Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[Mahku]

A chat I just had with a girl in Yahoo Messenger. She can be found in Cherry Blossoms, ID #274493.




MJB: i hope i can go back to manila for work

Mahku: ok, that would be nice...we could meet there

MJB: yes but i want to go back there as soon as i have my fare

MJB: can you help my dear

Mahku: maybe some day if you're my wife

MJB: can you help me dear til you will come gere

Mahku: How many guys do you ask for this....dear?

MJB: no i only ask for you

Mahku: oh ok, well how much do you need? Is a million dollars enough?

MJB: no its not

MJB: i just need 2500 pesos its 50$

MJB: in your money

Mahku: oh ok then let's make it 2 million, you may need to buy a few drinks and snacks along the way

Mahku: OK, just as soon as I have 2 million dollars I'll send it to you...just be patient ok?

MJB: okay

Mahku: OK then, I'll go now....I have to go out and start looking for $2 million

MJB: i see take care

Mahku: yes you too, see you next time for the next chat

Mahku: maybe by then I'll even have $3 million for you

[Spam Hog]

Please don't send money to a girl you have never met in person.

First of all, if a girl you have never met asks you for money, she is a scammer. Even if you have established a "relationship" with her. Case in point: I had a 6 month, almost daily web-cam chat with a young lady who in the end dumped me. (I found out she had been lying by checking her friendster, so friendster is good for something. Just don't put too many personal details on it.) We had cyber-sex a few times, but never actually met.

After the first few months I thought I knew her well, so I started sending her gifts and money. STUPID ME!! Cost me $800 in the end, for a few stupid online jerk-off sessions. And she never got completely naked!

I certainly hope all you guys here are savy enough not to even consider sending money to these online girls.

It takes a big man to admit something like this and for the benefit of others, hoping they dont make the same mistake. We should not judge TW too harshly as such vixens are very good at that sort of chicanery, that is the WORST type of scammer, the one who gets guys emotionally involved then bang-Zoom.

I think if we were all honest we would admit some of the foolish things we have done for pussy and how even the most expereinced of us got hoodwinked, happens all the time.

Bees11, this sounds like "pros" at work here, naturally they are gonna post pix of the most beautiful girls they can find to attrach clientele. I've mentioned this one before and in my mongering past had some good luck with it. www.adultfreindfinder.com, some of the girls were pro's, semi pro's, web cam cyber sex girls, some were just horney little vixens.

You have to pay to join it if you want to contact the girls directly

Good luck

Spamhog

[Bees11]

Just wondering if anyone has had any experiences with answering ads on either of these two sites?

I joined face-pic.com awhile ago and before a recent trip to the Philippines I sent messages to several of the gals profiled on the site. I got a couple of replies of which one was legitimate and the lady I met was the same as the one photographed on the profile. It was a good experience and I ended up in the cot with her for free.

However the second gal who I corresponded with was not the same person whose photograph appeared on the profile. I should have known something was up because right from the get go her conversation was about me joining up to see her on a webcam site. Eventually she agreed to meet me despite me not joining up and immediately it was obvious the gal was definitely not the same hot lady pictured on the profile. It was a very short meeting!!!

My question is to whether any mongers have joined the fling.com site and have had luck meeting the same gals pictured? The are some beautiful gals listed and some look Philippina while others look more western. I am just wondering as to this is a scam like Friendfinder where you pay a joining fee and don't actually get to meet any of the members or just webcam gals touting for business like on face-pic or maybe true life gals looking for sex, a BF or husband?

Cany anyone help me out as I was considering taking out a 7 day trial membership for $9.95 just to see if could meet some of these local Philippino gals?

[X Man]

Thanks for swallowing a bit of pride and sending that. Please send us more of HER information. We'd love to see some of those pics you have.

My advice is pretend to stay on friendly terms with her. Then meet her in the Philippines. After all, you could get at least get one night of sex as a reward for your generosity. Then change hotels.... Later, after you've safely exited the Philippines, send her a message about the STD you have.

I've done some incredibly stupid things in my life, but somehow I haven't donated excessive amounts to women -- other than my ex. As for bar girls....

When I was still a teen, 20+ years ago, I had the uncommonly good fortune of finding my naive ass doing R&R in Subic Bay courtesy of the USN. I remember two of my shipmates (friends) spending money and lavishing gifts on one particular go-go girl in order to win her affections. She (and her friends) were quite good at keeping the friction low and the income high. I was dating one of the friends, and I remember wondering how these two guys could be so friggin "stupid" (to quote TeenieW).

