Bangkok Reports

[The Traveler]

We each had a beer in the room, I opened them and she wasn't touching my beer at any time. So we kick it in the bedroom it was quite late by then, maybe 5 am, doing mutual massage and next thing I know my buddy is waking me up at 9am in the morning after several attempts. Even though I made a point to stash cash well, I didn't put it in the safe so she beat me for about 300US.

How common is this scenario, I checked forums before coming but didn't see alot about this scenario.

Any feedback similar stories are welcome.

Airstriker,

I go along with Terry in terms of Thai P4P usually being very honest persons, but I disagree with him and 1ball that you haven't been drugged. It sounds like you have been knocked out almost immediately without having any memory of what have happened. This is a clear sign for a KO-drug.

I have heard about some girls/katoeys, who apply the drug on their nipples, knowing that most guys will suck on them. Therefore no need to touch any of your drinks, which would be counter-productive anyway. They want to knock you out in your room, not in a bar. This also explains why you have only been drugged for 4 hours, a high dosage can't be applied that way.

Always use your safe and also lock the ID of the girl in there. This way you make sure she won't/can't leave while you are asleep or unconscious.

[NicFrenchy]

Apologies in advance for stupid question, but...

Yes, you should apologise because we have a Hotel Thread that deals with your Hotel Problem.

I'm staying in Le Fenix next week, which I understand has a joiner's fee. I have never stayed at a hotel that has such a thing (or I have managed to avoid it). For various reasons this time I am only interested in ST while I am there. So if I bring a girl back at say 8pm, does the duty manager leap out at me and demand 500Bht (presumably not), or does it go quietly on my bill. Do they wait to see what time the girl emerges? Is the fee for any joiner or just one staying overnight and emerging at 9am? If the fee is for every girl returning at any time, it could get expensive for me (in all modesty!).

Actually I have a strong view about being charged a fee when I have booked a double room, so whatever happens I will argue my case. But don't intend to do that at midnight with a TG in tow... (I have stayed at some smart hotels in the past when the company was paying, and have avoided all issues of ID cards or joiners fees by engaging in animated conversation with the girl as I walk to the lifts, avoiding all eye contact with the staff).

Would be grateful for any clarification.

Thanks

mouse

Why would you argue the Hotel's policy? makes no sense to me. If you know they have a Joiner fee, book that hotel anyway and expect to bring TG there, then be ready to pay the fee.

They will usually not let the girl go up to the room until she has provided ID (and that is for YOUR security) so they will know and will charge you.

Now, why not book a hotel like Livingstones Lodge on Soi 33? they are Girl Friendly and will not charge you for the company you bring to their hotel.

[Member #2041]

Dear Michael,

We have discussed this many times. In Thailand (and a few other places).....the girls are going bareback a lot more than they should. It is a horrible fact....probably due to lack of education, "Thai style"...what will be will be and a set of religious beliefs. If in their minds, they think you are clean....they will go bareback in a high percentage of encounters. This is my personal experience....it is fu cking scary!! (best to take the high road and use protection all the time....and fully understand that she has probably barebacked someone in the last 24 hours)

All I have to say about this is that you must really scare easily. my take on girls wanting to fuck you bareback is simply this - it´s then YOUR decision to either fuck her bareback, or NOT to fuck her bareback. And I personally don´t give a shit either way. Because when I fuck someone, I ASSUME she´s fucked other guys bareback, and I use my own brain to tell me what to do. As far as I´m concerned, anyone who thinks that they can actually influence other folks behavior on an anonymous forum is naive in the extreme. We are all in charge of our own actions, and it is silly to think otherwise and to act otherwise.

[Mouse1]

Apologies in advance for stupid question, but...

I'm staying in Le Fenix next week, which I understand has a joiner's fee. I have never stayed at a hotel that has such a thing (or I have managed to avoid it). For various reasons this time I am only interested in ST while I am there. So if I bring a girl back at say 8pm, does the duty manager leap out at me and demand 500Bht (presumably not), or does it go quietly on my bill. Do they wait to see what time the girl emerges? Is the fee for any joiner or just one staying overnight and emerging at 9am? If the fee is for every girl returning at any time, it could get expensive for me (in all modesty!).

Actually I have a strong view about being charged a fee when I have booked a double room, so whatever happens I will argue my case. But don't intend to do that at midnight with a TG in tow... (I have stayed at some smart hotels in the past when the company was paying, and have avoided all issues of ID cards or joiners fees by engaging in animated conversation with the girl as I walk to the lifts, avoiding all eye contact with the staff).

