American Women

[Crypton]

True, however if a female mates with multiple males while duping her mate that all the kids are his, she has the best of both worlds: a mate who provides resources & protection, and the chance to pick & choose genetic material from a variety of males. So there is an evolutionary advantage for both sexes to pretend to pair off while cheating.

Good point and I agree. However, my point was about the assumption that Selma Hayek would not be attracted to money just because she is latina!!

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[Bango Cheito]

yeah, i see the same thing coming. it's like "you promised me we could have kids". so i say yeah, but you're gonna be busy taking care of them..... it's not gonna be like back home where you've got a bunch of sisters, nieces and other female family relatives to chip in with taking care of the kids.

of course she doesn't see things that way. she's so blinded by this baby fever she just ignores anything that might be contrary to her goal. i'm evening wondering if she cares about me anymore, or if my sole function is to assist in her procreational scheme.

there's not a chance that i'm going to be hanging around 7 nights a week listening to a squawking baby while i change crappy [CodeWord131]. if she wants to experience "the joy of motherhood", she's welcome to it......all of it.

rock

dude be prepared. as it stood i spent a lot of time with my kids when they were younger but it was never enough. i went out with friends once during the first six weeks of my first kid's life. i even told my then wife to get a babysitter and come along! she wouldn't have it, and i was a bad father. she still brings it up from time to time!

[George90]

I call it "Baby Rabies".

Exactly! For some women any baby will do. And what is important is having the baby around to play with and show off to everyone.

As opposed to bearing one's own biological child, focusing on being the parent, not the friend, and guiding the child through childhood so that he/she develops into a well-rounded, well adjusted, successful adult.

I see too much of the former, 'Baby Rabies', and too little of the latter. normal motherhood.

[Rock Dog]

I am not sure how strong the motive of passing on one's genes are in women generally.

Trust me, it can be very strong. Women are especially driven by this need in their late teens all the way up to their early 30's.

I call it "Baby Rabies".

The only known cures are a.) having one, or b.) menopause.

Rock

[George90]

There is no question that in women the biological drive to get pregnant is VERY strong.

I have seen this and been told this by some honest women, but I am also confused by it because the numbers of children women (in the US and Europe) are having is declining, while the numbers of childless women is rising.

There is a rash of adoptions also going on. Many women who don't want the difficulties of a man around the house, adopt children from China or Eastern Europe.

From what I have seen of how some women behave with their children, is that they want to recreate the artificial doll family man had as little girls. I am thinking about the pageants that some mothers go crazy over. Its the JonBenet syndrome; she wasn't treated like a child, she was treated like a toy. Some many want to have a real live toy doll to play with, to dress up, to show off, to see sing and dance in pageants, to make beautiful.

Then some other mothers want to have a 'best friend' and treat their daughters like buddies instead of children. I had a former colleague, a mother, who slept with her daughter, then 5, in her daughter's bed more often than she slept with her husband in the marital bed. She told me this without any hint of shame or inkling that it was weird.

I am not sure how strong the motive of passing on one's genes are in women generally.

[George90]

Trust me: it's far worse. Those angry entitled bitches you went to school with are now the tenured full professors running the show, having been installed as such by retiring old guys with misplaced misdirected white man's guilt.

I think it also depends on the field of study. In English, Psychology, Medicine, Art, yes, women dominated in those fields and male students are subjected to feminist prejudice.

However, women are either not attracted to (or not suited to) fields like Engineering or Computer Science. Men still dominate in those fields and the male students in them are relatively free of feminist forces.

I now wish I had studied computer science when I was in college. But at that time, the PC had not yet evolved and computers were not nearly as powerful and versatile as they are now.

[Rock Dog]

yeah, i see the same thing coming. it's like "you promised me we could have kids". so i say yeah, but you're gonna be busy taking care of them..... it's not gonna be like back home where you've got a bunch of sisters, nieces and other female family relatives to chip in with taking care of the kids.

of course she doesn't see things that way. she's so blinded by this baby fever she just ignores anything that might be contrary to her goal. i'm evening wondering if she cares about me anymore, or if my sole function is to assist in her procreational scheme.

there's not a chance that i'm going to be hanging around 7 nights a week listening to a squawking baby while i change crappy [CodeWord131]. if she wants to experience "the joy of motherhood", she's welcome to it......all of it.

rock

[Bango Cheito]

There is no question that in women the biological drive to get pregnant is VERY strong.

My ex wife never mentioned them when we first met, but a couple years later it was her ONLY topic of conversation. I finally told her we could have kids but she would have to pick up my slack as I could easily be too busy and travelling to much to do my share, and that as long as that was fine with her, we could have them.

So 9 months later my daughter was born and SHE SHOWED HER TRUE COLORS. I don't think she had any intention of keeping her part of the bargain from jump. She probably thought that having kids would 'change me' fat fucking chance!!

[Yogin]

[QUOTE=Crypton] ...males can maximize their reproduction by mating with as many females as possible. Think about this: a female that mates with 10 males has no more offspring than a female that mates with only 1-2 males. On the other hand, the number of offspring a male can have is directly proportional to the number of females he can mate with. QUOTE]

True, however if a female mates with multiple males while duping her mate that all the kids are his, she has the best of both worlds: a mate who provides resources & protection, and the chance to pick & choose genetic material from a variety of males. So there is an evolutionary advantage for both sexes to pretend to pair off while cheating.

