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[Surfer]

ditto what Spamhog said. I will offer another bit of advice: I put right on my profile that I was NOT into chatting. The scammers will rarely take the time to enage in lengthy email exchanges with personal detail, so the key is no matter how cute the picture (which may well be fake) , I weed them out from the very start by the amount of personal detail that is in their emails.

Perhaps nobody will believe this, but I never had one come right out and ask for money. Yes some will hint about their economic problems, but a mere response like "yea, I know times are hard in the Philippines" (rather than an offer to send money) seems to quell the urge to outright ask for $.

I can only speak for myself, but I met several regular girls through Cherryblossoms, including one that has become my girlfriend whom I may well keep for a real long time.

[Budgie]

Well thanks for the advice.

I am now running out of mailbox space as so many have replied.

Its 100% now for those I have replied to all mention not having money to scan photos, etc.

One has a UK visa and needs a ticket to come here.

Do they think we are led by our penis and are walking ATM's.

I think this site has more scammers that real people.

Thanks for the advice.

Peter

[Spam Hog]

I joined this site 48 hours ago and the e-mails have been pouring in.

Now i need advice from those in the know.

How many are scammers on this site, as some have wasted no time in hinting that i should send them money.

(No I don't have mug stamped on my head)

I am not stupid but of the ones i have spoken to 50% were asking for money at the first chat.

Are there genuine people there?

Any advice is appreciated

Peter

I have long been a detractor of this site, I know of MANY horror stories originating from CB, but to be honest as many from Filipinaheart, adultfriendfinder and from the plain old Yahoo chats etc. So I suppose that
nowadays the 50% odds would be prevailant no matter where you seek. yes there are legitimate females seeking honest relationships as long as you understand that you are not the only one they are corresponding with, they will go and meet the first guy who comes to see them and likely snag him (marriage) if they can, so my advise is if you are seeking sincere relationship (or just a few fun flings) dont hesitate too long, also keep good relations with several of them so if one dont work out you have a fall back plan.

As far as getting hit up for money the first time or two you chat, well that is an obvious scammer or operator, what you have to be careful of is the ones who seem so damn sincere and then hit you up three months down the road when you have some feeling towards them.

Honesty is the best policy, tell the girls upfront you are not a fool and you dont send money just coz they ask and if they do ask you will wave them on just like you have with the ones who pulled that shit on you before that should weed out most of them, the rest is up to you.

good luck


Spamhog

[Budgie]

I joined this site 48 hours ago and the e-mails have been pouring in.

Now i need advice from those in the know.

How many are scammers on this site, as some have wasted no time in hinting that i should send them money.

(No I don't have mug stamped on my head)

I am not stupid but of the ones i have spoken to 50% were asking for money at the first chat.

Are there genuine people there?

Any advice is appreciated

Peter

[Finrod]

For the mongers who are interested in retiring or otherwise moving to the Phils, there are groups on Yahoo that are aimed at the expats who live there or are considering it. The groups I know about are moderated by Americans with the exception of one that is moderated by an Aussie. I'm sure if I searched harder, I could find more groups, but I have enough to look at already. Mongering is barely mentioned in those forums, but then we have ISG for that. These other groups are good for reading about many other aspects of life in the Phils, both cultural and practical. That could be helpful to someone who's considering a temporary or permanent move.

[RasSpewtin]

Spam Hog and Cebu Local:

I wish to offer a sincere thank you for taking the time to document and share some very helpful economic intel for guys like myself who are considering retiring in Cebu in the future. Really some good insights here! Would be happy to buy you guys a round or two then next time I am in Cebu, although at this point it is uncertain as to when that will be.

Cebu Local, I have gone through some of your posting history, and we share a lot of things in common in terms of relationships and geography. I am certain that we could have some interesting talks one day. Sorry that I missed when I was in Cebu back in February.