Would be grateful for any clarification.

Thanks

mouse

[Leo2000]

[QUOTE=Satrai2000]What strikes me is that these same dudes seem very polite and humble when in Europe and US (outside Asia).

Mate it not the above people who come to SE Asia. These people who have studied & worked in the west know how to behave, like your & me.

It the 1st time travellers and new rich blokes who made easy money back home are the new set of travellers who have no clue.

Sad we have to live it.

Cheers

[Easy2007]

This has happened to me many times, however, its not the girl doing anything, its me drinking far too much, then ringing bells and buying lots of girls at different bars lots of drinks, dragging one or two girls back to my room, falling asleep and then waking up not knowing what the hell happened.

Over time, as the memory starts to flicker back, you realise that all your money has gone from buying numerous rounds, not cause one of the girls nicked it.

Anyway, perhaps that is not what happened to you, however, it should be standard procedure for any monger to :

1/ When you get back to the hotel, send her into the shower ALONE, and then while she is doing that, your phone, keys, wallet, money and anything else you so want is then put into the room safe and locked away. Leave enough out to pay her, thats it.

2/ If you are unsure of the girl, as in she is a freelancer, or in particular a street walker, then when you go into your hotel, tell her that the hotel require her ID, and make sure the hotel reception takes it (this is standard practise in some hotels).

This means she cannot get her ID and leave until reception have phoned you, and asked you if all is ok and she can leave.

If you fail to follow these two basic principles anywhere in the world, you are leaving yourself open to getting done over.

First nite in BKK, staying in nice hotel Royal president. Wwnt to patpong and observed the freak shows (mostly boys trying real hard to look like girls.) big turnoff so ended up on a cafe at 3 in the morning with my traveling buddy sipping some beers to see what might pass by. So a really cute, shy young thai girl, supposedly not from BKK and not much english skills walks past with her mother? Or sister? We make eye contact and I invite her to sit and talk and bought her a juice. Eventually she asked if I want massage. The owner of the cafe did some interpretation and said she's not a working girl which was telling me ok nice massage maybe but may not necessarily be able to close the deal. I didn't have to get full service as it was our first nite in BKK, but just looking to relax with a cutie and see about her massage skills and see where it goes.

We each had a beer in the room, I opened them and she wasn't touching my beer at any time. So we kick it in the bedroom it was quite late by then, maybe 5 am, doing mutual massage and next thing I know my buddy is waking me up at 9am in the morning after several attempts. Even though I made a point to stash cash well, I didn't put it in the safe so she beat me for about 300US.

How common is this scenario, I checked forums before coming but didn't see alot about this scenario.

Any feedback similar stories are welcome.

[1Ball]

Airstriker, I have to go along with Terry Terrier(I dont want insult you by calling you TT ). Had you been drugged, you probably would have been out for between 12 and 18 hours.
It appears you just fell asleep.

It was bad luck.

[Terry Terrier]

First nite in BKK, staying in nice hotel Royal president. Wwnt to patpong and observed the freak shows (mostly boys trying real hard to look like girls.) big turnoff so ended up on a cafe at 3 in the morning with my traveling buddy sipping some beers to see what might pass by. So a really cute, shy young thai girl, supposedly not from BKK and not much english skills walks past with her mother? Or sister? We make eye contact and I invite her to sit and talk and bought her a juice. Eventually she asked if I want massage. The owner of the cafe did some interpretation and said she's not a working girl which was telling me ok nice massage maybe but may not necessarily be able to close the deal. I didn't have to get full service as it was our first nite in BKK, but just looking to relax with a cutie and see about her massage skills and see where it goes.

We each had a beer in the room, I opened them and she wasn't touching my beer at any time. So we kick it in the bedroom it was quite late by then, maybe 5 am, doing mutual massage and next thing I know my buddy is waking me up at 9am in the morning after several attempts. Even though I made a point to stash cash well, I didn't put it in the safe so she beat me for about 300US.

How common is this scenario, I checked forums before coming but didn't see alot about this scenario.

Any feedback similar stories are welcome.

Doubt very much she drugged you if you only slept from 5AM to 9AM. But you were still unlucky. Thai prostitutes are generally the most honest in the World.

Use your in-room safe religiously. That way, you are removing temptation from the equation.

