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06-15-24 03:08 #7020
Posts: 6893Originally Posted by KabulGuy [View Original Post]
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Looking for adventurous lady to go around with when I am in your town. I like to travel, eat, drink, and I enjoy music and live band. Yes I like the beach also, but a good evening is when we stay up all night together -- caliente! I am kind and generous. Contact me if your interested.
I think we posted on this topic about 6-7 years ago. I think I mentioned that I had used up-front dating profile messages like the above and was successful with them. The first one was similar to one that I used for several years, 2010-2013-ish. It was different than anything I'd seen before. The actual profile message was actually just a tad harsher than the one above. It quickly eliminated a lot of ladies looking only for LTR. OTOH not all of them, as some ladies who contacted me who said they were fine with spending a few days / nights with me professed on their own profile that they were seeking LTR only. I never made first contact with any girls when using this type of profile, I waited to see who contacted me first. Hence, even though the profile got fewer initial replies than a regular profile -- "I like long walks on the beach, holding hands blah blah" -- those that replied were in the game from the start.
Around 2015 I created a new such DIA profile using similar language, and it didn't get approved. I was told to tone it down, so I did (see the second profile message). That one flew and I was back off to the races. I've never had or left a profile up for more than 90 days. Putting it up a week or so before entering the country, and taking it down upon returning to my home country was plenty.
Caveat: I also got initial responses from ladies who were upset with the profile itself, and some asked me to take it down, or reported it to Admin. Such is life. Also I move the conversation to WA or other off-site app ASAP, immediately if possible. I blocked girls in the dating site who contacted me and didn't have my off-site apps.
I am not sure if that would fly at all today.
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06-14-24 19:39 #7019
Posts: 3469Originally Posted by KabulGuy [View Original Post]
I've found it more effective to get straight to the point in messages rather than the profiles but YMMV. Brutally frank profiles can scare off curious girls. However, at the messaging stage they need little convincing. It's very effective at quickly weeding out the time wasters.
Enjoy. G.
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06-13-24 10:51 #7018
Posts: 989I saw a post on FB a while ago, it was a repost of one from the dating group, the guy was 100% honest and blunt as to what he wanted, short petite, open minded willing to stay home cook clean and fuck. Offered a pretty generous allowance.
I have never been that blunt on dating site profiles, but have thought about it. I have cone close, perhaps a little too vague for someone whose second language is English.
Anyone try something along those lines? How did it work out?
I am thinking a lot fewer responses, some pros and scammers but perhaps a few good gems for live in relationship?
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05-21-24 14:31 #7017
Posts: 137Originally Posted by Aml3740 [View Original Post]
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04-03-24 20:35 #7016
Posts: 147Originally Posted by WestCoast1 [View Original Post]
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03-31-24 12:56 #7015
Posts: 165Philosophy
Originally Posted by Aml3740 [View Original Post]
I gave the flower seller my underpants as she was broke. I looked at her sleeping naked on my bed. Pretty bit too jaded to be sexy, at least for me. I look at those women around rthe Roman Hotel and take a deep breath. Walking St and Balibago is just one small piece of Angeles and there is a big life beyond it.
I threw a post out there to see what guys thought. My girl is a keeper. I am not but I do appreciate such folk.
In our little commune, there was a bar girl (with a Korean paying the bills, as they all have). They are as predictable as a baby and a waste of money. Nice but tainted by being with too many morons.
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03-31-24 11:55 #7014
Posts: 16102Originally Posted by Aml3740 [View Original Post]
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03-31-24 09:43 #7013
Posts: 72Originally Posted by Jarango [View Original Post]
But I do appreciate your thoughts. I've been on both sides. I have a Filipina wife and girlfriend +, and I have seen my fair share of Filipinas for mongering, too. But, sometimes you meet that one girl who changes everything for you. It changes how you look (or don't look) at other women, and what you will and will not do. For me, I love my wife, but I still played the game. But when I met my new lady, I lost that desire. Honestly, the girls I met for "fun" gave me better sex, but what I felt when I was with her, and the energy from her, is something I haven't gotten from anyone else, and I don't want anyone else. I love the fact I can call at anytime and she answers right away. I don't worry about where she is and who she is with or what she is doing because she tells me without me asking. And usually calls to show me. And I did give her a baby, due in a few months, so I get it, and a one year-old with my wife. And several kids with my first wife. I could have a softball team by now! But that's the beautiful thing. Everyone has their own preferences and desires. As long as it isn't hurting anyone, then enjoy!
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03-31-24 01:22 #7012
Posts: 6893Originally Posted by RollAides [View Original Post]
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03-30-24 15:15 #7011
Posts: 16102Originally Posted by Jarango [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by Jarango [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by Jarango [View Original Post]
Same as the mfs that meant well wanted to close all the mental hospitals in the States. Now the folks that would have otherwise been taken care of in those facilities are where? Right. On the streets homeless. The road to hell is paved with good intentions.
All I was saying is that it is best to live with someone before talking about how good they would be to marry. You never really know a person until you live with them. And even then you still may not really know them.
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03-30-24 11:46 #7010
Posts: 6893Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
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03-30-24 09:44 #7009
Posts: 165Hey Mr Negative
Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
As regards the middle part of your post, I respect and feel for people who are being fucked around, as the vast majority of Pinoys are. And don't give me your crap. Foreigners, Chinese and rich Pinoys have milked them down the ages. I prefer their company and their quiet heroism to decrepit losers in Walking St.
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03-30-24 02:42 #7008
Posts: 16102Originally Posted by Jarango [View Original Post]
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03-29-24 23:18 #7007
Posts: 165Marriage Material
I was lucky enough to meet a lovely woman and her friends in Angeles and I posted a garbled account in the Angels thread. Today is Good Friday and my lady's friend was badgered to go back to work by some plump Chinese tramp. The Philippines has lots of lovely women but they get screwed over with slave wages and slave conditions. My lady is a keeper and would be perfect for me, except I am not. And nor is Don Malo, who should change the record.
I am thinking of returning in a few months and giving my lady the baby she needs. Though it is easy to mock their desire to procreate, it is an ambition, an effort to give meaning to their lives.
I am now 70 and she is less than half my age, a fact some have noted though she is cool with it (she thinks I am 20 years younger).
The Philippines has a lot of negatives: weather, poor infrastructure etc but women are a plus. Good, simple, no nonsense.
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02-11-24 04:54 #7006
Posts: 72Discretionary Spending
Originally Posted by RollAides [View Original Post]
There are definitely a lot of pitfalls if you're looking for a filipina to take abroad. You're right that you should seek an educated girl, or at least one with a good head on her shoulders. One of mine has a BA in Economics and the other one was working since she was a young teenager, but is going to school now in her early 20's while she manages her own business. Education comes in different forms, but self-motivation is the common factor, and a drive to do well with whatever you do.
I will say, too, that Filipinas (provincial girls in particular) are prone to being very superstitious about almost anything. That was a little bit of culture shock to me 😅.