Seeking Arrangements

[Steve 9696]

I can understand why the vast majority of guys dismiss Seeking as a waste of time. It requires amazing patience and persistence but is def the best gig in town in the US if you exercise both. Twice now I've been stood up but then grasped victory from the jaws of defeat.

The first was when traveling recently. I ran into the "my mom needs medicine" scam where I was literally at the restaurant when she hit me with this BS. Annoying yes, and I'm pretty darn good at this game, but par for the course. I took it in stride and hit up a fat girl and had a wonderful time including the legendary "fat girls try harder" blowjob. But I'm not going to settle there. Next day I score a Mexican hottie for only three bills and she is absolutely dynamite. So much fun as a person and great in bed. The whole package. Taking her in a business trip w me soon. Patience and Persistence.

The second was just this week. My hometown is total shit for Seeking and I recently broke off my two year arrangement with Shayla. I had settled for another heavy girl with a pretty face and we were headed out to drinks and maybe some apps. Now this time it wasn't a scam but I think she just got cold feet. She texts that she's just getting out of work and then says she's too nervous and ends up bagging out.

Do I cry in my beer? No, I have a nice dinner and a nice drink and start chatting up other girls. I'm quite forward when I drink so this one Mexican hottie (totally out of character for my hometown) they I have taken to text is babysitting and we start chatting. I'm very forward and saying come right now and drink with me. She's intrigued by the confidence and while I can't get her out we set a date for next day.

Long story short she's fucking amazing. She won't fuck on the first date, and I break my cardinal rule and buy her some expensive sunglasses without having fucked. We did make out a bit and preview the goods both directions but I was def down serious $$ and questioning myself over this. But yesterday we fucked like bunnies and it was fabulous.

This brings me to the abundance mindset. As some of you know I was following the Japanese street pickup scene for a while and they talk about the abundance mindset and outcome independence. Put differently don't be so fucking thirsty it's not attractive. And this played out with my girl. I was pressuring her for a date (to fuck) and she was busy and all the rest. I realized I was being thirsty and backed off and said I know why are busy I'll just hit up in two weeks. And BAM. She's like OMG that's so long. Do you want to meet up today? Hahaha. Thank you Japanese Nanpa dudes (and PUA predecessors).

I don't think she's fucked an old guy before because I wore her out! But it was tons of fun and we def an item now.

So slog thru the BS. Spin the wheel. Get right back up when knocked down. Persist with patience and an abundance mindset and good things will happen.

Ps Anyone else noticing a trend towards bareback? Seems almost viral. Last handful of girls have all been bareback without any hesitation whatsoever. Although my recent girl had it halfway in when she asked “you’re clean right?” LOL. But yeah veritable bareback epidemic breaking out.

[DramaFree11]

I've been to GDL and CMDX many, many times. MTY has intrigued me. I understand that are many international companies there including Asian auto companies. Do you find the Asian monger has caused girls to ask for more?

FYI, well known agency in GDL asks for about 3500 mxn / 3 hrs.

The going rate in MTY is $200-300. I pay about the same in CDMX, but my average is $250 now, but that is for multiple hours or spending the night, so no complaints from me.

I do see Asian dudes regularly, but rarely with Mexican girls out in public. Occasionally girls will talk about Asian guys, but not that often.

I do know there are several Underground Karaoke Bars for Asian Dudes in MTY. I have heard as many as 5. One of the girls I was meeting worked at one of these establishments. She had no desire to quit and has been working there for several years. This was a total turn off for me, not to mention she could only meet during the dry. They have very strict schedules and rules. She also, told me that the clubs were busier during the week, and dead on the weekends, the guys would go hang out with there families during the weekends.

I love MTY, but the city has gotten way more expensive, so I would stick with Tijuana, GDL, CDMX or the beach.

[DramaFree11]

The thing that's bullshit is that the site is telling me that without a public picture my profile is only 25% complete. That's just not true! I've filled out everything else, and even have a private photo. So, how is it that my profile is only 25% complete? It wasn't only 25% complete before they started harassing me to post a public pic. I don't like their tactics, and I already don't have the highest opinion of the site in the first place. Tick me off and I'll just drop it altogether!

I think that is an accurate statement, that your profile is not complete without a picture, I would say more like 25-50% incomplete. I understand why you guys do not post your pictures, but if you are that concerned about your privacy I would not be messing with SA.

I am pretty sure a good PI can figure your identity with $200-500, so if a girl really wants to bust you, it is just not that hard.

[The Cane]

If you click on continue and continue you can upgrade without a photo.

The thing that's bullshit is that the site is telling me that without a public picture my profile is only 25% complete. That's just not true! I've filled out everything else, and even have a private photo. So, how is it that my profile is only 25% complete? It wasn't only 25% complete before they started harassing me to post a public pic. I don't like their tactics, and I already don't have the highest opinion of the site in the first place. Tick me off and I'll just drop it altogether!

[NapataJohn]

But Seeking keeps telling me my profile can't be seen without adding a pic, .

If you click on continue and continue you can upgrade without a photo.

[The Cane]

I've always been a no pic guy. But I dropped Seeking for a bit because I was so busy fucking in clubs or traveling girls I know. Well when I came back it is harassing me daily for pics and it's really annoying. So I made a face morph pic with Face App.

Ah, so it's not just me. I was wondering! Well, my circumstances are going to change, and I plan to give Seeking another go. Never heard of this "Face App". Will have to investigate. But Seeking keeps telling me my profile can't be seen without adding a pic, yet girls keep favoriting me and stuff. Hmm? I feel like I'm getting hustled to do something I don't want to do (put up a public pic).