[Satrai2000]

This is one of best place to vist to get a true Thai mongering exp. , where I really enjoyed and I feel said when it was demolised a year back.

I am an old hand in thai and my wife is thai. I got hooked to LOS way back from 1998, I am of Indian but spent more than 20 yrs travelling & living overseas for the past 20 yrs, the sad part the Indian just don't know how to behave in society, they just made easy money and once they fly out, they have no idea how to behave. Sometimes I feel ashamed to tell them that I am India. Over years of traveling & living in thai, my wife tell you "kitwoo no no Indian" the reason is you behave normal. Not talk loud, body language, etc.

Mate end of the day, it is numbers, how many people from India travel overseas on holiday? Just a handful of guys are enough to brand the rest of them.- like they say in Bejing. Just check one noodle if the rest of noodles are boiled. So just a idiot is enough. To brand the whole race, I do not blame them PERIOD Indian's just do not know how to behave in mature society.

I can tell 100's of stories how the FL & BG are ripped off, that is only reason why go-gos, bars just hate Indians. They have no clue how to behave. Right from the time they get into plane. From what I know in the side info. TG put's one there tought AH on the flights of India & PAk to handle the indecent PAX.

Mate do not blame TG for the hate. Just think why it has come. And look around, I can tell you N of incidents. After living, traveling across Thai.

Look around, how Indian's can you find in night life other than CM2. Did you come acorss NEP, SOI CB, SOI 33. These guys have no clue, all they end up in cheap MP, beyond this they just don't know and even if venture they have no idea how to behave.

Sad mate. We got to live with it.

Cheers

Indians, Indians, Indians. I am one too and I have to confess that there is much truth in what you and "Silent Thoughts" posted here. Like you I also see the far-from-charming behaviour of some of our desi-brothers, but what can I do (only walk away and feeling ashamed).

What strikes me is that these same dudes seem very polite and humble when in Europe and US (outside Asia).

But once back in Asia, in particular the favourite holiday-destinations (Thailand, Malaysia and Singapore) they behave rude and despising towards the local people. I don't know why. Is it perhaps some kind of. Racism. (sorry, I didn't want to use this word but could find anything better)

[Buko Max]

We each had a beer in the room, I opened them and she wasn't touching my beer at any time. So we kick it in the bedroom it was quite late by then, maybe 5 am, doing mutual massage and next thing I know my buddy is waking me up at 9am in the morning after several attempts. Even though I made a point to stash cash well, I didn't put it in the safe so she beat me for about 300US.

How common is this scenario, I checked forums before coming but didn't see alot about this scenario.

Any feedback similar stories are welcome.

From your story, it does not sound like you were drugged but fell asleep!
If you open yourself up to the possibility of theft, you yourself are to blame.
As the saying goes, "If you snooze, you lose"
Thanks for posting your experience, maybe people can learn from it.

[Brain666]

First nite in BKK, staying in nice hotel Royal president. Wwnt to patpong and observed the freak shows (mostly boys trying real hard to look like girls.) big turnoff so ended up on a cafe at 3 in the morning with my traveling buddy sipping some beers to see what might pass by. So a really cute, shy young thai girl, supposedly not from BKK and not much english skills walks past with her mother? Or sister? We make eye contact and I invite her to sit and talk and bought her a juice. Eventually she asked if I want massage. The owner of the cafe did some interpretation and said she's not a working girl which was telling me ok nice massage maybe but may not necessarily be able to close the deal. I didn't have to get full service as it was our first nite in BKK, but just looking to relax with a cutie and see about her massage skills and see where it goes.

We each had a beer in the room, I opened them and she wasn't touching my beer at any time. So we kick it in the bedroom it was quite late by then, maybe 5 am, doing mutual massage and next thing I know my buddy is waking me up at 9am in the morning after several attempts. Even though I made a point to stash cash well, I didn't put it in the safe so she beat me for about 300US.

How common is this scenario, I checked forums before coming but didn't see alot about this scenario.

Any feedback similar stories are welcome.

Ok you writw yourself that you didn't follow your own rules you pray to your buddy. But even if you don't hide your money while in the room, I think it's common practice and golden rule in Bangkok that you only take the cash with you you are intending to spend that day. + Pprobably a credit card (only one) for unexpected expenses.

With regard to my experiences, I never had a bad experience so far.

Regards and good luck next time.