Raz

[GoodEnough]

A lot of the bright kids from mindinau will tell you that the "word is out" that Cebu is the place for them to go for a better job market.

I don't know the numbers of US companies coming in, but I see a huge increase in competition for my area of computer work. Look at the IT park, there's a heck of a lot of ground being broken. These buildings are not for Phils companies, and I know of one going up that will bring a lot of high profile outsourcing jobs (fairly "glamorous" work for a lot of people).

Already there aren't nearly enough good english speakers for the call center jobs.

I often try to talk some of the bar girls into applying at call centers. They have gone 1/2 through university and there English in a couple cases is definately better then the many call center employees I've met (the've applied for jobs or I met them through online dating sites).

As for the education, I don't read up on it but I really wonder if it's over-rated. People iin the Phils seem to have a lot of pride for schools like San Carlos, but I really don't know if they are anything like what you would get at a good uni in Europe or US. I know one thing is the profs get paid shit. I mean just dirt pay if they are locals.

Last month's IT Conference was held in Cebu, which is investing millions of pesos in trying to create a strong IT backbone to attract foreign investors. In this regard, it's ahead of many other places in the southern Philippines. Davao too is investing heaviliy, and is in the midst of completing its first IT center. That's the good news.

The bad news is that the skill level of the available labor pool in terms of program, computer animation and the more creative side of IT is fairly shallow, and the quality of computer education/computer engineering here is not where near the standard that you would find in the US or, for that matter in India. Unfortunately, the country is either unwilling or unable to invest in improving the quality of IT-related education here. That's not to say that there's no talent, but the talent pool is fairly shallow.

Virtually all call centers here require a BS or BA of their employees. Even then, an estimated 95% of the applicants fail the English Language test.

:D

GE

[Pute Nut]

I often try to talk some of the bar girls into applying at call centers. They have gone 1/2 through university and there English in a couple cases is definately better then the many call center employees I've met (the've applied for jobs or I met them through online dating sites).

Yeah, most bargirls are graduates of the famous Chicken Shit University...they tell me exactly the same story!!! Often right after calling me handsome guy..so they can't be lying!...Still they have to suck titis for a living..amazing...

Seriously though..halfway thru uni won't cut it usually. While it is often NOT required that they have graduated..AT LEAST 3-4 yrs of uni studies is usually the requirement to work in a call center. If they will work taking phone orders for US porn companies, this may be disregarded though. Part of the reason why these jobs are located in Phils is that the US porn buyers often make sexual jokes, wank off, make noises etc while placing their orders. Of course filipinas are better cut out to handle these calls than their more sensitive American sisters.

[X Man]

Some interesting posts gents.

Related to the discussion is this articl I just came across. Apparently 266,000 Filipinos are now working in the call centers.

http://www.voanews.com/english/2006-10-12-voa17.cfm

X

[Wander Luster]

Comparing the QUALITY of real estate, condos houses etc to US and other Developed nations is hard to do, remember that most houses here are made of LOCALLY PRODUCED material which is all that great. I'v'e been in P10 Mil homes and the pipes leak and toilets dont flush just like they dont in some
low cost Luan/plywood tin roof deal in a a squatter area.

I often mention "foreigner" grade houses that means that you have a roof that doesn't leak, plumbing that kinda works and breaker switches instread of a jury rigged circuit box. Probably has a tile floor and US style appliances perhaps even a frost free fridge and a microwave oven, the "biggie" is a hot water heater so you dont have to heat up water with a tea kettle and pour in a pail to take a bath. These are the best you can hope for. I've seen some houses where they get down right gaudy with the architecture and fixtures.

Many of the Condo's I've seen in the Cebu area are nice, if you want to live in a condo, personally I couldn't stand it, but the up side is that you can "own" it in a sense w/o a Wife, rather its like a 50 year lease. Rule of thumb here concerning cost is: ALL THINGS ARE DETERMINED in SQUARE METER (sqm2) Houses generally go for between P3500 to P10,000 per SQM2 in Cebu, cheaper else where, (Davao) Raw land also in that range depending on location.

