Nigeria

[Deep Wet]

Hi,

I have plans to visit Abuja. Can anyone tell me how to pick girls in Abuja and at what price. Are the Hotels in Abuja Girl Friendly or is it safe to try some Hotel which is less known but cheap. Or, if anyone can give me a few contacts of Girls who can just walk in my hotel with confidence.

[Ubique]

Experiences at the Hilton in Abuja have been wacky, unfavorable, and at times uncomfortable.

Let me explain.

Previous reports here are on target about the women’s aggressiveness but they are generally nice and talkative too in the bar areas. Once in the room, the bubbly personality can change on a dime, going from a smiling and engaging person to a moody, frowning, un-interested, and sleeping person in milliseconds.

Above all else, the girls are real people, most coming from backgrounds, deprivation, and faulty or crummy educations that I can hardly imagine. The average monthly salary is something in the low hundreds. Which is all the more frustrating when the women give the hard sell and start throwing fits in their insistence for sums of money they and other regular professionals here hardly make in a month.

Bottom line is that they must get close to what they ask, otherwise, they wouldn’t consistently propose similar figures.

So, the first very frustrating part of the Abuja Hilton experience is the prices are so out of wack compared to the economy here. As well, the prices are more than a fully functioning, incredible German FKK. You would do well to check your curiosity and horniness at the door and not even bother with the whole thing, unless you enjoy the whole game and will chalk up any inflated prices and poor service as a life enriching, cultural experience.

I have learned things about this culture, so I am good with the times I’ve had, but you should know what you are getting into.

I never had sex. Was just looking for fun, laughs and release. So spooked with the high HIV rate here, did not want that in the back of my mind, even with a condom.

First thing to do is to go into the bar area knowing what you want and what you are willing to pay.

Secondly, take your time and try to find some open space.

Third, don’t settle on the first girl who makes contact with you. They will park themselves next to you and can be oblivious to the rejection signals you are sending them. You may have to nicely walk away to get some space.

When you find someone you are interested in, try to make contact. And establish a connection or what you think is a connection. Here’s where the gals will vary in their tactics. Some will blatantly ask you to take them to your room within 2 minutes or less of speaking with them. I bolted from these ladies.

I had three experiences.

One was a gal who offered a massage and said she was a pro. That was more what I was looking for and the price was okay, so she agreed to meet me in my room. She was nice enough, okay massage, but she had a significant leg handicap that I hadn’t noticed. So warning, make sure you do a thorough survey.

My second gal was interesting and had a lot of potential. I had just walked in and went to the back of the bar, trying to take it all in. A lady I wasn’t interested in was making many unappetizing pitches and I tried to be nice, but disinterested and she just would ‘t get the message.

I had spotted a gal who looked classy, beautiful and not a regular. So I turned and smiled and her friend motioned me over and she smiled. I introduced myself and we started chatting. She asked me to go outside with her and we sat at the tables behind the bar, having a nice chat for 30 minutes. I wasn’t sure how to play it, so I waited for her to make the cues, which she did at midnight saying, you want to take me up to your room or go to the club. I chose the former. In my room she just plunked down on my bed and we continued our conversation. 20 minutes later she asked what I wanted to do with her. I told her and she agreed that she could/would do that and she then just stood up and dropped her clothing, butt naked and said she was going for a shower. This demure, reserved gal was suddenly perfectly comfortable with her nakedness. I asked her if she needed any help and she smiled and said, yes.

We showered together and had a nice time, went back to the bed and I proceeded to kiss her all over her body. She was really beautiful and I took my time touching and kissing her. She started on me and was willing to do most things. But I stopped her as I am gunshy re HIV. So I turned her over on her back and proceed to rub and finger her for 20 minutes. She progressively got wetter and wetter and loudly moaned with pleasure. After that I expected some kind of affection or something. And then got nothing. Totally weird response. She rolled over and said that she was tired and that she was going to sleep. Wtf?

After about 10 minutes of this I persuaded her to let me go on her nice breasts. No real intent on her part to find a way to please me. Never encountered that before.

I had an even more bizarre time with one of the hottest women I have ever been with. Tell that story later. But I got the same hot, then stunningly fast cold and tired treatment. Before I had come to completion. .

