literally dripping down her leg onto the floor.

Last year was quality over quantity. I feel like I got too excited finding sa in 22 and was trying to fuck too much. Looking back most encounters that year were quick 1-2 hours at the hotel only but the GFE is more fun.

[NoBuglyFitches]

for those guys who are married, they are terrified about their spouses discovering their dirty little secret, and probably don't want their profiles up a day longer than needed.

Maybe the old profile was blocked or hidden by some hot SBs. Not because you some issue with them -- they simply left-swiped you in favor of other guys. So a new profile gives you a second chance with them.

I also read of Seeking banning or closing down SD profiles that have been active for a few years. Those guys didn't know if they'd accumulated complaints, or Seeking simply decided that this wasn't the kind of user they wanted on their platform. So, maybe it makes sense to delete your account if you won't be using it for a while and then start anew.

My question for FB, which he didn't really answer, was how was he able to view girls' profiles if closed his account. And if keeps some old account open, just for viewing profiles, does he then open a new account and have two open accounts? I thought having more that one account on Seeking was also a violation which could get you banned.

From my perspective, I'd think it way less likely a member who has been on there for 2 years would be running a scam, as opposed to a profile that is 2 days old.

For paid members, there is an option to hide how long you've been there. I suspect it's commonly used so most SD profiles would be age unknown to SBs. But when you stop paying, that info becomes visible again.

And I got a lot of messages from members I was not expecting.

Scammers and rinsers target new SD accounts, watch out for that.

[VanessasClient]

I obviously had an account. My point is I don't keep an account any longer than I'm willing to pay which is generally a month. The answer to your second question is yes but I'll let you figure that out.

Recently was only my 2nd time using Seeking. I'll only use it when I need it, but I would never do that for a specific reason. There are all sorts of verification you can get on Seeking, anywhere from ID verified, to photo verification check. Also, if you get the criminal background check, the icon stays on your profile, but it also tells female members when the check was performed. Then also they have them for social media accounts like Instagram, etc. But maybe more importantly is when your profile was created. "Member since" at least indicates you likely have not engaged in any behavior that someone felt was bad enough that they reported you, and Seeking banned your account. From my perspective, I'd think it way less likely a member who has been on there for 2 years would be running a scam, as opposed to a profile that is 2 days old.

Anyway, I would imagine if you delete your account, getting some of those verification back if you created a "new account", particularly ID verified and some of the others, would be next to impossible. While I certainly didn't conduct business with all the girls I exchanged messages with, I heard back from almost everyone. And I got a lot of messages from members I was not expecting. And that's considering I did not put my net worth or salary at the maximum setting possible on Seeking. And if I was a woman in this business, regardless of whether I was predatory or legit, I probably would be going for the richest guy possible. I certainly could be wrong, but I'm guessing that a significant number of female members on there won't contact new guy's accounts without any verifications, even if they list their annual income as more than a million, and net worth at more than 100 million. If the girl is legit, I doubt she'd want to put her safety at risk on some guy making grandiose claims, but yet won't even make the effort to get some simple verifications. That being said, I'm sure for those guys who are married, they are terrified about their spouses discovering their dirty little secret, and probably don't want their profiles up a day longer than needed.

[AmericanPi]

With all due respect, I don't know her or your relationship so the following is just a general FYI. On SB boards and forums, a story like this is one suggested tactic to get a guy to raise the PPM: tell him about another guy who "stepped up. " And if the guy doesn't volunteer that raise, she takes the off-ramp saying "I didn't like him so I won't see him again." Would she really turn down another thousand dollars plus extras because the 55-yo guy was showing her off to the waitress?

That's so interesting. I was also puzzled that somebody would turn down such a lavish gift just to hang out and bear with a boor. Now it makes sense.

[FilthyBeaver]

I obviously had an account. My point is I don't keep an account any longer than I'm willing to pay which is generally a month. The answer to your second question is yes but I'll let you figure that out.

How did you see her profile if you'd deleted your account? Is it possible to browse seeking profiles without an active (unpaid) account? As in aside, ime seeking profiles with super hot photos are usually fake or scams of some sort

[NoBuglyFitches]

I recently had a 55 year old guy take my SB on a platonic dinner date and paid her 1 K. Apparently, he also filled up her gas tank and gave her a handbag.

I know this because she told me before going on the date and filling me in details after.

With all due respect, I don't know her or your relationship so the following is just a general FYI. On SB boards and forums, a story like this is one suggested tactic to get a guy to raise the PPM: tell him about another guy who "stepped up. " And if the guy doesn't volunteer that raise, she takes the off-ramp saying "I didn't like him so I won't see him again." Would she really turn down another thousand dollars plus extras because the 55-yo guy was showing her off to the waitress?