Many small developments like Ayala land, Pryce corp etc are selling house and lot packages most of the houses/lots are the 110 to 150 SQM2 range.
with many payment plans and built to suit with 20% down. Once again your wife can own TITLE to the land, you can't.

I've got a lot of hopes for this ASEAN summit, hope they get more international business going in CEBU, I personally feel the potential for business here is many times greater than in Manila and Davao is just oo out of the way, sorry.

Outsourcing, Im suprised MORE outsourcing by US companies is not being done in the Phils, it seems India is getting a lot of that business. My understanding is also that some is being done in Manila, once again with all the good schools here and eager young talent I think Cebu would be an excellent place for any sort of outsourcing. A few years back I met a guy in Davao who was trying to start outsourcing in Davao, plenty of qualified applicants, but I don;t know why he never got off the ground.

Regards

Spamhog

A lot of the bright kids from mindinau will tell you that the "word is out" that Cebu is the place for them to go for a better job market.

I don't know the numbers of US companies coming in, but I see a huge increase in competition for my area of computer work. Look at the IT park, there's a heck of a lot of ground being broken. These buildings are not for Phils companies, and I know of one going up that will bring a lot of high profile outsourcing jobs (fairly "glamorous" work for a lot of people).

Already there aren't nearly enough good english speakers for the call center jobs.

I often try to talk some of the bar girls into applying at call centers. They have gone 1/2 through university and there English in a couple cases is definately better then the many call center employees I've met (the've applied for jobs or I met them through online dating sites).

As for the education, I don't read up on it but I really wonder if it's over-rated. People iin the Phils seem to have a lot of pride for schools like San Carlos, but I really don't know if they are anything like what you would get at a good uni in Europe or US. I know one thing is the profs get paid shit. I mean just dirt pay if they are locals.

[Wander Luster]

It's true, it's a hell of a lot less expensive to live here, but there are some caveats. The purchase of imported goods here, including western food and Japanese cars is expensive and can often cost more than in North American and/or Europe. Ditto for imported electronics including Sony TVs, stereos, computers, and the like. Fuel costs are about equivalent to US prices and fuel shortages (though rarer now) are not unheard of. The cost of electricity is not very different from what you would encounter in the US, though it's not as reliable. If you have kids, and you want to send them to a good private school, it's going to cost you $7-$9,000 per kid per year.

The bottom line here is that to the extent you want to live like a westerner, the more expensive life is going to be for you in certain respects.

:D

GE

A lot of this comes down to whether you have said "BYE!" to your western country. I've not intention of that. At least one trip a year back home. When you come back you bring all electronics..like even computer....and the many other things that are more expensive. unfortunately, can't bring a car on a plaine.

I usually pay $1200 for a round trip ticket from a not too big city on the east coast usa to cebu via HK direct into Cebu and the #1 airline in the world, Cathey (rated #1). After flying a lot with them, they give me all biz class privilages accept my seat.

I can cut line, I get tons of free food in HK or LA in there great lounge, and more.

[Wander Luster]

Wander Luster: some good ideas there. But I wonder how dependable the Pinoys would be for outsourcing work? Not very, I should imagine.

You know, I have two employees that I would trust as much of a sibling. They are very loyal people! But ANYONE in a DESPERATE situation will so bad things. So if your trust is with someone that is settled in the community and is not poor and you are really a "boss" figure that they look up to and admire, you have tremendous respect. The mere fact that a "boss" is given so much respect as compared to the US means something to me.

Do you know that they even call some people in the office "Master" as in "you are a 'master' of your trade". That's amazing.

And then it is so odd that a white guy dressed like crap (as I might do when going to the beach) is "sir" but i don't think a 1/2 decent dressed guy would be called sir if he is native.

In terms of the money. It's all the same as being in your home country. I will always want to save money when I'm living there just as here.