So, I have almost lost the will to try with these ladies as they are overpriced, and completely underperform. I have never met women in a country who so wholeheartedly care so much about money and so little about pleasing the one they are with and that is a major turn off.

The service and personalities in Asia and Europe is light years ahead of this place. All I can think of is that the gals are so uneducated and so scrapping to get by that they just find no joy in sex and in being with another. But there is no curiosity, no joy in any of the gals I met once they get under the sack. And I made considerable effort to connect with each of them. Strange stuff.

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[Ubique]

Thanks,

I appreciate the advice and response. I'll pass, but thanks. Bareback is an invitation to HIV. I know whole villages whose adult population died via hetersexual transmission.

Please be safe.

[Blackwhite99]

Like it says....sharks.

The girls in the Capitol bar seem very nice in situ, but with many of them you're asking for trouble. You'll be lucky to get one for less than $100 and you run the risk of either wahala or being robbed (or both), when you get the girl to your room.

I have a girl in Abuja who will do bareback (including anal), or full BJ or anything else you like, all nighter for only N5,000 (about $34). Skinny girl and not the best looking around, but guaranteed a great fuck.

PM me for her phone number.

[Ubique]

So, I have RTFF, but I still have questions. If I wanted to be with a lady in Abuja, at the Hilton. What are my options in terms of Germany FKK rankings and what is the system and pricing. I saw RArmy's post who said no more than 50 for each. I have read others who said that the ladies act out in the room, throwing fits for more. Whats the median and what is the sop for p/you at the bar in the Hilton. Will be there soon and would greatly appreciate the input. Will report on my activities if well informed.

Thanks

[Wdarryl]

Hey does anyone have any contact info for gals in warri. Am in secure compound 24/7 and can't venture forth to monger. Pms welcome. Like them fit and slim.

Cheers

[Sexcuore]

Are we talking about the Chopsticks in Ikeja or the place on Admiralty Way in Lekki phase 1?

Same owner.. talking about the one in admirality

[Blackwhite99]

Are we talking about the Chopsticks in Ikeja or the place on Admiralty Way in Lekki phase 1?

[Sexcuore]

The new bar is supposed to be owned/run by a lebanese guy. I heard that he already has the building and that he was just waiting for the inside to be complete. This was the info last month but don't know if this is still correct. DS

You guys know the emperor chopstick place? They made the original shop smaller and make way for a new pub or something. But owner I understand is french!

[Desert Sandman]

Are you an expat or a local guy? If you're a westerner then rest assured the girls will come and find YOU.

I fully agree with you. I have recently switched from taking girls from the bars and now have my time kept busy with a bar maid and a university student. Generally more of a GFE experience than outright P4P. Just start up a conversation with one that takes your fancy and take it from there. Sandman

[Blackwhite99]

Are you an expat or a local guy? If you're a westerner then rest assured the girls will come and find YOU.

There are usually one or two 6 or 7/10 chicks serving or waitressing in these places who could well be up for some supplementary income and it's not difficult to make contact and exchange phone numbers.

Alternatively, dash your driver 500 Naira, sit down and enjoy your burger/chicken/pizza while he goes off to pimp a couple of chicks for you.

Another good pick up point is the area around Lagos State Uni, not too far from Surelere.

Going rates for chicks around this area is much lower than V. I. Or Ikeja and you should easily be able to negotiate a bareback allnighter for around 3, 000 Naira, even better if you pay in USD or Euro.

[Ane Xxus]

Try any of the bars or fast food joints (Mr Biggs, Tastee Chicken, Tantalizers etc) along Bode Thomas Street.

Many Thanks Blackwhite99. Should I go at any particular time and should I ask the waiters there to act as an OKP or OKT before I approach? I wouldn't want to get embarrsassed for propositioning a non WG.

[Blackwhite99]

Could any monger out there direct me to where I can find WGs in the Surulere Area?

Try any of the bars or fast food joints (Mr Biggs, Tastee Chicken, Tantalizers etc) along Bode Thomas Street.

[Ane Xxus]

Could any monger out there direct me to where I can find WGs in the Surulere Area?

[Desert Sandman]

Interested to hear about the new bar in Lekki, any idea when it's due to open up?

The new bar is supposed to be owned/run by a lebanese guy. I heard that he already has the building and that he was just waiting for the inside to be complete. This was the info last month but don't know if this is still correct. DS