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[Sol111]

Posted under the Chat Rooms & Pen Pals forum (cuz I didn't know where else to post it) is a recent pinay scammer for those interested.

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[Amavida]

Also important: Can she tell from WU where you sent the money from?

Yes she can. All she has to do is ask the attendant. Most girls lead simple lives but they are used to pinoy guy's cheating. Its second nature for them to double check 'details'. Watch your back players! ;)
AV

[Cbea20]

I have always been concerned that when I wire money to my GF in Philippines, how do I know she is where she is suppose to be. Example: You send GF money to Samar so she won't have to work in AC.

Money you send to Samar, can actually be picked up ANYWHERE in the Philippines. Did you know this? Same w/ Russia too. Allows for girls easily cheating and other frauds.

Resolution: WU can tell you where the money was picked up. So you can catch the little cheaters if they cheat.

Also important: Can she tell from WU where you sent the money from?

[Big Johnson2]

thank your for the advice. i agree 100% about the jealousy. which you can't blame them. i will always go away on business and play in a different city.

my real question was: what other countries are good for getting attractive girl friends. i know that eastern europe has gotten too rich to easily find girls that want a foreign boy friend.

this discussion really belongs in the "filipinas - opinions and advice" thread, but i'll chime in here. first, if you're playing, it is best to be honest with the girls, that is, let them know you are seeing other girls. i found that they always ask if you have a gf and i would answer that way. that seems to tamp down the jealousy as they realize right away they do not have an exclusive nor can they be sure of getting that from you. sometimes they'll try harder or be clingier.

but once you settle on a gf, her jealousy and possessiveness kick in big time: the one who allows you to play would be very rare so ge's advice here is very sensible: never play in the local area. the filipina grapevine is something else.

[Finrod]

i know this is a sex site, but i think the philippines a unique country where you can have a gf and others for sex too.

this discussion really belongs in the "filipinas - opinions and advice" thread, but i'll chime in here. first, if you're playing, it is best to be honest with the girls, that is, let them know you are seeing other girls. i found that they always ask if you have a gf and i would answer that way. that seems to tamp down the jealousy as they realize right away they do not have an exclusive nor can they be sure of getting that from you. sometimes they'll try harder or be clingier.

but once you settle on a gf, her jealousy and possessiveness kick in big time: the one who allows you to play would be very rare so ge's advice here is very sensible: never play in the local area. the filipina grapevine is something else.

[Hairy Wonder]

I know this is a Sex Site, but I think the Philippines a unique country where you can have a GF and others for sex too.

BTW are there any other countries where it is easy like this to get a GF and others on the side?

BJ2,

I don't know about doing this in the Philippines or any other country. But I do know that a pissed off Filipina is not something I want to tangle with. And if your Filipina GF finds out about you fucking other Filipinas (or any other nationality) she will be highly pissed off! I have heard about guys, whose gf likes to pick other girls for him to fuck. I thought I had a gf like that once, but it turned out to not be true. All Filipinas that I know, are very jealous, and protective of their "property" (meaning you, your wallet, and your bank accounts).

HW

[Big Johnson2]

Filipinas and Thank you.

I see them quick to ask for money and don't like saying Thank You after you give it to them.

In any problem. Quick to tell you what you did wrong. Seldom acknowledge that they they did anything wrong, even if 80% of the problem was their fault.

What have you seen? What can I expect

I know this is a Sex Site, but I think the Philippines a unique country where you can have a GF and others for sex too.

BTW are there any other countries where it is easy like this to get a GF and others on the side?

[Big Johnson2]

I have always been concerned that when I wire money to my GF in Philippines, how do I know she is where she is suppose to be. Example: You send GF money to Samar so she won't have to work in AC.

Money you send to Samar, can actually be picked up ANYWHERE in the Philippines. Did you know this? Same w/ Russia too. Allows for girls easily cheating and other frauds.

Resolution: WU can tell you where the money was picked up. So you can catch the little cheaters if they cheat.

[Nvslim]

Maligayang Pasko

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Manigong Bagong Taon

May the Dollar continue to rise and the price of pussy go down in the new year.

Slim

[Amavida]

Just remember, "visiting the family" in the Philippines means your intentions are serious and sincere towards the gal.