And if you think AC is incredible....you should have seen Subic in it's heyday. One thing that was different was that in many of the bigger bars they had dance floors (for customers and the bar girls) and sometimes very good live bands. I wish we had more of that in AC so that some of us fat asses could lose some weight. I still remember one night dancing to B-52's ...rock lobster...."down, down, down..."

And since AC bars don't have a dance floor for customers (with a few exceptions) please don't get up on the stage. Customers go there to look at the ladies...not your drunken ass.

I guess this message has wandered all over the place...sorry.

X Man

Please don't send money to a girl you have never met in person.

First of all, if a girl you have never met asks you for money, she is a scammer. Even if you have established a "relationship" with her. Case in point: I had a 6 month, almost daily web-cam chat with a young lady who in the end dumped me. (I found out she had been lying by checking her friendster, so friendster is good for something. Just don't put too many personal details on it.) We had cyber-sex a few times, but never actually met.

After the first few months I thought I knew her well, so I started sending her gifts and money. STUPID ME!! Cost me $800 in the end, for a few stupid online jerk-off sessions. And she never got completely naked!

I certainly hope all you guys here are savy enough not to even consider sending money to these online girls.

[TeenieWeenie]

Please don't send money to a girl you have never met in person.

First of all, if a girl you have never met asks you for money, she is a scammer. Even if you have established a "relationship" with her. Case in point: I had a 6 month, almost daily web-cam chat with a young lady who in the end dumped me. (I found out she had been lying by checking her friendster, so friendster is good for something. Just don't put too many personal details on it.) We had cyber-sex a few times, but never actually met.

After the first few months I thought I knew her well, so I started sending her gifts and money. STUPID ME!! Cost me $800 in the end, for a few stupid online jerk-off sessions. And she never got completely naked!

I certainly hope all you guys here are savy enough not to even consider sending money to these online girls.

[X Man]

She offers a service for money, so I wouldn't call that a scam. But, what you are suggesting sounds like a scam - well you already said it was...

If she simply asked for "help" then I guess you could define help in your own way.

My advice is find a better way to spend your time.

X

Every time I use to go to xmatch.com go to chat room you always see the gals from phili try to spam you if you want to watch them in private for $$ that you can send her money by westerunion, I wonder has anybody tried this con on the gal and say ok I send you money after she gives you info, you give her the phony westernunion number. After you get so called private show when you done watching and log off yahoo messenger when she goes to westerunion to get money SURPRISE! There is no money and the number is a phony. That will teach her to spam on adult chats sites! I was thinking of trying that and use the webcam capture to record the session.

[Bumbo]

Every time I use to go to xmatch.com go to chat room you always see the gals from phili try to spam you if you want to watch them in private for $$ that you can send her money by westerunion, I wonder has anybody tried this con on the gal and say ok I send you money after she gives you info, you give her the phony westernunion number. After you get so called private show when you done watching and log off yahoo messenger when she goes to westerunion to get money SURPRISE! There is no money and the number is a phony. That will teach her to spam on adult chats sites! I was thinking of trying that and use the webcam capture to record the session.

[X Man]

I'm always surprised at all the negativity about online gals. Let me take a wild guess...the guy who sent $45k to some 30ish Singaporean housewife was not on the ISG board, nor was he in sort of any reality that I know of. DUH!

I've reported in the past that I've had 40% success with online women when meeting them, usually within the first day.

Ouch, my last trip will really push down that number. I think it was one out of seven.

Caveats:

1) this trip was MLA / AC rather than my usual Visayans / Mindanao.
2) I had some unusual situations that pushed down numbers (2 cherry girls).

One girl was hot and a follow up meeting looked very promising. Then she asked for "help" for her family and I dropped her. There was another who in the throes of passion, as I had my hand on her crotch, and ....felt the pad, said, "You came at an unlucky time". She elaborated,,,,she had started bleeding that day. Sure enough, she suggested a meeting five days later, but I was already busy. Can I say 2 out of seven if the there was an offer?

Another was cherry but said, "I hope I'm not cherry next time you come". I'm pretty sure she has a very generous sugar daddy and she wants to keep her promise to him....and I don't doubt she'll keep her offer to me. This may be a number I'll take back later. SHe showed up for our date wearing a polka dot mini dress with a plunging neckline. At 5 7, and plenty of bosom she was a complete show stopper. I never had to worry about crossing the street....all vehicles and males and most females slowed down for look. At 18 she already knew her power... and seemed to appreciate the fact that I just laughed at what she was doing. Later she said, "even if I wasn't cherry, you couldn't do me because I'm on my period." The she raised her hemline to show me her crotch. She's playing a very dangerous game.