[Steve 9696]

I've always been a no pic guy. But I dropped Seeking for a bit because I was so busy fucking in clubs or traveling girls I know. Well when I came back it is harassing me daily for pics and it's really annoying. So I made a face morph pic with Face App. That app is totally amazing. Two observations.

One. Soooo many more girls contact me. Although 80% are like not even near where I live or travel. But man it's a flood compared to a trickle.

Two. I am pretty good looking. Hahaha. I morphed myself with Brad Pitt and I look worse! Of course I am talking 60 year old Brad Pitt and he is one wrinkly mother fucker. So I got a bunch of wrinkles added. It kinda looks like me but it kinda doesn't. Definitely plausible deniability.

So def u might try this out also. Face App truly is remarkable. (U can also see urself as a girl or an old man but be forewarned it’s spot on and u can’t unsee it!) It will also do subtle enhancement if u don’t mind showing the real u. (But better!)

I'll let you know how it goes. It's really just kind of a lark because I am traveling soon and flying a super hot Mexicana from Dallas to join me. She's only $300 PPM (newbie) and hot as fuck. Absolute blast to be with and in bed also. So even with airfare she's a bargain. Plus all the benefits I described in a recent post. And once again only known her a few hours. Of course 2.5 hours of that was two rounds of nonstop sex so I know I have a winner. Lol.

[FilthyBeaver]

You made my day, thanks.

P.S. She's a pro.

Looks like I hit the jackpot. A girl who can read LOL.

[Vendelo]

CDMX is way better! Sorry about the confusion. MTY use to be much cheaper, now it is almost the same, and I get discounts. For a newbie both places will be expensive for lodging and dining out. Prices for girls has not went up that much, so that is good news.

I am able to drive to MTY, so that helped save some money. Now traffic is horrible in MTY and Lodging / Food prices are way up. I have some regulars there so it is fun, not to mention I can get a Condo with a pool and have great few days. Both places are more for the long game and multiple trips. If you are just going for a weekend stick with Tijuana or GDL. I love Mxico!

I am not sure how much longer Mxico's Economy can hang in there, with Americas Economy tanking and no signs of improvement anytime soon. All I know is every time I go back it is more expensive. Back to ordering soap and taking alcohol into the restaurants.

On side note it is sad what is happening in Colombia, as much as I hate the place, I never wanted this to happened. Now the Colombian girls will be traveling to Mexico in packs, I definitely never wanted that, but honestly most just laugh at there bad attitudes and plastic surgeries. That being said Mexican guys love the Colombian Girls, I will never understand this, but it is true.

I've been to GDL and CMDX many, many times. MTY has intrigued me. I understand that are many international companies there including Asian auto companies. Do you find the Asian monger has caused girls to ask for more?

FYI, well known agency in GDL asks for about 3500 mxn / 3 hrs.

[Vendelo]

I see "Athletic". Maybe just a glitch.

That is weird! I am a paid subscriber. Are you also a paid subscriber?

[DwayneJohnson]

Not once have I had a girl ask me about that field. You can believe about as much from any dating site as you can a salesman in any tourist area on the planet.

Looks like I hit the jackpot. A girl who can read LOL.

[Foolish]

But no body shape. What do you see?

I see "Athletic". Maybe just a glitch.

[DramaFree11]

I love Mexico as well! And despite the weak dollar and global inflation, Mexico stood still looks cheap to me because I'm from LOS Angeles. And that's even using Airbnb instead of finding a legit rental. I would never use Seeking for a short visit. I'the hate to offend someone. Do you really like Monterey? I always thought that was more of a business district without really much else going for it but it's a pretty easy drive across the border compared to most of Mexico.

CDMX is way better! Sorry about the confusion. MTY use to be much cheaper, now it is almost the same, and I get discounts. For a newbie both places will be expensive for lodging and dining out. Prices for girls has not went up that much, so that is good news.

I am able to drive to MTY, so that helped save some money. Now traffic is horrible in MTY and Lodging / Food prices are way up. I have some regulars there so it is fun, not to mention I can get a Condo with a pool and have great few days. Both places are more for the long game and multiple trips. If you are just going for a weekend stick with Tijuana or GDL. I love Mxico!

I am not sure how much longer Mxico's Economy can hang in there, with Americas Economy tanking and no signs of improvement anytime soon. All I know is every time I go back it is more expensive. Back to ordering soap and taking alcohol into the restaurants.

On side note it is sad what is happening in Colombia, as much as I hate the place, I never wanted this to happened. Now the Colombian girls will be traveling to Mexico in packs, I definitely never wanted that, but honestly most just laugh at there bad attitudes and plastic surgeries. That being said Mexican guys love the Colombian Girls, I will never understand this, but it is true.

[DwayneJohnson]

I'the just put $1 million and call it a day. To them that's a jillion. Not sure they look tho. What quotes are you getting and what cities? Your message implies you are getting like $2000 ppm quotes in Europe. That surely can't be right. Just be specific. What $ quotes are you getting?

Yes, greater than $1000 per meeting. I mostly use seeking in Finland and Estonia. There are girls quoting in range of $300-$500 but those obviously look like regular hookers with silicon, lip filters, excessive makeup etc. I prefer natural beauty and girls who are not really professionals.

[Steve 9696]

Hi.

Do you guys think it is good idea to not mention correct (high) networth or salary?

I am getting way too above market rate quotes by girls in Europe and I think it's because of my salary mentioned. I had kept real value to get quick replies but seem to have backfired. Most of them are quoting 4/5 times more than you guys are paying in US and I am not old or fat or ugly.

Thanks.

I'the just put $1 million and call it a day. To them that's a jillion. Not sure they look tho. What quotes are you getting and what cities? Your message implies you are getting like $2000 ppm quotes in Europe. That surely can't be right. Just be specific. What $ quotes are you getting?