Brain666

[Lover Boy #2]

First nite in BKK, staying in nice hotel Royal president. Wwnt to patpong and observed the freak shows (mostly boys trying real hard to look like girls.) big turnoff so ended up on a cafe at 3 in the morning with my traveling buddy sipping some beers to see what might pass by. So a really cute, shy young thai girl, supposedly not from BKK and not much english skills walks past with her mother? Or sister? We make eye contact and I invite her to sit and talk and bought her a juice. Eventually she asked if I want massage. The owner of the cafe did some interpretation and said she's not a working girl which was telling me ok nice massage maybe but may not necessarily be able to close the deal. I didn't have to get full service as it was our first nite in BKK, but just looking to relax with a cutie and see about her massage skills and see where it goes.

We each had a beer in the room, I opened them and she wasn't touching my beer at any time. So we kick it in the bedroom it was quite late by then, maybe 5 am, doing mutual massage and next thing I know my buddy is waking me up at 9am in the morning after several attempts. Even though I made a point to stash cash well, I didn't put it in the safe so she beat me for about 300US.

How common is this scenario, I checked forums before coming but didn't see alot about this scenario.

Any feedback similar stories are welcome.

Maybe you got a little chemical off of her titties on a quick lick?

[Lover Boy #2]

Hey everyone! I wish to write about the fact that I have had now FOUR experiences in my nearly three week stay in BKK where the escort I have had has passively or actively encouraged me to bareback fuck her. Three were club/bar girls and one is supposed to be a bargirl but I learned later from papasan/bar manager that she is really more of a freelancer.

What is up with that? Have any of you experienced similar stuff around here? After I kicked out the freelancer one, I spent the overnight thinking about repercussions. Of which it appears that it is unbelievably unlikely that anything would have or will occur in the future. Two girls with average english skills (for Thai girls) pulled a "no speak english, want to sleep" when I tried to confront them with different questions "Are you trying to have a baby with me, are you taking a pill to stop baby, are you trying to get money for years from me".

The crazy part about all of this is that one of them works at Rainbow 4 and has been one of the two best sex experiences I have had here in the City. I feel awkward alerting members of the forum about her not just because of people avoiding her but because she is open to bareback with relatively handsome farang. The safe thing to do is to not mention her or any of her but then there is no knowledge for other members; then if I inform everyone. We could see all members of Thailand forum wanting to sleep with her.

The girl from Rainbow 4 is probably a 7-7. 5 looks with better than average english skills. Thin, relatively tall, doesn't mind being a bit submissive, easy-going when negotiating price at 2 AM. GFE, PSE and bareback issue was resolved easily with her.compared with other girls. Still, her initiation of it was the only downside and was in my head during and after the two hours with her.

Had no bareback with any but was difficult to resist with two of them in particular. Hmm, dilemmas.

Hoboken Michael

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Dear Michael,

We have discussed this many times. In Thailand (and a few other places).....the girls are going bareback a lot more than they should. It is a horrible fact....probably due to lack of education, "Thai style"...what will be will be and a set of religious beliefs. If in their minds, they think you are clean....they will go bareback in a high percentage of encounters. This is my personal experience....it is fu cking scary!! (best to take the high road and use protection all the time....and fully understand that she has probably barebacked someone in the last 24 hours)

[M P Lurker]

The "Siam Hotel" has been totally demolished (was done last year). They are building the station for the new airport link train, and the Siam Hotel has been pulled down and that becomes an access point for the new train station.

With regards to the girls who used to wait around the street to the rear, not been around there for some time, however, with all the construction workers around there now, I would assume its gone, or at the very least been greatly reduced.

It seems like only 6 weeks ago I saw the girls hanging out there (from the taxi) even though Mona Lisa closed, but I must concede that my memory could be playing tricks on me. It could have been some other time.

[Easy2007]

The "Siam Hotel" has been totally demolished (was done last year). They are building the station for the new airport link train, and the Siam Hotel has been pulled down and that becomes an access point for the new train station.

With regards to the girls who used to wait around the street to the rear, not been around there for some time, however, with all the construction workers around there now, I would assume its gone, or at the very least been greatly reduced.

Anyway, on to something much more important: I'd heard that the Siam Hotel and Cafe you mentioned is now gone -- demolished some time in the past year. The sketchy reports I've seen about it seemed to say that the whole scene that was there is now gone, both inside the cafe and outside in the parking lot/street. I was in BKK last week but didn't have a chance to go out there and see for myself. Anyone else know?