True, its one of those formalities of courting observed in PI.
Did she bring home all the horny little pinoy guys she went with in high school & after? No way!
Meeting the family implies you're husband material.
Some girls are more strict about this than others.
Some may just want to show you off & get second opinions about you :D

Root & run merchants take note, many girls feel a tremendous loss of face if you go through with this & then [CodeWord140] off. Better to be up front & don't hurt her.

I have used dating web sites to meet & root chicks who have become long term GF's. I feel if guys gonna meet chicks that way for root & run they need to be up front that they DONT want relationship IMHO. There are plenty that will agree to a root & run. Leave the other girls alone.
AV

[Darth Sushi]

My question is - it it safe? What would I need to look out for other than the normal visitor precautions. I have never been in Phil before but have read plenty about it. Any guidance/advice would be most welcome. She is a mature 32 year old - I am double her age!

Just remember, "visiting the family" in the Philippines means your intentions are serious and sincere towards the gal.

[Azmodeus Fl]

As long as you don't act like a fool you shouldn't have any problems.

Hi Jack,

Manila and Northern Philippines is very safe. Besides you have a local friend with you. Bulacan is not too far from Manila.

I have gone to more remote areas in PHI and never felt threatened. Phi people are very much used to foreigners.

Phi girls are generally very friendly and wants you to meet their family if they like you. As to your relationship with her you are on your own. Phi girls in HK are not as naieve as you think. They want to make as much money as possible to send home. Maybe she thinks you will marry her.

As to me meeting the girls family is like being in a party with lots of strangers. There is nothing common to talk about.

But make a trip to experience yourself.

[Cunning Stunt]

She lives in City of San Jose Delmonte, Bulacan, Manila and rents a town house there where she lives with her son and niece. (when she is not "working" in HK). She wants me to meet her family and show me how she lives in Manila.

I wouldn't worry too much. You do not mention how you met the lady and what she does for a living? I assume that you feel that she is trustworthy?

One thing I would say is for you not to expect too much as regards luxuries etc, if you do opt to go stay with her. Filipino's are proud people and live as well as they able but most are only able to maintain, what to affluent western eyes, is a very basic standard of living. But, believe me, if you can put up for a little while without luxuries and can endure cold showers etc, then her estimation of you will rise tenfold. Consider it, a couple of days roughing it (like a weekend camping holiday), and keep a smile on your face and she will be so made up. She will no doubt, also get loads of kudos in showing you off to her friends and family.

San Jose Delmonte itself is hardly out in the sticks. It is in the northern Metro Manila area adjoining Quezon City, about 1-2 hours from central Manila, depending on the traffic. Its in a fast developing area and is fairly affluent by Manilan standards. The area probably boasts fairly low crime stats compared to other parts of the metropolitan area. You will be fine.

[Sammon]

Hi Jack,
Manila and Northern Philippines is very safe. Besides you have a local friend with you. Bulacan is not too far from Manila.
I have gone to more remote areas in PHI and never felt threatened. Phi people are very much used to foreigners.
Phi girls are generally very friendly and wants you to meet their family if they like you. As to your relationship with her you are on your own. Phi girls in HK are not as naieve as you think. They want to make as much money as possible to send home. Maybe she thinks you will marry her.
As to me meeting the girls family is like being in a party with lots of strangers. There is nothing common to talk about.
But make a trip to experience yourself.

[JackTheLad2]

I would be grateful for some advice and help. I usually do my mongering in Hong Kong and have met a very nice girl that I have now known for nearly a year and have met her twice - the last time she spent 2 weeks with me recently in HK and we had a fabulous time - my reports are in the HK forum. She wants to take me to Manila to visit her family after we meet again in HK next March and I can just about manage a 2/3 day visit without raising anybody's eyebrows at my absence. She lives in City of San Jose Delmonte, Bulacan, Manila and rents a town house there where she lives with her son and niece. (when she is not "working" in HK). She wants me to meet her family and show me how she lives in Manila.

She is not a gold digger - she has never asked me for any money in the year I have known her and the 2 weeks we spent together were a freebie although I obviously gave her something.

My question is - it it safe? What would I need to look out for other than the normal visitor precautions. I have never been in Phil before but have read plenty about it. Any guidance/advice would be most welcome. She is a mature 32 year old - I am double her age!