Thread: Dating Russian Women
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08-26-09 22:26 #156
Posts: 2626Originally Posted by Bimbo Boy
Put it this way, when they want to get something from a man, Russian girls are cunning whereas Ukrainian girls are conniving.
Only exceptions that would mean you aren't getting laid on opening night are that I can think of would be if there was absolutely no physical attraction, she was a truly cunning and gutsy shark who will ask for money, or she was a truly vindictive and mean man-hating wench or she was a virgin and holding out for real commitment.
The first I don't know about, but the last 3 exceptions seem rather unlikely to me... and in cases of 2 and 3 you could kick her out and pursue other girls, case 4 would be a judgement call if you want to be "that guy".
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08-26-09 22:03 #155
Posts: 608Originally Posted by Jake993
Thanks for the advice.
Kind regards.
B.B.
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08-26-09 22:00 #154
Posts: 1337Quite right
Originally Posted by Doctor_Skank
BTW - this is a funny story actually because with the first of the three, we had actually slept together without sex not once but TWICE. Mostly because she was too drunk to drive home and yet she was a but old fashioned and didn't want to screw me too soon. At the time I felt like a heel and quite the putz. But I liked her and she is pretty classy so I said WTF.
Don't forget - she's a woman, the prospect of a vacation with you is a romantic affair that will simmer and then boil over with time. If she has anymore than a week to think about it you probably won't need any more than an egg timer to measure the time from hotel room door to bed.
I say throw caution to the wind and go for it. She knows good and well why she's there. Hell, she wants you to screw her brains out as much as you do. She just wants to make sure you are emotionally (read financially) invested in the venture as she is.
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08-26-09 21:35 #153
Posts: 2626Originally Posted by bimbo boy
nonetheless, i propose a more conventional method... just be charming, a bit romantic and get some drink in her and she'll put out if you put the moves on.
if she doesn't i'd be really surprised, she knows you aren't inviting her out of the pure goodness of your heart.
in my opinion a shark wouldn't behave this way. what good would it do her to get a free trip to turkey if she plans on holding out on you? she'd know you'd be pissed and might kick her out of the room or worse. doesn't sound like she'd have much to gain from that.
a shark would ask you for money.
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08-26-09 21:16 #152
Posts: 608Meeting a freebie on a trip
Originally Posted by doctor_skank
i am just concerned about the girl just being a shark.
no, i did not buy any ticket yet. all airplane tickets are nominative.
any advice?
thanks regards. b.b.
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08-26-09 21:12 #151
Posts: 2626Originally Posted by Bimbo Boy
Did you buy her ticket already? Electronic ticket in her name?
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08-26-09 21:10 #150
Posts: 608Meeting a freebie on a trip
Hello all,
Please, I request your advice.
I have been exchanging emails and photos with a nice Russian girl. We have agreed to meet for the first time on a trip to Turkey for a few days, and of course, she expects me to pay for everything.
I do not mind paying, but I do not want to be taken advantage of. For example if I pay everything for her, but then she refuses to have sex.
I have been thinking things such as sending her just a one way ticket, keeping her return ticket for myself, if she is not cooperative.
What do you recommend?
Thanks for your advice. Regards. B.B.
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08-21-09 15:56 #149
Posts: 1337Amen brother........
Originally Posted by Jon32
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08-21-09 13:48 #148
Posts: 370Originally Posted by Castonthis
Ah ok, she is full of it with the shit she says. Yeah that sucks. I'm always trying to hit up friends girls for chicas also...
Probably the type of people I hate most are the ones who talk up things and never follow through also...
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08-16-09 18:18 #147
Posts: 1454Originally Posted by Jake993
Message received and understood.
I think life in Russia is tough. I don't think any Western man, no matter how much time you have spent there, can truly appreciate how difficult life is in eastern Europe, particularly for a woman. And I'm not talking about the paiyushina trusi or the fashionistas with the oligarch boyfriends, who inhabit the night clubs of Moscow. I'm talking about regular girls; working girls, single moms, studyentki, etc.
Which reminds me of something else I admire about Russian women: just like the ballerina, they can suffer through the most agonizing pain and yet look absolutely beautiful doing it. Maybe that's why Russians make the best ballerinas, for them it's just like life.
But, I digress...
American women have it pretty easy nowadays. They live in a society that they have crafted themselves for their own comfort and security. They don't really need men for much of anything anymore, except maybe an emotional connection, now and then, and some regular sex (jeez, they're worse than us!). As you point out, the only question they might ask is, "Where is this relationship going?"
But for the Russian woman, it's a whole different ball game. Because life is so difficult, she needs a man who will be like a wall behind her back. Someone she can count on, not some wimp who will duck out at the first sign of trouble. So, yes, you're right, when she lobs that grenade at you, she is daring you to leave. She is asking the proverbial question, "Stud, or houseboy?" She wants to know now, that you will still be around when the shit really hits the fan.
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08-16-09 17:51 #146
Posts: 1454Originally Posted by Bez Bezarra
You sly dog, you! Here I thought you were living like a monk in the U.S., between your sexual expeditions to the provinces, and all the while you had Olga tucked between the sheets.
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08-16-09 17:40 #145
Posts: 1337I'll bet you do....
Originally Posted by Bez Bezarra
Thing #2 - (well, it's sort of an extension of #1 but could be treated separately for the purposes of this discussion.)
"THE LET'S RISK EVERYTHING TO SEE IF HE REALLY LIKES ME DEATH SPIRAL"
Again, this is not exclusive to Russian / Slavic women but they seem to have put their own twist on it.
Everything is going fine. You're getting along, the sex is good, she might even be letting you do anal once every few times. And the all of a sudden from left field, she makes a wild-ass accusation that could almost be interpreted as jealousy. But it's not REALLY an accusation but more like a grenade. She "lobs" one in there to stir up the shit knowing full well that there's a pretty fair chance you will say, "I don't need this shit" and walk out the door.
Whereas American (and other Western) women will give you the, "I just know where we are going with this relationship" line, the Russian / Slavic girls will lay it out on the line, take a HUGE risk and provoke the crap out of you almost "DARING YOU" to walk out the door and confirm their worst fear that you don't really like (love) them and that you are really just deceiving them and treating them like the worthless wastrels they really are.
Sound familiar? Anyone? Anyone?
It's like they are saying to themselves, "OK this is going too good. What's wrong? He's treating me too good. Is he fucking someone else? I have to put everything on the line just in case he is screwing someone else so I can save my dignity. Because of course my dignity is sooo much more important that this asshole...... whom I happen to be in love with. Unless he is screwing someone else then then I hate him."
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08-16-09 17:10 #144
Posts: 2007Americanization.
Originally Posted by Stravinsky
I miss Olga.
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08-16-09 16:42 #143
Posts: 1454Originally Posted by Jake993
I've known quite a few Russian women here in the States and they do seem to pull out of it, once they have a chance to live in "normal" (and I use that term advisedly) western society. But then, there is a whole 'nother problem as they become Americanized. Which requires that you find another "untouched" Russian beauty.
Other than that, I can't think of anything else I don't like about Russian women. I can certainly think of many more things I like about Russian women than I don't like.
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08-15-09 20:40 #142
Posts: 1178This is one of the best post in all over this forum: you have caught a Slavic women's secret.
I met the "cloud of doom" and also I met the "fierce crisis", when girls download all their own paranoias by all the worst lies and tricks to make you very angry.
The only solution is to forget that girl for some days. And this is a good reason to fuck another girl.
Originally Posted by Jake993