[NoBuglyFitches]

As a reminder I delete mine once my subscription expires and start anew when the itch needs to be scratched. There was an amazingly gorgeous girl who was the primary reason for my creating that particular account but she wouldn't give me the time of day..

How did you see her profile if you'd deleted your account? Is it possible to browse seeking profiles without an active (unpaid) account? As in aside, ime seeking profiles with super hot photos are usually fake or scams of some sort

[FilthyBeaver]

Met a girl once, never spoke of money. Conversation was interesting enough but I didn't feel a spark. Slipped 300 in her coat while went to the bathroom and basically pecked her on the cheek good night. Couple hours later she thanked me very much and told me to see her again when I'm in town. So much for my ability to read signals.

Yeah right now I scoff at these guys that pay for platonic. I don't know I would ever get there. But I can def visualize myself at 80 w a hot live in girlfriend and we don't ever have serious sex. Just watch her booping around in her bikini. Giving me the doe eyes at dinner. Sweet kisses cuddling and affection. Maybe a BJ a couple times a month. I'the be good. Happy to pay her and keep her happy for that.

[Steve 9696]

Yeah right now I scoff at these guys that pay for platonic. I don't know I would ever get there. But I can def visualize myself at 80 w a hot live in girlfriend and we don't ever have serious sex. Just watch her booping around in her bikini. Giving me the doe eyes at dinner. Sweet kisses cuddling and affection. Maybe a BJ a couple times a month. I'the be good. Happy to pay her and keep her happy for that.

[VanessasClient]

I think our community here is in the dark to a certain extent.

I recently had a 55 year old guy take my SB on a platonic dinner date and paid her 1 K. Apparently, he also filled up her gas tank and gave her a handbag.

I know this because she told me before going on the date and filling me in details after.

I was expecting her to go "So, I think our deal of 300 for non-platonic ppm needs revisited" and I was fully prepared to walk off. Then, she went, "But that guy was disrespectful in how he spoke to me at dinner table. He was also showing me off to the waitress as if I am his trophy. I am glad I have someone like you who treats me with respect even when we have sex. I am not going to see that guy anymore".

I breathed a sigh. This girl has a good head on her shoulders. Keeping her.

Before she left the industry and found a conventional job that pays well (but has horrible work shifts), Ainara used to chat with me about getting elderly clients who "didn't hire her for sex, but just wanted to hang out with a beautiful girl" While she never got into too many details, I got the impression these guys were maybe 70+ or substantially older, and their "man parts" probably no longer functioned, maybe due to prostate cancer or something else that made sex not viable. What she didn't tell me is if these guys paid her the same price to spend time with her, that I paid her for a romp on the bed. I assume so, but I also recall a woman from Hawaii who used to advertise "cocktail rate" which she described as hanging out at a bar for drinks, was 1/4 the price of full service. I never paid the Hawaiian women for either, but I found her advertisement unusual.

That's too bad about Ainara. While she didn't have the most beautiful face in the world, she had wicked sexual technique, a perfect height to weight ratio body, and an ability to connect with me that few women have rivaled, despite English being her second language. Then she goes off to a highly demanding medical job with long hours, right before Covid hits the world, and health care workers start pulling double shifts. Yet I haven't seen any indication that she's made an attempt to return. Oh well, life happens.

[FilthyBeaver]

A reliable, respectable SD is worth a thousand douche bags every day of the week. There isn't a woman on the planet that wants to be treated poorly. Your attitude and personality is #1, reliability is #2, resources is #3, appearance is somewhere below those.

Douche bag guys are about as interesting as fat lipped bimbos with profiles full of pics from some hypocritical Arab country.

I've never insisted on anything exclusive, I've wanted it one or twice but never said it. I want them to meet these loosers so I look that much better and appreciate me more. The fact of the matter is most guys that monger this way have way more game than some rich nerd with no social skills who's had his head buried in a book for30+ yrs. I'll take the chance / make that bet that I'm overall better than some other guy all day long.

I think our community here is in the dark to a certain extent.

I recently had a 55 year old guy take my SB on a platonic dinner date and paid her 1 K. Apparently, he also filled up her gas tank and gave her a handbag.

I know this because she told me before going on the date and filling me in details after.

I was expecting her to go "So, I think our deal of 300 for non-platonic ppm needs revisited" and I was fully prepared to walk off. Then, she went, "But that guy was disrespectful in how he spoke to me at dinner table. He was also showing me off to the waitress as if I am his trophy. I am glad I have someone like you who treats me with respect even when we have sex. I am not going to see that guy anymore".

I breathed a sigh. This girl has a good head on her shoulders. Keeping her.