[Sinanju Master]

Your post rings so true. I grew up believing the bullshit spewed out by Hollywood about the golden-hearted guy getting the girl, because she eventually dumps the player and sees in golden-hearted guy the qualities she'd been seeking in a guy all along. I'll be the first to admit to the world that what I needed was for a bunch of guys to line up, one after the other, to punch me dead in the face to make me see the world for what it really is. Pragmatism rules, and the second a guy realizes that, he can employ cunning instead of following a bullshit script written for chicks to enjoy.

[Sinanju Master]

If I had a choice between a younger hotter girl and a 30+yr old soccer mom. I would pick the soccer mom without any hesitation. Why you ask?? The younger, hotter girls are scarcely worth the effort. "They seem to think lighting shoots out of their pussy-------'Oh, you want sex, what are you going to give me?' The soccer mom is like, "I just want you to fuck the living shit out of me."

... Soccer mom may be experiencing a waning sex life at home due to kids, a job (IF she has one), housework, feeding and caring for a family that is a constant burden, a hubby who has let himself go and is no longer attentive to her needs, etc. By this time, she may have gained enough experience in the sack to make a Bengal tiger seem like a sedated housecat. I saw an example of what one just may look like (provided she still keeps herself looking great) on a swimsuit site called Wicked Weasel. Her name is Marilyn. Here is the link to see what she looks like.

http://contris.wickedweasel.com/post...3-08/marylin/1

The younger, less experienced honey would only have her body (with little or NO useful sexual experience) to offer.

[Crypton]

Little bit disappointing though. What with Salma being a latina and all, I figured she might be attracted to something besides money.

Why would you expect Latina women to be different? Women (and indeed, females of all species) are selected to seek out resources for themsleves and their offspring. I would not begrudge women for seeking resources (by marrying someone who can be a good provider; in case of other animals by mating with males that can hold territory or otherwise provide resources to the female) any more than I do men who want to sleep around. This is for the simple reason that women can maximize their reproduction by garnering resources for themselves and their offspring; similarly males can maximize their reproduction by mating with as many females as possible. Think about this: a female that mates with 10 males has no more offspring than a female that mates with only 1-2 males. On the other hand, the number of offspring a male can have is directly proportional to the number of females he can mate with. This equation is fine - in so far as it is common throughout the animal and plant kingdom. The problem, however, is the justice system in the US and elsewhere - the courts have decidedly swung in favor of mothers in every case regardless of the fact that it may not be the best outcome in all cases.

[Yogin]

It was that way back in 1978 when I was working on a graduate degree in business.

Trust me: it's far worse. Those angry entitled bitches you went to school with are now the tenured full professors running the show, having been installed as such by retiring old guys with misplaced misdirected white man's guilt.

I complained to a male longtime professor about this. While he did validate some of my concerns and admitted to being the target of ridiculous entitlement-imbued demands from his colleagues, he suggested I have more of an open mind, compassion, & empathy. Doubt he'd say that to the feminazis. So ironic this, as in most instances I'd consider myself a flaming liberal. But as to feminism, it's such a crock.

[Rock Dog]

This just in.....

Apparently Salma Hayek, you know her....the hot latina babe with the big boobies!! Anyways, Salma has found her one true love. Yes, he's some European guy (French maybe) and not only are they getting married, but he's already got her knocked up. Oh and btw, he's a billionaire of course.

Smart comment by a blogger on the whole thing. "How nice that Salma has found her soulmate.... and he just happens to be a billionaire. It's amazing how, even in our age of advanced technology, love can be so unpredictable."

Good sarcasm! Little bit disappointing though. What with Salma being a latina and all, I figured she might be attracted to something besides money. Same old pattern though. Push the movie career untl you're in your late 30's. Then right about the time the offers for good parts are drying up, the actress decides "it's time for a family"..... English translation (from feminese): I selfishly pursued money, fame and career until recently, but now I need to get pregnant before I hit menopause and it's too late.

Lenin is right about one thing. Women DO want to become parasites on men. Mostly, it's a reproductive thing..... first they find a guy who's fairly easy to get along with. Then, they sucker him into marriage, or some similar arrangement where he ends up footing the bill for everything. Yeah, there are women who work for a living too, but they still usually try and find a guy that makes more than they do.

My own wife has been PUSHING me to have a kid. You wouldn't believe the pissy attitude when another month goes by without the "good news". I promised her we could have kids as soon as certain conditions were met. Now everything is set and we've been trying, but she's being so fucking impatient about the whole thing. I don't think many men out there understand how strong this motivation can be for women.

Comments?

Rock

[Capt Ajax]

If I had a choice between a younger hotter girl and a 30+yr old soccer mom. I would pick the soccer mom without any hesitation. Why you ask?? The younger, hotter girls are scarcely worth the effort. "They seem to think lighting shoots out of their pussy-------'Oh, you want sex, what are you going to give me?' The soccer mom is like, "I just want you to fuck the living shit out of me."