And there was the other cherry college girl who turned out to be 17. The web sites require the ladies to be 18, so she lied to be on the site. OF COURSE, I did not touch her, didn't try. She was an extremely intelligent young lady and plans to offer her most valuable "gift" to the man she marries. That would be a very luck man indeed.

****Warning: Besides the lady mentioned, I met an AC bar girl 19, who has been in the biz for 3 years! She said she borrowed the ID of her cousin in order to work in a bar. If you have any doubts, don't!

Then there was the call center girl, living in Makati, from Negros, who spent most of our time at Hard Rock Cafe sending text messages. I was glad to get rid of her, even though she was hot. One of the cutest girls, from Pampanga, had worked at ABCam. Once we started necking she suddenly asked for help for her family. How much? She quotes something exorbitant...and out the door she went.

So, not much luck with the online girls this time around.

I did manage to spend two nights with a travel agent I met. One of the tightest little holes I've had in a long time....

X Man

[Panman]

Man falls in love in chat room with married woman using actress pictures.

http://www.reuters.com/article/inter...N3861520070320

[Panman]

That's probably not her real picture either. Did you get to see her on a webcam? The photos are professional like from a magazine.

No, didn't see her on cam, said she didn't have it. Yes, I noticed that too about the photos, but hey, didn't hurt to try.

there is a website that will tell you what to do if you are scammed or thing you are being scamed. It has a lot of useful information http://www.womenrussia.com/blacklist.htm#scammed. I hope this will you and help everyone on this board.

Quite amazing some of those stories, and to think there are people that fall for these tricks from someone they never met in person. Thanks for the link.

[Teddy Bear 99]

That's probably not her real picture either. Did you get to see her on a webcam? The photos are professional like from a magazine.

[Tomdickharry]

there is a website that will tell you what to do if you are scammed or thing you are being scamed. It has a lot of useful information http://www.womenrussia.com/blacklist.htm#scammed. I hope this will you and help everyone on this board.

Usually, the good looking model types are generally scammers. Good looks sells and they got u hook line and sinker!

[Member #2001]

Profile name is Mels Ann and number is 642515. I made myself sound naive and new to PI and she started asking for money for her college graduation yearbook during the second time we chatted. Value needed was somewhere around 12 thousand pesos but told me I could send what I could. Kept repeating the whole "I love you", "I want you to meet my family", "hope I'm not a burden to you" bullshit. Once again, never send money to anyone you never met, no matter how sweet and convincing they look.

She gave me the following information for western union:
NAME; JADELYN PLASAVAS
ADD: 009 SAMPAGUITA STREET,MATINA.DAVAO CITY PHILIPPINES 8000

there is a website that will tell you what to do if you are scammed or thing you are being scamed. It has a lot of useful information http://www.womenrussia.com/blacklist.htm#scammed. I hope this will you and help everyone on this board.

[Pute Nut]

Profile name is Mels Ann and number is 642515. I made myself sound naive and new to PI and she started asking for money for her college graduation yearbook during the second time we chatted. Value needed was somewhere around 12 thousand pesos but told me I could send what I could. Kept repeating the whole "I love you", "I want you to meet my family", "hope I'm not a burden to you" bullshit. Once again, never send money to anyone you never met, no matter how sweet and convincing they look.

She gave me the following information for western union:
NAME; JADELYN PLASAVAS
ADD: 009 SAMPAGUITA STREET,MATINA.DAVAO CITY PHILIPPINES 8000

Looks like she should have spent a little more time studying and less time chatting..

But thanks for the warning. Now I will immediately stop sending money for yearbooks to filipinas I've never met :D

[Panman]

Profile name is Mels Ann and number is 642515. I made myself sound naive and new to PI and she started asking for money for her college graduation yearbook during the second time we chatted. Value needed was somewhere around 12 thousand pesos but told me I could send what I could. Kept repeating the whole "I love you", "I want you to meet my family", "hope I'm not a burden to you" bullshit. Once again, never send money to anyone you never met, no matter how sweet and convincing they look.

She gave me the following information for western union:
NAME; JADELYN PLASAVAS
ADD: 009 SAMPAGUITA STREET,MATINA.DAVAO CITY PHILIPPINES 8000