[Spam Hog]

Comparing the QUALITY of real estate, condos houses etc to US and other Developed nations is hard to do, remember that most houses here are made of LOCALLY PRODUCED material which is all that great. I'v'e been in P10 Mil homes and the pipes leak and toilets dont flush just like they dont in some
low cost Luan/plywood tin roof deal in a a squatter area.

I often mention "foreigner" grade houses that means that you have a roof that doesn't leak, plumbing that kinda works and breaker switches instread of a jury rigged circuit box. Probably has a tile floor and US style appliances perhaps even a frost free fridge and a microwave oven, the "biggie" is a hot water heater so you dont have to heat up water with a tea kettle and pour in a pail to take a bath. These are the best you can hope for. I've seen some houses where they get down right gaudy with the architecture and fixtures.

Many of the Condo's I've seen in the Cebu area are nice, if you want to live in a condo, personally I couldn't stand it, but the up side is that you can "own" it in a sense w/o a Wife, rather its like a 50 year lease. Rule of thumb here concerning cost is: ALL THINGS ARE DETERMINED in SQUARE METER (sqm2) Houses generally go for between P3500 to P10,000 per SQM2 in Cebu, cheaper else where, (Davao) Raw land also in that range depending on location.

Many small developments like Ayala land, Pryce corp etc are selling house and lot packages most of the houses/lots are the 110 to 150 SQM2 range.
with many payment plans and built to suit with 20% down. Once again your wife can own TITLE to the land, you can't.

I've got a lot of hopes for this ASEAN summit, hope they get more international business going in CEBU, I personally feel the potential for business here is many times greater than in Manila and Davao is just oo out of the way, sorry.

Outsourcing, Im suprised MORE outsourcing by US companies is not being done in the Phils, it seems India is getting a lot of that business. My understanding is also that some is being done in Manila, once again with all the good schools here and eager young talent I think Cebu would be an excellent place for any sort of outsourcing. A few years back I met a guy in Davao who was trying to start outsourcing in Davao, plenty of qualified applicants, but I don;t know why he never got off the ground.

Regards

Spamhog

[GoodEnough]

That was very helpful. It seems that living expenses in Cebu / Davao are 20% to 25% of those which one would incur in Canada.

It's true, it's a hell of a lot less expensive to live here, but there are some caveats. The purchase of imported goods here, including western food and Japanese cars is expensive and can often cost more than in North American and/or Europe. Ditto for imported electronics including Sony TVs, stereos, computers, and the like. Fuel costs are about equivalent to US prices and fuel shortages (though rarer now) are not unheard of. The cost of electricity is not very different from what you would encounter in the US, though it's not as reliable. If you have kids, and you want to send them to a good private school, it's going to cost you $7-$9,000 per kid per year.

The bottom line here is that to the extent you want to live like a westerner, the more expensive life is going to be for you in certain respects.

:D

GE

[Cebu Local]

Interesting post. Comparing posters on the Philippines thread with those on the Argentina thread, there seems to be no equivalent of Dickhead. I mean no one seems to go native or near native price wise.

Your first mate, $1,200 a month, that would be big money in Davao. Why can he not live on half of that, keeping the other half for back up? I imagine, lke Thailand, a goodly number of foreigners [CodeWord140] it all way and then wake up.

Also, some of your other examples bought houses. But foreigners can't own houses, right? Davao girls do sound a better bet than Angeles bicycles.

Wander Luster: some good ideas there. But I wonder how dependable the Pinoys would be for outsourcing work? Not very, I should imagine.

Actually there are about 500,000 pinoys working in the outsourcing industry.Convergys alone has 9,500 employees.There are a lot more incoming,Regarding land ownership Pinay wives can own property and since Land can be conjugal.It is your house as a couple and Yes Davao normal girls are a world away from Angeles Bar girls.Thats why a lot here MARRIED them.Cheers